What does /b/ think of a 19 year old guy dating a 15 year old girl. She's a friend of my little sis but she has a lot of the same interests of me. It's probably a shot idea but thoughts?
>she has a lot of the same interests of me
That won't hold up in court
I was 22 when I met my wife, and she was only 15 at the time. We've been together since we met. So I don't see an issue with a 15 year old and a 19 year old.
People will think it's inappropriate and think you're sad / taking advantage of her
I don't see a problem if you get on, you might treat her better than boys her own age, you're old enough to drive etc so could really work for her, but it's whether or not she's worth all the judgement you'd be getting
i've been with my girlfriend of 4 years since she was 14 and i was 21...we're still in love and her mom even let me come stay with them when she was 16...it's kinda weird at first but it's totally normal now and both of our families accept it...just depends on how mature she is really...if she's a typical 15 year old it might not work out...but then again you're only 19...4 years is nothing dude, just go for it if you like her
She will see it as a forbidden relation.
The kind that will makes boy her age rage about and makes girls her age jealous of.
But most especially, anon's advantage is that this relation would really upset her parents. And since it's forbidden, it's automatically very hot in her head.
When I was nineteen I wouldn't have been caught dead with a fifteen year old. I wanted girls my own age or milfs. Now that I'm twenty five I would love to have a sexual relationship with a little fifteen year old jailbait slut. It's all relative or the taboo factor I guess. I won't ever do it because I'm not an idiot but still it's nice to fap over.
have fun being ostracized by pretty much the entire population. if you fuck her you might as well leave the country because as soon as you do something she doesn't like she's going to cry rape.
No, she's an American citizen, not some imported gook or a mexicunt who needed a green card.
wothing wrong with age differences as long as she is old enough in her head , i was 14 and had a relationship with a 17 old that lasted 11months , now im nearly 17 and my ex is 20 i dont think its really bad as long as you both get along well and dont just are with the other to fuck
>graph goes between 10 years old and 100 years old
Anything +-5 doesn't bug me and shouldn't bug anybody else aside from the related party's parents.
Yes, this means I know people who're dating 13 year olds. So long as the parents OK the relationship, it's completely fine.
>My parents themselves are 12 years apart in age
>My grandparents were 19 years apart
>I'm 4 years younger than my gf
>She used to be my babysitter
It doesn't cover 9 year olds. What's the rule for that?
>but she has a lot of the same interests of me
Let me guess, she's also REALLY mature for her age too?
Age doesn't stop being the best way to estimate maturity level until you leave school. So unless you're severely emotionally stunted, don't do it. And if you are, be aware that she'll outgrow you.
>dating the babysitter
Aw yeah, them sacred titty gropes.
>mfw I never had a babysitter
9/10 cases its worse than sex with a 19+ year old
same as a 19 year old is in 9/10 cases worse sex vs with a 25 year old
the older girls will have done more kegels in general (ofc not all cases) == tighter pussay
Public setting bumped into each other a couple times. Then she started following me around so I chatted her up to see what the deal was. Talked back and forth for months her begging for something to happen the entire time. We've been fooling around for 11 months now.
No she actually at time smells like freshly baked cinnamon buns which is a total win for me cause for some unknown to me reason cinnamon is my calming and relaxing smell and at times gets me going...
It's not really a legal defense in that case, since even if she told him, he clearly knew who she was before having sex and he knew without a doubt she wasn't 18.
The only person who could really go to court about it is really her dad. That's why they would have to keep it secret. I doubt that if she consent she would latter go to court...
when i was like 7, me and my sexy 16 year old babysitter used to cuddle under blankets when we watched movies. she never touched me inappropriately but she never stopped me from cuddling real hard on her. on day i got super horny, and my retarded kid brain thought she wouldnt feel anything under the blanket because blanket. so i started to lick and suck on her tummy going down toward the pants line.
i was thinking she didnt know, so i got scared and stopped. she didnt say anything or act weird.
i recently thought about this and realized of fucking course she could feel it. and im sad that i wasnt a tad bit older, enough to be brave enough to have tried more
Yes it is a legal defense.
