I'm the anon towards the end of the cloud backup thread, there were three of you asking me how to talk to women. I'd posted some OC over there, and I'll bump this thread 5 times with OC and 4 times with screen caps of different ways to approach/talk to/sustain conversation.
To anyone new entering this thread, I have thousands of OC pics, and have slept with hundreds of women, this isn't an AMA, its just me in a bad mood trying to help some Anons before I try to get to sleep as its 530 here.
TL;DR I'm a male whore who sleeps with 90% women and 10% faggots, ask me shit only regarding talking to women.
Here's a romance, long term. Got tens of vids and hundreds of pics and regular fuck sessions.
Next pic I post will show you something. Make them focus on what they like about you. Ask them why they miss you.
Picture related. "Why do you miss me?"
Or "what do you miss about me?"
Make them want it.
Work up to it. No one ever started with anal. Research it. Find out why women like it, knowledge of biology is your best friend. Start very slow, a slipped tongue here or a wandering finger there.
you might be good at hooking up with sluts but do you ever suck at taking pictures.
Sometimes its quick. Sometimes its a fuck. Sometimes they want romance. Can't stress this enough KNOW YOUR AUDIENCE.
okay anon here's my problem
i can talk to women, i can make them giggle, i can make the conversation sexual
my problem is competition.
EVERY WOMAN is always with at least another dude
that dude is never too kindly to see you tryin to get a girl
but even worse every time i meet a cute girl, she always bangs one of my friends
sure, girls love me, i'm good lookin, but the other guy always gets picked over me
Be suggestive but not outright. Feel it out. The quickest way you're gonna get caught is being obtuse.
You wanna take the first approach.
Its because you dont make a move. 90% of girls wanna fuck, they are just waiting for you to engage them. I missed out on some fine pussy that wS sleeping in my bed just because I didnt make a move.
then tell those cunts to take a hike. always believe that you are worth more than a chick. not in an asshole way, in a confident way. you are your own keeper, anon. bitches love a man with a spine. if they wanna fuck some other dude, cut em off.
Confidence, and competence.
Your words speak louder than actions when it comes to women. They likely pull them off you because they demonstrate a confidence you don't, they actually try to seal the deal, or you're friend zoning yourself. Be suggestive, but in a comical/flirty way. Make them initiate the sexual shit/flirting.
You're looking for sluts.
Try military wives, or high school partiers. If you want to pull a Virgin it'll be an investment of time and energy, they're clingly and needy. If you just want a fuck then get a slut, but that's instant gratification. I prefer investments.
Picture also related:
Fat chicks are easy as a general rule. They suck dick better and try harder than most.
Infidelity is welcome in my thread. If you continue to white knight I will stop posting OC.
>actually shooting a dildo out, across the bed.
everybody always says confidence. confidence is absolutely not my problem.
in fact, when i'm the most confident is ALWAYS when i fail the hardest
girls just get REALLY mad when at me when i flirt with them. i just have a knack for pissing them off. i'm honestly a real asshole and don't put up with bitches' shit
and no its definitely not because i dont make a move. i can't even get the girls to hang out with me to make a move in the first place. trust me i'd make it. i used to be super alpha then i moved to a new city and i haven't gotten pussy in a long time since
You have to put up with their shit to some extent man.
You're on a lonely road with that mindset. Some bitches need romance, or just get them fucking horny.
So there are 2 types of people! First one like my brother! He is always lying saying stupid things like your face is like a sweet star and so on and then there are other people like a friend of me which is an asshole allways playing bad cop! Both are very sucessful! I like to be smart, also have enough girls, but i know the other one are because of there strategies more sucessful! What is your opinion about this?
If that's all you want to do you can
>play the tech guy.
Demonstrate how good you are with technology and check her pictures/email when she needs you to run a virus scan or some shit.
>get her cloud info
Lots of Anons here can download a cloud backup. That's 100's of pictures instead of 3-4.
keep calm and dont try to get laid all the time. girls like challenges too.
it's just you're available all the time, so you must be less worth someone who doesn't look that interested.
it's pretty easy if you're good looking
Go away heaven. I've posted 5 different conversations and they're all days long. So, no.
Hahaha true facts.
Plus they're so much more willing being that they want your approval.
see girls always think i'm hot until they talk to me, then they just think i'm a nutjob. i'm kinda throwed off and sometimes the shit i say doesn't make any sense
i get girls numbers pretty frequently, but they NEVER answer or text back
This anon speaks truth. I can't tell you how much hornier some bitches get after you make them wait
You need to learn how to engage.
