Refresh your PC is still happening, it's been more than a day, how long does it last? And was it worth ?
Is this the herps?
Am I fucked?
How do I stop becoming an orbiter?
Are there general rules of what not to do?
My life is well , I do not enjoy it I have no job no friends and the only person I speak to is my mother. That's about it and I just want to die but I don't know how to kill myself fast.
I went through my boyfriends phone last night and it turns out he's been cheating on me for the past 3 months. When I confronted him about it, he got mad and started yelling at me for going through his phone. He made me feel really bad and now idk if I should break up with him or not anymore. We've been together for 2 years btw
Why would you go through his phone? What made you think you were going to find anything worth searching in there? You shouldn't have gone through his phone. That's invasion of privacy, you don't just step over those boundries.
>have family meeting that was pre-planned
>my gf wants to meet on this EXACT day
>I tell her I can't and I want to meet one day later
>she spergs out completely
>threatens to break up if I don't show up on the day my family and I are supposed to have a big dinner together. I've been excited for this since we've planned it, especially since my father was recently released from hospital and my sister wants...
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Does she know this is a special day for your family? If so, I suspect she could be manipulating you and trying to see how far she can shove the strap-on up your ass.
Also don't this bitch know a man love his mamma first, basic bitches second?
>She won't take "no" because that apparently proves that my family is more important to me than her
Family IS more important, fucks sake. You can have 100 gf's, but only one family (in most cases).
I live in a small as fuck cornfield cow town hours from even the smallest city. The thing is I want to live in a dirty ghetto in NYC or something. I want to move to the streets filled with money gangs and women. I want the crime life with fast cars and smoke in the air. I want to do the hand shakes, see the gang signs, hear gunshots ever day.
How hard is this?
You do NOT want to be a gangsta. Gangstas don't want to be gangstas. Gangsters dream of owning legitimate businesses, playing sports and going to Harvard. Not staying in the hood.
You essentially want to live a life you weren't born into. If you walked into the ghetto as you are, without knowing what you look like I can almost guarantee a real gangsta would tell you to get lost.
You're white with no friends in a huge city trying to "make it" on the street. You're going to fail. The first nigga you'll try to buy drugs from is gonna burn you so hard and leave your country ass crying in the street.
White people don't fit into the "hard streets" aspect of American cities. They just don't. We're good people, from good families and safe upbringings. Fucking act life it before you get shit on repeatedly by minorities.
I was in a relationship with this woman for almost 5 years. I was the perfect boyfriend. This girl was the one I wanted to marry. Been friends forever. I thought everything was perfect. Turns out she cheated on me, numerous times. Went through my cell while I was sleeping afraid I was cheating on her. Completely heartbroken I ended the relationship.
I spent the next year a mess. I wasn't in bed crying every night. I was out bar hopping, fucking random women, I had fuck buddies for every night of the week. I went too crazy with the alcohol. The drugs. Wrecked my car...
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My girlfriend thinks I'm the one. She thinks marriage is around the corner.
I can't deal with the guilt anymore. Do I come clean and tell her everything I've done? Or do I break up with her for "other reasons" and hide all the scumbag shit I've done?
Or do I keep this sham going. Stay cheating on the low. Stay keeping tabs on her phone knowing where she is where she's at at all times keeping her on a secret complete lockdown. And just stay in this relationship and become the bitch who broke my heart in the first place.
You became exactly what you hated. Confront it, kill it, and move past it. You know it's going to take a lot of harsh acceptance with yourself to feel okay. You know you've acted like a piece of shit. It's cool though, you don't have to be what you don't want to be. Remember that.
Two really good friends of mine just got into a fight (for the first time in ~20 years), and I'm partially involved as well. How the hell does one handle these things?
You're just gonna have to try not to say too much. Don't take a side. Don't bother reasoning with any party. It sounds hard but I've learned this from experience, don't involve yourself. You'll end up causing some damage in one way or another
I'd suggest some self defence training, are they known to carry weapons? Are you? If it comes to you or them meeting their maker are you going to have what it takes to deliver a people's elbow direct to the heart thus prematurely ending their life? And that's not the worse bit, it's living with yourself after that taking their power for your own
I texted my gf yesterday afternoon and she still has not responded. This is my first gf and its a new relationship. Is this normal? How should I deal with this? I don't want to text her again and seem needy but I do want to know wtf is going on
say something along the lines of "Is everything cool?" if she doesn't respond to that for a day send a "Hey you've been difficult to contact lately. Is everything ok?"
Regular contact is important for the health of a relationship, and it's not needy to want to maintain it. After a certain point, she is being inconsiderate and it is a bad sign overall. However, it's possible that she's just busy lately and forgot or something. Don't just to conclusions yet
How do I stop hating women?
Why do you hate women? Find the source and work with it, was it your terrible mother? Get over it, was it a shitty gf? Stop generalizing other women for her actions, if she was a shit person that doesn't mean other women are. I know you might not belive this but all women don't cheat and lie. All women don't want the same, what works in one relationship might never work in another. People are different.
2. Eliminate the factors
3. Try to forgive
I recently got back together with my bf after being a few months apart. I still kind of love him and all that shit, but while we were apart he picked up alcohol and gets drunk now, and he smokes weed. What do I do? I want to be with him, but I don't like him doing that stuff
Does being a bad ass make you keep your hairline? One of my friends is an ex blood that grew up in Harlem during the 80s and he's got the hairline of a 12 year old girl. All the rappers I listen to have full hairlines but if you see childish gambino he's a total pussy and going bald.
I'll humor you.
Bad asses tend to care less, which means they are generally less stressed out individuals. They also tend to be people that handle stress efficiently. We know that being stressed out can lead to baldness and a receeding hairline, so it certainly seems likely being a bad ass would be conducive to hair and hairline retention.
I want to get my hair cut differently, but I'm not sure what to do with it.
Any advice or suggestions?
Where the fuck are all the beautiful + smart/witty/well spoken women at?
I've met so few in my life and they were always taken.
Pic awesome, but unrelated.