My girlfriend I have just met in college(4 months together, 2 months dating) has an ex boyfriend of 5 years that she broke up with a little after he joined the navy. She has facebook posts about how in love she is with him and what not. She has told me how much she loves tall guys before and he is 6'6" and I am 5'8". I feel physically inferior to him, and she has a lot of history with this guy(like you could make a shitty country music video with a collage of their past and them growing up together).
Before the break started, he started texting her... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>16586766 >first met her, she cheated on a boyfriend of 2 months with me
Was with you up until this bit. Sorry dude. Whether or not she's cheating on you with him, this relationship is doomed to failure.
Relationships only work if there's total mutual honesty, and that's really hard to have with someone who's cheated in the past, especially if they cheated with you. That, coupled with the fact that she hasn't told him she has a new boyfriend, should make you very uncomfortable. Whether or not she sleeps with him, she's probably not fully committed to your relationship.
>>16586736 You didn't do anything wrong. What, are you never supposed to ask about her life? It's an awkward moment, but every new relationship has awkward moments. Roll with it and don't give up at the slightest bump.
You'd have fucked up if you made some cruel joke about her brother or something. You're fine.
Just recently got my first boyfriend whom I love very very much and that I want to spend the rest of my life with, but the problem is that he doesn't have a job. He lives with his parents and doesn't have any future plans whatsoever. He just basically sits at home all day just playing video games. Now I don't have a problem with this but how do I explain this to family members and friends? I'm more of an outgoing ambitious person and it's kind of embarrassing when people ask what he does. Do I help him finding a career? Everytime I bring up the... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Been straight my whole life, except at one point being attracted to my /fit/ roommate 9 years ago (nothing happened).
>inb4 I just want the D I've had a 8 year LTR, I've fucked 10 women in total (5 this year, 2 of them for 2 months each.) I absolutely love women, and there's nothing I like more than eating a girl out and fucking her for hours.
However, I just sent a message on a dating app to a transgender, because recently I've been thinking about it, and basically I've figured out that traps don't... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
I don't think it's a good idea OP, but... I mean, it's your life. If you ever plan on wanting to start a family with her, you won't be able to have children of your own, so keep that in mind. If you are okay with that then, well by all means go ahead and date her. Just remember that people's minds change over time, and you might end up hurting her... :(
>>16586560 don't do anything that actually fucks with your body. don't poke holes in it with a needle, even if those holes go away. don't cut. plus this shit would leave scars. you really wanna increase your pain tolerance in a healthy manner? stick your hands in cold water like you said. hold onto an ice cube for as long as you can. research this and learn the limits in which you'd risk frostbite. also doing something like 1 legged squats until you can't do any more. without weights, you wouldn't... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>16586581 requires doctor's attention and steroid treatment, at least in the case i read from one of the first google searches. i also think something that fucks with your body isn't okay, like i said. i wouldnt ever go for stinging plants or insects, as with needles or cutting
I'm male, 25, handsome and earning money, and romantic life is just too fucking painful to actively pursue.
Women I could spend the rest of my life with are few and far between to begin with. I was raised well and have an inquisitive soul and would say I'm very forward thinking but like everyone else I have baggage.
About 3 times a year I'll meet someone who I have enough of a connection with to start believing they might be someone I could share my life with and it always turns out we're incompatible. They're all very intelligent and... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
We only get one life and so many people are afraid to live it for reasons like "what will other people think?" Or "I'm this way because x"
This shit makes me so sad. Every time I come to /adv/ there's more people who are making themselves miserable because they're letting other people's actions control their behavior or because they've convinced themselves they know what other people will think. So what? Why do we care?
I challenge every single one of you to give me one good reason why you're not happy right now,... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
I am now treating the other dermatitis by getting enough food and vitamins, since I've always struggled with food by both being an ectomorph and losing... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
I don't see any doctors since they are all scammers. I've always had a bad experience and sincerely prefer to cure myself at home, since a doctor would just give me some autistic suggestion along a toxic cream which just seems to temporarily work.
Also I wouldn't be here if I was seeing a dermatologist.
>>16586372 The creams rarely work. But they do have a pill now called otezla. I have an appointment in January to get on it. Don't have to do the blood tests like you do with the shots/biologics. You could try a gluten free diet. There is a forum for psoriasis with tons of at home remedies and suggestions. Like nationalpsoriasis something...
I think many anons who lurk chans could learn from this, so I hope experienced people out there contribute.
