>be incredibly smart >21, your average depressed miserable comp sci student >i should probably just end it anytime soon >end up with an incredibly nice position at a company and the money is holy shit epic >this company loves me and gave me a big enough contract that was more worth than my degree >decide to drop out, (I would've dropped out even if this didn't happen) Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
There's more to life than work and women. Take advantage of the fact that you're financially stable and try new things. Vacations, hobbies, concerts, instruments etc etc etc. Because as much as I envy your stability, your summarized life sounds pretty bland.
Do you think fuck buddies/friends with benefits? Can it ever work? Been occasionally fucking a friend of mine for few months, we hang out a lot too. He's a great guy, I'm not really romantically interested in him but yesterday he told me he's starting to catch some deep feelings. I don't know what to do, I really like him as a friend and I enjoy having sex with him, I don't wanna lose our friendship but I don't know if I should agree to be a real couple or something since I don't really have any romantical feelings even though there's... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Fuck buddies/fwb work temporarily. One person almost always ends up wanting more. You shouldn't make them from friends you really care about losing. Even if somehow both of you manage to end the arrangement mutually, then there's the issue of future relationships. New partners aren't usually okay with you having a friend you used to hook up with.
Also, tell him this part. >I just don't get romantical feelings easily, I'm quite cold when it comes to that, I'm a kind hearted person but when it comes to opening up and... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
I failed out of college a few years ago. I'm back in now, but I'm afraid that my bad grades will prevent me from getting into grad school or a good job. I'm so miserable that I wish I'd never been born. Is there any hope left at all?
dealing with something similar from an undx'd medical problem which kept cropping up over and over again you can only move forward. uni is too highstakes imo: hold onto your inner peace and try not to sweat the stuff you can't control. going back as an older adult my impression has been that these profs dick you around WAY too much. don't be their slave. cheers.
I need advice on how to quit my job. I don't want to burn bridges.
I notified by supervisors and HR that I got a new job, and my new employer wanted me to start 12 days after I gave notice. I wanted to give standard 2 weeks (14 days) notice but asked if I could leave in 12 days. It's been a full week since I notified them and I haven't gotten any response whatsoever. I work from home so I can't just walk over and talk to them.
Should I assume they need more time to replace me and work a whole extra week, or should I just leave on the date I... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
So this 19 year old fucking faggot is acting all rapey and keeps trying to get with my little sister at her highschool who's only fucking 15. She was telling me about how he harassed her and kept messaging her on facebook until she was forced to block him. I went on to his facebook to tell him to fuck off but it turns out he's like a foot taller than me and could probably kick my ass. I'm not very intimidating at all. I have broad shoulders but I'm only 5" 3' and kinda doughy. I'm strong but I'm not intimidating and I don't have a... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
tell the cops. Tell her to save anything he sends her, messages, texts etc. take her with the evidence and go to the police
bam, he gets harassment charges and possibly stalking/harassing a minor charges. Maybe even gets slapped on the sex offender list which seems like a great way of preventing him from doing this to other girls
>>16525466 She's being a fucking brat and thinks she can act crazy to get out of school. You have 2 options here: make her go to school anyways (the smart option) because this is real life where you have to do things even if you don't wanna, or put her in the psych ward for a week so she can see how much it fucking sucks and she'll be desperate to go back to school.
Sup /adv/. I'd like to learn French in a relatively cheap way. I lack motivation at times so it may be in my best interests to do something easy, as stupid as that sounds when trying something that I think would be difficult. So for my biluingists, how did you guys learn? What was most effective for you? Thanks.
After I learned basics I read lots of French comics when trying to learn it and then swapped for books once I got hang of it. Reading only gets you so far, though, because the pronunciation and spelling are so different. Watch lots of French movies and listen to music. Audio books work too. Eventually try to find native speakers you can try to talk with.
Hi! I was wondering if any of you, fellow anons, could help me out with where/how to start my quest towards the mastery of c++. I'm pretty much an absolute begginer. Only thing i've done even remotely close to programming was playing around with autoit. Thanks in advance!
So my girlfriend and I got in a pretty serious argument the other day over our sexual compatibility. Essentially, she isn't really turned on by the thought of having sex in a bed at night. Something about it being too planned out, predictable; she has to sit around expecting it all day. She wants to be "surprised" when we're out in public, from what I understand. Wants me to like, drag her into a dark alley or some shit when we're on a walk. We were at an amusement park and she kept making what I thought were jokes about sneaking off, but later got upset with me for not being "open minded" enough. I've always been under the impression that people who can't get off with normal sex are fucked in the head somehow, but I care about her. Is this a dealbreaker? I'm really totally not down with the idea of fucking in public, especially getting caught doing it.