Check your approach on the number, watch body language, and don't fly in too hot after you get it
I have fucked a lot of married women, women in relationships, and cheated a lot. Fact is its gonna happen, I am here for the next 17 minutes to ensure it happens smart.
Wrote my number on a piece of paper and threw it next to her while walking past her, then told her she dropped something.
I've a number of different ways to pull the attention and/or number.
Then you have to engage.
Then you have to seal the deal.
In my experience it all depends on who she is and what you want from her, how you're gonna act. Engaging the target is universal.
Know your audience.
(This one has daddy issues. Gotta make her feel like shit to keep her interested)
7 minutes and I'm out.
My KiK is
"bitcheslovemywords" for any Anons who want advice after I leave before the 404 as I've been solo bumping lol.
Sucking dick is a tricky business. Mostly you want lower self esteem or daddy issues. Otherwise you need to make her want to please you.
I've met a few who wouldn't suck dick, until I ate that pussy like the last supper, then I teased them for days until they were feral and lustful and they took the initiative.
Also, sexting is the answer. A bitch will entertain an idea via text that she won't in person. Warm her mind up before touching her body.
Picture very related.
More OC for you kind anon
I've had a few high schoolers in my twenties (all legal age of consent where state law applied)
Walk up next to them in school/outside of school "There's an error in my phone" and wait until they ask you what it is. Pretend you don't even notice them. Bitches love to be nosy.
When they ask. Make eye contact and "It doesn't have your number in it"
Hand them the phone. Works for me 19 times out of 20.
Primarily its a state of mind. A yearning for attention. Once you've got a girl with daddy issues hooked she will do everything to earn your approval/admiration
issue is that i am short, red haired, and have no muscles. the main problem is primarily my attractiveness. i work out at the gym a lot to work on my body, but am i forever doomed until i get ripped/grow/dye my red fucking hair?
I'm overweight, hairy, have pierced nipples and an average sized dick.
You're not going to get any women with that attitude. Its about what you say, and how you say it, bitches care about body type 1/10th as much as men do.
Shallow ones do.
Ones like >>565392475 on the right sometimes do.
What most men fail to realize is that bitches get off in their head way more than in their body. If you make chemistry, if you play to your audience, if you know how to treat the different kinds of women then it doesn't matter. I've had lasting fucks with moms where I know my dick is too small for their gaping pussyhole that got tore up by a screaming tiny human, but I make up for it by making them feel good and they usually let me finish inside/suck me off/let me do anal even though they won't let their husbands do it because I stimulate them, emotionally and physically, and that's what women need.
You've ignored everything I've posted in this thread. I've outlined different types of women, high class low class single married fat skinny, all 100% OC.
I'm 6" if I'm generous to be honest. Lol.
Depends. Nigresses usually just want a fuck.
Black chicks like non-black men who demonstrate intellectual prowess.
Never been a fan of Asians. Had a couple but I didn't pay attention much.
Never been with one.
Although in my line of work I frequently work in sales, but that's hardly relevant considering its raises prices not lowering them.
Hahaha. I'm cool with that. I'd like to see more men do what I do, and play the man that women need them to be. With the exception of two women I've been with, I could call any one of them today and have them in my bed tonight.
No chick is quiet. None of them. Find her interests and hobbies. The shy ones are usually the freakiest/most malleable. The shy girls I've broken in I usually end up in Sub-Dom relationships or they get extremely clingly. You have to engage them and keep them interested. Find common ground and abuse it.
Moaning is female dependent. If you want them to make noise slip it in their ass.
"It's better to ask forgiveness than permission"
Make them need you. Reel them in then ignore.
Time, BAC, girl, tightness, how my day was. All of these play a factor. Proper masturbation techniques will dictate this the most.
That's more topLels than you think. I'm only 22 since we're being honest here.
Someone in XXXXX posted a "how do you wank" meme in a chat I'm in,
So I had to weigh in, naturally, with this;
My "wank" style isn't on there. You see, if a male masturbates with proper technique he can train his body and become a better and more effective lover. You can accomplish this by "edging"
Slow and loose handed masturbation designed to take a long time, and you finish on command rather than via physical action. You finish with your mind, not an apex of quick movement and sweating. This will increase the male's ability to maintain an erection, and his longevity in bed.