A 30 year old friend of mine went to court when they found out his gf was 14.
He made a motion that she had told him she was 18.
The judge called her up and asked her if that was true.
When she said yes the judge dismissed the charges.
He also ordered the girl's parents to pay my friends legal fees.
I believe that 90 % of times, it's the parents that try that. I guess the best option is to try to keep it secret.
The thing is, they aren't exactly looking for that type of crime. See, most of the time, to get a cop's attention you have to make a complain.
OP Im 25 and Im dating a 16 year old, we share a lot of interests as well. Going on 3 years together this September. Her mom and dad approve too, they think I am a stoner though which is weird but whatever. Go for it man
Anyone can make that complaint, a jealous friend of the girl (a girl that wants an older guy but cant get one, a younger guy that wants the girl). Or a cop thats having a bad day and wants to ruin someones life cause he feels his badge makes him invincible.
I am 18 and dating a 15 year old. She is mature as fuck. When I first met her I thought she was 18-19 years old, so it came as a big shock.
Anyway, things are going ok with us. No biggie. I don't see the problem.
>Bonus info: It's legal in my country :DDDDDDDD
You're just asking for trouble, man. Don't think it'd really be worth all the shit you could get into. That being said, go for it, but be sure to come back and tell us when shit hits the fan.
obviously you take her to France and video tape the intercourse then post links here.
im a guy dating a 17 year old f and im 15 i can say this is honestly the most satisfying relationship ive had
because of bullshit puritan laws... Girls should be game once they are sexually matured... doesn't make sense.
Did this being 25 vs 16 gf. Lots of Fun/Lots of headache.
Do it if you're totally bored and ready (I mean READY) for some fucking plot-twists.
My girlfriend was 15 when i was 21, we've been together now for nearly 3 years and shes turning 18 in september and im turning 24 in
september as well, we're in love.
Like this guy said he depends how mature she is. we had alot of rough patches were she threatened to tell someone about our ages( police ) but she would never go that far, she is very mature for her age, her mom is a single mom and LOVES me, i could probably fuck her too, and she is super tight ;).
>have you looked at the laws of the state/region you live in to see if this is legal?
if not, you're screwed. 15 year olds girls have the emotional maturity of...15 year old girls. This 'relationship' isn't going to last-if your maturity is tied with her now, she's going to blow past you and realize what a loser you are. Or, you'll fuck things up by trying to sleep with one of her friends, or you'll forget her birthday, or she won't like your job, or your mom, or where you went to dinner, or whateverthefuck she doesnt' like. You'll have a fight, she'll break up, she'll be hurt, and she'll turn you into the popo for statutory. Or her parents will because they think you're an immature douche that's not good enough for their girl. And they can do it anytime, even after she's legal, if you touch her when she's not.
Teenagers are for fucking, not for dating. Why would you want to spend time with a 15 year old? If you share a lot of similar interests, it's probably because you are developmentally challenged, or you're a male version of a basic bitch.
go on and blow your brains out while you still have a chance op.
yeah, "totally not your gf" *wink* *wink*
not really, I just think she's really nice and we're both really interested in theater so we occasionally chat about our shows and stuff but there's no sexual tension between us. I'm just wondering about this
Alright op I'm going to throw in my 2 cents I was dating a 15 year old I'm 19 we dated when she was 13 and I was 16 it lasted on and off for 2 years it was horrible I got teased toyed with and had to deal with her childishness it was annoying it was a bad relation ship she cheated on me numerous times because she wasn't ready to settle down and be with 1 guy you will not be able to do anything mg with her for 3 years without the fear of going to court to this day I fear that she will kill herself and her parents will find out about me and press charges because I "killed" her because she not emotionally stable think back to when you were 15 you were different she has to go threw those changes that we all went threw to find ourselves it's terrible man I got myself in deep shot and it spilled over into my current relationship it may not be the same for you but when there that young there not as level headed and can fly of the handle just think man don't make the mistake I did
Pedo??? don't you mean Hebo? Get your facts straight.
