i fell in love with a girl that is going back to her country in three months, and she has a boyfriend there, she complains about him all the time yet talks to him everyday, she says its a open relationship but our chemistry and sex is the best i have ever had, we talked about us and she said that we dont know the future and that she thinks i like her more then she likes me, and feels bad about it, what should i do? Express myself and this emptiness i am feeling? We are like dating here but...
Last night I came into the weekly advice thread begging for help, the short of it is that I have been pretending I am a woman online for so long that it has done incredible damage to my own development, and I had invested so much of my self esteem and leaned on the attention and care I'd get as a female so much, that I had become dependent on it to be happy.
An anon gave me the advice to cut if off cold turkey, and I did so last night.
I've struggled all day, I feel like an addict who is having severe withdrawals.... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Don't get caught up in the uncomfortable feelings it will throw at you, remember that you are in control. Tell yourself those feelings are just feelings and you are going through a phase to become a better person.
If you dwell on it it will harder for you, keep yourself busy with constructive things.
>>16642039 I've been trying to get back in touch with the real me, fortunately I had another account for another game where I had made a character that was male, from an earlier attempt to reconnect with my real self online that had failed.
However I feel it here more than anywhere else, because I am now in this environment that I am so familiar with, but I have no friends, and I am alone. Fortunately it is not the same online game as the one I had come from, that one I uninstalled last night and destroyed everything... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
I want to fap to normal porn again, but it feels really satisfying to fap to my current interest . The problems is I can feel I am wanting more of it. I want to fap to normal stuff again I'm just not sure if it's worth the effort
You should seek mental help. Not trying to be rude, but what loving pizza is a serious condition and could lead to some worse things down the road when your inhibitions are down. It's alright now to say "it won't come to that" or "but I'm stronger than that" but desire is a very intense thing. If you let it, it can fuck you over. Just seek help before the problem gets bigger.
When I was 18, I was in a long distance relationship with a girl I knew from middle school. I never told my parents about it because I assumed they wouldn't let me drive to see her as often as I did because of my inexperience with driving at the time. Despite both of us using protection, she became pregnant. I don't really know what happened, maybe my condom broke, but the fact is we were both wearing protection. Naturally, this became a huge deal. I tried talking her into getting an abortion, but she morally was opposed to it having been a big Christian at the time.... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Now just very recently I just got out of a 4 year relationship with a girl I wanted to marry. She cheated on me, lied to me, emotionally abused me, and still let me bend over backwards to do her things(she didn't have a car or a license until very recently so I took her everyone and went out of my way to try and help the relationship.) I told her on date 1 what happened because I did not want any false pretenses and we made it work, but I could tell it never rested easy with her. She always used it as ammunition because of how vulnerable I was to it. It would make me cry... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
So this has haunted me since, it's been almost two weeks since. This whole thing has riddled me with guilt ever since. I never told my parents any of this. At the time I was afraid to tell the truth because I was scared. And they had a slew of problems of their own. My dad's mother died two summers before that, his brother the summer before, and his father almost died that summer. He was slowly developing a problem with alcohol as his wife/my mom wasn't emotionally supportive enough at the time. Their relationship was strained. And my brother, who was about 27... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
So, I'm seriously considering dropping out of high school. Currently in 12th grade, and yes, I am 18. Since around 6th grade I really haven't had any motivation to do any work and I don't have any serious goals for my future. I don't see why I should go to college since I'll never do anything. I've had a minimum wage job before and I don't mind the work. I'd probably try to find a place that belongs to someone else & pay partial rent. I don't really feel that I need a lot to be happy. But there are some problems. Poverty... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>16641912 Maybe I should rephrase. I really don't care enough to do it. I can't find enough reason to do it. In fact, doing it almost feels me with a sense of dread. Is dropping out really as bad as they say it is?
I dropped out almost a year ago, and my life has just gone downhill. I worked a minimum wage job for a couple months, then left because they didn't give me any hours. I've been job hunting for like 3 months and still haven't found anything. My family always says that I'll never amount to anything because I didn't finish high school. I still have the choice to go back to school, but I'm not going back. I'm taking my ged this week and I'm going to seriously look for a new job. I would say dropping out was a bad idea, but I don't regret it.
I'll shoot. Seeing/dating this girl for about 2 months. She's already stated she doesn't "want anything more" but wants me to take her out on dates and see what happens and has said were friends even though we cuddle, kiss and have sex.
Haven't seen or heard from her in the last couple days.
Bro. Don't give her your all if she's going to be a sometime thing. Honestly you should be looking for someone else looks like she just wants you for sex and material things . Which might be okay if youre into that but, i would have other options if i were you.
