I have worked out literally all my life. At no point did I actually enjoy working out. I think everyone who claims to enjoy is full of shit - it's the same thing where people make their life out to be exciting to seem important/fulfilled.
I don't hate it, I just go and do it, but I don't enjoy it. Tournaments are different, but that's not what most people are talking about.
And no, exercise is good. I'm not one for cardio (that I don't really understand), but going to the gym allows you to blow off some steam (pushing your muscles to the limit is as therapeutic for some as punching walls is for others)... And you look better Also a good reason to get out of the house
ok /adv/, need advice. Had plans on new years eve to go see the new star wars with this girl, made these plans like a solid week or so in advance cause I have a tight schedule. She told me the day before she was gonna go hang out with her friends instead, which left me pissed off cause now the one day i had to enjoy i was gonna do jack shit. me and this girl have history, weve fucked once (halloween) and then never spoke until like 3 weeks ago when she randomly hit me up. so anyway, im pissed and im not just gonna wait on this girl, so i took my brother to the movie instead.... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
How much free time to mechanical engineers have in college? I feel like a lot of people have all the time in the world to do fuckall in college, but when it comes to some other majors, people barely have any time at all. Since I'm in ME, I'd like to know how much you guys spend studying. I spend probably 3-4 hours a day.
>>16630826 I'm in my sixth and final year of medicine
Generally I'm in the hospital experiencing and getting taught medicine 8-530
Then I'll study 7-930 in the evening
Saturday and Sunday I relax a bit more and probably only do 5-6 hours between them
But during final term I'm virtually studying 8am-11pm or later most days. Having a study buddy that you're also sleeping with makes it infinitely easier... Kiss, give eachother massages during breaks, or sex if we're revising... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>16630822 Whilst you're out and about being euphoric in the moment of, and enlightened by >film, literature, video games, politics and art You can meet girls there, as they clearly have that same interest
I need advice on which desk to buy for my Battlestation. My budget is 170 buckaroos.
I was thinking about the Micke desk from Ikea with the Micke stand next to to it to place my PC on it. It fits really nicely.
Problem is that I've read lots of negative stuff about the build quality, things like the desk pretty much falling apart after half a year, if you put multiple monitors on it, it will bend/leave a huge dent in it.
>IKEA >desk No. Find a local lumber yard and ask if they know where you can find basic unfinished furniture. Tell them flat out that you need a solid table. Staining and finishing is easy as hell and you'll end up with a worthwhile piece. IKEA does sell solid core stuff but it's overpriced for what it is.
>>16630913 >I'm about to respond to a guy who acknowledges the quality issue I mentioned--one which results in a table literally bending and denting--by pointing out that length is important. You're beyond help. Go waste your money on a deformed desk.
I always wanted to write a book but I never quite managed to go through with it. I´m a pretty good storyteller and eloquent in my mother tongue. The problem I have is that I just can´t write a decent amount, after some time I always lost track of what i wanted to tell, became unsatisfied with my own work and called it quids. So obviously just writing in the blue doesn´t work for me. My questions are now: 1. How should I structure my work? (Mindmaps etc.) 2. How do I avoid that all characters are just variations of myself? 3. General good writing advice's?
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heres some recomendations. for actual writing advice the internet is full of it and a google search will help but here is some advice for getting to it and sticking to it.
i always find that its easier for me to write EVERYTHING if i already know how it ends. im all about the ending and everythign else builds into that. so from ther you write out what you know is necessary, and divide that into arcs, and from there into chapters.
>release... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
I live at home, rent free, all the money I make from my job I use on my accord. Only thing I'm obligated to pay for is the gas for my car.
