Any advice for a white guy who is a freshman in college at a big 10 state school with about 40,000 other undergraduate students who is looking to date a foreign girl from China? Approx. 15% of the students at this school are foreign students here from China so there is a wide selection, just need to know how best to approach them and enter into a dating scenario with them. Also, she doesn't even have to be attractive honestly, and I'm not a weeb or anything because I don't like anime/manga/hentai or any of that. I just find Chinese girls very cute and interesting... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Lose 50 lbs and if you're not STEM start being interested into stuff she might be interested. Most of the Chinese girls at your school are probably not into non-chinese people and also most are virgins. Those that are into white guys are into skinnier than fat white guys. If you're not white, korean, chinese, jewish, or japanese, your chances are super slim at getting in her pants btw
You're kinda heavy, OP. People in China are nearly all very slim by American standards (my wife is native Chinese, and we lived in Shanghai for three years). It doesn't mean you can't get a native-born Chinese gf, but it means it will be a bit harder, because to them, you're going to seem pretty fat. But if you're very friendly and smile a lot, to the point that girls might describe you as a "big teddy bear," then that's not so bad. Also, you're tall. That's good.
As for how to date them, it's not much different than any other girl. One thing that's different is that a native-born Chinese girl might feel uncomfortable talking to someone she doesn't know, so striking up a conversation on the street might not go so well, whereas chatting with one that's a classmate or friend of a classmate would go better. Every girl is different, of course, and so to some girls, chatting on the street might be okay. Just giving you loose guidelines, here.
As others have mentioned, expect them to be virgins, and don't expect it to be *at all* easy to get into their pants. Generally speaking, even kissing is a big deal. Don't expect a kiss before you're bf and gf, and don't expect sex at all unless things get really serious. Again, individuals are all different, you might meet the girl that breaks all these norms.
Overall guideline: Be kind and go slow. If you start dating a Chinese girl, you are going to be the ambassador for all men of your country, and if you're a jerk, she might make negative assumptions about all men in your country. Don't be selfish, and don't be careless with her heart.
>met tinder girl for first time downtown Sunday night >it seemed to go well, we went to a restaurant then a pub and were out talking for a good 5 hours >texted a bit after we both got back to our homes, I said thanks for coming out, she fell asleep and said it was fun, thanks for coming out as well the following morning >texted her after that, she replied a few times then stopped
Up until we met she would text me every day and would always get... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>16495657 I only paid for 1 of her drinks, and that's because she bought me some Starbucks as soon as she met me at the train station. Other than that, we split the check. You don't pay for a girl you just met..
>>16495645 Here, let me save you the bullshit that this thread will become. A pissing match between STEMfags and non-STEMfags who each think they know the world and every possible career's prospects, even though they don't know who you are, what your motivation is, where you live, or how you'd conduct your educational career in such a way that would help you land a job in the first place.
So skipping all the horseshit, go to Google and type "highest paying 4 year degrees in <place that you live>"... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>16495645 If you just want decent job prospects and pay you dont even need to go to college, go to trade school and become a machinist or welder and you'll have a solid union career for life.
College is for people with academic interest in a subject. If you don't have that you're going to be here next year making a thread like this: >in uni >in __ major >fucking hate it >have no... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
What do you do when you're just at the end of trying to just live? I've been on meds since I was 15, but I feel like nothing helps, attempted suicide once and avoided going to a psych ward. I feel like I no longer can control my thoughts, everyday my "inner voice" tells me to do things, I have agoraphobia and don't leave the house often, when I do it's usually to sit on the deck. My "inner voice" will constantly say things like "jump off". It's not an outer voice or anything, but that voice that people i guess have inside... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Its good to have goals, even small ones. You build on successes like a sturdy brick wall, and you learn from mis steps, like a rocky road. And there's not only one solution to every problem, you may get better at walking rocky roads, or just learn different paths that are less rocky.
Either way, setting and meeting goals is psychologically validating in ways that are difficult to objectively realise from person to person, but are almost always subjectively powerful in a positive way.
Either... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
This is probably one of those threads where I already know the answer, but I'm gonna ask anyway
>get fuckbuddy >fucking for about a month >notice we're starting to act a bit closer than is normal for fuckbuddies >cuddling and staying over long after sex >drinking together, getting food >holding hands while we cuddle (and in public if drunk) >don't... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
I am 20 and recently got married to my gf whos 21 and finishing college. I recently started college ( I was held back a year because I moved to the U.S 7 years ago). i do not feel like college is what I need right now. I'm living with my mother and my wife. I am currently unemployed and I'm looking. I do not know what I wanna do but I do know what I enjoy learning about and working with. I enjoy computers, crime and shady business.
my question is. I want to live with my wife and stop depending on my mother. She has done enough for me. I want... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Seriously though, how the hell does one gets a girl to go get a coffee with, cuddle some in the sofa while watching people walking in the cold outside during christmas season?