There are smart people in the UK, Europe, etc who get top grades in their finals and yet decide to pursue Music, Math, etc instead of Medicine, Law, etc for their undergraduate degrees.
Yes, I understand that being a doctor or lawyer is stressful, but why don't these smart people go for "easy" jobs instead? Being a physiotherapist, nutritionist or actuary is not that stressful. Working for the government is nice as it's difficult to be fired from your job. This is certainly the case compared to something such as a researcher where no results = no funding = no income.
Really, all jobs are boring in their own ways. Even if they are interesting at the start, they become dull over time. Why not just pick something which leads to a stable income and learn to love that job?
I like my best friend's sister, and she feels the same towards me. I talked to my friend about it, but he really doesn't want me and her to be together. I don't really know what to say to either of them. I really want to be with his sister, but I don't want it to ruin our friendship.
Me and her brother both think she likes me. She's single right now and flirting with me a lot more than when she's dating someone. On new years eve, she was pretty much cuddling with me while we watched movies.
>>16641825 The Chance she has HIV is around 60% I would say, the chance to get it from receiving oralsex is 0,04%. HIV test are pretty accurate after 3 months. Mate it is more likely that you have brain cancer so chill the fuck out.
On December 18th my gf dumped me. She told me it was because she didn't feel the same as before with me and it was like this for a couple of months, months I spent believing she was happy with me. My dog even died a week before and she was there consoling me, I brought her home for the first time because I really needed her. She accepted and personally that felt great.
Anyway, obviously that ruined the holydays and the end of the year. I tried to take her back, talk to her, but then she added more and more stuff to the situation like: >I... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Now I can write what I said and there have been other problems with our relationship before. the 24th would have been our second year milestone. I can write about those too, to make you see maybe what kind of person she was if you people are interested.
>>16641803 Those problems in greentext dont sound like problems to me if I knew you're kinda introverted. She probably doesn't read your face well, I used to think that the off, distant look my partner has meant they felt bored/not wanting to be there but that was just how his face looks and he can't help it. Same with the too-many-things-unsaid. Anyway she seems impatient and silly to not take your word that you care, love her etc. Don't think you can help that kinda person.
I was having sex with my boyfriend for the first time in months. I got on top of him so it would be deeper but as soon as it did I felt a stinging pain in my right abdominal area. I tried to go slower to see if I could tell what exact movement caused it but the pain just seemed to move around the right area as I did.
The next day, I've had the pain on the right side of my abdominal area when I do certain movements and it won't go away. Only thing that comes to mind is UTI but I haven't had any more accompanying symptoms.
Need some advice everyone. My wife is bisexual and prefers women over men, she still likes men, she doesn't want to risk harming our marriage but she needs that connection with women. We've tried mff 3somes but it's just not the same for her. I'm being as open and supportive of her sexuality as I can be, we're just not sure where to go from here.
stay there and don't laugh, don't move, accept it, and then when they finally let go walk away letting them know you didn't find it funny one single bit. They should understand by that that they fucked up. If they don't understand and do it again it's because they're fucking stupid and you hang out with stupid fucking friends.
>>16641707 >What about her saying she would like to hang out again after the meeting and then saying she's busy? either she said she wanted to hang out to be polite, she changed her mind or she really is busy. in the latter case she'll come back to it keep talking to you and propose another time herself. If she doesn't it's definetly one of the first.
> And what about her asking for another meeting two months after? sounds like she... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
since i graduated high school my life has been a giant, dull mess. It's coming up on about 1 year since i graduated and nothing has gotten better, besides having more money. recently my mental state has been out of wack and I don't know how much more I can take. None of my friends know and I had the chance (2am, backyard, drunk, spilling feelings) but i was too much of a coward to talk about any of my problems so I said I was fine. I don't know what to do anymore. The only good news i've gotten recently was that I passed 3/4 of my college courses. What can... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
I feel kind of similar. Life became both boring and overwhelming when I graduated high school. My solution is to join the military, so I'm being told what to do the next four years while I figure life out and discover who I am.
>>16641630 >more money >friends get your money and friends and travel around the world a bit. heaps of people do that at your age. if you cant afford a big round world trip just go to like japan or america or just somewhere quite culturally different that interests you, and maybe work there if you can. just have some fun and get out there.
>>16641635 i heavily considered joining the military, but i'm not really strong nor "military" material, so i decided against it. still considering the navy though.
>>16641640 definitely have considered it, only thing is my car is a piece of shit and I'm still living with my mom and step dad, and I would like to move out ASAP. I don't want to waste my money but one of the main problems is being stuck in this town and a trip to japan or europe... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
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