I'm 22 years old and have been talking to a 39 year old and he recently asked me on a date. A few friends are trying to convince me to not go because he's too old.
Do you guys think 15-20 years age difference should be a deal breaker?
there are going to be some challenges
sexuality, behaviours, ideologies
all of that will be skewed from a matter of age as well as personality
if you think that would matter to you, then i would try to figure out your feelings first
but i say to act confidently on what you're feeling and see where it takes you
you'll learn the most that way
a mistake not learned is a mistake in itself
i'd be happy with even just one if i had to, but i have literally none.
/adv/, especially girls, how to get over penis envy? i've got an average length, average girth dick(6x5). I'll never be able to fill her up. She'll never be amazed or surprised at my dick. She'll never have trouble taking the whole thing. I'll never be one of the biggest she's had. I won't ever get to slowly stretch her out. I'll never have to go slow at first until she's used to it. I'll never be 'that guy' she tells her friends about, etc, etc etc.
I've turned down a mfm threesome before cause I didn't want to chance ending up being the little guy. Granted, the reverse (If I was bigger than the other guy and "out-fuck" the girl and thus "win" the threesome) seems hot to me, but of course would only happen with someone that had a micropenis or something. For this same reason I'd NEVER do a swinger scenario, as I wouldn't want to be out-sized by the other guy that gets to fuck the girl I'd be with.
Also, I watch a lot of porn, and even in amateur/girls new to the industry videos, if they end up with a dick that's too big at first, almost every time (tho I've seen a couple with really petite girls and like mandingo or lex steele sized dicks that they can't take) they'll eventually get used to it if he goes slow, is lubed up and with a lot of foreplay. Also, a lot of the time the big dicks, combined with good technique, end up being the ones where she gets the most 'into' the sex/vocal/multiple vaginal orgasms. I've got like 2TB of porn and you never see the girl getting 'dick drunk' or having that happy afterglow off of an average penis.. it's 99/100 times only the big, thick ones that end up completely rocking the girls world to the point she's quivering.
It seems to me a big dick + good technique is unbeatable. What fucking do? How do I be content with just my average equipment?
it's unbeatable for physical sexual pleasure, yeah
sex is largely an emotional experience
the pleasure you get from being intimate with a person and sharing personal pleasure with them
no, you won't broaden any sexual horizons purely in terms of physical sensation
but your girl won't give two fucks if she enjoys you and the relationship you share
If you were touched by a female when you were around 7 or 6, does the fact that it was a girl change anything ? Does it make you gay if you did not enjoy the experience ? I feel I should be appreciative of what happened, cause I got a head start on sexual exeriences before other guys, but I really didn't like it. Im not sure how to feel about it . Someone on /b/ said they would have killed for that to happen to them and I should be appreciative but I really didn't like it.
Don't listen to the loser cretins on that shitstain of a board. No you shouldn't be appreciative but rather disgusted and pissed that someone older then you took advantage of your naivety.
I highly suggest you seek a therapist and get these problems to a licensed professional. Getting sexually assaulted a by girl is no different reverse, I think it is disgusted and causes major psychological problems to the victim.
What do you all wear to weddings? This is what I'll be wearing and I'm nervous as to whether or not it's informal. I don't normally dress up that often so Any advice would be appreciated
I'm sexually attracted to this Gorilla. Am I weird?
So i had a circumcision 4 days ago. I meet my doctor in 2 days for a check up but i'm getting worried. I went to work and walked quite a bit and my penis started bleeding(not that much and it did stop). Also there is this yellow stuff, mostly on where under my glans. Should i be worried.
So what's the key to macking hoes? I'm not talking about cheating, simply being in multiple Sudo-Sexual relationships with women.
Have you ever taken the 4chan advice and actually:
>joined interest groups to get girls
>used dating sites after a period of no social network use
Did any of these work?
well, the knowledge i gained from it, mostly the state of mind, did help me meet many girls, get some numbers, and establish relationships. 3 years later im approaching the 3rd (relationship)anniversary with one of them
>got a tight foreskin
>heard it's supposed to be loose by now
>i can pull it back but it's uncomfortable and only when I'm flaccid
>takes like 20 minutes to clean
Recently single and I genuinely have no clue about dating apps. Is it worth going on Tindr?
If I were to build my own house, with an underground complex that I want to be secret, how do I keep it secret without the builder, or the contractors, knowing what they are building?
Are women usually down to fuck anytime like men or are they more indifferent about it?
tldr; girlfriend is terrible in bed and at being sexual...
My girlfriend and I have been in a relationship for nearly a year now, we are both in our 20s, and she recently moved in to live with me.
I have brought it up a few times that it bothers me alot that she is never sexual, that I have to literally force her hand onto my dick prior to me kissing her, rubbing her thighs, boobs or pussy. I have to literally say to her "Can we fuck?" and be in control all the time when we do. I can't stand the lack of spontaneousness or ability to think for herself,...
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Ask what turns her on, then try working with that.
Try talking dirty, like saying you will spank her in public or something.
Kissing, neck, ears...
If nothing works, maybe she just isn't that into you.
it isn't coming naturally
so she's probably insecure about something to do with sex
or hasn't been stimulated in the right way to discover it as a natural action
you should ask her both things and be patient and understanding with her
you can't get anything out of forcing someone to pretend to be enjoying something
especially with sex where a large amount of the pleasure comes from sharing yourselves willfully
I brought all this up in our last conversation about it, but she doesn't know what turns her on and confessed shes never even masturbated, so can't even turn herself on.
I try my best to be patient and it's resulted in no sex for the past 2 weeks, I always have to go to her and kiss her, so you can understand why I am here on /adv/. I understand she has alot of insecurities, but would like her to feel safe and more confident around me.
Should you be honest with your therapist and tell them you've had homicidal thoughts?
I've told a psychiatrist I had suicidal thoughts for awhile and one night he called the cops and an ambulance to bring me to a hospital.
What would happen if I told them I had homicidal thoughts? Would I just get locked away in a hospital again?
Fasho, don't keep that to yourself.
Therapists operated just the same as doctors do, patient confidentiality is still in effect. They would probably begin to ask you more question in depth but this is most likely for your own good.
If you've been in hospitals before they may admit you, but I doubt it. I don't think they can put you away for simply having "thoughts."
What do you think about anyways senpai
I've been thinking about going to therapy after being out of it for about 9 months. These past 9 months have really sucked honestly. I've almost lost my job multiple times and just been a total recluse for the most part. Absolutely miserable. Figured I might try therapy and getting help again for the hell of it.
As far as thoughts, I don't really want to get into it but I sometimes have quick thoughts that come in and dreams as well.
This is an extremely good move, taking the initiative to deal with your problems is not something everyone does.
Again, I should stress that telling your therapist is the right way to go. Holding onto these thoughts can not be doing good for your physically/emotionally. Tell them!