I'm 28, been in a serious relationship 5 years. All signs point to marriage etc, but I can't shake a hesitation to do it for some reason I can't identify. Fear, constriction of choices in life, independence etc. are all factors. I just dont feel compelled. How do I come to terms with this or know whether to shit or get off the pot?
I'm in the same boat as you op. It is definitely something that most people don't think about enough! But of coyrse, it's not easy, you need to examine yourself, your other, and each other with a frigging magnifying lens.
What exactly have you thought about to help you figure this out? It's not easy to do unprepared. Some of the best questions I've recently found are:
Do you have compatible life goals?
Do you treat each other well?
Do you want to be around...
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My family's dog looks bored. All she does is lay down on the ground.
From time to time she comes near me and I caress her.
I don't want to go outside or play with her. Will she be fine laying on the ground all day long? ;c
>I don't want to go outside or play with her.
This is what she needs.
Of course she's bored. How would you feel about doing absolutely nothing day after day? She's also not at her mental peak since she's out of shape.
Is she food motivated? Maybe give her food puzzles. Get her brain moving a bit.
But if you really care about her, you'd stop being lazy and actually walk and play with your dog. It's vital for their physical and mental health.
Is there anyone else here who completely abstains from all forms of intoxication (both legal and illegal)? Seems like there are fewer and fewer of us. Not looking for a debate or anything, just wanna know if you're out there...
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If someone attacks you are you allowed to stab them or use guns? Like if someone talks to shit or starts beating a douche i don't want to just walk away I want to retaliate but I don't want to ruin my face and get brain damage fighting some brain dead retard. Could I just talk shit back and if they swing just pull out a knife and stab them from the side or something in self defense? Like what the hell do you do if someone attacks you and you're not legally allowed to kill them just sit there and get beat into the ground because they took an open swing first or...
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HELP ME /adv
How do you get over the first guy you were with sexually? My ex had a bit of a belly, he was balding and I faked it a lot cause he was pretty clumsy in bed but I miss him so fucking much.
The obvious answer is to try someone new but I don't feel like I can just spread myself around now that I'm not a virgin. I thought we would last so it was really special to me. Anyone have any experience or advice?
True but it's a part of it cause I'm so attached to him due to his status as the person I lost it to. I want to replicate the feeling I had with him but I just don't know how to move on.
I try to avoid chemicals DESU. I think chemical home products are why cancer rates are so high these days.
Anyone know if OxyClean is safe to use on clothing? I know it works VERY well getting out stains nothing else can. I have sensitive skin and don't want weird rashes or anything. Also always have been sensitive to chemicals like bleach-based products.
Anyone use this stuff? Is it safe? Thoughts? Thank you.
I have 25$ on psn, what buy.
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Pretty asinine question here but I would be grateful if anyone could answer anyway -
I tried to send a Christmas card and chocolate in a normal envelope to someone abroad a couple of days ago, and although I had it weighed and paid for it as correctly as airmail I forgot to fill in a customs form to declare that I was sending the chocolate.
How likely is it to be detected and sent back to me? Should I ring the post office and chase up after it?
Wouldn't think they'd give a fuck about some chocolate. They might open it and take a look if it doesn't look like a normally filled envelope to make sure it's not cocaine or whatever but then they'll just send it on to the addressee, unless it's due import tax which it shouldn't be at that value?
For a male is there any negative consequences and effects on health other than increased risk of prostate cancer from not being sexually active after you have grown mature?
What if you don't have sex at all and avoid fapping too.
Does it make a difference if you only fap or have sex too?
Im asking this question for myself, i have had almost zero contact with the opposite sex and dont even enjoy fapping and do it rarely.
And before you ask im not a virgin.
Have been masturbating every morning for about nine months now. Sometimes one or two times more during the day.
Every time I ejaculate I think about the gorgeous blonde woman that I work with. Most times I whisper her name as my cum sprays out and I collapse into weak ecstasy.
...this isn't helping my sexual relationship with my wife.
I would strongly advise you not to do this.
That is all.
How do I stop being a picky eater? When I try new foods my gag reflex kicks up and i nearly throw up my food. I have been picky aboout what I eat for a very long time and woulld like to change that.
Your gag reflex activates whenever the oropharynx is stimulated by a substance, odor, etc. that your body considers foreign.
In theory, you could condition your body to inhibit gagging to continuously attempting consumption of target foods.
All the guys I find interesting just want to fuck me, and I'm not attracted to the guys who actually want to date me. I have only been in one real relationship in my life (1 year and a half) and to this day I still regret dating my ex.
I'm a 24 yo female, no kids.
Am I doomed to be alone ?
Your expectations are probably unrealistic.
If you were a female born in any other country besides America, you would be more down to earth. You were pampered too much.
Not that I think it's a superior system, but Indians who support arranged marriage say "Traditional marriage is like hot soup that gets cold. Arranged marriage is like cold soup that gets hot".
Why not actually try giving people a chance and, not necessarily lowering your standards, but have more realistic standards.
If you lowered your standards to the betacuck guys you would be in a great relationship with someone who cares about you and provides. But instead you go after alpha chad who pumps and dumps then complain how "all men are the same :(("
You'll generally settle down with someone around your level in your late 20's
Also, fuck you
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