I can't specify words or phrases that will work on me because, how do I put it? It has to be something written by someone else, you know? Like if I told some girl to tell me she loves me in any way, any possibly written script or line, and she just happened to do it, it would feel superficial. What would need to be said to me would need to be specific to me; personally. Because that's the only way I'd genuinely feel if the person gave a shit.
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>>16785386 >I'm starting to think that sex isn't this great thing. Sex is whatever you put into the sex. Without putting yourself into the sex, it's just a mechanical act kind of like taking a piss. >When I do end up having sex with someone, I don't cum, orgasm and generally it's feels like nothing. Learn to make yourself orgasm first. Then teach your partner how to do it too. >I recently lost my virgibity... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>16785416 I know how to make myself orgasm but it seems like they can't hit the spot well enough and it's just lackluster and then I feel real bad about it and fake it (I know I shouldn't and it's wrong but I feel so bad)
Only place to turn to since /b/ niggas being not so helpful. So /b/ I just got kicked out by my parents, I have 10 days to get out. I'm a senior in HS, I graduate in about 1 month and I have a part time job delivering pizzas. B student and every manager I've worked for loves me, but I smoke weed and I've gotten caught by my parents quite a bit. It seems like they're the only Ines that have a problem. I know when to smoke when not to, if I had a job where obviously I'd get drug tested I'd go clean before even applying, that sort of thing.
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You're kind of fucked then. Since you deliver pizzas i assume you have a car? If so and you do end up homeless, you can ask a shelter if you can park it outside as then sleep in it. This isn't the safest thing, but it's safer than sleeping in the shelter. Other than that, ask to start going full time at your job after you graduate, save up, get a cheap apartment, etc. Or just stop this stupid weed shit and see if your parents will take you back, at least until you graduate.
in my friend group, im really close to two guys, but one girl on the periphery, whenever we hang out, likes to mock me/humiliate me in front of the group, and my friends never back me up, one kind of uncomfortably laughs along, the other who is a nice guy but he laughs along in earnest, but the girl hurts my feelings, and then tonight me and the two guys go out to a bar, and some random stranger starts talking to us, and the dude legit mocks me in front of them and they didnt even defend me.
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Tbh bro it's not very often we find ourselves having to "get backed up" so u wouldn't sweat it. As long as they're really cool about other things and "have your back" on things like getting kicked out or needing a ride. Not when you're getting made fun of and won't stick up for yourself. Just go with your gut.
>>16785368 It's not me, it's my girlfriend. She shared a drunken kiss at a party with a guy she used to have a fwb thing with. She hid it from me until I found out accidentally, but she said they immediately knew it was wrong and split when I asked her to explain. I know she cares about me, but I don't know what I'm willing to forgive and what I'm not. I do love her but we're living 300 miles apart and trust is everything
Why do I fuck all of my friends girlfriends? Why is it that they all want to fuck me and I do it gladly and without remorse? Is this a problem or am I just an alpha out fucking all of your girlfriends.
No, it's because you're an asshole. I've been approached directly twice, and another friend nervously confided in me that he thought his wife wanted to fuck me. I'm pretty sure another's fiancee stays away from me because of this, too.
But I don't fuck 'em because I'm not some insecure asswipe who needs the attention to feel attractive (since I get bitches), and I actually like and feel loyalty to my friends like a normal human being.
I'd like some creative ideas for sex and foreplay for my gf and I on valentines day. We typically use ties and blindfolds but that's about it. Even some kinky blowjob scenarios or interesting roleplays would be great. Thanks /adv/!
A little while ago, I met someone I really started to like way too quickly. I don't know why but she was the only person I've really been attracted to for a while, and I fucked it all up insanely quickly. I don't know what part of my personality fucked it up, whether it was my general anxiety and depression, my fucking spergy habits and shit, my general inexperience with really communicating with anyone. I'm fairly certain she doesn't like me at all now because of those three, and I don't think she even liked me at all from the beginning, I think... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
well its out now. perhaps if you want to gain better confidence, start talking to strangers. anyone and everyone. you'll figure out whats up the more you do it. male, female, old young, just talk to them. hten when you meet the right girl you'll be used to just carrying on conversations with new people and not messing shit up as mjuch
I graduated college last year, start my job last month. Have decent income with benefits (around 55k yearly after taxes), no debts (gonna buy a new car soon plan to pay it off in a year or two at the most), still living with parents so bills are minimal. Problems I'm having is that my other friends my age are still in school full time, broke, or work way more then I do (I only work 3 days a week). Leaving me well...bored. >Also I'm 20 years old, turn 21 in 4 months I want some advice on hobbies I could pick up to fill... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
creative hobbies tend to be the most fulfilling, even if the person isnt very creative. you can either consume or create. consumers tend to get bored with consumption cuz the pay offs are too easy and limited.
its the difference between watching a movie and making one. reading a comic and drawing one. listening to an audio play and writing one. watching a play and being in one. drinking during the super bowl and tackling a fat guy who holds a ball.
