>>15310423 you do it to keep your self-confidence from stagnating, you need to just improve yourself so that you can leave the house and interact with people confidently. as you get older, you'll realize that perfection is all a fraud, the guys do too. so don't worry about it.
I need advice. I already asked my friends to chat with me about it and I'm going to see a psychologist, but I migh ask here as well. I need to deal with this problem, one way or another, as fast as possible, because it's killing me.
A lot of time in my life I spent inside my own head. It is sort of like sleepwalking, but instead of dreaming, I imagine talking with people. Like I am repeating in my head what I want to say to someone and I imagine their response. I do this all the time, especially during stressful situations. I feel like I'm getting in... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Therapy. Also you are not a special snowflake that has some mental issues that make you special, or whatever. You have just fooled yourself into this way of being, whether as an excuse to not deal with others or to mask your rejection because you probably are a legit nice guy.
>suffer from depression for 1-2 years >no therapist because of reasons too complicated to discuss >self-harm, suicidal >meet guy around May 2014, he eventually becomes the reason for getting up in the morning >tells me top-tier screwy bullshit about how special I am and how much he likes/cares for me >share problems, I give him advice... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>15292186 Goddamn, looks like somebody cloned my ex. Odd. She has been depressed for 2 years too, and got pretty much attached to me soon. Anyway i am a male and i can relate with you until the "genuine happiness" line so i can tell you (probably) what happened to the other side of the barricade. You are not going to like it though. Interested?
alright /adv/, I have a new long distance girlfriend, as of last night, and she is coming to visit me soon. I want to blow her mind. Any tips on cunnilingus would be greatly appreciated. This will be the third woman I will have ever been with, and the last didnt like oral at all. Help me out here femanons
>>15285509 maleanon here. Not what you were after, but i can share some insight:
- Find the clitoris, if you don't know about it - Some find it distracting if you also finger her at the same time. - Patience is key. Find a position where you don't get a cramp in your jaw - Listen to and look at hear reactions so that you know what works - If she wants the D instead, it's not necessarily that you suck, but that it's such a huge turnon.
femanons, correct me if i'm wrong, so that i can improve.
I went to my doc because i had a lump and other cancer symptoms. She starting checking it (Poking and feeling it) and looked genuinely concerned and grew more concerned when i told her I've had it for years and the other symptoms. She told me to get back in 2 months for another check.
This was about ½ a month ago now, and it's agonising. I can't help but feel my death is near, and i randomly stop whatever i'm going and do a thousands yards stare and just think that my death could be near. I've several... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
This week I realized 4chan is totally useless for real pain and they don't understand shit besides the pain of self imposed loneliness and no gf. My dad and I are quietly flipping our shit because of his cancer scare. I've taken to reddit to cope with my feels, find him recipes he can stomach to eat and homeopathic shit to lessen his pain. Please try to keep laughing despite the scare and hope for the best. I will be thinking about you, anon. Please go to reddit for people who actually give a shit, this shitty place can't help you.
Start to save up 2300 $/€ Travel to China Live the rest of your life traveling Asia and the rest of the world, on foot or illegally by train. Why I said China specifically? There is one answer, the Himalayas. Once you're seen and lived the Himalayas, your whole perception on life and death will change. Travel south to India and if you are still alive by then, go back west to Europe. Travel illegally, have nothing on you but clothes and bare necessities which should include bushcraft tools mostly. Only spend money on the initial trip to China, then... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
I don't suppose I'll ever talk to you or see you again. I've done everything in my power to make sure our paths will never cross again, even though that's the last thing that I wanted. I miss you terribly, and haven't stopped missing you since you told me that we were over.