>>16525394 not really a deal breaker if the two of you can reach a compromise. if you're not comfortable doing something sexual, you absolutely should not do it, everyone has their own personal boundaries and its important that your partner respects that. that being said, there is no reason that you can't spice things up at home. instead of waiting before bed at night, why not approach her in a different room during the day, or in the morning? try it out in different spots in the house and different times and see how it goes
I mean I just don't see a compromise if I'm unwilling to have sex in public - that seems like a pretty specific and serious desire. I don't really think she respects the boundary though because she is hinting that we can't make it long term if this is the case. I can't do much about the home situation because A) we don't live together and B) because of her work hours. Even when I stay over, with her leaving for work by 7am and getting home at 6 "too tired" to do anything,... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Broke up with a girlfriend three weeks ago. It was a long distance relationship but we kept in touch however we could. We visited each other. Then it got fucked up somehow, she said it's over and it is not really working, but I know she loved me before. She never felt the same for anyone before me. I was her first.
She now hates me I think. I still love her and care for her. I can't even text her about how she's feeling. I just wait and kill time hoping she will text me. It's crippling.
It's like she'd died, only then I wouldn't... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>16525372 you sound like a clingy beta. was she your first too? personality flaws and problems often become apparent later in the relationship, and that's why people break up. she got over it, you didn't- and now you're being a nuisance.
We don't have more answers for you. You already posted. It takes time to get over. There's no other way. Everyone had their first time, first breakup, first pain that they were sure would NEVER end. It just feels like that for awhile though. You will be okay.
Please help. This is fucking stupid. I am crushing on someone that looks like my LDR boyfriend. This man is a customer service person so I often visit the store just to get a glimpse of him. When I return items, this means I have to speak to and look at him, and I visibly blush and be shy.
PLEASE HELP, THIS HAS TO STOP! I've already masturbated to him a few times (one of those times I penetrated myself). THIS IS NOT FAIR TO MY LOVING BOYFRIEND!
I know why I'm doing it. I desperately want to meet with my boyfriend and we've never touched yet, so I'm... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
LDR's can be hard. I know that all too well. I suggest try shopping at another store. All you can really do in a LDR is be faithful and pray your partner is doing the same. Sorry I'm not all too much help. And if he looks this strikingly similar, maybe it's really your boyfriend you think about when you masturbate? Unless you know for a fact it's this stranger.
>>16525311 My partner is more than faithful while my reserve slips sometimes because I miss him so much, and just want to hold him.
You know what I could do? This store is a place I visit at least twice a week for necessities. But the young man works customer service so he no doubt sees me each time. When I enter the store, my back is to him so I cannot see him automatically. What I can do: Go into the store and ignore ignore ignore. I can look at the picture of my boyfriend I keep in a locket? Yeah?
I guess you get a lot of those threads around here... but that's just because this is a really hard decision.
Some important points: -I'm the guy. -We are going to make the decision together. -We are together for 8 months, but we have been great friends for the last ~15 years. -I moved away to a different city about 30 days ago, because of work. -She didn't come with me. -She will come to live with me if we choose to keep it. -We are 28 and 29 years old. -I have a decent job, but I can't pay the costs o education with my current pay, but It's very likely that I will be able to afford it by the time I need to. -She doesn't have a steady job but she owns her own company that is stable but doesn't generate more revenue than a minimum wage "yet". -She is extremely mature. -I consider myself to be mature enough to raise a child. -I would be giving up an MBA. -She would be giving up finishing college, her company, living with her family and the city she grew up in. -We have no idea where to go for an abortion. -it's not legal in my country. -The places that do it are usually really bad and the procedure is dangerous to her health. -She did that once already, but the place no longer exists. -We both consider each other a great person to raise kids with. -We are both scared shitless of having a child. -We both dream of having a child. -My family is not rich, but we have enough money to be sure everything will be provided... in case that I can't. -Both our families will be extremely happy if we choose to. -I don't know what else I should consider.
I would be happy to have any kind of feedback, but I would appreciate if it comes in this format:
1- Your age (your opinion is important regardless) 2- Do you have kids? Y/N (your opinion is important regardless) 3- Do you think we should abort? Y/N 4- Why do you think that? 5- What else do you think I should consider when making this decision?
>1- Your age (your opinion is important regardless) 26
>2- Do you have kids? Y/N (your opinion is important regardless) no
>3- Do you think we should abort? Y/N yes
>4- Why do you think that? neither of you have stability, you need to focus on your future and on getting your life together. you can always try again later, when you're ready. i also say this because she has experienced one before and will know how to cope.
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So I was in a party and I was really fucking drunk. I met this girl and we ended up talking alone and drank the rest of my vodka bottle. After that we went to my place and fucked. Later I searched her on facebook and sent her a message asking how she was doing, but she seemed a bit pissed and said that she didn't like it when I offered her alcohol even though she was already so wasted. I saw her today and she really didn't seem pleased to see me.
Now I might sound like a pussy, but this left me feeling bad and I'm wondering why is she so pissed at me. Did... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>16525282 I'm okay with having nothing serious with her and I wasn't first even intending to have anything serious, she just for some reason stayed in my thoughts. Actually I'd rather just have her as a friend. I'm just worrying was I some way a dick and did I do something I should avoid in the future.
Who knows. Maybe you did. That shit is relative and whether you did something dickish or not all depends on how she perceived your actions. There are a lot of reasons she could be displeased. Women are difficult. Don't worry about it. If nothing you did really stands out as dickish in your own mind then you really need to not worry about it. Can't force friendship. She's probably not worth your friendship anyways.
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