Would you be considered gay if you let your gf use a strapon on you? How about just anal-plug?
Second question: Do women actually enjoy doing this?
I'll be honest, OP, some women do enjoy it.
My gf does. I don't consider it gay because its plastic/whatever and not flesh attached to some sweaty man. Same with plugs. It is still being done with a women who has a pussy and tits (and was hopefully born that way).
That's what I thought. The prostate stimulation feels nice, specially when stimulated by a woman.
I have let gf use plug/finger on me but last night she mentioned Strap-On, which made me think...
>afraid to be gay still post on /b
stuck like half a pinky into my hairy butt last night while she faped me.
first time ever had that happen.
i think she thinks i would like it but i dident coz dem nails bro.
sure she will try again.
heres to trying new things.
mfw i realised what she was doing
Well I guess time to go for a new experience then.
Bro, try it once, specially having your prostate robbed while you are going to cum. You'll see.
Why? This was her idea in the first place, and you're just letting her dominate you. Why do that to yourself?
>Does putting things up my butt mean I like dudes and am attracted to men even if I'm doing it with a women?
Nice homophobe stigma faggot.
No, you're not gay unless you can have both sexual and romantic feelings towards the same sex and not towards the opposite.
Ok nigga, I get it now. Anons explained and I understood.
>Would you be considered gay if you let your gf use a strapon on you?
>How about just anal-plug?
>Do women actually enjoy doing this?
Only the ones no one wants. Actual attractive feminine women don't like it. It's a favor their doing for you (while questioning your true sexuality).
>with another woman
Nope, that's Lesbianism.
Your reasoning lacked logic and seemed to be an attempt to troll.
Were you actually serious?
I'm serious. And there's nothing wrong with being gay. But it is gay activity. Pegging doesn't use either of your genitals, so it's not even foreplay. There's nothing wrong with it, but you asked if it was gay, well it is. It's how gay men have intercourse with each other.
My girlfriend can orgasm when she does it. I don't worry about it being considered gay. I don't like penis, except my on, I'm not sexually attracted to traps or men. So, it's whatever.
We switch though, sometimes i tie her up, sometimes she pegs me. It's nice to switch things up now and again.
There is one exception I know of. If the woman herself is really into being anally penetrated by you, and she just wants you to enjoy it. But if she isn't being regularly anally penetrated by you, and especially if she's not into being penetrated anally, then if the woman like pegging, she either hates men, or has sadistic tenancies, in which case she's going to want to inflict pain in other ways.
>Pegging doesn't use either of your genitals, so it's not even foreplay.
Well shit negro, guess I don't have to kiss my girlfriend or play with her tits tonight before I go straight to fingering her clit like there's no tomorrow and then sticking my dick in with the force of a thousand suns.
Sarcasm aside, is that really your definition of foreplay? I was under the impression that it just meant what you do with each other to get more turned on before sex.
Actually, there's science behind it being a heterosexual act. They've found that if a woman swallows a man's semen on a regular basis, when he ejaculates in her vagina and she's ovulating, the ovum is more willing to accept his sperm. The ovum will be "familuar" with them.
dude. That's an entirely separate system and in know way have contact with each other.
>Sarcasm aside, is that really your definition of foreplay?
Kissing isn't necessarily sexual. Like when you kill your mother (was going to say child, but this is /b/). The rest you mention all involve genital contact.
That's actually very interesting. I wonder if there are specific models of strapon that rub the clit while being used.
Breasts aren't genitals, and although it's true that kissing isn't necessarily sexual in some situations, it most definitely is when you're full-on making out. Which is why I definitely would not tongue-kill my mother.
Let my girlfriend do it to me once. Was kind of kinky and the idea gave me a boner and her a wet pussy - she enjoyed doing it a lot - the feeling for me was "oh there's something in my butt" and "ouch" when she went in at a wrong angle after a few minutes. Then she stopped, she pulled it off, I fucked her (right in the pussy!) and we never tried it again.
Wouldn't mind doing it again sometime - but it's a lot more fun to put my penis in her anus, than her put a plastic penis in mine.
Make sure it's on tight, and usually the suction cup part will rub the fabric against her clit. I'm sure there are specific models but she orgasms easily to begin with. (unfortunately I do not)
"You know that pleasuring your man with your mouth sends him to the moon, but it may also help you get pregnant, says Gus Dekker, M.D., of the University of Adelaide in Australia. Here's the concept: Problems with conception often occur when your immune system tries to kill off the "foreign invader" (i.e., sperm). But when you repeatedly expose yourself to sperm, your immune system becomes familiar with it, the theory goes, so you body is less likely to reject it. So if you're trying to conceive, head south (you're not likely to hear would-be expectant dads complain."