If you, like most men do and I do on occasion, beat it like it owes you money there are three seriously negative effects (just off the top of my head)
1) You train your body to only respond to your touch, and instant gratification detracts from you ability to enjoy/participate in foreplay (which is critical to a woman's ability to achieve climax) so you don't get as hard, for as long, and you aren't as receptive to your partner's touch.
2) Hyperextension of the penile vessels will render more problems with erectile dysfunction earlier in life. Your penis and brain learn that its reproductive function is bang bang squirt sleep.
3) You actually condition your body to finish as soon as it can. Its like having a button that you push and orgasm. Men and women both would push it frequently, but it aggressive masturbatory techniques do the same. Instead of Pavlov's dogs where a bell rang and they started to salivate, as soon as you start to get sexually aroused your body starts preparing for climax.
Look towards the beginning of this thread, I outlined about 5-6 different female types/approaches.
Nope. That one isn't.
And the rest have been, but that one I just really, really like.
I've used the sharpie trick on hella females.
This one too, let me see if I still have the photos but she did mostly vids.
Make them masturbate with a sharpie in their ass.
As many as I want hahaha.
Nice IASIP reference, it works. >>565400050
Its not the same for me. For /b/ros its about making sluts obey. I use it because it warms girls up for anal play. I usually use it in-person with chicks who have never done anal. It makes them cum harder because of how the rectal and vagina muscles interact when they clench during intercourse/climax.
False. I'm rejected less than 10% of the time. Like I've said, its confidence and competence. Knowledge of biology, and a light psychology background. Mostly shit you can read online.
You faggot. I was gonna go to sleep an hour ago. How many of these questions did you already know the answers to in order to keep me awake and posting OC? Hahaha.
Me and my gf are fuckin weird relationship right now. She has a controlling / bitch personality. I'm not, I'm level-headed, I own a world record in deadlifting, I'm nice, I get her things, put up with her, listen to her, etc.
But how the FUCK do I control this girl? It's so damn hard. She's socially awkward and wants to be controlled despite sayng she hates it. I just don't know wtf to do to control this bitch. Sexually I had everything, I could make that bitch scream and curl her toes and yell my name, but other than that it's hard as fuck to control her. Help
Unfortunately not off of the top of my head. I don't have any sources for any photos I've posted here either as they're all personal with the exception of
Ask any specifics you want, I can paraphrase easily.
Oh and how do approach them. Example: There's a interesting I see Ina bar or club, with friends or alone. What to do? And later: In case she is with friends, how to isolate her in a good way?
Everywhere. Pick them up in schools, parties, hospitals. Sometimes I'll go on an army base and get numbers of lonely wives in the commissary, nothing feels better than getting a text saying "He just left" haha.
Okay man. Take a breath. First you need to weigh pros and cons. Take a yellow legal pad out and list them on each side. Sometimes its better just to cut sling load.
IF you find she's worth it, here's what you do. Start a sub-Dom relationship. Tie her up, abuse her holes, choke her, slap her. Before that put yourself in a Dom role by teaching her things. Anything. Make it trivial but on topics she likes. Once she seeks knowledge from you, that's when you start being more dominant in the bedroom.
After that, carry your play into public. Have her in a skirt, lubed clear marbles in her ass, no panties. Tell her if she drops a single one she gets punished when y'all get home, but if she doesn't then you'll reward her. Start getting more intricate and controlling with public play. Wireless panties etc do wonders.
She won't realize how blurred the lines of your sexual relationship and personal relationship get, and you'll end up with more control than you want. She'll also likely get clingier.
Isolation; wingman is the best method, or watch her when she goes for a drink or something.
Psychology; black or bright tone clothing is approachable. Any neutral pastel tones say she's only out with her friends. When talking to her watch her pupils and arms. If her stance is closed then she's not picking up what you're laying down OR she's vulnerable and off guard. If she touches her neck she's vulnerable. Watch higher parts of the cheeks. Cheek-forehead flush and dilation show that her brain is stimulated. Low cheek flush means her body is. If she's looking/glancing to the right (your left) shes being honest. If she's looking/glancing to your right she's lying or trying to make herself sound more interesting.
That's a wonderful plan but can you think of other ways, sexually or not? She's a surgeon and I think it'd be hard for her to focus with lubricated marbles in her ass, fearing a punishment when she gets home.
