So for the past year or so I've become a lot more laid back, this has really helped with social situations, with girls etc but I need to know how to really go full honey badger mode. I still get nervous and fumble over words talking to people sometimes.
By necoming mentally strong. And you do this by taking care of yourself and living with a positive mindset. Yet at the same time you shouldn't be afraid to have mean comebacks to people who critisize you in the same way.
>>16523131 Congrats OP you've found the secret to happiness! Simply not giving a fuck, that's what most happy people have cultivated throughout their lives. I was honestly about to make a thread to help people reach this mindset but you beat me to it.
Anyways >I still get nervous and fumble over words talking to people sometimes. Don't worry about being nervous, just try and relax at anytime you can. Whenever this shit may come up and start to happen, just shrug it... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
I've been working on saying whatever I want. It's great. I can't believe the stuff I say sometimes but I've never been happier. Frequently I'll just not feel that way but more and more it seems I'm able to let my freak flag fly.
God bless OP. You're doing God's work by being unabashedly yourself.
My Dad is a cat hoarder, he has 60-100 cats at any given time and they've ruined his health and his home. He lives all alone and smells like cat urine everywhere he goes. Every time you go in his house there's cat feces, urine and vomit everywhere.
I'm sick of him living like this, I want to get all of the cats out his home and clean it up so he has a safe place to live.
What pisses me off the most is his friends on facebook cheer him on and tell him he's a "cat rescue" when he's... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
op I know this isn't what you want to hear, but jail might be best for him. They may be able to get him a medical health plea if his hoarding is seen as a strong enough mental disorder but the fact is all of these animals are suffering, so are you and he may not think so but he's also suffering.
Nothing less than immediate psychiatric attention is going to save him op. This is not a band-aid fix.
I'm going to my doctor to try and get a script for adderall in a few days. I do it from time to time now illegally but my life has gotten to the point where I feel like I need to take this at least semi-regularly to function at the level I need.
Is it a good idea or a bad idea to mention to my doctor that I've done it illegally?
This has been my doctor for my entire life (I'm 22), she knows I do drugs sometimes and the only other script she's written me was for hydroxyzine for insomnia and I didn't get it refilled after the trial script... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
so, there is this girl in my math class that is super pretty. I've become super shy around girls and I don't want to make a scene. She's asain and I don't know if she is into white guys like me. Also, I have some friends in my class that might make fun of me if I get rejected...what should I do, guys? [pic sorta related]
>>16523019 Shy, you will get over it. And this is what is going to happen to you.
You are going to have your heart broken many many times. Girls may find you a nice guy but will never sleep with you. You will be played by girls. They are going to trick you in to giving them money and other stuff. You will get depressed and suicide comes to mind. Girls in time will talk about you behind your back saying that you are gay. You will lose your friends, because girls make fun of you so your friends will do... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
My head is fucked /adv/. And i dont know what to do.
Its 01:30, i have work at 6. My mind is full of shit, its stopping me from sleeping and its ruining my life. For 9 months ive been like this, and it isnt getting any better. Its gotten to the point where offing myself has become very attractive.
9 months ago, the girl who i was planning to spend my life with snapped, broke up with me and moved 200 miles away. We were together almost 3 years, and without going into detail, it was as close to a perfect relationship as could be. The reason for the breakup... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>looking back on relationship in skewered view; relationship probably wasn't as good as you're making it out to be. You're just not used to being alone after 2 years of relationship. >you didn't ask for advice on anything.
Time ends up fixing this stuff. Since you got so used to a relationship and company as soon as you were lone you turned into a mushy pile of autism. Take a step back and actually look at your relationship with the previous girl and determine how... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>16523040 I've had enough time to think about this stuff already. I can say with 100% that we were both happy for the majority of the relationship. Her life improved drastically after meeting me (i did a hell of lot for her). And the only time we wernt happy was during the breakup, which took about 2 weeks. I stand by what i said, it was as close to perfection as it could be.
Im not looking for pity, i simply came here to ask what in the hell i should be doing with the cards i have in my hand.
From the looks of it she sounds high maintenance. >I did a hell of a lot for her
Sounds like she used you for a month then moved on. She was content with you looking after her and being an keeping her happy while you enjoyed her company. Probably just felt guilt at the end of the relationship and decided to end it. Don't assume she enjoyed the relationship as much as you just because of the smile on her face.
>what... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Today my girlfriend got mad at me, and I kind if loses my shit and told her that we needed to talk seriously and the theme needed to be discussed personally, she thought I tried to break up with her and she told me that she doesn't give a fuck and that she doesn't need that in her life, after 7 hours we talked again we both agreed to talk tomorrow. I never wanted to break up with her and all I want to do is forget everything, but I'm also pretty pissed off cause this isn't the first time this happens, and I'm really pretty fucking done with it. What... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
In a normal relationship you would probably talk and discuss all night. You "lose your shit" and don't really want to talk. It sounds like you're only drawn together because you're emotionally weak, (which also explains the losing of the shit).
