Over the years I've built up a bit of a habit of rough sex. Most of the girls I've been with have been into hair pulling, choking, gagging, slapping, and other stuff, and I'd lie if I said I didn't come to enjoy it too. My current gf however, doesn't like it at all, but every time we fuck I can't relax cause I know if I get too into it I'll start getting carried away. How do I learn to enjoy sex without the roughness again? I don't even watch violent porn or jerk often.
I dunno. I think good sex is supposed to be kind of rough, and I think if you're going to be someone's partner, you should kind of enjoy it when they get "carried away." It's not even kinky, it's just, like, a healthy use of your body and your energy. I would get frustrated pretty quickly with a "fragile" partner like that. You can't just hold back forever
If your gf has any love in her heart for you, she'll meet you halfway. She's gonna gave to take a few spanks and hair tugs, and you're going to have to cut down on the throat fucking.
Or you're going to have to teach yourself how to make sweet love. You MUST communicate that you are doing this out of consideration for her. (don't let her run the show)
If none of these are an option, dump the bitch and date a girl that likes it rough.
I've posted on here about this before so yes, I am the same guy.
I'm a gay guy that's attracted to giving straight men money and getting treated like a meal ticket or a chump. Though it's sexual for me, it has to be a platonic situation, I have to appear to be an idiot for paying him, and it needs to be one sided - he benefits, I pay.
I met a guy on CL. After some discussion, we agreed on a deal that made me look stupid and was profitable for him in the long term - I gave him ownership of my computer and he now charges me $50 per week to rent that computer from him. We're also discussing my giving him other things that he can turn around and lease to me. He really seems to like the idea, for obvious reasons, doesn't care that it gets me off, and just has to collect payments once per week. In addition, based on advice from people the last time I posted on /adv/, I tip him 20% ($10) every time I make a payment. He laughed and took the extra pay which wicked hot, so thank you for the suggestion 4chan folk.
If you were him, would this be good enough for you to keep up long term or would you do this for awhile and then move on? For me, it's attractive to watch the amount I've paid him go higher and higher every week and ideally, I'd want him to do this indefinitely. In my experience, most people don't want to rip you off or they start to feel bad. He seems perfect for the job since the first thing he said to me when he realized I was for real and collected his first payment was, "I'm glad people like you exist." Even so, do you think it will get old or that he'll eventually feel guilty? How would you respond if you were dealing with someone like me? Would you do it long term or maybe just take a few payments and move on?
The thing is, you're really only going to run into two kinds of people:
>Normal guys who think "why the hell not?" but eventually get weirded out and move on
>Genuinely bad guys, who will stick around long enough to form a plan to rip you off for everything you've got all at once, and leave you penniless and/or dead
I'm not usually one to judge someone's kinks, but I honestly think you should see a therapist. This is not going to go well in the long run
Give it to me straight, /adv/.
Do I have a chance of ever finding a girl that will like me?
21 year old kissless virgin, never had a gf whatsoever.
>3.8 gpa in double major STEM programs
>read, watch documentaries, and read more in spare time.
>large network of friends
>cool job, already have a 15% share in the company.
>moderately attractive, get oogled and eyed in lectures and outside. (no bf tho cause i dont care about dating, never saw the appeal)
feel like im missing something
Could be the missing feeling of "love" or a lack of a true emotional connection with anyone in your life. Do you feel a real connection with any one of your friends/family?
Speaking from personal experience myself.
so this is my bio, I know it has many mistakes, english is my third language. Any tips? How do i improve? I like my strawberry line
How to succeed on tinder:
>Be fit as fuck
>Pose in front of nice cars
>Have pictures of you working out
>Have pictures of you with a large group of friends composed of equally attractive people
>dating this girl, 9/10
>she revealed she has problems with facial hair (neck beard) that she plucks
>now every time i get up close i notice the ones she misses.
>straight up boner kill.
what should I do
What are some ways to improve our speaking skills?I have no idea what to say most of the time
and just feel stupid.Feel free to discuss everything about speaking even ways to improve voice etc.
Read aloud. Talk with yourself in the mirror. Practise pronunciation. Talk with someone. Try to imitate other voices. Sing. Make sounds without using your vocal cords. Try to lead a conversation in a group.