As far as knowledge...
She's the smartest girl I have ever fucking met. I mean academically and practically. She is a fuckin idiot one time she asked me which side cars drive on the road. It's hard to find something she would need to seek knowledge from. Perhaps I can school her on cars, but I don't think she's going to like that. But I can do it with fishing, she always has a blast with that.
Clubs/bars are usually for fucks.
Try meeting chicks at a place you enjoy but don't frequent. I'll go over to the next town to pick up nerd bitches at the bookstore; the quiet ones who are kinktacular.
Making up a % but usually 70% of women know before they leave the house whether they're going home with someone.
You sadistic fuck. I didn't say all day. Just a couple hours at the mall when you two are together lol.
Controlling women are the best to break, once you do you own them.
Non sexual Dom progression? Just take point. Decide where you're going to dinner. Be manly and shit. She will get comfortable with that and it'll bleed over. Either way you're in for a long haul, 3 months is the longest its taken me to brainwash/reprogram, but I was born to manipulate.
You're excused. Bye.
Provided the age of consent is legal in a state where I may have possibly had sexual relations with a female I would reckon the youngest I've been with is 14.
>Like I've said, its confidence and competence. Knowledge of biology, and a light psychology background.
What do you mean?
Confidence in what, competence of what? Which psychology background?
In general: What a tip would you give? What is important and what should be avoided?
Do you ever get worried they'll tell their friends and family about you? AOC in my state is 16 and I get a lot of them hitting on me but getting a rep for being a "pedo" or getting an angry parent at my door scares the shit out of me
the women are played and dont realize it
the way succeful players (like OP apparently) communicate with women
what superficial shit results from that
I'd never want a women who falls for cheap shit like that
>improve self, disregard females
Any women will fall for this, relax dude. Mating is about being the optimal partner, that's what I'm teaching.
Early sixties. She looked good for her age but was shallow as fuck. I try to stay between 22-48.
Unless you're picked up by three who are going to sleep together, or three massive and indiscriminate sluts, that won't happen. Look for a BDSM club in your area to work up to that, or make very good friends with three different girls.
Competence in your art. Pleasing, engaging, and flirting. Some of it takes practice, but if you're smart it'll come quick.
Its basically acting when it comes down to it, play on biology and psychology.
Psychology being body language, what types of women there are and how you respond to it.
Either with two sluts at a bar, two lesbian lovers who you've worked your way close to, a girlfriend and a random slut, or a girlfriend and one of her friends.
>Protip; its not all its cracked up to be.
I'm 100% natural.
All of these methods and advice are mine, inherent prowess, learned skills, and honed intent.
the only difference is that you are taught, as a "PUA"
and things are categorized from openners, to transitions and finishers.
meh, sarging is really just socializing effectively with strangers
From a biological standpoint read a hundred different articles on what it takes to make a woman climax, and the different types.
From a psychological standpoint watch TED talks on power poses and what they do. Watch for the cheek flush, the pupils dilating, more thought between words. Where she's looking, whether she's touching her neck or not, and how close you can get to her without it being creepy.
>Bitches love talking. Period.
Even when it comes down to sublingual communication. They tell you more with how they're standing, what they're wearing, facial expressions and arm movements than their words ever will. Even if you don't give a fuck what she's saying, be honest about faking, if that makes sense? You don't have to actually be interested, you can be interested in faking interest and it will come off as legit.
He learned on his own and didn't used a method. If he learned outside the communities, then he's a natural. If he said he was a PUA and used a method, I would read up on the method. Now that I know he's a natural, I'm going to save the thread and read it completely.
This is all over complicating it, I think. All you have to do is read up on the pussy, body language, and be relatively hygienic, and semi-confident. That's it. Mostly the latter in my experience.
At a certain point you realize how to make them think of the nudes first, and baiting them into complete adoration. That's what pays off long term.
I guess, you don't exactly understand. I'm furthermore interested in talking to women and getting to know them.
It's good to know, how to make them climax and satisfy them, but how about the steps before this? Or do I not understand you correctly and what you try to explain?
Yes, the PUA communities. Many of the techniques and routines in the seduction communities have come from modeling the behavior of naturals like you, taking the behaviors that work, and amplifying them.
Part of getting to know them is knowing that you know what a woman wants and will respond to.
