Found out that my girlfriend's guy friends don't exaxtly like me. I've been nice and everything to them and I really thought we got along well, but I found out tonight that they don't. I have a sinking suspicion that one of them has or had a crush on her. Im a 100% sure that I wasn't an asshole to them lol, I actually tried to be friends with them. What do /b/?
Don't do anything about it. If you show that it bothers you then your gf is just gonna think you're insecure. Keep on chillin man, get your gf to hang with your friends more without her dipshit friends.
Do more... MOAR DAMMIT ASSERT FULL DOMINANCE
This is exactly why they are butthurt; they want her, they failed to/don't know how to make a move, so she went to you.
I've been that beta, before. This is the only reason they don't like you; like they like her.
She was the one who told me, she went back to her high school for homecoming over the weekend while I was working at the radio station, and she told me that one of them said that to her. He also swiftly added that they're all happy for us since i she started to tear up
Men and women cannot just be friends. One of them always wants to fuck the other. Her guy 'friends' don't like you because you are an obstacle in the way of them fucking her. It really is that simple.
I'm sure you're a nice guy and a decent person, OP. Her "friends" are just virgin losers who are jealous because you fuck her while they're stuck in the friendzone. You didn't do anything wrong and you'll just have to accept that they won't like you no matter what you do
fuck them OP, you don't owe them shit, they don't like you because they are trying to fuck your gf, just be a dick to them and they'll get the message
but also >>574677932
ive had female friends, one gave me a bj in the living room while my gf was in bed.
guys & girls cant be friends as one of them wants to fuck the other, as soon as you realise that the better for you.
next time they are around, kiss your gf infront of them, hug her from behind and whisper in her ear somthing like " i love you " something like that, or a joke, but do it infront of them ( it would be like shanking them in the heart).
I thought I really hit it off with the one, he's like one of those betas that you just wanna wingman for. That would probably be counterproductive to my cause as i would probably instill the confidence to try and fuck my gf
Your a guy, you can be friends with a girl sure, but given the chance you would fuck your friend. If she gets in a fight with her boyfriend and comes on to you, you would probably do it. You have no loyalty to her boyfriend so why not?
Your girlfriend doesn't have any guy friends. She has a bunch of beta males who got stuck in the friendzone who are circling your relationship like vultures waiting for it to die.
After all, it's your fault she's not with them. If you would just go away they could finally make their move.
Hey OP I'm in the same situation. In fact last night I was hangin out with like 10 of her friends and like 3 of the guys there all wanted her. The best thing to do is be friendly, but let them know she's your's. Hold her hand and shit like that. Be confident and let these other fucks know they don't have a chance. Bonus, she'll probably be turned on by that.
It was pretty easy for me to have confidence though, they all were a bunch of douchebag 17-18 year olds while I'm 22. We smoked hella weed and drank beer and they all acted like idiots while I just kept my cool while she wrapped her arms around me. The three guys were all giving us dirty looks but fuck me if that wasn't the best sex of my life last night.
It's easy, don't worry about it and if she cheats on you with them go and fuck her friends.
Its the only rational thing to do
Well there's your problem! You're a faggot!
k. I get it now. You're the beta fagot stuck in the friendzone and you are hoping someone in this thread recognizes one of them and tells her that her boyfriend started this thread.
It's like reverse psychology, right. A reversed personal army request.
I'm friends with my ex. She's been with her boyfriend for a year now. I wouldn't ever do anything with her. I care about her and her relationship is a good thing in her life, and as long as it even had a chance of working out I wouldn't do anything to jeopardize it. She lied to her bf about us having dated, he's the jealous type and wouldn't let us be friends if he knew about our past. She's very attractive, but I wouldn't do anything even if they broke up, unless maybe if enough time passed that I knew they wouldn't get back together. She means a lot to me, I wouldn't fuck up her life for sex.
>and the not true award of the century goes to
Every girl is different, there are several I know personally that never listen to their friends about guys at all. It's actually very prevalent.
I wouldn't be so sure of that OP. YOU might think they're virgin betas, but SHE might be banging them every time you aren't around.
Source: guys think I'm just a quiet type (shy, beta, whatever you wanna call it) and am "good friends" with their girls. Guess why I don't have/need/want a GF?
I don't give two shits about those guys, and find it very amusing talking with the guys knowing their GF gave it up to me on the side, that I do things their men can't/won't.
Believe me or not, I don't care, but watch them close.
i've been in this situation before. gf/wife is ass burgers and works with/hangs out with programmers and engineers. of course, she has no real female friends.
1. subtly make it known to your girlfriend that her guy friends are creeps for being passive-aggressive hangers-on. of course, not all of her guy friends are creeps, so point out the positive influences, if any.
2. be everything that her guy friends aren't.
3. if all of her guy friends are cringe-worthy weasily passive-aggressive virgins and none of them are actually decent guys, it means she's an attention whore and you'd better find someone better.
It sounds like you really like these guys, so really if your gf doesnt like that they all have a crush on you then tell her to fuck off. Better yet fuck all of them on air at your radio station, that'll teach the bitch to be an asshole towards you.