I saw the photos you posted of you and your boyfriend at new year. The caption saying that 2014 was the best year of your life. You looked so happy. You're at your most beautiful when you're in a relationship, when you feel confident and secure. I really... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Greetings fellow human. Today you shall read my story. It all began 20 years ago when my parents fucked. I went on a camping trip for 8.5 months in my mothers womb and came out early because i was too bored inside there after conquering it. For 19 years i have stranded on this rock, the others call it 'earth', taking advantage of every human in each way to either make me sad thus stonger or entertain me thus happier. I have mastered the art of masturbating and i'm proud of it. There hasn't been a day where i forgot how to breath, eat, and drink... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
I'm a virgin and I'm going to be hooking up with this real attractive girl soon. Need help, I want to do a good job and not disappoint her. Shes done stuff before and tells me shes not expecting anything and that she'll help me along. Still though... Good advice, please.
Count yourself lucky your first time will be with someone experienced. It makes it easier, because they will genuinely help guide you through it. Just do what she tells you to do, you'll be fine. Don't watch porn beforehand, thinking it will teach you anything. Porn teaches you (for the most part) fuck all about real sex.
Avoid these. Of course it won't go exactly as those "tutorials", so just ignore them. If she's as nervous as you are, then try to relax. She won't be able to 100% know how it's gonna play out, neither will you. Just enjoy it, try not to overthink shit, and you'll be fine. And don't worry if you don't cum. It's not uncommon for people to not cum the first time they have sex. I didn't... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
My sister was raped two days ago (she's 14) by a Somalian, and I am seriously considering paralyzing the guy. I live in another city, but can drive there during the night and make it back due morning and get to work hopefully unnoticed (the irony is I work at a hospital). I will keep my cell-phone at home (I live in scandinavia, so the police are allowed to track the GPS on my phone). I have bought a wooden bat with cash at a small store, so I can easily get rid of it when I'm done. I have premission from a loyal friend to use his car so I won't have to use my... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>the punishment he will get from the law is far from the justice she deserves Then research how much time you might get if you get caught. Even if you take every precaution, you need to understand the possibility of you serving jail time for the attack and if it would be worth it.
I want to tell you "don't do it" but I would do the same thing. Make sure his balls never work again.
>Meet girl >Start flirting >Reject her >Carry on acting as we always did >Learn things about her life (which I'll get to in a sec) >Start falling for her >She wins me over >She asked me what our relationship was; are we together? >Told her I'd tell her on Tuesday (tomorrow), implying... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
So a half an hour ago I was walking in the city on my way home. There were these UNICEF-volunteers hanging in the streets approaching people talking about little kids in Africa having trouble finding water and bladeeblabla... She asked my age, I responded with "23" and she said excellent and she asked me if I'm happy and I told her "someday are happier than other days", she said "it's because its fall and the days are getting darker soon." I said yes again. And then she told me "You know what's worse? Little... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>15053600 I had the same problem in my late teens people would ask for donations I'd panic and sign the form. The thing that brought me out of my shell was getting a new job, socialising and going to bars with friends, working on my confidence and self esteem by setting targets and achieving them, going to the gym and getting fashion tips.
Of you could just say "sorry I'm late for work/my bus/meeting my friend" and make sure you know what to say to them as soon as you spot them, good luck fellow anon.
I didn't see one. Checked the entire catalog. I'll go first. (1/2)
You said a lot of things, and I don't remember any of it, but here's what I got out of it: I have no place here, I have no place in society, I don't live here (my mom often says this to me), I don't belong here, I have no other place to go, I am a guest. I really felt like calling up Safe Harbor to see if they'd take me in: I was (am?) homeless. Think about that: me showing up at the very place you volunteer at. I never felt comfortable with you around, I always quieted my voice if I knew you were home. You're very offputting and imposing. Meanwhile I tried to stay out of your way, as much as I could, because your behavior and actions conveyed that's exactly what you wanted me to do.
