I have been crying for the past hour because I am constantly ruining my friendship with my best friend. I am a female so naturally I am fucking insane sometimes and he usually takes it well. He is gay and we have been best friends for two years, he came out to me before anyone else. Reasons I freak out at him >he doesnt want me to meet his friends or family and I have no idea why >says I used to be cooler and nicer (which I used to be) >ignores... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
A couple months ago I was even worse. I would say stupid shit to make him feel bad like >i reconsidered our friendship >just been like "Fine bye" because he ignored something I said
I feel fucking abusive. It used to just be over text but now we are not laughing as much. I really want us to salvage this friendship. We used to say things like "Ill write a song about you." And, "Ill never have another friend like you in my life." Recent things hes said that make me... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>16770780 >What do I do? I told him he could leave me if Im making his depression worse but he says no I just need to work on it. well then I guess you should work on it. try to see shit from his perspective more. in fact, why not try to see shit from other people's perspectives more in general? like when you see other people, try to imagine the shit they have to go through on a day to day basis. also consider either finding a therapist to help you with anger, or read up on anger management... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>with group of friends at uni >group is roasting this one spergy guy in our group, saying that he is 2/10 >we ask passerbys >they confirm >More passerbys come over >the also agree >"2/10 guy" then points at me > am i better then anon? >girls... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
My baby is a month old an I thought I would be happy. But.... I am not, my wife loves our baby to death, her grandmother and sister who we live next to, are always holding her making stupid baby noises an shit, making the baby smile an laugh, what looks/sounds like mind you. An when I hold her she just cries an cries and cries till she can't breathe. It pisses me off, an honestly idk why she hates me. Everyone else holds her male/female but when I do she just loses it. I've never hurt her tho when I'm trying to change her she flips shit I just want to chuck her... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>16770620 most people have children for the wrong reasons or no reasons at all - most of the time people have em just because babies happen i have a large family, all my siblings had babies without thinking twice about it - now have a family of 30 grandkids talk to my bros and sisters, they went through a phase where they just wanted to leave the kids or not have em they are never fully content with them - 50 percent of the time they complain about them - 50 percent of the time they love em to death - 100 percent... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
My friend's really berating me and calling me a child because I said I was getting sleepy at 12 AM. It's not even the fact that I'm inclined to sleep at this time that he's insulting me over, it's that I used the word "sleepy" at all.
Why would he be so cruel about this? What's this faggot's deal?
I am looking for some answers. I am the type of person that likes to be prepared and I also over think things wildly sometimes.
Anyway, I am going to present some situations and then you guys say if its okay to approach a woman in those situations(with intent to eventually get a date with her).
1. On the bus Is it okay to talk to a woman on the bus? I never do because I feel like I am putting them in a shit situation but I have seen some interesting women who I would love to talk to and get to know.
2. Cashiers on the job Is it okay to talk to them while they are working? As in trying to get a phone number or something? I feel really scummy doing that so I never do it.
3. Strangers on the street I feel really uncomfortable just cold approaching women like that but I feel like I never get to meet women any other way. I am 25 years old too so finding people my age seems impossible.
Anyway, thats all I can think of for now. Are there any women here who can offer insight? When would you prefer to be approached? In my mind, its never okay to approach a woman UNLESS its at a party or some shit because obviously people go out and do errands and shit which means they have shit to do so why would you actively STOP them and impede what they are doing? It feels like borderline verbal rape to go and speak to a woman out of the blue. Am I just wildly over thinking?
How do you get past trauma? I was assaulted by my boyfriend, and he just keeps escalating his behaviour since he got out of jail. I've had to change my phone number and I've been staying at my parents place, but he just keeps escalating. I don't eat unless I really force myself, I barely sleep. I haven't been going to work.
I've been in contact with victim services, and I'm waiting to hear back from them about counseling, but just what do I do? I've been in contact with either my worker or the police because of something new he's... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>16770552 We share a workplace. Every day it's been something else to report. He posted my phone number to Craigslist soliciting sex, emailed pictures of him slitting his wrists to me and family members. He lied to his family about me threatening to hurt my cat, and more.
I'm scared that he's going to post the addresses of my family, or my address or show up at work and try to take my things since we don't have locked lockers. He's upset and I don't know what else he's capable of.... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>long time gf of 4 years >Get her a job because she wanted one >Lost my job a week later and struggle a bit >She starts making new friends at work >friends push her to leave me, say she too young for me, and should be free more >cheats on me, and then dumps me hard for some guy I don't know
Since she left, I got a new job, a nice new car, and been fixing myself up. But I... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
I was joking around with my gf and I saw this picture of a wedding ring made of macaroni, and since macaroni and cheese is her favorite food, I showed it to her and said "this is the ring I'm getting you"
All of a sudden she gets super serious and tells me not to joke like that and I better be going to zales or Kay jewlers, like she actually thought I was getting her a macaroni ring.