Parents found out he had been fucking her.
It was pretty fucked up. She was "living" with him by sneaking out at night and going home / school during the day.
She just told him she worked a lot and that was why she was never around.
If you weren't a fucking idiot, you'd know that people don't change as much and as drastically after 23 or so.
Imagine being 15 and dating someone who is 11. It's fucking weird. The difference in maturity, development of the mind and emotions. And literally everything about them is off. It's just impossible for two people who are developmentally normal to date with that much of an age gap before 22. So unless you're years behind in your development, then you shouldn't be wanting to do something like this.
i know i know, 2 more months lol
she's a freaky bitch too, my god.
It's kinda funny, that everything over legal age is dateable. I'm starting feeling like a pedo everytime I'm banging a 19 and I'm 23, and you guys are even going lower. Well /b/, way to go.
i was 21 talking to a 15 year old. of course it was just from online and we talked dirty a lot. it was awesome. she'd fuck me if i went to see her, even if she has a boyfriend.
will I though? no. I'd rather not get in trouble. plus her godmother is kinda psycho and controlling and shes rich. so i'd be fucked.
Until she turns 18, i'm not going to meet up with her. Shame because her sex drive is off the wall. It was fun while it lasted though... And yes we still talk.
>asking /b/ about girls
>asking /b/ about something involving normal moral standards
>asking /b/ about a combination of those two things
>expecting good advice.
I know. thats why we stopped. if we didn't she'd start to get creeped out and would probably do something about it. We still talk, as friends. I'm glad we did stop it.
in the US you can get raped in prison for piracy and whistleblowing on people. there are a lot of other dumbass reasons to get in prison. besides there's no evidence and we're great friends. shit could be worse i could have caught a crazy and she would have told her mommy by now.
OK... on the real... I did the EXACT SAME THING back in 1999. We made it out ok, have 2 kids, been married for 12 years and are totally happy... but BE THE FUCK CAREFUL. I lived under the fear that one day her parents were going to up and call the cops, and then id be a penis pin-cushion for the next 25 years. BE THE FUCK CAREFUL.
I have dated 15 year olds four times in my life... @14, @21, @24, and @30.
The main problems were their craziness, not their age, or their family. Ever one of them is still kinda nuts(not that I don't still love a couple of them). Though i guess that be my fault.
As long as you are respectful of their families, it doesn't take long for it to be ok.
I probably do, I'm generally a shy person but I'm always friendly. I think I just don't know if girls really flirt with me or are being nice and I never feel like it's worth it to make a move, and again, I like younger girls so it's always a long shot and I'm just too nervous to
I'm 30 dating a 17 year old who has her shit together better than most of the people I know who are my own age. it just depends on how mature she actually is. Prepare to be ostracized if word gets out to the wrong people though. Most people don't see past the age gap.
He's all about weed, trying to get people to think he's super cool, and then he gets angry when people don't buy into his shit.
She likes him cuz he's mature.
They deserve each other
Don't listen to these assholes, shes a total cutie.
Her brother was a friend of mine, hated me for years at the thought of boning his lil sis, made our dating life hell, but it's been 13 years since the worst of it, and we laugh about it now.
The parents are the key. Make very friendly with the dominant parent.
If you love her, wait, marry her, and live happy. I did, and my wife is pretty awesome. We basically finished growing up together and agree on like 90% of issues.
Just stay away from crazies and find someone you can actually be friends with so if shit hits the fan, (breakup) then you can stay friends.
not many people stay friends with their exes but sometimes its possible. like me and that one girl. sure, we didn't date, but we stopped being crazy flirty like we used to. Hell we used to talk about space and shit and she was fucking mind blown. it was awesome. i miss that more than anything really.. she even stopped being christian because she realized how fucking retarded it was.
