I have recently realized that i am most strongly attracted to women that look similar to how my mother looked when she was my (their) age. I have always been attracted to girls that looked liked that, but found out about the connection after seeing my mom's photos from her twenties,
Completely, 100% normal. This is basically the most normal thing there is. Taken both several psych courses as well as a Human Services course in Human Sexuality, and done a lot of extra reading on these subjects.
People don't talk about it because people are immature little shits.
>>16791931 Since you were attracted to that type of girl before seeing your mother's young pictures, it is unlikely that there is anything Oedipal going on.
But some experts say that, just as we are attracted to people who have interests and personalities like ours, we may be attracted to people who resemble us physically, and what you may be seeing in the girls is a bit of yourself that you happened to inherit from your mother. (You look like mother, girl looks like you, so girl looks like mother)
>>16791917 first and foremost bars. yes, they are dreadful. but go out and talk to people. anyone alone or with one friend who looks friendly. not hotties. not even women. just anyone. make a conversation. the more you talk to people like they are people the more easy it becomes.
that being said >meetup.com or craigslist interest section
meetup.com is a large website with meetups for almost any hobby. i even found a guy from fucking israel a geek meet up. and even if ur not... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
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Long story short, I've ended up in a temporary teaching position until May. It's very exhausting work where I have to talk a lot and mark a lot of work.
I'm also ridiculously introverted. When I'm tired, socialising can make me feel like I'm going to cry, throw up or both. The stress of this new job is making me so tired that I don't want to talk to anyone and I find reading conversations online to be difficult.
Problem is, I'm not used to telling people to be quiet or go away. I have several autistic people who know I can't... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>16791859 >>16791862 Oh I'm not a teacher and I never will be. I'm normally a researcher which involves a lot of reading and writing and data analysis, all solitary activities that I'm good at. A local school was very, very stuck for a teacher in my field (as in I found out on the Thursday and I had to begin on the Monday) and I decided to help them out. It wasn't all selfless though since the pay will be pretty good and it's good for my resume.
It... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
I have a telephone job interview in a couple of days. What is the best way to prepare for it? It's a for a Welfare Fraud Investigator job, which is a job that will involve a lot of contact with the public and interviewing people and doing a lot of paperwork. I really have no idea what kind of questions will be asked in the interview though.
Have you ever had a telephone interview before? If so, what was it for? What kind of questions were asked? How did you answer? Did you succeed?
Basically just a job for scumbags, you'll be pressured to get as many people as possible even if they are illegitimately ill. They really tried to get my brother with downs, who also has a very rare degenerative disorder of the brain which renders him unable to speak and do certain tasks.
22 male average guy in university somewhat awkward and quite isolated, but with an iron will and refusal to give up. I lack confidence, but still try to give everybody a chance. There is a girl living upstairs (My housemate) always always looked out for her, when she was sick, I was there nursing her. When she was depressed, I was there talking to her. Not interested in her sexually or romantically, but always tried being there for her. She was a girl though and I always felt somewhat uncomfortable around her. She always displays affection towards me through words, but ignores me completely when she doesn't need me. Had parties upstairs and never invited me. She would go out with her friends knowing I had very few friends (New to this country as a student) still didn't care. Comes to me when she needs me though. I felt like shit naturally so I pushed her away and focused on my life, she starts writing me all this shit about how I am so sweet and that she misses and loves me. I forgave her and became just as nice with her. One day I went upstairs to say hi to her, she was with her friend. We talked for hours, she reveals how she always wanted to do a drug with me, I was excited and happy. Even months ago she told me how she wanted to do these drugs with me. So naturally that night when she told me we would do it over the weekend, I was happy since I get to have a social life with her friends. Was looking forward for it. When night finally comes, I hear nothing from her. No message, no nothing. I find out she is out partying with her friends. She doesn't care if I am even alive. I message her later and ask what she was up to during weekend, she replied feeling somewhat guilty and asked who I was with? I lied and said, ''some friends'' asked her about the drug. She simply doesn't reply, ignores me. I knew she was moving out to another place, she told me, but then she leaves this place after the weekend without even telling me. I feel like shit. What do I do? :(
4chan, can you please tell me what is wrong with my screen? I always see these strange shadows that go the right. My screen has been like that for a couple of weeks. I don't know if it is changeable in the settings or if there is something wrong with my computer. These "shadows" are everywhere, on every website, every browser and my entire screen.
Hey. I'm 19 years old and I have the opportunity to study in the field of Translation with a 100% scholarship, however I do not believe this to be a path in life which I wish to follow. I've always had a knack with languages, literature and have been a hobbyist writer since childhood, but I don't believe I will enjoy basing my career around it.
Also have I seen my brother, who is a police officer, greatly improve in his life from pretty much every aspect, whether it be financially or personally. So I have considered too becoming a cop; the pay is good, it teaches me the discipline I so badly need and it IS much more exciting than a possible career in literate and/or translation.
Whilst education is a more firm step which will grant me a stable life, I believe this is the time of my life where I should be taking risks. If not now, then when?
adv/ I'm a college student and I study all the fucking day. I love the moment at the end of the day where I close everything and simply have a smoke outside. I don't like cigarettes as I got used to rollies, which are, in my opinion, much better in taste. I know that is an unhealthy habit that I don't want to pick up. Are there any alternatives that won't give me cancer ? Is vaping dangerous as cigarettes? are there any other natural herbs I can smoke? Any other ideas to substitute rollies?
Was I just scammed? I went to an urgent care clinic because of my suspected cubital tunnel syndrome. I had to pay $55 up front and sat around for 2 hours before the "doctor" came to see me. She touched my arm a few times and explained the cause then told me that I would have to see an orthopedic doctor. She was going to prescribe me ibreprofien. She talked to me for 5 minutes then left.
I feel like I was cheated. Is there a way I can get my money back because my entire visit was a waste of time. The orthopedic doctors that she recommended were not even... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
No you weren't scammed. Doctors in those sorts of clinics aren't familiar with conditions that don't affect a lot of people. You were sent to a specialist because that's who can help you. The money you paid was because they're open and available outside of times that you'd normally be able to see a doctor, therefore they charge more because the doctor doesn't want to be there either.
well the healthcare system is fucked up, but dude - doctors can't know what your problem is before they see you. That up front fee is for their time and expertise at discerning the issue, it's not the doc's fault that your problem needed a specialist.
So me and my ex gf where together for little over a year, we hit it off pretty good and we loved eachother a lot. Things began going downhill and we ended up breaking up. This was 5 months ago.
In these five months post-breakup, we have had sex multiple times and she even considered getting back together with me. One day i told her i had enough and i didn't wanted to wait for her anymore. I deleted her on facebook(i know, i know) for my own healing purposes.
When she found out, she was furious. Calling me immature and then... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>16791757 >In these five months post-breakup, we have had sex multiple times and she even considered getting back together with me. One day i told her i had enough and i didn't wanted to wait for her anymore. I deleted her on facebook(i know, i know) for my own healing purposes.
She has feelings for you to some degree, but was stringing you along, probably waiting for something better that hasn't come yet.
>When she found out, she was furious. Calling... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
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