After having real sex I've realized how nbd it is. It actually broke my mind on the whole thing. It's like I could take it or leave it lol. Now I realize I probably want to have a relationship with someone that truly meshes with me. But I have some questions.
Sex is just a thing to do, are women likely to view it the same nonchalantly? I don't even care that much I could just as easily do anything else with her. But how often does random nsa sex happen between buddies?
Is spark mutual? Like of I really like a person and really get out of my shell... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Holy fuck i'm about to fucking kill my fucking self. I fucking hate old people, i can't do this shit anymore, I can't work in FUCKING CUSTOMER SUPPORT ANYMORE LIKE JESUS FUCK CHRIST HELP. The jobs pays to fucking well to leave, idk what to do i'm so ready to fucking end it
>>16779490 Anything that doesn't cater to wiping customers asses or holding their fucking hands for the most FUCKING RUDIMENTARY OF FUCKING THINGS. I just wanna die, I can't do this i'm so tired of supporting entitled dumbasses
so my gf dumped me a week ago because i'm too boring for her long story short: >be in a 2 year old relationship with her >she studies 20 miles away >I work >I'm 5 years older >I don't have many friends etc, kind of a loner >she gradually became less and less interested in seeing me at my place on the week ends, even though it's much better than hers Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>16779451 She's wanting to go out and have fun and fuck around. Rather than sound like a selfish cunt and come out and say that, she's pushing the responsibility onto you. Making it out you're boring her and you're the one at fault. That way, it makes her feel guilt free about ending a relationship to go and whore it up, while possibly having you as a backup.
If you're going to date females, you need to learn to read what's under the words. This is a general thing just about every female... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
You should never try to get anyone back. When a relationship is over, it's over. Looking backward is a waste of time.
I think she took way too long to put her foot down about whether you could provide for her needs. Yes, I'm sure that time with friends and classmates opened her eyes to a new lifestyle. Whether it was worth ditching her old one is a question she'll have to confront on her own. The consequences are hers to bear in that regard. That having been said, don't forget about your stake in this too. Can a girl who's always out with other... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>16779474 what I can't warp my head around is how happy we were after 6 months of dating (summer of 2014), and we really enjoyed spending time together as a couple. I wans't going out much other than with her, but honestly I was working on that. She wasn't going out that much, but I was never mad or jealous that she was doing social things on her own because it's totally normal. Now it seems she is more into going out to bars, more with friends that are into partying or having a "cool" lifestyle... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Hey /adv/ there's this girl that told me she liked me in highschool, but I never really moved in on her. Now 4 years later I was at the gym and saw her again and she's /fit/ as fuck, but I've gained a bit of weight not like obese just not skinny. She seems to hang out with all these fit guys but also seems to be single at the moment. Anyways my question is do you think fit girls really only want a fit guy? Should I wait til I got some muscle on me before I do anything or should I try and move in on her quickly? She did add me on facebook again (I had deleted my... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>16779439 What about you ask her for advices and for help to become fit again? You'll get to spend time with her, to get back in her life, know more about her. At the same time, she'll be the first witness to you getting more fit, and part of the reason you became more fit/sexy. You'll get plenty of opportunities to thank her for her help by inviting her to whatever you want, that would turn into thinly veiled dates. That's more than two birds for one stone.
>economy is shit >both parents (divorced) are unemployed >dad insists I continue with college since I got a scholarship >because we're slowly growing poorer dad is moving away for a recent job he managed to get
I'm currently only a source of expenses and have been so for the past 19 years, yet now more than ever I feel my existence amounts to nothing more than a big bother. I'm not even motivated enough to keep on living and give... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
because your parents spent 19 years of love, sweat, tears, and effort to raise you and you'd be destroying everything they worked so hard for, toughed through their broken relationship for, and their hopes and dreams for the future. You ever play a videogame and die right near the end of a level? Multiply that feeling by like a billion.
You should be striving as hard as you can to succeed, make them proud, and help their lives be easier. Even if you fail, watching you try will make them happy.
See a psychiatrist, jeez. Suicidal thoughts are not a symptom of a healthy mind. You have a problem and it's not that you're a waste of space.
How to find a mental health provider: http://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/mental-illness/in-depth/mental-health-providers/art-20045530 How to find a therapist: http://www.webmd.com/anxiety-panic/guide/how-to-find-therapist Dealing with suicidal thoughts: http://www.helpguide.org/articles/suicide-prevention/suicide-help-dealing-with-your-suicidal-thoughts-and-feelings.htm
>>16779364 I get it, but I see how much they're struggling and how better things were before I was born. Right now me and my brothers are probably the only thing keeping our parent in contact, and they don't get along that well. It just pains me a lot to see them live their current lives. It's like they don't find it enjoyable anymore, it's all a matter of survival which seems pointless and a sad.