You will never have that natural feeling confidence if you don't hit the books, or the google. Start with the most interesting, before I ever saw there are more than one type of female orgasm, I studied the psychological side of it. Behavioral patterns, stances. Shit that companies use to evaluate employees and cops use to determine guilt. Many of them have online guides.
Then get into the biological side of it.
Why do you, as a man, like titties? Its not the titties, its pheromones. Larger breasts means more pheromones means greater attraction. (Text book)
Why do men like asses? Wider hips, wider birth canal potential, healthier offspring.
Now learn why women like broad shoulders, or a strong jaw. Once you realize how to manipulate their feral attraction at the very basic instinct levels, and you understand body language, you have no choice but to be confident.
That's fascinating! I may have to look into that. I've always been put off by commercialized seduction, not because I'm not interested (I am a business management diploma holder and love business in any form), but because I feel as though learning on my own, with my skill set, with my own studies has given me far greater insight.
It also allows me to hone my methods specifically, because its much better to improve upon what I know I can do rather than working from scratch.
Contrary to what many have posted here, I don't solely prey on low self esteem or larger women. I've tried every flavor, type, religion, nationality etc. if they would have read, I suggested those as starter-kit women for the art of mating, and maintaining relationships.
so you say, confidence is one key?
I have to know, that I want this chick in bed? Or is there more?
some off topic question: What does it mean, if a girl says, she like me, but there isn't more than friendship? What should I do and how to react/handle this (in a confident way)?
I've also, in my travels, seen I can influence interaction via body language in two ways.
I can either read theirs, and change what I'm saying/doing to influence it, or I can change my own body language to send the signal I want to send. Often they go hand in hand, but you can isolate both sides of the coin and see what works best for who you are, what you are, and what you're working with.
With stronger women ill read body language and change my words/actions based on what they're not saying.
Weaker wills I will typically modify my own body language to send the "hey, I'm actually into you" messages.
But it still comes down to what you have to work with and with whom you're working.
influencing body laguage is such a weird/awesome thing
how you can change a person attitude by simply
or making them chnage their body position
works both ways huh
sent you kik btw
Anons don't listen to this phoney faggot, hes putting on the dog for all of you.
Anyone who spends time on 4chan could easily obtain these images.
Some of the stuff about confidence is true, but most is theatrics.
Maybe I should commercialize it. Start making some money off of this.
"Sarge" is just going and doing?
You already know you want her in bed. You have to learn what to do with her once she is there, know why she got into bed with you in the first place, and what her body is saying that her lips aren't once she's there.
No. False. There is no such thing as the friendzone. With the exception of my sister-in-law I have never met a woman who I was able to be "just friends" with.
I'll tell you like I see it, and I don't have a clue if there's a shred of research to back this. In order to be friends, you have to have mutual interest(s). Be they hobbies, or just something you can talk about. You have to play on that, and work your way up. If she says you're only a friend, that means you're not taking point in the relationship. Stick to something you know, and you know well. I'm a pretty hardcore gamer sometimes, and I'll brag to popular snotty bitches who don't know the difference between an Xbox and PS3. But, its not about how you brag, I tell them I like PvP. Don't get into game content, they don't care. Mention something about how great you are at beating other people at their own game; that shows you have greater skills to offer than other men and thereby are a better choice of mate.
As far as leaving the "friend zone" its about not ever, ever thinking of yourself as a friend. A week from now you'll have done a ton of research (and you better hit me up on KiK at "bitcheslovemywords" because I want to see this through) and will know exactly why you're not a friend. But don't cross over from cocky to douche, that's a fine line to walk. Instead, take a subject you've mastery in (underwater basket weaving) and take her to your UWBW club, show her how good you are, but eat a fat slice of humble pie beforehand. Every morning when I wake up I read "the one thing that I absolutely know, is that I know absolutely nothing"
You fucked a 14 year old?
Why don't you have a seat over there? I want to ask you a few questions.
My issue had never been if I can get a chick interested or want to fuck, I figured that out in high school. My problem had always been finding somewhere to fuck said chick. Ever since 18 I've been living with someone pretty much non stop. That, and I don't want random crazy bitches knowing where I live.
>pic related random crazy bitch that got SUPER clingy
Reverse image search any picture in this thread that I've posted except the one I openly said wasnt OC. You're a faggot for discouraging these fine men from seeking legitimate help.
Sleep well. Hahaha. I started this thread 4 hours ago and had planned to leave as soon as possible, but an inner fire awoken "if you love what you do, you'll never work a day in your life" I'll reply 5 sure.