How does one go about growing up after due time? It seems to be a natural process to most people. Getting a girlfriend, a job, having sex, doing adult stuff in general. It comes a time when the fruit matures and it just falls down from the tree, naturally.
However, I haven't done that. My profile is undoubtedly similar to many anons. I'm 23, kissless virgin, have never had a job and still struggling with school (at least I don't have to pay... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>16586359 there is no right time. you're not a personality-less robot. hell some people don't start til they're 30, some start at 16. they're not you so who cares? if you have to, apply to anything. even if it's retail or some other meaningless stuff. a paycheck is a paycheck. do the activities you enjoy and look for classes with them if you wanna meet people. if there aren't classes, get out there and enjoy them on your own, meet people naturally. it doesn't matter that you haven't... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Start putting in applications to places. It's annoying, but easy. Just get a basic job that you'll have no problem quitting when the time comes, like a cashier. It will teach you important lessons in both socializing with people, and hating people. Start putting money away for inevitable car troubles or health issues.
Other than that, I can't help you. I'm still learning to be an adult.
>>16586395 Unfortunately I cannot have a full time job while studying and part time jobs don't exist where I live (3rd world country, imagine all the low paying jobs the mexicans take over there except everyone here is mexican).
>>16586392 Can you share a bit of your experience?
This is not the first time I post this question. I really want to see my wife's sister naked. Preferably her showing me, rather than getting a creep shot. How can I go about doing that without messing up relationships?
I fucked up this year advice. I had a real shot at happiness and I don't know what changed within me, but I made a bad decision and I'm regretting it big time now. I fucked my life up, and in many ways I'm worse off now than I was this time last year, which I didn't think was possible.
I'm a loser and I fucking hate myself.
I'm 20 years old. Is it too late for me to fix all this and change my stars?
For years now people have been telling me to go into radio and voice acting. Friends, family, complete strangers, people at bars, and people on buses. What got me interested again is 3 complete strangers brought it up in the last week.
Not only that but some of them are literally begging me. Because if I don't do it I'm "wasting my talent". I don't know... just because I have a deep voice, I don't think that means I have the talent to voice act or have the ability to articulate myself professionally.
I have always mumbled my entire... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>16586285 Well, after listening to your vocaroo, I hav3 to agree with them unless you're totally lying and pitch shifted your voice.
You definitely seem to have the correct deepness in your voice, and it really doesn't seem like you're overly monotone. The fact that you've been offered stuff (but didn't take it?!?!?!) is testament to this. People work their whole lives to get into voice acting, don't squander the opportunity. Once you get into it you might find that you love it.
Frankly... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>16586285 do you have any interest in this? for example, if someone has a huge dick they CAN go into porn. alternatively, if you don't have any interests yet - why not while you find them if you'd earn more? it wouldn't be a waste of time, the industry is probably always looking for a voice like yours
I'm expected to write some stuff about economics-business related topics. It can be anything from the rise of a company to investments on renawble energy, stories about individuals that did amazing-terrible or succesful things etc
I think I might be very selfish, but I have no idea how to be... less so. I mean, I don't even feel like meeting my own needs (mainly because I think of them as warped in one way or another), so why should I cater to those of others? Doing things just to get the approval of others sounds just as bad. You might say: "You just do that out of your own kindness, without expecting anything in return", but i don't believe anyone actually does anything out of pure kindness. Sure, some might have way less expectations than others, but I think... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
So I saw my first real homeless guy a few months ago and I decided to drop off a new sleeping bag at his spot while he wasn't there. There's a few things I can hope to get out of that, first it would be nice if I made a good impression, and second it helps make the city a better place.
I don't think it's a zero-sum game, imagine any decent/nice place, it'll have people doing nice things for each other mutually. Doing something which had absolutely no effect on you would be hard because the world is complex. Also there really is no need for it.... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>16586245 i can relate because i used to be the type of person to hang out with friends cause I was bored, etc.
it made me think people dont really do anything out of pure kindness either. but i learned that just because you're selfish, it doesn't mean everyone else is. how do you overcome this? you do nice things for other people without expecting anything in return. realize that it's possible and happens, and that you doing it wouldn't be the first time in history (or even that day). you just have... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>16586311 >then what Then nothing. Only, this “kindness” seems an artificial and watered down version of what it's supposed to be.
>>16586333 I am not saying everyone else is selfish; I am saying that, with very few exceptions, altruism -- at least as far as I've been able to see -- is ultimately kinda selfish. By what you've written, it sounds like -- if you're not naturally inclined to be selflessly nice... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
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