>Read aloud. Talk with yourself in the mirror. Practise pronunciation.
i would do this if my parents weren't home all the fucking time
>Talk with someone
>Try to lead a conversation in a group
>no, I haven't been cucked by any woman recently, but the question still stands
Is there any woman that is trustworthy?
Because that doesn't fit into my personal narrative where Literally Who is to blame for everything wrong in my life and women only exist for me to cum in instead of taking personal responsibility for making my relationships better.
What are some good porn sites
2d, realD whatever but just quality and variety
No back story needed, I need help/tips/tricks on how to blow a guy. Don't give me the same "communicate and see what he likes!! It makes it better for both of you!!" No. I'm looking for top notch for mainly him. Teach me how to make him cum back for another.
first off, as little teeth as physically possible
second, don't do straight for it. Tease him for a bit. If you wanna make him cum really hard edge him for a bit. That stuff you see in porn where they like lick all over it and stuff? Yeah, that doesn't really do much. At least for me and most guys I've talked to. Also play with his balls. Just know they are very very sensitive, DO NOT SQUEEZE, not even a tiny tiny bit, and that's all I can think of right now, hope it helps
Start slow, use your hands, don't ignore his balls, keep your tongue moving, lots of eye contact. Pay attention to his reactions, and give him more of what he seems to like. A quality blowjob isn't about making him cum as quickly as possible, it should be more about teasing and pleasuring.
I fucking hate the people I work with, its gotten to the point where im on the bottom rung and the shit end of every joke and I think its only going to get worse. I work with a bunch of black people so hood culture is norm and i stand out as a white guy who doesnt constantly make up stories about getting laid. I kinda feel like quitting but for some reason feel like somethings stopping me. I don't need the job and the pays not even that great for the shitty amount of work I do to begin with so why shouldn't this be an easier decision for me?
This morning in my civics class we were doing a debate about abortion. I brought up the fact that if abortion was illegal it would result in more unsafe illegal back alley abortions. I used an example of coat hanger abortions. I didn't even go in detail or explain what they were, I just said “like sometimes they do coat hanger abortions” or something like that. But the next thing I knew this girl fainted and started having kind of a seizure. She turned literally green, she was having muscle spasms, her arm was stuck out all the way to the right, she hit her head on...
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Could being too touchy with my now wife push her away?
We got married last month and sex has been diminishing. When we first started dating sex was great. This has been going on for like 3 months now.
I think I'm too affectionate. I am always hugging her and telling her how pretty she is. Massaging her feet ect.... could this be it?
She's always saying she's tired or not in the mood. It's starting to make me self-conscious
Hey adv I need some help.
I rent a room in a house that my friend owns. He recently said to me that he is uncomfortable with me having people in the house who he doesn't know and that I can't have guests stay over who he doesn't know personally (we share a number of mutual friends but I have a lot of friends he doesn't know). I understand it is his property but for me not being able to have any guests whatsoever seems unreasonable. This is my first time living as a lodger so I am unsure of what to do.
On one hand I can see where he is coming from and how he feels about strangers in the house but on the other hand he's making me feel like a child by telling me what I can and cannot do. Hell, even my parents never worried about who I brought home or had stay over when I lived with them. They always trusted my judgement and that I would never bring assholes into the house, which I never did.
How do I proceed?
Well yeah, that's pretty unreasonable on his part. But lets be real - how often are you having people over, and how many people? I had a roommate once who would throw parties often, and have at least 3-4 people over EVERY DAY for like the whole day. I'm far from anti-social, but I can tell you that it really sucks when you can NEVER come home to a quiet apartment and just relax. Like having 4 extra roommates that don't pay any rent and don't help with the bills. It gets old.
Long story short - if you want to keep living together, you're going...
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>want to go abroad to escape shit life here
>get degree in education but without certification
>decide that going abroad wont solve my problems
>don't qualify for financial aid for second undergrad degree in engineering because it's 2nd degree
>revolver to my temple sounds nice
I don't want to teach wetbacks and niggers here in Texas.
I can't afford to get a useful degree without going...
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would you honestly want to teach niggers, for SHIT PAY (most importantly), no respect, and with a bunch of females who like to gossip?
public school is fucked. it's a surprise why the teachers aren't all on suicide watch.