Also if the girls awkward that doesn't help either, or if she immediately friendzoned you yet you keep trying, i found out that pisses them off pretty easily..
of the 3 girls I've dated, I'm still friends with one of them, another one hates me for some reason even though we ended on good terms, and the other is still nice but I never talk to her ever, but like we're friendly with each other
I definitely would not bang her, I don't thnk either of us would want to plus that's super not ok. the most it would become would be dating and simple stuff, nothing sexual. I'm also pretty sure she's never dated because her first kiss was in a show last year
last year there was this girl that i know (in real life not on interwebs) who started sexting me, sending pics on snapchat. yes i participated. she had a boyfriend at the time too, i was a dumb fuck and i didn't want to keep doing it. so i told one of her friends. she got soooo pissed she basically doesn't even acknowledge my existence if i'm in the area. its fucked up.
But damn she had some nice tits.. wanted me to come over at 3am to "cuddle" i was like lol no. especially after my friend was in trouble for having this one girl on his dick and her grandma found out. she had a reputation for fucking over many dudes. he got out free though.. but was almost fucked.
All girls are different. can't be for sure what happens after a breakup. but when it comes to underage thats where you gotta be very fucking careful..
That doesn't really count as a first kiss...
When it's planned like that with a co-performer...
I did theater myself and had to kiss a girl on stage. It was a big deal at school (believe it or not) but it didn't feel like the first real kiss I had with my first gf a few years later.
Of course its wrong. Don't let any of these retards tell you otherwise.
A young girl wanting to be with an older male usually means she is having daddy issues or is living in La La land because she watched too many princess movies.
I know it is a tempting prospect, but you're just going to fuck yourself over.
All these dumb fucks inhere claiming to be in relationships are fucked. They have been dating a high school girl while they're grown ass should be matured. As someone else said, they're not aware that their own stunted child brain will be incapable for action once their high school gf matures and realizes she's dating a fedora who preyed on mentally retarded school children.
I'm sorry folks, but this isn't the 1800s. What was ok 200 years ago cannot pass by these days. Science and actual life experience discovers that children are stupid, change constantly, and are not psychologically developed until around the mid 20s.
There is also the chance of being shunned by society for being a pedophile or jailbait chaser, or even worse having your life ruined going to jail/prison and being marked some form of sexual offender.
I know your retarded brain thinks its sweet and innocent what you're trying to do, but you know damn well you just want to fuck that young pussy.
The child will end up dumping you or cheating on you. She doesn't know what she wants, but believes this is what she needs due to movies/tv. Very few of these retards will actually have a successful relationship like this.
I latter learned the girl I kissed on stage had a crush on me, believe it or not. She told me while on my lap, totally drunk while on a camping trip.
I always saw her as the sister I never had.
>but im not an amerifag
dgaf, she looks 10
a 60 year old and a 30 year old is a lot more different than 20 and 16 or 19 and 15.
The girl in OPs pic doesnt look mature at all
no i just decent taste in women girls under 17 are not hot
Wanting someone isn't a choice. Attraction isn't a choice anon.
You need to do stuff with her, stuff that she has an interest in, and subtly, by acting mature, taking her to places and getting somewhat flirty, makes her realize that boys her age are just... boys, and what she is born for is man.
Get it ?
Play the trust game. Put your hand on her knee and ask "do you trust me?" The move it up her leg a little and ask "do you trust me?" Keep doing it until you're fingering her. If she ever says no clamp it over her mouth so no one can hear her scream then rape her. Works every time bro. Masterclass pickup technique right here.
Don't concern yourself with the opinions of others.
The average WOMAN is physically matured by the age of 15.
Only emasculated FAGGOTS ignore biology in favor of self righteous moral indignation.
Innocence is attractive and, at least in my country, is thrown out the window quick once their lascivious whore friends start whispering in their ear and they fall victim to media and feminist idiotologies.
You will carry your memories for the rest of your life. Make sure they are GOOD ones that will last YOU that long.
lived with 15yr old for 3 years when 23. Best sex and enjoyment of life.