>Work in currency exchange >Cover another, unfamiliar booth >I took over from area manager >I report £1000 missing on my shift >Did first count hours after area manager left >Report it as soon as I find it >Four weeks later, they are still conducting "internal enquiries" even though I've told them to go... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Going to the police won't help you any. I'd just wait it out and if they try to pin it on you legally, you could contact a lawyer to see the footage. If they wrongfully fire you, perhaps there is a labor board where you live to contact? I think the main reason they're waiting so long is because they can't properly pass off responsibility on you.
Either tough it out or quit, unless there are more details you are withholding.
What happens if you lose your job, anyway? Got a back up in mind?
Anyone know what the issue is here? >Head of penis is grey at the back, same with frenulum >Feels sore and or/stinging. Sensitive to touch. I previously had a similar problem with the same sensations but with different visual symptoms that was fixed with clotramozone cream. It was believed to have been caused by irritation to shower gel when cleaning. Could this simply be the result of too much masturbation?
>>16483216 I'd like to but the appropriate health clinics are closed weekends. I'm not asking for a spot on diagnosis, just maybe find out if anyone else here had the same problem. I'm hoping it's just wacking off too much
I'm a 24 years old female; never had sex, never kissed, never held hands (well, I held hands in kindergarten with other kids). I rarely hug, and I really feel very uncomfortable when people try to touch me, or hug me, kiss my cheek, play with my hair, etc.
I was never molested or bullied or beaten, in fact my parents are rather lovely, and I have always had friends. But I'm also a fat introvert who was never really interested in having a close (aka sexual) relationship with anybody. I find sex interesting and masturbate a lot, so it's not sex related aversion
My question is, how do I overcome this? My very close friend, for example, would often lean on me, or play with my hand, or put her head on my shoulder, and I suffer through that, not really confortable but okay with it, since I've known her for 20 years.
But when my other friend tried to touch my leg, or grabbed my hand, tried to hug me, I instantly felt weird and pulled away from him, even though I like him very much (or even fancy)
Same when my other friends try to high five me, touch my shoulders or back, my first instinct is to move away. And I never initate contact either.
How do I fix it? Why am I this way? Is it some kind of a mental ilness?
My bf and I live together. We both work full time. I pay nearly all of the bills. Car insurance, gas, rent, utilities, and some food. After all of that, I usually only have around 20 dollars to myself, which I usually end up spending on food when my bf asks me to get dinner for him since be works late nights. His paychecks go a little to food, and then mostly for stuff that we may need like oil changes, stuff around the house, etc. But its not much. His leftover money he likes to splurge. He is super bad at saving money. Because of all the bills I pay, I dont have money to buy him gifts for Christmas. He talks about all the stuff he's going to buy me or us for Christmas, but I can't afford to buy anything because I pay the bills. Is it acceptable to not want to celebrate Christmas for this reason?
Tldr; > pay all bills of bf and i > he buys food and stuff we need, then splurge > he's bad at saving money > I cannot afford to buy him Christmas presents > since I pay all the bills, acceptable to not want christmas?
You could do something like make him a nice dinner and then give him some pampering and a thorough sexing. Or find something really fun the two of you can do together.You don't need to spend money to give someone a nice gift. If I don't know what to do for my husband's birthday I spend the day making him his favorite meal (which is something that's hard for him to get regularly). It never goes awry.
There is no such thing as not being able to afford Christmas. Ever since I was a little kid what I liked about Christmas was the atmosphere. I never got any presents or anything like that because my family was poor. All you have to do on Christmas is talk about it with your boyfriend and spend quality time together. Just think about it, getting like a 1000 buck PC for Christmas would be pretty nice, but what is better, a PC or a person that you love?
Europe, Germany in my case, is slowly but steadily turning to crap. Shit may hit the fan within the next 5 years, but even if not, if there's no drastic change in the near future, this is not the country I want to raise my kids in.
My gf and to-be-wife and me talked about leaving Europe for the US. We both are German citizens and have no criminal record or anything. We both are Christian and have college degrees. We would like to live in a climate similar to ours, so we were thinking about the north eastern part of the US. In case we are leaving,... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
I can't live like this I can't live like this Im trying to stay ahead of the game but the game is too far away. I can't take it anymore. Enough is enough. I can't live in this isolation, in this contamination. Everyday in the morning and at random, I get these angry and sad filled thoughts on how I want to go back to when things were normal. When I was innocent. The monster inside me has grown this big. I feel permanent damage is coming from this isolation. Me without contact with anybody. Why do I have so much love them? And it's not even... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>16482980 >I really do think professional help is in order. I agree.