Obviously I have tried to make it less hard on them by at least trying to strive as a student, but... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Perhaps you should find people you have more in common with. In high school I had a lot of friends, but we had virtually nothing in common; they think I'm awesome (three years later), but I'm not that interested in hanging out with them because, like I said, we have nothing in common.
Should you continue to date a guy who says there's nothing wrong with your appearance, but nothing good either? And that plastic surgery would be a waste and that I should focus on my personality/who I am inside?
I mean he's right but the truth hurts, why say it to someone you're meant to like?
>And that plastic surgery would be a waste and that I should focus on my personality/who I am inside?
This is a fucking great opinion that you should be listening to.
You could dump him for his lack of tact, but finding people who love you how you already are AND speak hard truth to you can be harder than you think. Comforting lies are nice, but they don't change how you look.
How do I get over the thought of my girlfriend cheating? its always in the back of my head. I trust her with everything but I just can't get over the thought of her cheating on me. She told me she had sex with another guy while on a break in her last relationship but told him first. She's very attractive and quite a few guys hit on her on Facebook/Instagram but she tells me every time they do and we laugh it is.
She's very honest with me and tells me everything she does but every time she's hanging out and there's a guy around, I always ask her and get a little uncomfortable. Nothing serious, I just ask her exactly and tell her to call me when leaves ( we talk on FaceTime 24/7 ). She said she likes it when guys are protective of her too though.
Is it because I always hear of girls cheating? I browse boards like /fit/ and bodybuilding.com's misc so I always see stories of supposedly loyal girlfriends cheating.
Am I just insecure? How do I get over this? I don't worry about this 24/7, just whenever she does something like smoking in a group and there's a couple guys there. Is this normal to be wary? I've never been in a serious relationship until now btw. Sorry for the shitty grammar and layout too, I posted this on my phone.
>>16779282 I don't want to change who I am just because or forcefully though. I love her and she loves me back. She's definitely not everything in my life. I've got if things coming up with my career and that's would I place about anything.
I get what you mean but I don't like thinking of 'what if' we break up I can find someone else because I know I can but I don't see a point. Which is kind of ironic to say on my part because I this thread is about a what if
I need advice /adv/. I recently found out that I have schizophrenia, and long story short my life was destroyed because of it. As of now I have lost all my friends, my job, I don't have hobbies or emotions, and I am a terrible drug addict. I'm living with my parents now, and my question is how do I get a relationship? I can barely understand what anyone is saying because of the illness, and when I leave my house everyone outside tells me I should kill myself. Does anyone have practical advice on destroying my soul crushing loneliness? I feel like I have nothing, inside... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>16779278 I play Starcraft all day, its not too bad. I'm more talking about a having a relationship with a girl, I've never had one and it is killing me. What kind of delusions do you have? I don't think I have full blown schizophrenia I probably have schitzoaffective disorder. Ty for your post
>>16779278 Yes like me I live on disability support. I sit at home wishing I was dead with no interest in doing anything anymore except shit-posting on 4chan to piss off the country and the world that won't let me die because I'm not considered mentally fit to make that decision. I live in Canada btw.
I can't bring myself to message her, I type the message put and just can't send it and I have no idea why. There's literally no reason for me to be nervous, I'm literally just asking how things are going and not "ey bbe wan sum fuk", so I know there's nothing weird about it. Yet here I am, how the fuck do I get over being a pussy ass bitch?
>>16779257 I know that feel. It's only awkward if you make it awkward. Just act like texting her is not a big deal and no matter what she answers you can just pretend the texting didn't happen. Also if she doesn't like it, never say you're sorry for texting her, you'll look more like a man if you don't.
>How do I get girls as a white guy? Physically: Im pale and have brown hair. Was curious where i stood on the 10 scale for my looks, face alone i seem to get a solid 7, 6-8, but 7 mostly. Body is a solid 8. I work out 5x a week for an hour and eat healthy, been doing it for a few years.
Im getting a good degree relative to job prospects and salary for the usa.
I like to do outdoors things and like being active.
>Why am i asking? Well generally i went after white women and it seems they... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
your premise is wrong. White men are the most sought after race, you are only imagining the racial cucking because you are personally unappealing and would prefer to blame it on something that's not your fault.
>>16779342 It's the other way around. I caught her in a lie. She hadn't replied to my text in awhile and I saw she was online on Facebook. She claimed her phone was on lock and she left Facebook open, but I went on her account and saw she searched two guys. So I called and asked if she was lying and she kept saying no, told her I saw she searched two guys and she got all pissed off that I went on her account although we both told each other our passwords close to a year ago because we had nothing to hide. I'm... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>16779238 >>16779389 It's completely unacceptable to lie about anything in a relationship. I would break up with my bf if I found out he was on Facebook and searched up some girls and lied to me about it. Same as you, its not the searching up the opposite sex. It's just the lying. I hate liars so much.
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