I never go outside and recently decided to force myself to.
When is the best time for walking outside? Early morning or in the evening?
My girlfriend broke up with me 2 days agi. I've been trying for us to get back together sense then. I got her it consider it last night, but tonight she said it's a no after she loved me
Well there ain't much advice to give except move on, unfortunately. She's made up her mind. Preoccupy yourself in the mean time. Get busy with hobbies or the gym or some shit. Seek to improve yourself. Be the hero of your own movie. Is the hero going to sit there like a sad sack of shit over his ex or is he gonna improve himself so the next time they run into each other again she'll thing about how much she missed out on? But by that point you'll already be over it and with someone who won't leave.
Has anyone ever heard of depersonalization?
It keeps happening to me, maybe once every week or two.
Any advice from anyone who's had it or knew someone who did?
Recently decided to stop being a fag so I picked myself up a bit, and ended up getting a date. She's really cool and we would just be walking and probably eating at some point, but how do I avoid fucking it up? Neither of us have ever been kissed, but we're both a bit socially behind as well. Thanks this post came out poorly I'm just nervous.
I had a feeling that sex was coming so decided to prepare my body to look presentable. I haven't had it for a long time so I let myself grow it out.
So I shaved my beard, then armpits then looked down to that hairy mess of a crotch. Wasn't sure where to begin. Started with balls, that was easy. Noticed hair extending to my asshole so I shaved that too along with my ass. The pubes I wanted to just trim a little and be done with shaving. I went around the area and then started a close trim. It seemed to me that I cut more from the left so I focused on the right, then right seemed shorter, etc. Soon it looked almost like a landing strip so I shaved it off completely even if I didn't want in the beginning. Problem was hair extended to my stomach and chest and when I shaved pubes completely it looked a bit weird like a tan line but with hair. Did the chest and stomach. And after that I couldn't stop. Went and shaved it all like crazy. So now I'm completely smooth everywhere below my eyebrows. It looks a bit funny. I'm like a prepubescent child. Not sure she will like it to be honest.
What do you think? Should I warn her before sex that underneath I'm smoother than her? So she doesn't freak out or starts laughing uncontrollably. It made me wonder. Do women prefer a certain amount of hair in certain places in men? We prefer women completely bare. I'd like to stick my tongue in all sorts of places and hair would be just a turn off anyways. What about women? Do you think I should wait to grow some back or she'll understand?
Thank you in advance.
I much prefer totally shaven guys. The texture of hair in my skin does not feel so good.
I don't see too big a deal here. If she makes a problem out of it, she's really immature.
A lot of men actually don't like it completely bare. My guy, for example, prefers some left on the mons pubis.
Just like guys have all sorts of preferences, the same goes for girls. I can't say what yours likes. I'm sure it will be totally fine. Hair grows back. You can ask her what she prefers.
I don't mind if I'm bare completely if it's better for sex. It's nice to touch but I think that men just aren't supposed to have it bare. Gay, not manly comes to mind. What is the appeal of hair on men to you? what places, how much?
My older sister found out a "flaw" of mine. She's been bawling her eyes out in her room for an hour now. I haven't talked to her yet, and I'm not sure how to approach her. Honestly I'm nervous she's never been this upset.
Anyone here a trucker? I just turned 18 not long ago and will start college soon at WKU. I'm go for Teaching and Business. But after college I want to be a trucker just for experience. I love muscle cars and big trucks, but I also love the open road. If things don't work out with me and my (ex)/friend girlfriend I want to meet a qt on the road.
Whats college like? Whats trucking like? Any advice you can give me? I want a head start in life before going out by myself. Or you can post your dream job in this thread
College is a great experience. Well so far. I'm a Junior right now and it's been a nice ride. obviously there's a lot of time that needs to be devoted to studying, lest you want to see yourself in a mcdonalds after graduation, but you can hang out with friends whenever and being able to live in your own apartment with your friend is pretty fucking great
Pic is my dream girl
Awesome, sounds like something I just gotta put my mind to and do. What college you attending?
