>What's the best thing to say to someone you haven't spoken to several weeks since an argument? I want to make things right. My friend (pic related) and I had am awful argument two months ago, and we haven't talked or seen each other since then. The basis of the argument was communication, our past, and a failing relationship.
>>16502121 No, I'm not attempting to establish a friendship or relationship. I only want to make things right between us and leave in peace. We left in such bad terms, and I don't want to leave it in bad terms.
I gave up my "anal virginity" to my current boyfriend a while back. He never had any particular interest in anal but he wasn't against it either. We started to do it more often until one night we were drunk and an "accident" happened. Since then we've never done it and while he seemed unfazed about it at the time I think he's disgusted by it and doesn't want to do it again, since he's never attempted to. I really like anal and want to do it but I feel fucking mortified still. What to do?
>>16502107 But he's grossed out by it for sure. He always makes a point of avoiding that region whenever we have sex now. He used to sometimes put his finger in there before we actually started doing anal and now he even avoids doing that. -.-'
Hey guys, if I'm doing something wrong with posting this I apologize in advance.
I just now got a summons from a police officer and have to appear in court due to traffic violations. There are three in total: "Careless driving", "Failure to stop at a red light", and "Failure to yield to a police vehicle". I live in New Jersey.
Basically what happened was I'm on a near-empty street at night that has two traffic lights within 20 meters of each other. The first traffic light was red, and the second one was green. I immediately... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>16502016 Go to court, tell the judge you pulled over because you thought it would be safer. Safety is a reason to not yield to a police cruiser IMMEDIATELY. Your cop was just some fucking ass wipe. Careless driving? What? Did you hit something lol?
>>16502028 The careless driving might have been for the cop, since she had to stop where she was since I ran the light. The ticket said "to person" but I would have never hit a pedestrian if they walked past. I might not be able to argue that.
Thanks a lot for replying, I'm just so drained from all of this right now and I appreciate any advice I could get.
I'm currently training in the martial arts and I feel in a poisonous environment that's full of ridicule. I was called a faggot (i honestly have no idea why, it came out of nowhere) by one of the instructors and I feel very offended and singled out. I like it there, I like the people I train with. It's a more laid back environment where there's shit talking and cussing. This isn't the first time something happened to me like this before, one of them made a comment about how I stunk in one class and it bothered me because it was only one time and my cheap... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Advice on how to get my cat to stop pissing outside of the litter box? It's clean. She goes for furniture, loose clothes, and beds. Pretty much ruining them. Can't blame a cat for being a cat but we're gonna have to just toss her if it's that or sleeping in piss.
Take her to the vet. Peeing outside of litter boxes is more unusual for female cats than it is for male cats. I had a cat that started to pee in weird places and he died shortly after.
If the vet says everything is fine, then get a pheromone plug in. It doesn't smell like anything to humans, but it relaxes cats and makes then feel like the house smells enough like cat to not need to mark. I have a male cat that has a problem with spraying and it stopped after we got a plug in. We only need it a month,... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Hey /adv/, I'll make this short. Has anyone here ever been «ghosted» repeatedly?
I recently went on a couple of dates with a girl, we had great chemistry, talked frequently, and last time we hung out, we chilled at my place and made out (no sex). I wanted to hang out with her again, but she just stopped talking to me, deleted me off of facebook, and wouldn't answer my texts.
A similar thing happened with another girl I met the next month, we went on a couple of dates, and just recently hung out at my place, we made out and just chilled, when she left... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
They know the next time that they are coming over, sex is what you're expecting and it makes them feel awkward. They would have sex that night, but they don't want to go into it knowing that's what you're expecting. If you get them at your place, go all the way. I don't know what to do though if that's not a possibility. May even just be playful about it?
>>16502936 Like I wrote, I tried to have sex with the first girl, so she wasn't having it because she was on the rag. The other girl did not seem comfortable going beyond making out, so I kept my hands above sea level.
>>16502964 I would man, but like I said, they're not responding to me. They clearly don't give a shit about me, which is fine, but frustrating because I have no idea WTF they're upset about.
I feel like I have to choose between being good looking and everything else.
Men don't pay attention to me unless I'm wearing makeup. But when I wear makeup I can make $1000 stripping on a Friday night.
I have a high IQ, ADHD. I take a long time to do things and generally don't like to be told what and when to do things. I like to let my interests come and go naturally. I've always been a procrastinator.
First two thirds of a semester I will spend time to look great. My professors loved me because I would get amazing grades, show genuine interest in the material and even privately correct them during office hours.