Start by purging your mementos of her. Everything must go, physical or electronic. Giving things back does not seem to be an option, so donate, sell, or just throw away. This includes ALL pictures. Yes, even those. I normally tell people to put things they can't part with in a box, and then put the box somewhere safe but out of sight, but I think you may need to be more ruthless with yourself than that. Everything... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>16483022 I just want to be friends with her again. Or really anybody to be my friend. But I need friends to make friends. But I'm just a loser. Who wants to be friends with a loser? I befriended this qt asian girl but she is increasing distance from me. Probably because she knows I have no friends I just want to hug somebody. I want a little of gentle physical interaction. Learning a new hobby is OK. But when I do those hobbies I still think of her.
22yo, been balding for last 4 years. Jumped on minoxidil, and been holding it on a Norwood 3-ish.
Cant grow a proper beard yet, and I'm not super muscular; just very athletic built (6'4, well defined muscles from strength training, but still slim). In general, I'd look like a slavbro neo-nazi if I shaved.
IMO, I feel like girls are really repulsed by my hair. I keep it short and trimmed, and maximize the illusion of thick(er) hair. I haven't gotten laid in over a year simply because of this reason I honestly belive, because when it comes to... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>16482930 hey, man. maybe consider going on finasteride. it's kinda one of the only real solutions to combating hair loss, besides hair transplants and experimental drugs. maybe look into it a bit more. i've been taking it for like a year and a half now, so i might be able to answer some questions you have
I'm in a similar position, slim-fit, can't grow a beard, and only on minoxidil (for under 2 months) Except I will never naturally get big or have a beard, I don't have the genetic potential. I'm also only average height, shy, and have had long hair all my life so shaving or buzzing it is a nightmare.
I've never posted pics, how bad is it? I think I'm between norwood 2 and 3. Should I do finasteride if I have a history of depression? Or try other alternative treatments / wait for setipripant?
Mostly, by not cherry-picking arguments that falsely 'prove' it's difficult, and adopting the view that the world is an incredibly diverse place that won't always make sense, or fit patterns currently understood.
As the age old saying goes, 'any fool can seduce a woman.'
>As the age old saying goes, 'any fool can seduce a woman.'
Literally five results on Google.
I'm more or less with you on the first bit, but bear in mind that chads tend to make up a significantly larger portion of fools than self professed non-chads. The latter tending to overthink things without necessarily being altogether "smart".
I love her more than anything. I am so madly in love with her it's frightening. But I can't get over the fact that she wasn't a virgin before we were together. It really, REALLY bothers me. She regrets it so intensely. It bothers me as well that I wasn't one either. I regret it so deeply. But I can't stop thinking about it. We were meant for each other, why did we just go and "get it over with"? We ruined God's plan for us.
Sounds like God is the one ruining you two from just enjoying each other like you should anyways. Honestly who gives a fuck. Look into the freedom of taking responsibility for one's actions throughout life without worrying about some bearded ghost staring over your shoulder and go live life you twit.
>Been faking orgasms with my man of many years >enjoy sex with him a lot, but can't cum from it >can cum in under 5 min with my bullet >don't know how to fix this >don't wanna tell him about it >viciouscycle.cum >feellikeshit.jpg >what do
If you'll pardon the pun, you need to bite the bullet and just do it. Bear in mind that he's likely going to be pissed because you've been lying to him. You clearly know how to get out of your situation, you're just whinging and looking for someone to give you a magic formula.
You're a human being and it's quite normal for you to lie, I can understand how faking a few orgasms turned into many years. It's fine, but you really owe it to him and to yourself more so if you want to actually sort it out. It might be a good idea to make it... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Hey, so I'm a kissless virgin, 23 years old, male, Germany. I'm afraid of running out of time and missing the opportunity to (literally) fuck around before settling down and finding a girlfriend. Trying out sex is for the youth, at least that's how I see it. Feel free to correct me there. So, I considered casual (online-) dating. But there's one thing that holds me off: Should I lose my virginity to somebody who is not my girlfriend and who I don't love? Obviously, I'll have to be attracted to her, and it's not the same thing as paying... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Hi - I was just perusing OKC and ran across this cute girl. Everything in her profile was all aces for my tastes. I found her twitter and we have been favoriting a few tweets here and there. I found her facebook which says where she works ( a takeout sushi place)
I know I have been sort of stalking her, but her profiles seem to indicate she likes that. Also have see some of her tweets where she screencaps guys' convos with her and makes fun of them.
SO - I am obsessed with her and want to scratch her back gently and pet her hair til she falls asleep. How... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
1. The professor has been 5-10 minutes late to every single class. In fact, she made us take a test whenever she arrived 15 minutes late.
2. She moves tests around on the day that they were scheduled to take place (which conflicts with my study schedule).
3. She makes homophobic and racist remarks from time to time (I don't really care about this one but I feel the gay guy in the class should be concerned). Sometimes interrupts... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
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