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only thing i recommend on top of this is just not being afraid to go from one hobby to the other to test it out. see hat you like the most
maybe commit to writing a short story before a novel. then draw one issue of a comic to seei f you like that. then try making your own table. little things. when you find something that really excites you. escalate that situation. when you complete something try another beforej umping back in, etc.
if you arent pursuing these as a career there is no reason why you cant jump around when one loses its spark either.
So, I've learned that my boyfriend is extremely manipulative; he'll blame me for having a "bad mood" when I set a boundary or that I'm cheating on him because he "hears things" in the background when we're on the phone, and that there's "someone's hand" when we're on video chat.
Today I told him to get help and grow up, that's when he said that I was blowing it all out of proportion. -- I'm sorry, I'm just not going to take defending myself of being accused when he won't listen anyway.
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>but I won't break up with him Then there will be no useful advice we can give. This is not "a bad bump" behavior. This is obsessive, paranoid, jealous behavior. That doesn't "go away". No matter how much you think you can, you're not going to be able to "fix him" or "work it out".
He will always be this level of crazy. It will not stop. When you're both 60 he'll scream at a young waiter for "hitting on you" because he asked if you'd like something to drink.
So I just wanted to talk about something thats been on my mind lately.. just to get some input on it and hopefully a bit of insight.
At 17 I was living in my dads truck outside of his apartment. After 5 months of this my best friend killed his mother while I was outside of their apartment waiting for a ride to my fathers truck. I heard the entire thing but assumed it was a movie at full volume. After he came out with a crate full of stuff and said he was moving out I bought us both mcdonalds and loaded some bowls for us. I asked what was wrong and he said he and his mom argued about me sitting on the steps.
Then the hood of the car flew open on the highway, he saw that as a vision from god so he crashed at 60 into the nearest exit divider trying to kill us. Totaled the car so as were walking he swallows about 30 trazodone and I put the other 30 in my pocket so he doesnt take them. We make it to walmart and he disappears so I hitchhike to the truck. I wake up after my dad drives home from work to two police surrounding the truck with guns out. They search me and find pipe and pills, I have the weed in my sock.
I get arrested and sent to a questioning room ive never been in and ask about friend but give no details. They uncuff to make me comfortable and leave the room. I turn away from the camera and stuff the weed in my ass cuz im definitely gonna need to smoke after this. So he comes back in and I get processed and see friend in jail lobby. He couldnt talk but spelled out mom and god with his hands so I assume he beat her up. Im out on bail in a couple days thanks to dad. On the walk to dads I see candles on his doorstep. Sitting on dads steps the downstairs neighbor asks if im the guy that killed his mom and I realize whats happened all once.
After visiting him in jail I learned he was looking for a rock to kill me with the whole time. I think as a 6' 4 basketball scholarship to ut havin mf he couldve done it too.
I need help /adv/. I am at my wits end with women. I have no idea what I am doing and I am 25. Never had a girlfriend. Anyway, I was going to attempt to ask this cashier out at a store I go to often. However, I have no idea how to approach it.
I was just going to be honest with her and say "Hey, I know this sounds out of place but I want to get to know you better but I don't really know how to do it." Basically, I was just going to try FULL BLOWN HONESTY. Because its the truth. I want to get to know her but I have no fucking idea how!
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>>16785248 I don't think that's a good idea. Instead, I would try to just talk to people about nothing. This isn't a joke - start conversations with people all day. You have to learn how to talk to people.
It'll feel strange at first until you learn the ropes of what works and what doesn't. After you practice, you will be able to start conversations pretty much at will with most people. THEN you talk to the cashier lady.
I really need a day to stay home, but like, i used all those up and now i need a doctors note. what if i take a doctors note that i already have at home, scan it, put it in like photoshop, change the dates and shit, print it then use it? think that would work?
they'd wonder why its scanned. it'd be easier just to have someone else with nice hand writing write up a doctors note and then sign it. or perhaps have a typed up note with a signature so it feels like an assistant wrote it and doc just signed.
what are they gonna do research it?
that said, its fucking february, how did you run out of personal days?
>>16785226 I don't understand. You say you're happy in your head but you're realizing these problems? Are you saying you're realizing you're content with being the way you are now? Do you want to change?
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