How do I make ex girlfriends and girls who don't want to date me, regret it for the rest of their lives?
It seems like not only can i not hold onto a girl for more than a few weeks, but they end up happier without me
How do I change this? I want girls to come back begging, only to realize they fucked up forever
be a fucking amazing person/boyfriend. also be really good in bed. no girl who breaks up with you is going to be like this, but of the 4 girls ive broken up with, all 4 i know i left a lasting impression on, hell all 4 still keep in contact with me randomly, mostly through drunk texts
I don't care what's easier anymore
I'd rather be one that gets what he wants, than some asshole who settles on making everyone else happy
What other ways are there? I want to be successful for myself, not to spite someone else
Is this a joke?
Seriously, let go.
And if you really want/need their validation, just act like the girl breaking up is the best thing that has happened to you.
Do you know what really bugs women? When they're not on your radar. When they think you're better off without them. When you're happier with someone else and not paying attention to them.
And, if they dont care, you still win anyway.
>Just do better.
Realistically they are better than you and you somehow have been able to reach up to them. Your a bottom dweller and the further you reach for the stars the more pitiful your life will be.
I've been with three girls, each one an upgrade from the one before. What else is there? I want it to hurt, badly. To the point they lay awake at night, regretting it.
I know what my problems with women are, but care to humor me anyway?
How does one become a better "catch" because I really dont know. And I'm fine with being a douche it just sucks that every girl that has left seems to be happier without me, even if it is on the surface
I have no idea how to be in a long term relationship. I get pissed off too easily and I want sex all the time, far more than those girls were willing to give
Once a woman has formed an opinion of you it is very difficult to change it. You need to be reasonably content with yourself and recognise that you do not need a woman to be complete. Only when you have attained that better security will you be able to win over women. Unfortunately they have a disproportionate amount of confidence and options, owing to the myth of being equal. You have to be able to keep her attention long enough that she begins to think about you, rather than herself.
But I don't care about being "the man" women want. I want hot women that love sex, and want to have a lot of it. It's pretty simple
It's not about having their validation, it's about making them regret leaving and thinking they were better off without me. And making girls who rejected me regret it too.
Even the girls I don't pay attention too anymore, a lot of them seem happier without. I'm talking mainly about my exs here, I don't bother pursuing girls that reject me before we have sex. At least not more than a handful of times.
That's somewhat true, but I'd rather aim high and get a view of what's up there than aim low and be miserable
Makes sense, but if they don't want to have sex there is only so much I can do. It's usually the second time that is great for me
Every time she spends the night, put a nicotine patch on her arm. Take it off before she wakes up.
Eventually she'll start feeling miserable without you (and the nicotine). Her smaller female brain won't be able to distinguish between the two. You'll become her addiction. She'll start going out of her way just to see you.
When you break up, she'll go through the withdrawals- irritability, headaches, loss of appetite. And all she'll be thinking is how much she wants to spend the night with you.
Okay, this is how it goes. You get an orangutan. I'm not talking a little monkey or some some dancing chimp bullshit, I mean a fucking orangutan.
Don't ask me how you're gonna get a fucking orangutan, because that's not my problem.
So the orangutan's name is Clyde. This is non-negotiable; all orangutans are named Clyde. I don't know why that is, it's just how the world works. So
you and Clyde become man (and ape) about town. You're seen everywhere together, you make the scene. You and friends go out in big groups. You
talk loud, you laugh louder. Every time you say something witty, you high-?ve the orangutan. The town begins to buzz. It gets back to her. "Did you
know the guy with the orangutan?", "You used to date the guy with the orangutan?", ‘Why would you break up with a guy with an orangutan'?" Next
thing you know she's calling.
"l'm hoping we can still be friends. Wanna hang out sometime?"
"Geez, I dunno; me and Clyde were going to go to a monster truck race tonight (orangutans love monster trucks). In fact, the whole social calendar
seems kinda full. I tell you what, I'll make a little note (what was your name again?) and maybe I can squeeze you in. Oh, well, you know my number
so don't be a stra— Hey, look at the time! I gotta skate, Clyde's making Mojitoes."