I don't see how that makes me a pain in the ass if I don't provoke you. You, however, provoked me routinely. I can see why Bryan hated you; I side with him. What would your god think? He'd probably be disappointed in you. Being the type that worries about what happens after you die, this should be cause for alarm. You talk about becoming blessed, yet you drive me away? That's like deducting bless points, or whatever you do in your religion to calculate them. You can volunteer all you'd like but it won't cover up for what's going on between us.
Finally, you may be able to drive me away, stamp out my happiness, and generally make me feel unwelcome, but you can't totally take away the only person that I love, trust, and confide in. I'll be coming over periodically to play with my boyfriend & spend time with him as per usual for me, thank-you-very-much. The energy cost will be miniscule compared to when I stayed in Anne's room nightly. If the sight of my blue lifeline cord somehow upsets you, I can't help you on that. Try... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
I've never felt the need to post here, but I want some older anon's advice on this.
My background (my life story): I'm 18 years old and well, for my entire life I've been fairly happy, though I've been by myself. My parents were always busy and I have no siblings, so I used to entertain myself with vidya and tv a lot. I've always been a straight A student. As a kid I played lots of soccer and cricket, I eased up on it when I turned 10 or so, but I still always made time for physical activity. As a kid I always used to eat a lot, so I... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
In lower six I barely attended school nor extra lessons, but I still managed to get all grade 1's. I convinced myself that I'm happy but I'm not. I'm really bored with my life. I have no idea what to do, but I know what I DON'T want to do. I feel as if I should go out and be able to meet new people, but I should be attending school and doing well in my exams, getting into uni and getting a good job, wife, child, retirement and all that jazz.... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Everyone's terrible and will leave you. You just have to whip your nuts out and tell em all to go fuck themselves. I was dumped around your age after a long relationship. Fucking hurt. Didn't do shit became an alcoholic pothead. Started blaming everyone else for my social anxiety. My parent fucked me over on raising me, man, but fuck them. I have such bad anxiety that I've been seeing a doctor for it almost 10 years now. Fuck it. My girlfriend if 2 years broke up with me last night. Does it suck? Yes. Am I anxious as fuck? Yes. But look... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
You make the assumption that going out and getting girls would have made you happier than you are now, you don't know this, so your regrets aren't rational.
What are your interests? If you don't know, experiment with more things until you find what right. if you already know, find a job that incorporates those interests. But interests I don't just mean hobbies, I mean creative drive, how intellectual you are, whether you prefer group work or individual pursuits, etc.
Learn to like yourself more. Contentment is something found in the self, not externally.
>>14991737 my best guess is that my door must have been open while i was jerking it during my high school days and it must have traumatized her in some way.
i never fucking did anything to the poor girl. yet her psychiatrist must have fixated on some perverted version of these events to place the blame on me.
srsly i dont deserve to have my name defamed and my life ruined over this shit. i try my best to avoid any kinda family drama, and this is the worst kinda shit i can get thrown on me. i feel incredibly betrayed,... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>14991726 Honestly you need to move on and stop stressing about this shit. It doesn't help you with anything. You're just stressing yourself out over some words that have probably been twisted. Just listen to your lawyer and do what he says. You trying to figure shit out isn't your job its his.
Get your life back on track. Keep going forward, looking back does nothing.
If you have your own place and stable income for expenses, it's easy. Imagine your best friend. Now imagine the qualities you like about your best friend with a nice set of tits and a vagina. This best friend will have sex and do naughty things if you tell her she's pretty, she'll cook for you if you tell her that her cooking skills are the best, and you'll always have her warm, soft, slightly squishy body to cuddle with and keep you warm at night. Her hair will smell like strawberries and sweet pea, her hair is silky soft, and her waist will seem like the perfect fit for wrapping your arm around while you cuddle.
You'll play vidya together, you'll argue about stupid things, you'll discuss religion and past lovers, she'll complain about her periods and be a nervous wreck until she gets her next period. She'll want chocolates and flowers on Valentine's day, as well as the occasional back rub. But for all the things she asks for, she'll repay them ten-fold if she loves you
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