Thanks man, I'll definitely be in touch. Body language is fascinating but I like going deeper than just mirroring techniques. I'll test myself by watching the mood of a woman from across the room, making estimations on her day and her life, and then talking to her to see if I'm accurate, which is about 70% of the time. For someone with no professional training I think its pretty good.
When I was 14 myself, anon. (= Thats well within legal limits silly head.
Clingy is good for long term investment if you want to collect dividends instead of a lump sum. Get creative. I've fucked chicks pretty much everywhere, but local parks are a favorite. Sitting on a bench while she's in a sundress and you're in gym shorts, looking like lustful lost lovers, no one really questions in. At my work bathroom, in my truck, in their car/truck. If you're worried about where you live, get them to bring you back to their place instead.
Dude. You've been riding this ship with me almost since I set sail.
You're hereby named first mate.
Use this photograph of my penis wisely, it will get you attention. With great penis comes great responsibility.
Has anyone been keeping track of how much OC I've posted? I said I would only post 4, but I think I'm still on 3.
Having only been lurking /b/ for a few years, I'm still not entirely sure. When does OP stop being a faggot?
I always went back to her place, but she starred getting noisy about mine. This chick was crazy, like... knife you in your sleep crazy if her mood flipped.
I've had stalkers. Plenty of them. Part of the art of seduction is side step and distraction. I've been talking to this one chick for years and she's asked about a hundred times about social networks and I only added her on MySpace about a year ago. Hahaha.
Use bait, or feign commitment, but be subtle. The one thing that will make crazy bitches crazier if if you aren't subtle about distraction.
Was also apparently vehemently against dudes eating her out... except when I did it. She told me about how absolutely confused she was about how vulnerable she got around me. Never once sent a dude pics of her pussy except for the two she sent me like almost a year after I met her. She'd sent ass and tits galore, and even let me take a few of her blowing me. Refused to let me take pics of her pussy.
Keep reading, you might learn something. That's just one of many methods/types/women that I've posted. Don't be so quick to rush judgement, it'll hurt your love life.
Not a model
Typical outfits are pajama pants/gym shorts with a hoodie and boots. If I'm clubbing its the go-to jeans and a button up. 80% of the time I'm wearing a hoodie. As I've said in this thread. Its not how you look, its how you talk and how you are.
Self esteem/daddy issues. Those are th easiest by far, but its a slippery slope for sure man. Just balance them, play the reel in game but make them feel like you're always just about to commit. As I said, dividends. I'm more about long term investments.
Btw, I've done almost all of the shit you brought up, with my own natural intuitive take on it.
It's really all about making the girl NEED to fuck. Like... a deep, primal, unavoidable need. Then getting them to aim all of that lust at you. Even in a relationship, she won't even think twice until maybe afterward. By then, if you didn't blow it, she'll equate that urge/satisfaction with you and you are in like Flynn.
Thank you first mate.
About two years ago before I started having health issues (incurable genetic diseases with pain), I only weighed 170. I'm up to 245 now, but I have gotten more play since getting sick than before, probably because I've had more time to focus on honing my skills.
my kik is telling me, the message has been send, but isn't delivered. Because of that I've asked for email.
Here's a temporary email, at least to start: firstname.lastname@example.org
Yeah, Pavlov's vagina is a solid method to work off of, but for the longer term investments I like to get in deep, like a DEA agent in the Hell's Angels. Juggling texts and times and finding the balance between commitment and being just out of arms reach. Its a balancing act but its so satisfying when you know you're a fisherman and every rod you own has something on the hook. (=
Nope. Not here to share OC, its just there to back up my claims to be here to help.
I've replied Anon. No worries.
I've done that as well
>pic related, another girl
Another random girl I could call at any time to fuck
I am a bit fat, hairy, short, and not that good looking at all. But I keep hooking up or dating girls hotter than me. It's all about your approach and knowing how to talk to them without sounding beta. OP confirm i'm not shitposting
I got out of cheating on my long term gf by telling her a bunch of soppy shit such as;
>been thinking about you all week
>this is tearing me up
>i thought we had something
It fucking worked because I never really show my feelings so to her she thought I was opening up.
That, was a good day.
Whoa! Nice bumps. I expected this to be dead. I'm back now!
Thank you Anon!
Yeah-no. I'm here to help Anons not devolve into specific fetishes.