At this point the upper hand is yours. You can let her twist in the wind, you can draw her back into your life at the pace you decide. Whatever, it's
your life. But if you're a smart man? You slowly phase her back in. You're IM-ing. You're talking on Live. You get invited to family functions. You bring
Clyde, he becomes like one of the family. You're one big Brady Bunch.
Holy shit this is fucking sad OP. The fact that you're obsessing over them, fantasizing over them crawling back to you means that you're incredibly insecure. The best way to get back at anyone who left you is to just do you, become successful, and ignore them. They won't regret leaving you if you try to make them regret leaving you. I mean, you sound like you're definitely in high school, idk just get super ripped and fuck her friends as a back up plan.
>Get better looks
>Make them jealous by making out with a girl that is an upgrade infront of them
Pretty much it. Girls take everything up the ass (no pun intended) so it's not that hard to make them upset
you gay or what?
Perhaps now they are, but in the long run they won't be. And that's the funniest part about this whole thing.
How is anything I said make me insecure? Because I don't understand how these girls are happier without me or rather I don't want them to be? Even if it is insecure I couldn't give two fucks
> I do want money, but for myself. I don't spend shit on girls now and I don't plan on doing it when I have it
How fucking stupid can you be? He posted a comparison to what you are saying
You're insecure because you give a shit about what they think about you, you want to change their opinions of you so badly that you post on a Japanese inspired image board to get advice on how to make them regret leaving you. Just be you, and confident, and kind and sincere with people, know you're worth being around, and know that anyone who chooses not to be with you is missing out.
As below so above. As within so without.
Clearly youre a spite filled pos and when they realize how creepy and hate filled you are they live.
Stop being an asshole and they wont leave you op
>making girls who rejected me regret it too
Then be successful for yourself and forget about making other people's lives miserable just to make yourself feel better, you wannabe sadist.
Given your age, have you tried mowing your neighbor's lawn or getting a paper route?
>how do i make them regret leaving
You're asking the wrong question. The question should be "how can I stop being such an insufferable douche so that one sticks around?"
The only constant in all your failed relationships is you.
question, since you seem to be answering a lot, should i invite a girl to arlington national cemetery where i have a few friends buried at, and i have never gone, or is that personal thing i should do alone?
If they want to leave, what can i do? I'm not gonna beg a girl to be with me. If you have feelings for somebody you stay, even if you have to deal with some bullshit. But of course girls dont have to do shit to have options so they don't do that
Not OP, but I'll answer.
That's more of a thing for a very LTR, as in like a wife or something. If you have a girl whom truly loves you and is into, say, sociology or religion, that might be a good "date" if you play it off as struggling with stress / anxiety, but otherwise that's an incredibly personal subject that is best left alone until you have a very strong romantic partner, and not someone you occasionally meet and fuck.
Honestly, if a girl I dated did that, it would redflag immediately as depression / instability issues. Just saying.
Now, if the girl is into paranormal, sure it's the perfect date.
In other words, it all depends on her general interests and how long you've been together.
This is me
I'm a dick and tell women that they only get one chance. When they fuck up I end it so hard I don't bother to spare feelings. I usually tell them they have a good future as a town bicycle and they will fail at their relationships
then I never talk to them again. Nor pay them any attention to them
It has caused:
several exgf to marry and then get a divorce
approach me and then get denied so badly they leave in tears
at the end of the day I feel like a monster
but that feels good at this point
Right now I'm focusing on actually getting the women I want consistently. Its not that they leave that bothers me, its that they leave and then end up happier for it
One "long term" and fucked two others
OP, this is the formula. Listen to me.
Act disinterested mostly. And fucking prevail in your daily life. Dress sharp, live well. Laugh.
They see that shit and instant regret sets in.
Whatever you do, never tell a bitch how into her you are. Unless you're marrying her.
Yeah, you don't know shit about girls. You're going to have to cut out the "I'm not spending a dime on the opposite sex" shit, you're coming off homosexual. A little money = vagina, face the flame.