But what further worries me is how she reacted that way. It was so weird. Normally she'd just laugh at something like that. Is she seriously thinking about marriage?... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
I quit my corporate accounting job about two weeks ago because I was going to get blamed (and likely fired) for not getting all the year-end accruals, despite them giving me nearly no time to get it done. The external auditors were coming in and I got scared, so I just didn't show up and didn't return any of their phone calls on the day the auditors came in.
Probably a bad decision, but how should I proceed from here. It was about a years worth of experience (my only experience in a 'real job'), so if I keep it off my resume, not only do I have an... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>hey /adv/ I just completely fucked over my employers by bailing on my job's responsibilities right before a huge deadline >how can I put this on my resume without looking bad is this seriously your question? What the hell kind of advice can I give that will unfuck a completely fucked situation?
My advice to you is not take another job in accounting when you're so clearly incapable of doing it.
>>16770476 Jesus Christ OP you broke one of the three fundamental cardinal rules of white collar work: Don't run away from your problems. The other two:: Don't make excuses, and don't shift the blame. Shit I guess you broke all three.
Post your major and minors if you have any. Also why you chose them and how you think they will benefit you. I'm majoring in Health Sciences and really thinking about minoring in Psychology. I'm in a 101 class for it right now and really liking it, I don't even mind reading through the 100's of pages of the book. Lastly does it provide and bonuses such as higher pay when you get a job?
I'm about to enlist in the Marines (Reserves) and plan to ship out in May. My ASVAB qualifies me for any MOS, and my recruiter says I can be guaranteed a specific MOS if its open to reservist (Not counting on this, because he may be wrong)
What MOS prepares you the most for any sort of Bachelor's degree? My first instinct is go into Communications and then go on to major in computer science. I don't know anything specific 06XX fields however.
I have a slight anger problem, it's nothing extreme and I can control myself in most cases, but recently I blew my best friendship because I snapped at one point. I'll spare you the details, nothing physical happened though.
I really want to try to make sure this never happens again, once is one to many. I'm considering getting a tattoo as a permanent reminder to myself to stay calm, and remember what anger brings with it. I'd prefer a small tattoo as I don't want to spend a crapload of money on it. I have no idea what I'd get and... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>16770403 >Any suggestions as to where and what I could get? If you feel the need to solicit suggestions on location and design, then you shouldn't be getting a tattoo in the first place. Neither should many of the people who ARE sure of these things, of course, but getting one you aren't completely sure of is always a bad idea.
Any place that can be covered up with a shirt. As for what to get, draw some stuff out, show an artist ask for his opinion. Ultimately the choice will be yours but if it's going to be small don't fret over it too much.
Don't get kanji, get something original. For ex a friend of mine is heavily into the occult, he made a custom sigil he had associated with peace, (calm) and drew it out and had the artist place it on the back of his shoulder, a sigil must be wrought in blood (or semen/squid... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>16770429 That's why I ask for suggestions, maybe someone will give me an idea I didn't think of, it's not like I'll pick a suggestion I like and instantly roll with it. I do have some ideas myself but I don't know. My friend really liked the fifth element, and so do I, getting that would be kinda cool. Would serve as a good reminder. Problem is my friend has that tattoo as well, then you enter on possible creepy territory.
Hygiene. Make sure you don't smell bad, wear clean clothes, brush your teeth, clean your ears, go to the dermatologist if your skin is fucked, etc. Shit seems like common sense but I see tons of whiney neckbeards who definitely look awkward but if they just used some fucking dandruff shampoo they'd have a chance with at least some women.
It's about confidence. Find out what works for you. I've been bad weird my whole life and only suddenly I've started to learn how to do better weird.
The grooming thing can to a certain extent be an issue if you have visible problems like dandruff and acne, but more importantly they are only an issue if they take a toll on your confidence. I've gone a month without washing my hair, showering scarcely, wearing dark, ragged clothes. My hair matted and I looked like a stray, but I didn't care because I'm in college and I don't care about... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
My neighbor is out to get us. Literally, I live next to a lunatic. She's called the cops on my family for no reason, accusing us of stalking her and other illegal things. Every time the police respond, they investigate and conclude that in fact she is crazy but she hasn't done anything illegal. today i was taking out the garbage, she came out front to the sidewalk & put her fingers to her neck (a threat, las if she was saying "'m gonna cut you") as she filmed me with a camera. It was definitely her trying to provoke me and film a reaction. I told... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Collect evidence/make notes of times and dates that she behaves erratically/dangerously. Present this to the police and request that mental health professionals get involved and hold her on a mandatory psyche hold.
If she is threatening you and behaving in an unsafe manner the police are legally obligated to report this to your local psychiatric unit, and remind them that not doing so is illegal, so don't stop calling them until they send a cop who is willing to do their job because nine times out... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
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