>>15506057 >>15506136 If you're kiss deflowered, every girl you might ever kiss from here forward will be revolted by the thought of all the other mouths you've had in your mouth. You're used goods now. There's nothing left that's special about you.
Why can't people who think this way just march into a volcano or something.
Op honestly no girl would even expect to be your first kiss, if you never mentioned it she would totally assume you'd kissed someone before. But here, have a new "first" to look forward to: the first time you kiss someone you love. Unlike your general first kiss, which 90% of people do awkwardly with the chick they went to middle school prom with, it will be packed with amazing emotions and shit.
My first kiss and virginity went away with people I didn't love, but I've had incredibly special kisses and heartachingly sweet sex with my boyfriend. First doesnt matter much at all, but pine away for your first love if it makes you feel better
>>15506057 Your first... kiss... Bahahahaha. Kid, grow the fuck up and realize that shit is nothing. Nothing at all. You will live a solid 80 years (if you're lucky) and in the grand spectrum of life having your chronologically "first" kiss with a girl without "feeling fireworks" like a little pussy means nothing.
Get over it, make that shit intimate as fuck and make out with her next time. Feel up that sexy body as you guys caress tongues in each others' mouths. Or go further, whatever the case being, holy fuck OP, pecking lips is some shit you can watch the dozens of dumb PUA guys do 100+ times from one session hitting the streets.
>>15506234 No, it's not cute. It's not cute at all. It's just dumb.
You never see this type of retardation in other facets of life. You never see someone who really wants to play video games, but refuses to play video games for fear of wasting their moment of optimal incompetence on a video game that they don't see themselves playing in 20 years. Nobody refuses to ride a bike for fear or some day moving onto another bike. Nobody refuses to tell a joke to a person for fear that they've irreversibly polluted the joke for all of those who could potentially hear the joke in the future.
Kissing is something that you get good at. There's nothing cute about saving up your lack of skill to maximize the disappointment of a specific future partner.
>>15506057 now you have to force yourself to fall in love with the girl, get obsessed with her and devote your existence to her. For the kiss to have meaning.
just kidding didn't read the thread carefully but I agree with those who said its not a big deal think about it this way your mom probably kissed you when you were little I notice there are alot of moms who kiss their kids on the lips nowadays and I seem to be the only person who thinks thats wrong and gross
>Kiss kissless virgin who was 23 >Didn't know he was kissless until he fucking kissed me >Was polite about it and said nothing >Had to sincerely hold back intense gagging >Chin covered in drool >Painful lips
while i agree with the notion of the other anons that you are overreacting, i agree with what you're trying to say, to a point.
the word "conservative" is something that came out from a liberal perspective. i don't see why you should be kissing someone as if it were expected in a relationship, or because it was commonplace and socially accepted. if you wanted to save yourself for someone important to you, then i commend you for it. but if you think it's too late, then you're wrong. lighten up and when you get a kiss from the girl you wanted, that's your first real kiss. although it won't really matter if you just let anyone kiss you up to that point
it will make your relationships more meaningful, also more painful but i believe it's worth it. murricans are classless animals that will fight tooth and nail to defend their hedonism. it is respectable that you are trying to keep intimate moments special
I yolo'd mine. NEVER done anything with a girl but hugs, she walks around partybwith candy strings to have people eat them lady and the tramp style and take pics, i suggest to do it with her out of the blue, SUCCESS.
>>15506322 That pretty sounds like it isn't important how much girls I kissed so far? But thanks, finally somebody who agrees to some point
It's just like there are two sides in my head, one side says that we just have one life and that's why we shouldn't bother with saving us up and maybe even dying without experiencing something. The other side says that it's because we only life for a short time in comparison and that's why it means much to save you up. I just can't come to a conclusion.
>>15506345 >That pretty sounds like it isn't important how much girls I kissed so far? no, i talked about that in the post
i don't think the length or shortness of life should change anything. if you value pleasure over trust and intimacy then you can go out clubbing or do things in that vein. it's not a sin to be young, but it's not admirable either.
but yeah. it's the difference between letting anybody in and opening the door for someone special. to me, that has value. to others, not at all
>>15506372 you can still let your dick do the talking and share intimate moments with someone you trust though. i don't think it's that big a deal. it's not like you have to do both at the same time. maybe sometimes you just wanna fuck and be an animal. other times you wanna value your relationship.
>>15506375 Word, besides that kiss i only kissed 3 other girls in the next 5 years, now im single again, hotter, socially not retarded and ive been pulling guys/girls like crazy. Only realized a while back i was becoming a bit of a manslut but thats a stigma bifags have anyways.
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