During the last third of the semester I burn out. My grades slip from the high 90s to the low 80s. There will be a time that I go bare faced to school because I couldn't spend 20 minutes on makeup when I have time restraints, or because I look SO tired that I actually look better with my glasses on because it hides my eyes a bit. I WILL NEVER FORGET THE LOOK OF DISAPPOINTMENT ON THE FACES OF MY MALE TEACHERS WHEN THEY SEE MY FACE WITH GLASSES AND NO MAKEUP.
I quit school because there's no point in going when I feel tired and look ugly and can't socialize as well when I look so different than the image people are used to.
I guess my plan now is to keep stripping and spend my money on an ADHD life coach and plastic surgery. I will also follow people while they do their jobs to get an idea of what I would be comfortable doing as a long-term career.
Pic related. It's Jennifer Tilly. I'm part asian and I sort of look like her except with big far apart Britney Spears eyes that swell up and look like vaginas when I get tired. I look very adult. Non-neotenous.
Should I just... give up? Start a new life as an average looking woman?
>>16501853 You're overthinking things. Speaking as a pretty girl in STEM, I don't believe that most of those things happened to you. Like I said, you're likely just overthinking things mixed with an insecure personality.
If you care so much about what men think of you, you are going to have a bad fucking time. Do what you love, give no fucks about what people think about you. It's worked for me so far.
so i know im being screwed over in a relationship, i told her to stop talking to her close guy friends even exes. i dont want to end it now, i want her to feel the pain long after i decide to break up with her. how should i go about this
>>16501641 definitely sure, she let me look through her phone and she thought she deleted everything but i found messages and pictures. all in all i left it at that and she felt horrible maybe a week but shes doing it again
We live together, we barely have sex because of this and other things (his friends come over, the landlord's kids come over, etc.) Today he found out he wasn't scheduled to work, while we were on our way to drop him off at work. So I said, "well... maybe we can do something together?" and he suggested going to the movies, but I don't really want to spend money to go to the movies... so I said "we could go home and play video games together." We downloaded a 2 player game for the ps4, and we were playing it... he got mad at me for doing badly,... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
(cont} ..And, now... our damn water does not work. We have talked to our landlords about it, I don't know what's going on. I don't know what to do guys. I love my boyfriend, but he's ignoring me for a game, doesn't fuck me, doesn't romance me, and violates my privacy and constantly accuses me of shit.
The other day he bought 4 phones for 20 dollars a piece (originally 80 a piece) he has told me that they are for his family and friends, and he's gonna sell them marked up. But really, who does that?! What if he has a hidden phone used... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Is wanting to sleep in separate beds a deal breaker for girls? I just can't get to sleep while sleeping with someone. I can't get comfortable and it usually takes me awhile to find the perfect position to sleep in so I move around A LOT in bed. I don't go to sleep fast. I can't stay in the position for too long until I get to sleep and I know this would annoy the shit out my partner.
More importantly I'm just not comfortable like that. I dislike being limited in my space and moving. If my partner is cuddling with me or something, staying like that is incredibly uncomfortable for me. I just need to be able to position myself at my leisure and have the room to myself.
I feel like this is a deal breaker though. I've tried and tried but I can't do it, I need my own bed.
I'd probably be ok with it. I have the same issues, but I do like cuddling and shit but when I want to sleep I just want to go the fuck to sleep fuck off I'm sweating omg give me my fucking blanket back fuck
I'm on my 2nd year in uni, studying psychology. I've yet to find out what suits me (had some mild thoughts of going for clinic) and I still struggle to explain my would-be job from a practical point of view... so lately I've been thinking of switching to medicine.
What happened to me? I had passion and I was rather happy of getting here. How come I'm starting to give up so easily, so soon?
>tl;dr OP is a faggot who can't decide between two universities.
I thought I had finally gotten the break I've been waiting for. Started going out with a girl and it seemed to be going well. I thought hey, maybe this medication is working and I'm just exuding this air of confidence I seemed to be lacking. This morning she said she'd rather just be good friends, and that I have a "super personality " but she started liking someone else. Old me would have seen it coming.
I've tried tinder and okc and all that bullshit and none of it has gotten me anywhere. I've been exposed to a number of "growing... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>16501427 I'm not one of those people who can ask their fathers for a small loan of a million dollars. I'm not doing bad for where I am in life and where I started but if we're talking lambo money that's a few decades off. And I don't know that I can wait a few decades for life to be enjoyable.
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