Oral sex (with semen swallowing) makes pregnancies safer." It's true, research by Professor Gus Dekker, a maternal-fetal medicine specialist at the University of Adelaide, shows. Dekker compared 41 pregnant women with pre-eclampsia - a condition where the mother's blood pressure soars during pregnancy - to 44 without.
He found 82 per cent of those without the condition practiced fellatio compared with 44 per cent of those with it. The explanation? Semen contains a growth factor which helps persuade a mother's immune system to accept sperm. Regular exposure before pregnancy helps her immune system get used to her partner's sperm.
Wikipedia: Pre-eclampsia, Treatment and prevention, Fellatio (with semen swallowing)
Never change, /b/. Never change.
These will be helpful...in a a couple years. Cheers brosef.
Well, lesbians use strapons and they obviously aren't gay...
Well my mother died of cancer 4 years ago. I wasn't even there (was on my way to the hospital). My wife and sister were there though. Maybe I need to spend some time on the couch.
Your wife is a slut Norman, KILL HER.
Also, that sucks about your mother. My father died 12 years ago. Best thing you can do is talk to everyone who knew her - find out new stories that you didn't know, keeps them alive somewhat.
it may not be homosexual, but it's kinda gay. even though it involves a woman, you're still being penetrated in your bung hole. you're sort of assuming a more feminine role in your sex. you're catching rather than pitch. knaaaa mean???????
This is the closest I've seen to a woman orgasming from strapon.
GOD FUCKING DAMNIT.
I DON'T WANNA BE THAT FAGGY DOUCHE WHO THINKS THAT ANAL EQUALS GAY.
BUT I CAN'T FUCKING THINK OF AN ARGUMENT THAT PROPERLY JUSTIFIES IT NOT BEING GAY.
I AM THINKING TO HARD, FUCK IT, YOU'RE ALL FUCKING FAGGOTS ANYWAY
Yes but, does partaking in the act it's self make it gay ? The only people who do it are girls and gays.
I've been trying to think of comparisons, like if a girl likes getting her pussy licked is she gay, but no cuz thats a straight thing, so what about if you're fucking your ass on your own, does that make you gay, because you're not pretending to fuck someone, you're pretending to get fucked.
GOD LIFE IS SO HARD TRYING TO JUSTIFY FAGS
I dont understand why people worry about if something is gay or not. Who even gives a fuck? I dont look at faggots any differently than i do men who like obese women. Their cup of tea, has no effect on my life.
You have to decide, are you as others perceive you, or are you as you perceive yourself? Either way you can suck cocks all day and night and not be gay if you say you arent, in reality.
Gay is the romantic and sexual attraction to someone of the same gender. Liking anal stimulation doesn't mean you also like other dudes. Also not all gay men actually like anal.
yeah but the act of taking something up the ass is a gay act. you may be straight as shit, but taking things in the ass is pretty gay.
you guys have to see where i'm coming from. i'm not saying the guy is gay, just that the act is gay.
Np. If you're looking for good pegging porn, you want look for the Russian stuff. American women are just too lazy to do it right. After a minute they just have this look like "you mean I have to keep thrusting like this?". Russia strapon porn is far superior. Those women put effort into it.
Man that picture is for faggots. How does it feel to have your only friends be the same people that will rape your email and break your computron. Feel bad, faggot
Gay shouldnt be a checkbox on somebodys bio like gender, race and eye color. The only time anyone should worry about gay or straight is when they are trying to efficiently locate porn to jerk off to.
I swear to fuck, some people act like being gay means you have to register and pay a membership fee. Who even gives a fuck what anyone is?
>tfw I never got bullied
>tfw college was the most popular and social time of my life
>tfw university will be the same
>tfw I still love my mum
>tfw never had a dad, dads are for betas who can't be man of the house straight from the womb
>tfw I am literally better than everybody who agrees with this image
lmao you had no dad are you a nigger as well?
i dont feel sorry for you since you're a douchebag
He didn't leave, don't mistake me for a nigger. He died before I was born.
What do I give a shit, I never knew him.
>mfw you are insulting some random guy to try to rustle me
go then forget oil?
'ass' in america is because the hyper-puritans didn't want to refer directly to the word arse, so they started saying the euphamism of 'ass' instead, meaning donkey - as in the word for donkey.
It's like saying 'gold darned it' is the same as the original.
If you sin, you will be darned to heck!
ITT: faggots trying to convince themselves that they are no faggots
No, no, and yes.
