means you're pretty bad in bed to not give your fiancé an orgasm (engaged but no orgasm umad) and your fiancé cant handle the pleasure
my ex used to tell me to stop because "it felt too good"
It happens, especially if its her first time having an orgasm. First orgasm is not always a good experience for girls. You should be more worried about the fact that she is your fiance and it's the first time you give her an orgasm
I mean I am/was worried about that but not too much because it isn't just me. She has never had an orgasm from any other guy or even from masturbating. I believe it has to do with what happened to her at a younger age or something. She gets close to the edge but she could never reach that point. Like that one guy said, she would get really close and then make me stop because it got "too sensitive"
shes filled with satans demons try a exorcism
Wow I would not be engaged to someone I couldn't give an orgasm too every time.
Giving my GF orgasm's is like my "get out of jail free card" I can get away with just about anything as long as I can make it happen in bed.
okay well if there was no pain or breathing issues you can mark those shakes down to be a little orgasm aftershock. female orgasms are reallllly fucking powerful.
my girlfriend's first was with me, and i couldn't believe how much she carried on about it. clenched me tight as fuck with her legs for a good minute, screaming and drooling. i wish guys got orgasms like that, jesus christ
It was sort of like that. If a person has a full body orgasm, is it always a full body orgasm? Like I said, she didn't like it so I'm hoping it doesn't cause that all the time
Its normal, especially on really insense orgasms, tell her to suck it up and get used to it, or keep giving her orgasms so she doesn't get the "aftershocks" - FWIW my g/f loves the aftershocks, they can sometimes go on for HOURS... makes her love me even when i am not doing anything :D
sounds alot like my ex, took a while for her to have an orgasm, and it wasn't for my lack of experience or skill (comparison, girl i'm seeing now cums multiple times each session usually)
nothing to worry about, just keep at it and she'll get used to it eventually
This as well. Some women just aren't comfortable enough with their sexuality to get off. My first GF was inexperienced and I was the first guy to get her to cum. My last one was a little more promiscuous and I was able to get her off at least twice during sex.
There are 2 possible cases:
1)She cant have neither vaginal nor clitoral orgasms wich is not rare but unusual. Some girls just don't have them or they are extremely rare.
2)She doesn't fully trust you sexually. I bet this is the case since she can get close to an orgasm. The fact that you gave her one means it could be getting better but you still have a shitload of work to do. And you should have gave this attention long before she became your fiance. A relationship with bad sex will be a shittty relationship.
Sweet. I'm getting some good responses. Here is a hot picture
Never failed with oral, works every time.
Taking her from behind while spooning and lift her left leg (If you laying on your right) and lift it up then use your free hand to touch her clit.
Can be hard to keep pushing in and out while still focusing on the fingering but just get in the right pace and it will become automatic like walking.
>never got a women to orgasm right
>implys she fakes a orgasm
Everything is alright, she just got a strong orgasm and didn't know how to react on it. Spazms are nothing to worry about, she just has to learn to enjoy them.
There is really not much to it. Sometimes having an orgasm can be an overwhelming and/or painfull experience for an inexperienced girl. A lot of them are also afraid of theyr body and sexuality and can have a bad emotional reaction to pleasure.
the math adds up. guys orgasm from having their penises rubbed. women need their mini-penises rubbed. getting dicked in the vag is like having your balls rubbed, it may feel good but you're not gonna cum from it.
I'll barge in with another question.
Why does my gf want to be fingered so fucking deep? Even if I ram my fingers in with full force and do the beckoning thing like she tells me to she still tells me I should get farther in.
My fingers are not short, she's not tall, she's not fat. Idk wat to do. She cums after some time though, but my fingers always hurt like shit afterwards.
No. Only a rare and precious few are full-body ones.
Just like when you cum, most of the time it's just another orgasm, but on occasion it's one where your whole body is tingling and you cum buckets. Same with her-most of the time when she cums iher pussy will tighten up and spasm a bit, but on occasion it'll go full body, everything will tingle, and she'll feel like she's floating and just can't stop cumming.
When those happen to my girl, I usually get a LOT of slack for the next few days.
That's just how she wants it. You suit your fingers up in fucking scuba gear and go knuckle diving those sugar walls until she cums. Believe me. Relationships are MUCH better when both parties are satisfied sexually.
last time that happened we were coked up, came at same time, i came buckets and the orgasm lasted for a minute or two for me
best kind are those where you cant do anything but cling to eachother and cum lol
My current GF forces me to stop after one orgasm during oral, it's the only way she gets off
Nothing to be proud of at losing your virginity at 12, and if you're lying, you're just trying to compensate for something
You are all retarded.
Different girls need and want different things.
For some a big final orgasm is not a good thing, but is too much. Like it is too much if someone rubs your dick really hard after you cum.
She's lasted this long without orgasm, obviously it is not essential to her sex life. I say jsut carry on as before.
