I want to have sex, but I feel very guilty about that. I grew up in a very conservative church and was taught that even finding a man sexually attractive before marriage was like cheating on your future husband. Does anyone have any experience with over coming feelings like this or how to overcome the guilt so you can enjoy sex?
>>16594701 18, I'll be 19 next month. I feel like I'm really behind my college friends. Plus, the few guys I've gone out on dates with have gotten weird about it when my being a virgin came up. I just held a guys hand for the first time three weeks ago.
This is a quite unhealthy method but probably the easiest. You need to antagonize whoever taught you those things. For example, if they are religious techings, you read up on all the evil shit the church has done though ages to the point where you actively despise them and feel they opressed you, and then you'll want to fuck just to spite them. I hear this method has been very successful on Tumblr.
tldr; Nice guy friend (genuinely believes people deserve to be treated kindly) is breaking down. Dont know how to help him
Alright I have a friend, lets say Carl. He feel for the nice guy meme where you treat people like they are pieces of shit. Now while this would usually be good, he's my roomie, so I have to listen to all the shit he gets. The problem is particularly his love life. He's a fucking doormat but he thinks hes actually doing the right thing by helping people because they asked. Its easy for he to shield him from guys who try to abuse... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>16594692 cont >I wouldnt have this problem if I girls thought I was attractive >Im not cool like you >Im too short Like holy shit. He just broke down infront of me one day. I couldnt even try to cheer him up or help him because hed just rant on about how during the emotion sponge period women all talk about how my friends and I are attractive and ignore him. And holy shit dont let him actually like a girl. Literally everything... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
You can't help him if you think deep down people are not good. That no one likes being treated nicely. If you could help him while believing that, why would you? Unless you imagine you're both separate from the rest of the world. If people only do things for their own benefit, you should stop trying to help him too. You'd prove yourself right and not have to deal with him anymore. Do you want to help him for your own gain just so you don't need to deal with him? Or do you actually care at all about helping someone?
Usually its coming across to him that the girls he like and just girls in general hang out with him to get to the rest of the group since hes the most approachable. And I cant even deny that because its partly true. But man when its a girl you like its pretty rough. He doesnt even like bringing the girls he likes around us which complicates things even more for him since we cant even... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>close friend gets married to a girl he's been dating for, like, a year >she's a 4/10, at best >we're watching the news report on the whole Miss Universe fiasco >I say Colombia is prettier then Phillipines >friend says his wife is the prettiests of them all >I'm like "Come on, man, let's be real here." >he gets mad and leaves
Who... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>16594646 Why would you say that though? Are you that disconnected from other people that you don't think they can have other viewpoints? Or do you just not value their point of view whatsoever? Either you're out of touch, or an asshole, or both.
I think I'm starting to hate my best friend. We've been friends since junior high, and honestly I don't know how I would have made it through life without him. It's been around 6 years, and little things about his personality and the way he speaks are starting to annoy me.
Firstly, I feel like he's too opinionated about things, and he speaks like he's above most people. He watches a lot of videos on YouTube about atheism and politics and shit like that, and they've begun to influence him a little too much. He's also very passionate... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
People change. If you hate the person he became, tell him about it. He can either try to please you not being obnoxious around you, or you can both break up. What's the problem here? You feel like you invested time and the return you got isn't the one you wanted? Bad luck.
My friend posted this in our Skype group, but it' just... AAAUUUGHHHH!!!!
>We were both sent out to bring back the shopping carts from the parking lot. As we got outside, he immediately took out his phone. I had returned three sets of carts, and he was still texting. Credit where credit is due, when he finally got off his phone, there weren't any other issues with how he was working. However, I still reported him to our supervisor.
Somehow, he figured out it was me. He confronted... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>16594488 if it was me i would have said i'm not doing your work for you so start doing something or else i'm going to have to tell our supervisor cause it's not fair. he tried to take advantage of things, so you can report him if you don't feel like dealing with his bs all the same and be justified. i try to give friends second chances and let them know to shape up/act maturely or else that's it
A woman that I know that has given birth three times swears kidney stones are worse. I've seen it make a man unable to move, throw up from pain, and cry. Drink a lot of water. It will increase the chance of coming out sooner better, and when you pass it you may feel like you are about to pass out. If you have a heating pad place it on your back over the kidney with the stone. Increase blood flow to your kidney will increase the output which will help you pass it quicker.
Try, really, really hard - take pills if you have to...
But cum on them, then leave them where you found them.
It'll freak the fucker out but how the fuck's he gonna do anything about it? Risk telling people he keeps nudes of his overweight crippled wife in his desk and that a stranger came on them when he wasn't looking?
He won't be able to do shit, and he'll definitely be uncomfortable around his employees, not knowing who knows about the pictures and did it.
Why you ask? Same reason fun stuff used to get done. lulz. Keep us updated (preferably not during the "I'm struggling to cum to this" phase).
>>16594408 if you put them back who is to say someone else isn't going to find them first? i think your boss's wife can simply take more pictures, so it shouldn't be a loss if you just throw them out. what would you want your employee to do? i'd be so thankful if they were thrown out
My father hates me now. He probably thinks I'm some sort of pervert . >Few months ago my sister turned 14, so I though she could handle more mature stuff. > All I did was tell her some innaapropriate jokes, she tells dad. He just told me they makes her uncomfortable and I should stop, stupid but I didn't want any trouble >A few days ago me and my sister are sitting on the couch and I'm writing a paper . She fell asleep and I decided to cuddle her when I got tired too . Keep in mind I was just spooning her , but when she woke up she freaked when and yelled at me am ran to ur dad. He was practically screaming at me, looked like he was about to hit me. TLDR: My dad thinks I'm a pervert or something cause of some simple cuddling and jokes
So /adv/, my gf of 1 month and a half (we talked for 6 months before, so 7 months total) is going to a friend's xmas party tomorrow. She hasn't invited me only told me about it. The guy hosting the party likes her but she said she friendzoned him. However I've still been concerned previously, and thought she might've liked this other guy that will be there too. She assures me they're friends only. But she's told me about this party and hasn't invited me. I don't want to invite myself. Mainly cause I only want to go if she wants me... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Rightly or wrongly, you do not trust her. Either you are right to suspect something and she is not worth being with, or you are wrong and are too immature to even have a relationship. Considering that you say things like 'invite myself' and you believe she should invite you to someone else's party, the latter is more likely.
>>16594321 It's not that I believe she should invite me to someone else's party. It's that if I were going to an xmas party with my friends I'd see if my gf was invited, and invite her accordingly. Other people's s.o.'s are going. I don't exactly see how this is immature?
And of course it'd be a different situation also were it not for the fact that I know the guy hosting it likes her.
>>16594321 >>16594332 I'll add that I've been cheated on before in a couple relationships so tend to get a little jealous/leery in situations like this. Sure part of it might be me. But if you think it's immaturity please elaborate. Cause this has me feeling like I'm not worth bringing around her friends or something, or like she thinks she can't do so. I've met the guy hosting the party, at her birthday party. I met her other male... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>Meet girl on tinder >We're both Slavic, which is nice since you don't see that often >She's super cool to talk to >Find out she browses 4chan >Meet her for the first time a couple weeks ago(We had been texting for about two months prior)
She tells me that it will be her last night since she is studying abroad in Europe for about 8 months.
That kinda sucks... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
My friends have been making fun of me practically this entire week, and I can't take it. >Be me , senior in HS about 18 >Trying to ask out this girl that I really like. >Friends found out she's 13 , started giving me all this crap and calling me weird . I don't understand why they are soo upset about that and why they have to make fun of me for it. They don't know about ALL of it luckily
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