My gf masturbated me (no ejaculation) and then she masturbated with the same hand. I rubbed my dick against her ass (and vag but for like 2 seconds) always putting my hand around my "head". Then we fucked but with condoms so I guess the closest thing to get pregnancy is the masturbation thing. She got a 3 day delay of her period,and then it came down, but still. I'm not 100% sure...
I'm thinking of making a homemade Christmas card for my ex that has an in joke and says some of our nights together were perfect.I want her back and I'm like 65% sure she eventually wants to too. Is this beta as fuck tho
>>16522910 No. If you want her back then get her back. Just don't go through the same cycle that caused the break up in the first place. I got my girlfriend back because I am not a beta cunt that's going to watch another guy swoop in on her.
So I got back from Basic and AIT in December last year and ever since, things havent been normal for me mentally.
For starters, the second I got back, I was terrified of being alone and would spend days at my friends house.
Then came school, and this is where I need advice in. School has always been my priority since I was a kid but ever since I got back, my brain does this thing were it refuses to learn. It simply wont take in any new knowledge and Ive seen myself drop tremendously compared to the honor-roll AP top 10 student that I was before I shipped off. Im... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Fatigue. Your brain probably was under the most pressure during basic and now it's just not accustomed to learning anything anymore. My recommendation is get 6 - 8 hours of sleep on work days, coffee, fruit, bread, and juice. Stay away from candy or things that can make you crash. Also don't go to a doctor and complain about these symptoms because all they want to do is write you a prescription for aderall of whatever poison they sell, that'll make you focus, yes, but on days when you dont have it, you'll crash drastically. I think its against AR too, but... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Alright guys I need boyfriend advice and I'm coming to you because I need an outside perspective
This is my second serious relationship, we've been dating for nearly a year now and we have a pretty decent thing going on right now.
However there's a girl in one of his classes that he has told me about, she sounds like she's interested in him and (in my opinion) has implied them having sex. He told me he brushes her off and I believed him so I didn't think anything of it until one of my friends saw him messaging someone and that person sent... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>16522784 well there arn't many things you can do, which makes your decision simpler to some extent.
you can ask the other girl to leave him alone (good luck) you can yell at the other girl for being a hussy
you can ask your boyfriend to leave her alone you can yell at your boyfriend
or you can ignore it
if it was me I'd yell at the girl and tell everyone she's a slut, then tell your boyfriend that other people have noticed him talking to her and it's embarrassed and upset... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>16522784 So, to me OP it's a respect thing. I would never allow a dude to flirt with me when I'm in a relationship. And if this other guy also KNOWS I'm with someone, and hits on me anyway, I have no problem being a huge dick to him.
If it's to the point that you feel like you need to confront the chick, you've already lost. You should never HAVE to, he should tell her to back off on his own. Also, I can almost guarantee you- you won't like what you find on his phone. You know your boyfriend,... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
A girl I met on Tinder asked me for tea a while ago. I wondered if "having tea" was another way of saying of having sex so I asked whether I could come for tea late at night, say 3 - 5 am. She said yes. So... Am I getting some?
>>16522746 When did you meet? Sounds like you just saw her. You should have just settled for getting a number and work your way up. Anyway it doesnt matter because shes putting up a hurdle for you. I know girls that do this. Kind of a way to filter out creep asses. Up to you if you want to go through the trouble.
Hi /adv/. I need some relationship advice or..something. I'm not sure what category this will fall into. I'd like to start off by saying it isn't a huge deal in the first place. Really. I'll do my best to avoid any hyperbole.
The back story, I have a girlfriend. We've been together for three years. We're both in graduate school at different universities, and I drive 5 hours every weekend to see her for 3-4 days then come home for 3-4 days. We're very close in general. Best friend type of relationship, and I'm really happy with... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Second, and probably more tangible, I'm a little upset she didn't invite me, or that she didn't consider her trip is in direct conflict with the tiny window of time out of the year we get to see each other regularly. We visit our individual families on Christmas break, about an hour away from each other, and its an odd time of year where we get to do more..well..couple-like things like going on proper dates where we aren't stressed about school. This Christmas she is already taking a big trip with her family, where she won't see me for the entire first... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Oh, a little more context: We saw each other for less than a day over our 13 day Thanksgiving break.
We had a short text conversation in which I almost slipped and clued her in that I'm upset about the trip, it went like this: Her "How's it going? You seem sad." Me: "I've just been thinking about Christmas break. After everything that happened last summer and over Thanksgiving and every other break we've had this year I'm afraid this is going to be another big break where we can't find time to see each other." Her:... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Not sure what to do. Any advice about this would be welcome. I realize I haven't asked a proper question, that's because I don't know how to. I don't know what to say about this. I'm not even sure if I'm right or wrong to be upset. I don't know. I've been feeling terribly down lately, I saw her the Tuesday before Thanksgiving, a week ago, for like six hours. I drove an hour to pick her up, was with her for a few hours, then drove her back. That was it for a nearly two week break. Since then I've been really depressed and lonely in... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
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