And no, I would absolutely not let a girl use a strapon on me. I don't judge or think less of other guys who are into buttplug and prostate stimulation, but my ass is an exit only; no dildos, no vibrators, no fingers, and certainly no cocks in my ass.
if you take it up the ass your a faggot. go a head call it what you want /b/rother. its no different then having a guy shove his dick up your ass. you enjoy it like any other faggot. so go ahead, keep lying to yourself if it helps you sleep at night.
My girlfriend is really kinky and always talks about what a nice ass I have. Every so often, she tries to sneak a finger down that way or asks if I'd let her use her dildo on me for prostate stimulation. Although I have to admit that I think I'd probably enjoy the experience, it seems to emasculating for me to actually allow.
Now you'll know it forever, and think of it whenever you use or hear the word 'ass'.
In a few years, you'll be saying 'arse' and have to move to Britbongland just to escape the ridicule.
Justice has been done.
mmm no, but you should not moan like the duded in the pic is, you should grunt and spit and do manly things, if you do, then you can have 3 dicks in your butt but your no homo
Same with me dude. She often complimented me on my buttocks, found them sexy even and would become wet from me doing a butt dance in front of her - seriously.
I understand the emasculating bit, but try it anyway - play up to it a bit, and you'll feel 'sexy' - she'll be more turned on and you can still fuck her like a man.
Actions don't determine sexuality.
You could suck/fuck thousands of guys and not be gay unless you're exclusively attracted to guys.
If you're not attracted to guys you're not gay.
If you are attracted to guys you are gay.
It's as simple as that.
one time i put finger in my gfs butt while fucking and she puts finger in my butt so we both had finger up butt and then we both pulled too hard and we turned inside out and now she has a cock and i have a vagina but it still works
i think it would actually be the other way round, think about it, orientation is so difficult because there are countless combinations, but on attitude you can be passive, dominant, or both, (and that doesn't mean gay, hetero, or bi)
Here's something else then - a gift.
You know the little insects, called earwigs?
Ever wondered why they are called that? They don't live in ears.
They were originally called arsewigs, because their arse wiggles as they move.
At some point, the highers up in England decided that was too crude - and had it euphamised to earwig. A lot of words were dealt with in similar ways around that time.
Have you done it before? What was it like? And yeah, I was having my girlfriend send me some naked pictures the other night and asked if she wanted anything in return - her first request was to take a nice picture of my ass. Shit's fucking weird, man.
I dunno. Sometimes I'll jerk off to pegging videos, but, as I said, the thought of actually taking it up the ass via my girlfriend's dildo seems emasculating. Probably I'm completely wrong, but I feel like she'd see me as less of a man after penetrating me like that.
I ain't gonna lie a prostate massage feels good with a blowjob. Really good.
But I can't stand the thought of penetration, I need the spot hit with a vibrator or something. I can't stand it moving in and out.
And gettin that salad tossed feels good too
Wife and I bought a feeldoe and a harness. Put feeldoe through harness and it works wonders. Also this is a good time and if balls don't touch it isn't gay. Everyone knows that.
My girlfriend is pretty submissive usually, but we did a role reversal where she would be in control and she wanted to try it, and I have to admit that it felt fucking amazing.
If you never felt it, you're missing out.
It might be a bit gay, but who the fuck cares what you do in the privacy of your own bedroom, it's a great feeling and turns on my girlfriend like crazy so that's a win-win.
i wouldn't consider you gay if you tried it, but i'd consider you a sissy loser who rather tries to take it up the mangina instead of shoving your erect fleshstick up her pooper where it belongs.
anal sex is about dominance. if you're the bottom you're the bitch, and no girl wants a bitch bf
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Just accept it about the pictures and your butt - she just finds it attractive, like us looking at their boobs or butt.
About the emasculating - yeah I was concerned about that, and didn't really overcome that idea either - that's partly why it only happened once.
Also prevented me from enjoying the experience fully while it was happening.
It was soon forgotten though - so maybe you can try it. She might find it really exciting. My girlfriend was soaking wet after just a few minutes of doing my butt - I fucked her right afterwards, she was extremely horny.
Try it, put thoughts and worries out of your mind - your girlfriend seems really into it, so it will please her and turn her on, then fuck her in the butt afterwards.
Did you know that america deliberately changed the pronunciation of the letter 'zed' to 'zee' to distance themselves from England (after the revolution), and for no other reason. Seems petty, doesn't it.
Maybe we'll fight, maybe we will resolve our differences, maybe you will spread the word of arse far and wide.
this fucking guy made me lose it
I liked the emasculating aspects of it, but I also dom my girl. Tie her up, wax, biting, toy play, forced orgasm. So it's all about balance.