Again, they are happier for not having to be around your douchebag self any more. You are destructive and people are happier not having you in their lives. You can accept that or change it, but if you accept it your problems won't go away.
>I fucking hate cunts like you
Good because I hate money grubbing sluts like you
>"One Chance" you sound like a massively insecure narasistic fuckwit from the start.
Good glad you're mad it's the whole point.
>Is your name Dean by any chance?
Nope but interestingly I saw a dean do this. She was one slutty bitch who keep getting drunk and flirting with other guys. Definitely not gf material but she kept dragging him through the emotional shitter every weekend and he finally had enough. After seeing that then experiencing it myself I too began to act like this.
So I'm gay for not buying my way into sex?
You're a woman, aren't you?
Makes sense, but at this point I don't know how to change. I'm angry at myself and the world. I'm sick of feeling like this but at the same time, I hate everything around me. And at the end of the day, the only thing i want is sex. I don't care about starting a family or any of that shit because I'm not at that point in my life
>You are destructive and people are happier not having you in their lives.
Actual solution: Find someone equally destructive in the same way. You can then come to understand each other and it won't bother either of you.
>Makes sense, but at this point I don't know how to change.
You don't have to 'change' you just have to compromize yourself the way chicks see that you're different with them compared to the rest of the world because you care about them.
Long-term wise, it WILL likely change you if you accept compromise as a way of sustaining your relationship, but for now, just accept that you have to give up something to get the other thing you value more.
>just accept that you have to give up something
protip: this is beta giving advice on relationships
so how's that divorce going? bet she's handing you your ass. or are you still working on one?
You sound immature, wanting people to rue the day they messed with you is for comic book villains and children.
Grow up, don't sweat the shit, move on to better things, and don't be 'That Guy' who's the obsessive creep.
You're such a pathetic douche nozzel that they left you
You're still a pathetic douche nozzel so they know they did the right thing
>The problem is you, it always has been. You're not worth the effort for any shelia and you seem like they type to cry then go nuts
You work your ass off, and be filthy rich. Disgustingly distrubingly absolutely rich. Show up with a banging model in your lambo to your 10 year HS Reunion, and then laugh at them when they say "hey, remember me"
Or you could kill yourself.. your call
Eat a dick nigger
There is no fixing this pathetic faggot. Bitches can smell the desperation like aids in the air. He's going to end up alone, eating whores he picked up and murdered. Think; Weekend at Bernies meets a microwave to keep her warm meets silence of the lambs, complete with a tucked back faggot dance
>Think; Weekend at Bernies meets a microwave to keep her warm meets silence of the lambs, complete with a tucked back faggot dance
how is any of this a bad thing?
Checklist of pros:
-wymen getting murdered
-not giving a fuck
-eating whores he picked up and murdered
beats a weekend sitting at denny's wish your life would end.
lol i'm desperate now
far from it actually but nice bait
and for the record, i have no problem "compromising" but if i'm not getting what i want i'm not doing that. again, for now i'm more focused on getting the woman i want than a relationship
All I hear from you is "What I want"
You have 'want' confused with deserve
>You have gotten what you deserve
>You'll never get what you want
You have nothing to offer a woman
>implying you get rich by working hard
You get rich by being lucky, knowing the right people, stepping on the people below you, and/or being born into a rich family (like me). Rich folks want you to think you get rich by working hard so you won't fucking lynch them because you honestly believe you might be able to be like them one day. You peasants crack me up.
no one deserves anything in this world, but nice try
what i offer a woman is the same as what she will offer me. i don't need to spend money or go ridiculously out of my way to get sex. there are plenty of males that do that already
You clearly offer nothing then feel slighted that you were not even a blip of her radar
>Something about reaping what you sow
I'd say be a better man but since you're here seeking revenge thats not gunna happen
LOL I have a wife, 2 kids and work a mine job for just under $125K after tax, on a week on week off. Where is the shitty life there?
You're the type of faggot that spends money and weeks/months of his time before even coming close to having sex. Does it sound like I want a goddamn marriage?
>where is the shitty life
You're a grown man posting on 4chan