My girlfriend and I have a good relationship overall. We're happy together. We live 6 hours apart, and I drive to see her 3-4 days a week.
She lives in a house with a couple of room mates, and is a bit impulsive. She spends a lot of money on her bad habits, while having massive student loans. She has a room mate that encourages those bad habits, and is generally a pretty bad person.
This bad room mate wants to get a dog, a Collie no less, and I mentioned to my girlfriend that the room mate would never, ever be there to take care of the dog and it would essentially... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
A few weeks ago I posted a thread asking to help with a situation of domestic violence and psychological abuse. Thankfully. me and my mum acted on the advice and social services has been contacted and the situation is very close to being ended, thank you all for that.
However, I am left with some issues. I have a number of friends, some I have known for 12 years, and they are generally nice to me and are like I think friends should be for the most parts. Unfortunately, the ones who run parties and social events do not invite me along and I only really see them during... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>16452666 Thirdly, I have almost no confidence or self esteem, which of course gives other people bad vibes.
Honestly, while If I gave it more thought I think I could find a bunch of solutions (or simply wait less than a year when I will go to university), although honestly the fallout from the abuse and my parent's relationship I think may be clouding my judgement, and so I ask you lot what you think I should do.
So what should I do? Thank you again.
P.S : Sorry if I write like a fedora, I just finished... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
I want to major in English but everyone is discouraging me. So I've been thinking of double majoring with sociology. I want to be more into literary journalism, (like Tom Wolfe), but everyone keeps discouraging me about what that will mean for my future. So i'm really lost right now, and I don't know what classes I should take. What are you senpai getting a degree in?
I got a film degree. despite the reptuation that sort of degree gets, i didnt have anyone fighting me over it. even my strict military father wanted me to go for it, cuz its pretty much all I did with my life from 8th grade, so much so that he offered me the largest bedroom in the house (after his own of course) just so that I could film easier.
i graduated 2012, havent had much film work since then though, as it is a competitive industry thats hard to break into in any serious way. I happen to manage... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
I feel like I ruined my body because I got fat and when I lost weight (slowly and with nutritious food and while lifting heavy weights while doing chest exercises) my tits deflated and got very saggy and empty.
I just think of how attractive I would be if I didn't gain weight in the first place and permanently damaged my body and ruined it
Hey,so when I was younger I never brush my teeth and not than I'm older their gross and yellow,what would be the best method to white my teeth? Other than going to a dentist. (My camera is shit so I found this image that matches my teeth the closet,the stained ones)
I gonna assume my teeth are healthy too since I don't have any cavities, tooth aches, etc... I just don't like the colour of them and I want to whiten them without paying a fuck ton of money to get them professionally whitened.
nope. happens all the time. 24 is a pretty typical time to leave college for instance (between 22 and 25 is average depending on all the variables) and people are constantly moving places and starting careers and such.
getting into a new circle becomes harder to do, as does making friends, but both are possibly especially the latter.
as to how, its completely unique to each person.
a lot of people become friends with who they work with. others have chance encounters. others attend events... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>get a gf >one time after we have sex she says my penis (6") is "perfect, not too big, not too small" >well that's nice i guess, don't really need to be reminded that it isn't big but ok >"my ex was HUGE, i'd hurt afterwards every time" >didn't actually need to hear that >"like 8 and a half inches long and REALLY thick, you can't even... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>someone dates a guy and find sout he has a big penis >she continues to dat ehim anyways, but is not happy because the big penis ruins sex >she is a whore despite leaving him and appreciating men with smaller penises
er.... stop? mines six and a half, and its often called big, even by guys with bigger cocks then mine (Faggot here). six inches is just barely over the average, so its like you're a B- student. whats wrong iwth that?
if you are going to let something that is a huge part of your life bum you out, an hero now, cuz ur cock aint going to get any bigger.
considering she appreciates it, calling it perfect (mine is often called perfect as well, because of how well proportioned it is) why are you... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>Best friend and I we're inseparable >We spend a lot of time just hanging out together >As time goes by, I'm starting to feel slowly weird around him. Everytime the plan ends, I leave feeling like complete shit. As this progresses, I'm slowly becoming more unconfident, like my point of view never matters. Like I have no talent >I start to hang out with more and different people. I start to get close to some people that were just acquaintances,... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
this isn't unusual. sometimes it happens after 20 years of a great friendship because things change. there is always the chance your friend needs help, but if he refuses to be helped you can't really stand by him.
we meet people and we use them to help us grow and develop, and at some point people stop helping each other grow and develop. at that time the friendships usually dissolve. as much as i want to believe the romantic idea of best friends for life, even the strongest ones have to end... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>16452325 I'm re-reading my thread, and I feel like it's incomplete. There's way too much shit I haven't explained.
>Last friday he tells me "Because you don't have a job and you're finishing your studies, and I have 2 jobs, I feel like we don't have much to talk about. I don't like movies and you don't like cinema..." After dropping that he just got back to the party and I left. >It's been a while since... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Bounce. You're trying to weigh action against the history of the friendship, as though that history hasn't yet paid its dividends. It has. You enjoyed years of a good and happy friendship with him. That enjoyment was the reward. Now the joy has ended and so has the time to keep fighting for the friendship. Yesterday it was good. Today it is not. Act on today.