As far as we're concerned it's just another thing we have in our repertoire. Something to pull out of the bag of tricks if we're both feeling it.
I'm a 30 year old virgin, and I think it would be pretty hot for my first time to be with a woman using a strapon.
I used to watch alot of strapon porn, but I got tired of the 3 inch strapons used by women who barely move. Now I watch shemale porn instead.
Ok time to order one for gf.
Gonna buy one that stimulates her clit too.
Stay away from the vibrating ones if they vibrate the part that goes in your ass rather than just her clit. You can combine the strap-on harness and an Ohmybod wireless panty vibrator for her. Stay away from the starter ones. My girlfriend was worried they would be too big. I take bigger shits than most of those on average. Feeldoes + harness is good for her once she gets into a rhythm.
there must be some because a strapless trapon stimulates the clit so the whole idea is that the woman orgasms too, giving her the feeling shes the man...but i havnt been able to find any
Might as well ask here since some of you here might be gay and can answer this.
So here's a little story.
>Have girlfriend who's into doing prostate stimulation with me
>We never do more than maybe 2 fingers, and I never cum from it, but the feeling is indescribably amazing.
>Decide today to try buying a plug, so i go over to the gay community sex shop.
>Ask the guy at the counter which butt plug is the best they have.
>He shows me the NJoy Pure plug 2.0.
>He tells me it's hands free pleasure, takes a bit of time and a lot of lube to go in, but the feeling will be like nothing else on the market can even attempt to give.
>See the price is around almost $200, but it's on special for $50.
>Buy it, and decide I have enough lube at home to give this thing a shot.
>Get home, take a shower, take it out of the box, and begin the struggle.
>Took about 5mins to get it in, but once it was in it felt nothing like anything fingers could give.
>My cock was dripping and twitching immediately needing my gf to get home so I can fuck her silly.
>But then it happened.
>About 15mins in the feeling was too much.
>I came buckets, shooting tons about 12 times.
>Whole body starts shaking, I have no clue what's going on.
>Feel like I need to shit suddenly, badly.
>Pull the plug and my ass starts regurgitating like I've never felt before.
>What the fuck happened?
It felt so amazing, so why did my ass literally explode?
I want to use it again so badly, but I'm afraid I'll explode again.
>immune system trying to kill an invader outside of the blood system
Rather save money and get something decent. A feeldoe + a good quality harness is awesome.
We just found a harness she liked, and a dong with a suction base, it fits into the harness. She comes easily though, so if your lady takes a bit work, adding a vibrating component like a bullet vibrator or vibrating panty mods might be a good way to go.
Never did this before, does it feel weird, and is it much of an annoying task?
Also here's the plug, no vibrator or anything in it.
All those saying how can it he gay if I'm having seX with a woman? Your not having sex with her she's having sex with you. Coming from a gay strictly top that makes you more of a faggot than me sissy bitch now come here and feel some real meat in your ass I'll show you what you really want.
enema's are fairly weird feeling you want to do one roughly an hour before you start doing buttstuff, and another small one right before.
It is kind of annoying and is the biggest reason we typically skip butt play (her pegging) but they can be done quickly 5 minutes. Hell, get a plastic bottle of water, push out after taking a shit, push the water up your bum, squeeze water out. I used to have to do this in my dorms because it might look strange to take the sex shop enema thing in there.
I let my gf finger my butt. She says she's ok with it. I have no attraction to dudes. Not gay. You see, the male g spot in located inside the asshole. If macho faggots wanna be homophobic and miss out on the greatest orgasm ever then that's their choice.
i gotta agree, pegging is gay. doesn't mean you're gay, it just means at that moment you're enjoying some gay shit. if you like it more often than weekly, i'd say you're closeted.
I guess I'll give that a shot.
I just really wanna try this thing again, that's the first time I've ever had what one would call a shaking orgasm.
I definetly am gonna try to fuck my girlfriend silly with it in there next time.
Thanks again man.
The trannies you can find vs the trannies in porn are not nearly identical. Any attractive tranny is an escort making a circuit run through different cities.
Plus I really don't do ONS, and there is no way I'd let some stranger use a strap on me. It's quite a vulnerable experience that I wouldn't just do with any old whore. With a cool monogamous partner, it's much better.
Does enjoying a handjob from a girl make you gay?
Does enjoying a handjob from a guy make you gay?
Then the action doesn't make you gay, the gender of your partner does. Pegging is not gay, it's a girl goin the extra mile others won't. Some girls spit. Some girls swallow. If it doesn't matter to you, it doesn't matter to you. If it does, you found a diamond in a gravel pit.