Should I leave my girlfriend? Pic related. I don't have anyone else to fall back on.
I've been with her for around 8 months now, there's very little that I see "wrong" with her or not what I want; she's a bit over-weight, body is a bit meh.
What should I do?
so her aesthetics aren't up to your standards so you want to drop her? what about how well you get along with her? Also I've run into an issue where a girl i was dating nuked her aesthetics and sex appeal because of the safety of the relationship, so i brought it up and we started working out together.
>what about how well you get along with her
That made me think a bit..but I mean I'm still a virgin, I want to lost my v card to someone who's also a virgin.
Is it even worth it to keep my virginity until marriage or is the shit just overhyped?
Why and should i tell my doctor tomorrow about my anxiety attacks and severe depression/suicide attempts/having nobody to love? Please reply i need to know tonight before tomorrow
Bump, this is the only time i asked for help during browsing through the board for months now. Also what do i get out of this if i tell my doctor everything? Pills? Therapy? Is it even worth it?
Suicide attempt? Anti depressants and maybe a stay at a psych ward. If you're not quite ready for all that, consider calling the suicide hotline and see what they think.
There's no way I can talk you into or out of anything but if you made an actual suicide attempt you need help. Best of luck.
I fucking blew it. I fucking blew it. I fucking blew it.
There was this girl I liked, I liked her for 3 months. She was the one, we both had same interests and same looks and everything but I blew it. Fucking blew it. She doesn't know me at all and I don't know her. I basically told myself if I comb my hair back and look good chick's will be all over me but no my brain. That's not how it fucking works, and I just now realized that. We talked for a little bit for the first time and I straight up asked her if she'd like to do something sometime...
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Hey /adv/, how to let go of those you love and care about?
Long story short, this 10/10 girl I'm with and I are going to be moving very far away from each other for college, but we're kind of obsessed with each other right now. What do?
so i used to have this friend we'll just call B who I used to live with. He lost his job back in 2012 and still doesn't have one. since then he's been a complete fucking leech, he's lied to me, and makes no attempts to fix his life.
this past november i moved out of living with him because i couldn't stand the environment and moved in with someone i thought was more "stable" since he had a job and owned the house.
the unfortunate part is B and my new roommate were old highschool friends. they weren't great friends but see eachother every so often and i put up with it for a bit but i eventually said i really dont want to deal with B any more. just being around him brings drama and issues into my life and i pay for everything and am sick of dealing with him. he agreed and has had issues with B as well
then today my roommate decides fuck everything i said and even he agreed to and invites B over undermining everything i mentioned to him acting like it was all okay.
in any case i am pretty pissed off about it not just because he completely undermined what we agreed to with not dealing with B but acts all cavalier like its okay to just ignore everything i said and seems fine with having him as a friend yet didnt mind shit talking about B to me.
Do you think I have a right to be pissed off about this? I am in any case but it seems to me like he purposefully lied by omission not mentioning the people coming over today and not saying B's name and then B just shows up
What do you guys do for excessive sweat in the armpits? I figure here's my best place to ask for help... my doc prescribed some bullshit stuff that only partially works, its pretty embarrassing, my gf doesn't mind but I don't want pit stains in front of her family, or really anyone. pls help me /adv/
I've heard that this type of shit is occasionally caused by blood flow problems, though I was talking to them about sweaty palms and feet so armpits might be different. I'd actually suggest exercise and a strong ANTIPERSPIRANT, not a deodorant.
I have tried a lot of different "strong" antiperspirants, nothing seems to work. as for the working out, I swim every day and play water polo three times a week, and occasionally surf
Have you looked at getting your sweat glands closed off or something like that? It might be an expensive process since I haven't really looked into it, but it's worth a shot.
As for temporary solutions, you could use talcum powder
am i cheating on my boyfriend if i have strong feelings for a NPC character in a video game, and married him too
Basically, it happens a lot that my bf gets all horny, but can't cum. He almost gets there, just not quiet. It's as if he's well on his way and then something throws him off and it's an instant mood/boner killer. I was brushing this off, but I just read somebody confessing that they can only cum with the gf when thinking about their ex. This hit close home and now i'm all insecure and shit. Is there another possible reason for this than him not being attracted to me/not over his ex?
I have trouble cumming with most women because I'm incredibly insecure, suicidally depressed and believe I'm a woman inside. Some guys suffering from anxiety experience similar problems.
How long have you been with him?
Hm, ok. He is a bit insecure and can also be awkward sometimes. Just mildly, but still. But how does this affect his ability to cum? What are the thoughts going trough YOUR head when you can't cum?
It's only been 3 months.
I've never been able to fall asleep in bed with a gf. I can never rest enough to get sleepy. I've tried taking gravol and beer to put me to sleep but that didn't work either. It takes me about an hour to fall asleep alone and I wake up often. What do?
Holy fug I never thought I would encounter someone sharing this feel. It takes me forever to fall asleep with another person in the same bed. Maybe it's because I like/am used to the cold helping me sleep and someone else's body heat prevents that. I used to be moderate to bad insomnia but it is no longer an issue when alone so I have no idea.
I have a friend that I used to talk to quite a bit, but lately I've noticed that they're getting really distant. I'm pretty sure it's because I annoyed them in some way or they just realized I'm a weird person, but I'm too afraid to ask why. What's the best way to approach my friend to figure out what's wrong?
Once you've truly messed up a relationship, you can never recover it completely - there's always that shadow hanging over things.
Think about expanding your circle of friends, perhaps by joining a club or taking up a new hobby. I recommend carpentry - fun to do as a pastime, but also with the potential to make a great career working with wood. You'll make great friends as you learn how to handle power tools and make beautiful and functional items for your home!
How do I express my love to my girlfriend without embarrassing her? I told her I loved her recently and she told me it made her feel embarrassed. I don't want to make her feel bad but I want to express myself, damnit.
Hey /Adv/ let me here introduce you my story
>Met an 10/10 girl for me
>I like her
>She likes me back
>Get a couple of weeks dating her
>We're getting great together and shit
>She post some pictures we took together
>Put it on Whatsapp, not.much actually
>I dont get along with...
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Sorry trying my best
Well yeah, but what could i do, i just thought that i would tell her that she didnt even let me reply because she got upset pretty fast, I take it kinda serious but really its just silly that she would be upset about Facebook.
I have a friend online who's 17 , and he lives in serbia. I have skyped him and seen him so I know he's exists. Recently he's been having g family problems, and been talking Les sand less to his IRL friends. Oddly enough, he trusts me allot and really takes my advice into consideration. If I ( over the course of a few weeks ) suggested to him suicide is the best option , keep in mind he isn't in the best state of mind right now, could I be held responsible if he actually offs himself?
It depends on the jurisdoction, but there ARE places where driving someone to suicide is considered murder. And I've got to say, if you actually suggested this to a depressed person as a joke, I would feel very little sympathy for you. Shit's fucking monstrous.
My Blizzard account got its fucking email changed. How do I get that shit back? I just got my whole account stolen and even though it was only for Hearthstone really, I still had a WoW account on it as well so it's kinda disappointing.
Have you even sent a message to Blizzard about the danger Azeroth is in without your enduring vigilance? Would they truly doom what remains of a broken land over an email mix-up?
How do I overcome procrastination? It's eating me up.