I have what I guess is a fairly typical /adv/ story. I got close to a girl and eventually she became my best friend. She started to get very flirty, we fucked a few times but kept it 'casual' (even though we were hanging out all the time too), and I fell for her hard. Then out of the blue one day she dumped me in a bit of a shitty way. She was genuinely apologetic when she saw how hurt I was, but said she wanted us to still be friends (but nothing more). I couldn't handle that, especially when she started dating someone else, so one day I cut her from my life... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>16452313 Lie. Say you feel great and that things are going really well. She's probably checking up on you because she thinks you're still hung up on her. Also, if you lie enough you might end up believing it. Heartbreak is fucking tough but when you remember that you're an individual that's got a life separate from the person you love(d), you'll become okay with being alone.
>>16452331 I already got a little bit obsessed with that via my Instagram account. I took a year off to go travelling, and made sure I took pictures of every incredible place I went to (because I knew she had always wanted to go travelling too). I'd sit by my phone and wait for her to 'like' it, and she usually would. I think that was a very unhealthy mindset though, and I'm trying to concentrate a bit more on actually enjoying things rather than pretending to enjoy things.
Generally speaking that's... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>16452353 Going through a heartbreak right now myself. It was a 2 year relationship that ended about a month ago, because of distance but mostly because she lost feelings for me.
It hurt and although she said she wants to "be friends" she doesn't message me at all. BUT, she would look at every snapchat story I would post. That was my only 'contact' with her anymore, and in a weird way I liked seeing that she was still looking.
But I decided this was incredible toxic of me. I would... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
My father-in-law cheated on his wife with a woman ten years younger than her, and got her pregnant. They maybe knew each other for a month or two at the time. This woman is a former stripper, and an ex-con with three other children from three different fathers. All of the fathers are dead. Strange coincidence.
Father and mother in law went through a messy divorce, he has to pay out the nose for alimony now (which he sort of deserves, but not to the extent that he's paying). He gets mad that I still talk to his ex-wife and have a friendship with her. I've known... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
It's not really YOUR family, it's not really your business what they do. You don't have to be friends with them. But it does seem a bit unreasonable to flat-out refuse to meet her. Just go, be at your husband's side so he doesn't have to deal with his crazy family alone. Presumably, he does the same for you at your own family functions.
Don't bring this woman into your life more than you need to, but don't make such a big show of your disapproval. The guy's not your father, he's... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
I'm not sure if this is the best board for this question, but everything I've googled is inconsistent, and I can't afford to go to the dr right now.
>menstrual period is really late this month >fiance and I always used protection >when I ask if one of the condoms might have broken, he comes clean to me >one night, after I'd had a bit too much to drink and passed out, he fucked me without protection >he... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>16452246 ok first of all, your fiance is a fucking creep and he pretty much raped you. if the pregnancy tests are coming out negative then you're probably fine, if you're really worried about it, go to a doctor. but holy shit your fiance is a whole other story. my suggestion is to bail and never look back
My sister told me that dating one is pathetic and only guys who are desperate do it. One of my friends also made fun of me for it. Basically should I break off? Will I be looked on in society as that guy who couldn't get anything but a black girl?
I can't tell if this is bait or not, but in case you are serious. No anon, love who you love, society is wrong not you. Unless you started dating this girl purely because you felt desperate and didn't actually have any feelings for her then you should break it off and find someone you like. It doesn't matter who that person is, what race, gender or anything else, it only matters that you are happy with them and them mutually so.
So I live with my boyfriend and we've been together over a year. We're in a committed relationship. He's always been very touchy about his phone and computer and tablet, not wanting me to ever touch them. He has said before if I tell him what I want them for he'll let me see it, but last night I went to play a game on his tablet and he snatched it away from me. Literally snatched it, like I was 5.
He can go through my things any time he wants because I have nothing to hide. That's always how it's been, since we got serious. He's done this five different times now, and two of the times he refused giving me some of his family's phone numbers when I was heavily involved with some things going on and could possibly need them.
He also has told me he has a porn addiction he's dealing with. It doesn't make me mad or anything, to be honest I respect that he feels guilty and wants to change that but if it wasn't an issue in our relationship I wouldn't see the harm in watching porn.
>>16452170 But him being this protective seems kind of sketchy, doesn't it? I'm a strong believer that if I need to find something out I will without digging around. He leaves his phone unlocked around me sometimes and I never look through it because I'm not a digger.
My point with this is I told him I think it's wrong of him to give me no right with his things, especially since we live together and he has access to my things without issue. It's a trust and respect thing to me. He absolutely... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>16452175 So what do you guys think? I'm not an oppressive person, I'm actually pretty easy going. But this is worrying to me, and I don't think I'm unreasonable in my opinion. I'm more than willing to work to some middle ground, because 98% of a relationship is compromise and you can't avoid that, but he doesn't want to talk at all. I'm not sure what to do here.
>>16452188 He sounds kind of unbearable. You can maintain your privacy in a relationship but him snatching his tablet from you is just downright childish and extremely sketchy. The fact that he can't talk about it either is weird too. If you guys are going to be in a serious relationship you're going to have to learn to talk to each other. If you're doing all the compromise and he's just reaping the benefits, it's a one sided relationship that's pretty much going to lead to nowhere. Be honest with him OP. If he can't compromise on such a trivial matter then maybe he isn't the person you should be with.
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