I have tried almost everything I could think of. I went out with girls I knew for a while, I asked out girls that I already knew and girls I just met from friends in common. I went out in the night and got kisses from girls that I'm not sure I liked but never went further than that.
I'm a nice guy with a decent job even though I don't make too much.... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
You don't really need them, though. The statistics say that you'll find a single girl who likes you sooner or later. But whether she's a NICE girl is up to you. If you're a little more aggressive in your search (and in bettering yourself) then you'll find better people. Don't resign yourself to a life of petty bitching and a dirty house.
I was a high school drop out, and I was in porn as a teen (am female). I suffer a lot of trauma from what I had been put through, and put myself through. I didnt comprehend as a teen that these things stay on the internet forever. Im now in my 20s and im trying to move forward with my life.I want to go into robotics for a living, maybe get into ivy league if I can. Thing is, im kind of afraid to be a success, because what if someone recognizes me from the porn and it ruins my career? But Im also tired of being a NEET failure. Anything you guys can say to help me get over this... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
getting into ivy league from high school drop out is extremely hard. I encourage you to try, but realize any top 20 school in CS&E is going to be amazing for you career-wise. You won't really touch much robotics as an undergrad--mostly programming and theory. Is your math strong? If you do go into robotics it's highly likely that you will be recognized--guys have a good eye for porn girls. Honestly it's just something that you'll have to own. Tech is a pretty meritocratic place. There's still a large bias toward men, but I bet some robotic startups... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Op unless youre a math wizard and have great logical and focusing skills(im assuming you dont from your past) you will have a terrible time. Robotics isnt just dicking around with parts and pressing go on a remote. There are long complicated algorithims and lots of math as well.as a very good understanding of the hardware you are working with and the link between hardware... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
I am pretty happy being single. Honestly the only problem I have is the social pressure of others insisting I should be in a relationship. I'm sick of people trying to set me up with their friends and stuff. I am single because I am not looking, not because I am looking and failing.
New relationship. I am not normally a suspicious person but I think my gf might have been a male at one point or still is, I dunno. She? has large hands and her? skin is not smooth. She? has small breasts, not really a problem except I have never been able to touch her? vagina. When we have sex she? only allows the rear. Her? family lives far away and I would feel awkward asking her friends, she has never shown me baby or kid pictures of herself? upon my request.
So I'm a young woman in uni and I'm struggling with depression because people think I'm strange, and it has always been this way... I mention my gender because I realize that advice for me would probably be different than that for a man; there are certain things it is socially acceptable for men to do that women can't and vice versa. Anyway:
people think I'm strange because I'm an avid scholar who is often quiet and observational, who can become very playful whenever I'm comfortable. I enjoy asking provocative questions in class but in daily conversation I don't like to provoke; I'm also a bit awkward when talking to people, so there's that. Today I was told by a mutual friend that a former flame said he rejected me because I was weird, even though he never spoke to me about it. At this point I feel destined to live life alone. What's the point of romance if I will always be mocked and misunderstood?
My mom caught what looks like a field mouse on a glue trap. Instead of putting it out of its misery in a quick smack or something, she just put it in a plastic bag, tied it up, and threw it in the trash outside.
I'm a real sucker for animals, I even bother saving wasps that get in the house. Apparently you can use vegetable oil to free mice from glue traps. If I do that in a secure box, drive it at least a 45 min walk away, would it find its way back here?
It's either I kill it right away or I drive it somewhere to give it a second chance but I'm not going to have it suffer all night.
>>16495174 In my opinion animals don't have real feeling so I'd say do nothing.... but...
Considering the subjective nature of your story, what are you actually asking advice for? If the mice would find its way back to your house? How would anybody on an anonymous message board know what the behaviors or some mouse are going to be?
It seems like there isn't any place for me. Every one of my interests is some marginal thing that hardly anyone cares about. If I express an honest opinion, it's rarely wanted. My presence is really only desirable to those who can use me, like a tool in a garage. Everywhere I look, the world seems filled with bullshit. I believe I am thoughtful, intelligent, and capable of many things-- however, I seem to be the wrong "shape" and can rarely find a way to fit in. I do not suffer a lack of confidence, and I'm not suicidal, though I've realized over... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
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