Lol. That only happens sometimes. Mostly it's me who wants more sex and even offers to finger her or eat her out, and even then she declines sometimes. (asking as in bodily actions, not "do u wont get iten out im so beta")
The problem is not rammnig them in that deep, the problem is that the other fingers (she can't take more than 2...) get yanked around outside.
Simple. When she's aroused, her body is controlled by the parasympathetic nervous system. But in order to have an orgasm, activity must switch to the autonomic nervous system.
It's likely that her body has difficulty making this switch, but managed to do so yesterday for the first time. But making this switch could have caused some dysfunction in the nervous system itself.. after which she had a seizure while her body was under the control of the autonomic nervous system. Parial and generalized seizures affect the autonomic nervous system.
wow this is very scientific (not VERY but more scientific that the other responses). Do you have any links or more info or something. I think this could have been a possibility.
You say that, but how did YOU feel after your first orgasm?
If you're like most people, you went from "why would people want to have sex?" to "OMG THAT IS THE BEST FEELING EVER I WANT THAT ALL THE TIME" in a huge hurry.
lol your gf is a worry freak hence the no orgasms and then when she finally does she trips off what most girls find to be a major fucking awesome once in a lifetime or intense special type of orgasm
oh well at least she belongs to you and shit
It's normal OP. Some girls have very strong orgasms. Some can achieve them extremely easily, some of them never get one in their lives... I read somewhere that female orgasms are hundreds of times more powerful than male ones. We ejaculate and just move on, they can have seizures, tremors, spasms, blackout, all kinds of weird shit. Guess it's normal to have such a strong reaction on her first one, it'll probably water down as they become more frequent.
fantastic. my opinion is that it could be just the first time or she had a really intense orgasm, but keep an eye on her actions before and after she climax for a while to make sure its not anything bad like tumor
Some girls can't cum without stimulating their clit themselves. If she doesn't know how to do it herself she/he need to experiment more.
Give her a long, long, long massage to get her in a very relaxed mood
This is very true. The pill kills the libido of lots of women. Also try some different brands.
Listen to these guys
3) She lacks self confidence and is too stressed out
Most girls can cum inside the vag, you need to use your fingers though
Some girls are hard to please though, especially when they lack confidence
G-spots are not far in. It could be she likes having her cervix pounded although it is unlikely. Probably just loves the roughness of it
Ugly belly button
>Taking her from behind while spooning
I drew a pic to demonstrate. Sorry it's poor quality, using a touchpad is hard.
here is her with more weight... better?
not to be a dick or anything, but she seems a bit pro-ana. maybe have her eat a little bit more. i dont think you like to hold a skeleton in your arms at night. (might just be the angle and lighting?)
I never understood women being afraid to cum. Why do they have this unnatural mental block?
It's like she smoked weed for the first time and get's super high and panics; Calls 911 saying how time is going slow and not she died.
>gf has first orgasm, gets a seizure from it. wtf happened?
>The internet said that it could be epilepsy but she doesn't have that.
LOL! oooh dude. really? man.. you live a sheltered life if you haven't seen a woman spazz out after an orgasm before. that shit is normal. enjoy it.
her g spot is the rough bumpy thing its easy to feel
if she likes feeling you flick the back wall area.. that's pretty common just not commonly known I always have chicks moaning by getting in as deep as i can and flipping the tips of my fingers back and forth on their pelvic floor muscle or whatever the fuck that is
but g spot gets them moaning too of course
just do what she wants and don't trip
how are you laying on your right if you're on your knees doggy style? how are you spooning in that pic? are you spooning on your side with her leg up or laying over her back doggy with one of her legs up...???
Fucking disgusting. Where'd you find her? Auschwitz?
She's unhealthy dude. Seriously. She needs to eat more.
she has lived in a few houses that had water damage. they sav 1/4 people are allergic to mold and can develop really bad symptoms if untreated. you could look it up but at times, she can barely get out of bed. lots of joint, muscle, nerve, and bone pain. extreme exhaustion. etc.
It sucks but we're working on getting her better.
you should have explained this at the top of the thread. You really should look into her past a little more though. Seeing the norcal tat the old belly button piercing the perfect barbie skinny figure and the nerve problems makes me think she used drugs in the past or uses them now.. deff not a for certain thing but people like that come up with all kinds of medical lies to cover shit like that up. My ex blamed her meth problems on restless leg syndrome eczema being molested as a teenager etc..
Also if it really is a medical issue thats not drug related dont fixate on the mold alone it could be something else.
It's probably because it's her first orgasm ever.
She was probably having muscle spasms like a nigger (especially if you built it up over a long period of time, happens to dudes too but to a much lesser degree).
Pharm student here OP. I doubt it was a seizure. Sounds like she had just a overload of dopamine or something similar. I read some articles a long time ago about women that would have minute long orgasms. She should be fine. If it happens outside of intimacy, go see your doctor.
boyfriends don't name pics like that. the internet names pics like that
99.99999% sure OP is a faggot
It is not a seizure, she is detraumatizing. This is good, let it run its course, you'll both be happier for it. I've seen it with a bunch of women and have it happen to myself.
oooh popeye stop posting our private pictures