Affirmative what >>565414591 said. "Taking point" is currently a colloquialism for taking the lead, it originated in police/military maneuvers for the person who would lead the front of, or the point, or a formation.
Confirmed not shit posting. Shit dude I posted >>565411039 so its not like I'm some sort of super model. Hahaha. Its all about how you say what you say. Its about what I've been teaching >>565411634 this anon. That confidence is taught, not inherent. That knowledge actually is power when it comes to the female sex.
This is a whole 'other level of fuckery. Emotional terrorism/guilt trips. That's an art form in and of itself, while it has similar attributes to seduction (manipulation) it preys on being able to manipulate their emotions by either strategically presenting yours, or playing directly on theirs.
Emotional terrorism part Duex.
Making amends for things you've done, preying on insecurities, manipulating what the female you've target feels, all of this falls into what this anon is getting at.
Part of honing emotional terrorism for your use is a combination of words and/or actions. It depends on who you're with and what your end goal is. You can make your prey feel as though you're the vulnerable one (as demonstrated in his post) or you can make them feel the vulnerable one.
THIS IS A MID-HIGH TIER RESPONSE/MANIPULATION AND SHOULD BE USED WITH EXTREME CAUTION. It is far too often that men try this too hard, or simply that the woman is better. Women are built for this, so you're essentially fighting fire with fire here.
The easiest emotional terrorism maneuver is simply playing the victim card. As seen above. "I'm hurting deeply" or whatever you'd say it yourself. Don't sound forced, and don't cross the line from faux-vulnerable to being a bitch. Also you will be labelled as crazy if you play this incorrectly. You will be "that guy" as anon >>565411073 stated about the girl.
That being said, if you wield this maneuver with proper timing and aimed tactics, you can inflict some serious emotional damage and they will take it over from there.
Making her the victim only works on more sub, or weaker willed, women. Typically the ones with daddy issues. You have to make them feel like its their fault whatever happened, without sounding like an asshole. In order to put them into the victim position, you have to shift the blame, carefully.
>Pic related very
Not that impressive, but not below average. Just about run of the mill. Technique and mental stimulation is more important than what you're actually packing.
Picture second part of emotional terrorism making them the bad guy, as it were.
Letting her simmer, merry, fester, however you want to phrase it, for 3-5 days is the golden mark. This is were your brief phone conversation, or couple of texts, will sit on her mind. She will repeat what you said over and over and internalize the turmoil, and make it up to you in spades.
For those really concerned about how they look and whether it actually matters, I'm stupidly average looking. Dick size isn't that big a deal to most chicks also. I'm the same size/girth of a rabbit vibe. (Had a girl compare me to hers by holding it against me... She laughed. I laughed.)
Then a single text will produce results like
She is now even further indebted to you and taught not to ask if you're a player.
EMBRACE WHAT THE FUCK YOU HAVE ANONS.
Seriously. It won't change. You may gain some if you lose weight, or change your diet to increase bloodflow (which I have a diet outline on that too, if anyone is interested), and if you change your masturbation techniques from just trying to cum to dick training.
But, accept what you have. You have a penis, it is your penis. You have a gift, as it is a penis.
Own the bitch's mind, and length and girth won't matter nearly as much as you've convinced yourself.
My height is national average, my weight is about 50 pounds overweight, I have less than 5$ to my name and I am unemployed, all of these women know this.
It really doesn't though.
I've been with girls of all sorts of races and all sorts of backgrounds. Get to the point they see you naked in person and that girl well not care what you have as long as she can feel it.
>pic related, nothing special
I must be off, as I have a lunch date. I have kept this thread alive for 5 hours now, what y'all do with it is up to you. Every personal picture (sans one) is OC. Keep it bumped, let it die, archive it. I really don't care, its in the community's hands now.
Feel free to KiK me at "bitcheslovemywords"
I will answer as soon as its not compromising to answer.
Its been a lovely ride, and good luck manipulating!!!
No offense, I get why you would consider yourself average but you do have an edge against asians, indians, blacks and middle eastern people considering you live in a western country because it's acceptable to date white people in general whereas other races not so much.
Other races will also have to deal with biases some girls have about them based on their race whereas white is generally accepted as right.
I'm not saying you guys are wrong. Yes, confidence and dominating her emotionally do work but there are other factors that are important as well.
Godspeed Blackrock (I dunno why, but that's what I've been calling you based off of your ID)