I'm 22 years old, a male, full time student, part time waiter. Would it be best idea to move out right now? I want to so I can have the independent choice to smoke in my room or not tell anyone I'm going out for a few days. I don't want to because I can devote more time to school, and direct money for rent into other avenues. Help?
i think if you are using staying home the wrong way. going out and starting your life is difficult financially. while its fine that you spend some of your money, at least 50% of all the money you make should be going to a savings account. that way when you DO move out you arent going to struggle to start. even if you dont use very much of it, you will always have spare cash for when things come up.
trust me when i say that having money in savings is by far the best thing in the entire world, and if all... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>16630821 I didn't mention I do have a savings with $5k saved up, but I'm worried I'll likely go through it all by the end of the first year of moving out. Like I said I work part-time, so honestly probably 80% of my monthly wages would go to rent. Although I could pick up more shifts at cost of freetime/studytime...
You're right though, smoking outside is a hassle but definitely doable. That's one of my only real complaints, since moving out probably wouldn't solve my virginity issues.
>>16630802 Trust me, staying at a place without rent is a much wiser decision, especially while in school. Rent will eat your money like no tomorrow and pile on excess stress. Sure you can't bring girls home, but if you ever do meet a girl maybe she has her own place for you to hook up at.
You get her number, you text random smalltalk, you ask her on a date, you make a move, you go to your place, you have mindblowing sex, you introduce her to your family, you propose, you have 3 kids, you retire, you get 5 grandchildren, you kiss her goodnight and the two of you die peacefull in your sleep. The end
>>16630808 Does the same advice go for this girl I met once, who then invited me out at 12:30 on New Years Eve? She's super cute, and I assume that invitation means she's gotta be slightly interested Jesus how beta do I sound right now?
Adv, i am sick and tired of my sexuality. I had a very bad start with sex and now i feel like everything is so complicated and confused. I jave no idea how to develope a healthy sexuality and i desperately want to. How can i achieve this?
The situation: i had a suboptimal childhood. Lot's of abuse, but never sexual. My parents didn't treat sex as something "dirty or immoral", but they had a rather non-functional relationship and sexlife (i found out about the sex-part when i was an adult already). i had my period very soon, i wasn't even 12.... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
So last night I went out with a girlfriend to a local bar to ring in the New year. We're both girls and social aspies and I didn't expect anything to come of the night but drinking quietly by ourselves. We got a good buzz on then made a good connection with a few girls at the bar. Few more drinks in we run into some guys my friend had known years ago. Suddenly we're all dancing, then it's like the rest of the night was like the movie superbad. Drinking and dancing with police officers, store runs for cigars, some random albino pittbull walked with us for... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Just do what you did last night, again. It's certainly not going to guarantee that you'll have a night for the books, but eventually it will happen again. The tricky thing about this is that it's not going to be as magical and memorable if you try too hard to force it or do it too often. Those kind of nights are only particularly memorable if they don't happen every weekend. And from someone who has lived that lifestyle for years I can say that it will get old. Yeah I used to meet new people every night and have new experiences with those people, but after... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Hey /adv/.. I'm done whinig. All I want is a way out of loneliness. I so sick of being so alone everytime I get home and just sink in it. Tell me the steps and I will follow them with all my heart, I don't want this year to be as grim as the last one.
>>16630650 This only works if you're very tall and built, and the girl is very small by comparison.
So will that EXACT fantasy come to reality? Not unless you're a tall, built guy who manages to date a very small woman.
But in general, women like to be held by men who they perceive to be strong, stable and comforting. So as long as you are strong, stable and comforting in the eyes of the woman you are dating, yes, that scenario can exist.
Any robots or /d/ tier /adv/ people out there? Please help.
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>me and the bf have been together for years >engaged >our relationship is pretty great and we almost always get along >but our sex life is dying >I am admittedly a /d/egenerate >I am perverted with fetishes he is too normie to enjoy >its beginning to... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>16630676 it was just so cringy and shitty and wasnt all that attractive. Maybe i should try again? Its just hard to take him seriously when hes trying to be attractive and i just think of a cringe compilation
>Useless back story: I hate my family. I don't feel like I'm part of it. I can't open up to them, they don't listen to me, they don't care about my happiness, they don't like me, they see me as a burden. They drag me along to events and use me as a fucking display then utterly reject me as soon as we get back home. I got into a fight with them this New Years, which is probably obvious, won't say what, because it was over the stupidest shit. It just derailed into fucking chaos, since they were just screaming... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
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