Okay, so here's the deal.
Around a month ago, I opted to bang this chick, who for the sake of anonymity we'll call A. A was always super fucking into me, is a bit bigger and I honestly only mildly enjoy her presence. Enough that I don't mind talking with her at the occasional party or going out for lunch with her and some friends, but not enough that I'm comfortable talking with her for extended periods of time alone or making any commitments with her. Now that being said, A and I have a fair amount of mutual friends and she even knows a lot of ladies that I don't.
So, we've been "fuck friends" since then. We've fucked like twice and she sends me pictures, but I've made excuses to not go and see her. We originally agreed to stay private about our arrangement but she has told like, 4 or so of our friends.
This didn't matter until now. I was chatting with one of my female friends R. She asked me a bit about A and I explained that I didn't really know if I wanted to continue fucking her, she said some shit like "she doesnt want a relationship but she is attached to you and feels comfortable around you." The subject eventually fades away and she mentions that I look really hot with my new haircut and I jokingly said she was into me, to which she said, "I wouldn't do that to A." I honestly don't even know if I'm attracted to A other than the fact that sex/doing anything with her sounds nice in my head but we were talking about sex and her mentioning sucking dick made me feel about the same uncomfortable weird feeling I get when one of my long term female friends mentions their sex life, so I very well might not be attracted to her.
What mainly has me concern here is that someone wouldn't do things with me because A is getting attached. I'm fine with occasionally banging her on the side, but I don't want this to interfere with other possibilities or anything like that.
You're in for a shitstorm, I suggest you buckle up.
See, when you have sex with someone who doesn't see it as a purely physical act, they're going to assume that they mean something to you. In this situation, when you decide to stop fucking her she's going to be confused and angry. You'll STILL be off-limits to any of her friends, and even if one is them DID end up being with you afterwards then like half of your friend group is going to believe that you were stolen away while...
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How can I forget about a girl who isnt shit? She's nothing special, she's a obnoxious cunt, shallow, judgemental, nothing in common and she's chubby. Yet my stupid self wants to fuck her and I think about her everyday. Why do I keep thinking about her? How do you forget?
Used to, she flirted a lot with me and has a nice smile I admit but idk why the fuck she is always on my mind. I moved to a different city and I always seemed to be the one to contact her first, I stopped doing that.
Why does every girl I date outright mentions having kids?
Help me /adv/. I have to pee, but I don't want to get up and leave the computer. What should I do?
Need relationship advice? Ask someone who has been in a stable relationship for 7 years anything. I answer everything to the best of my ability.
It's definitely not getting boring it's just that things have progressed physically suddenly. We've been talking for about a month now, but she recently got out of a 3.5 year relationship.
Just hoping you could answer my quick survey:
Why you help or advise people here on /adv/:
In a relationship
>Why you help or advise people here on /adv/:
Because I like helping people. I like to think I'm good at it, I'm at a good place in my life, and I think I've really grown as a person in the last 5 or so years, so I like to help where I can
So basically I was planning on going out new years eve and hoping to get laid. This is clearly not a realistic ambition with girls my age group, however I am not attempting to get girls in the 18 -21 age group, I am aiming for 30 to late 40s women. Have actually done this before and DESU not only is it much easier (like comparing brain surgery to childs play) they are also far better at sex.
Any advice on getting older women in a bar ? especially divorced women
Hello. I am a 27 year old male that is attracted to women 10-20 years old. Unfortunately I am also a law abiding citizen and the age AoC in my state is 16 so I am unable to have sex legally with more than half of the girls in my age group. I have tried going to bars but all the women there are 21+ and I am not interested. I am trying to think how I can be happy and be legal at the same time. Where are some good places to meet 16-20 year olds? I have have success at raves and off facebook but that's it. It hard to find people you love and i can def empathize with how hard...
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