I'm very sure they're virgin betas. Whenever it'd be just them i'd talk about sex with this dude she graduated hs with and then when they all looked terrified that we'd ask them about their (lack of) exploits
No I wouldn't. Because I don't want drama. Given the chance I would fuck every female friend I have. But that's not the reasons I'm friends with them. Not everyone Is a shithead.
..nigga please. He's waiting for you to fuck up or she's already fucking him.
Any woman that:
1) Has a bunch of exes for 'guy friends'
2) Surrounds herself with men
3) Has a sparse number of female friends
..is a closet whore. Every guy orbiting her is literally a dick in a glass case to her. Each and every one of them is waiting for her to saddle them up and ride them hard.
Fuck her best friend in the ass, take pictures, send them to her with the caption saying you beat her to the punch, and leave.
Otherwise you're sticking around basically biding your time until she cheats on you.
Why? We broke up and stayed friends. We fucked once after breaking up, but then she started dating someone and so I wouldn't any more (she wouldn't either). Ieenjoy being friends with her. We get beers and food, go to concerts, whatever. She's a good friend, her being an attractive chick doesn't make her friendship less valuable to me.
1) arent exes
2) She hasnt seen any of these people since hs as they all go to different colleges
3) The number of female friends she has either matches or slightly exceeds the number of guy friends she has
You realize you're at best a plan b and at worst a beta orbiter being used as an emotional tampon, right?
She literally no longer sees you as a man.
She's rubbing it in your face that another man's cum is drying in her panties and being digested in her stomach.
Christ you're pathetic.
You don't even know her. We're friends. Why is that impossible? I'm not a plan b. I'm her friend. I'm happy she's in a relationship. I hate most people, but I like going out. I like having depth in my friends roster. Like yesterday we grabbed a beer and some food after work. I enjoyed that. That was some fun I wouldn't have had if I wasn't friends with her. I don't see why you're making this into something it's not.
Congratulations.. you're the first person I can use this GIF for and have it be completely accurate.
So I should just end a perfectly good friendship because she's an attractive woman? If I wanted to get back with her, sure, that's pathetic. But I don't. So what's wrong with being friends?
Thank you for your advice gentlemen. Enjoy this porn as a token of my gratitude
Ah, gotcha. Probably nothing to worry about then. Like another anon said, let them get their hate-ons and laugh about it while you make sure to rub it in their faces (ass slapping was a good suggestion!)
Very true, good anon. I only care about them as far as it gets my dick wet, then send them home when I'm done. Don't gotta deal with PMS, bitching, etc etc.
It isn't a friendship. Nigger she's using you. She's BEEN using you.
You're either an emotional tampon, a plan B, or something to make the guy she actually wants jealous so he'll bend to her will.
You are a tool.. in more than one sense of the word. Nothing more.
You're a means to an end and don't even have the fucking brains to see it.
If it got her the guy she wanted she'd break you down in a fucking heartbeat and leave you emotionally shattered on a deserted road after spitting another guy's cum right in your face.
Pay very close attention to how they act around her. If they act to close or flirt a little too hard, warn them. It's not to hard. If you aren't alpha enough to put off a commanding presence then be straightforward.
I haven't seen a single guy yet with enough balls to make a pass at my girl, up to and including guy friends.
You also have to be will to fight for her. I don't care if a dude is twice my size, you best believe I'm swinging first.
You're making these assumptions up. You can't know that. She cares about me, like I do her. I know that. She's not using me for anything. She already has a great relationship, she's living with the guy and he gave her a promise ring (a little immature I think but whatever). We're friends. We text, we get drinks / food, we hangout. Her boyfriend likes me. We're not really friends, but we've hungout as a group a few times. She's a sweet girl, you make her out to be a manipulative monster. I'mdefinitely not being hurt by our friendship.
>>she cares about me
>>she's a sweet girl
Nigger I want to point out one thing you said right now.
>>Her boyfriend likes me. We're not really friends.
Stop. Full stop. Do not pass go. Do not put sharpie in pooper. That statement right there should tell you EVERYTHING you need to know.
THAT MOTHERFUCKER DOESN'T LIKE YOU BECAUSE HE KNOWS WHY SHE KEEPS YOU AROUND.
also, when she's not looking, dust her with some form of invisible glow in the dark powder of a certain color, say blue, and try to dust each of her guy friends with red, green, yellow, and then when the time is right, switch a black like and see all the grope marks all over each other
Thank you for taking over my thread man
Not aggressive at all really. I rarely find my self in any sort of confrontation. But i let a girl slip away in the past, she never cheated on me that I know of but I suspect one of her guy friends talked her in to breaking up while we had a string of really bad fights. I felt it was salvageable but cut short by some faggot with a crush.
Faggot never got a chance though because she got drunk and got pregnant by some guy at a party after we split. Not even mad.
That's the kind of thing that can backfire. Depends on the chick. Some don't like it when you're "owning them" by doing some PDA purely for the sake of showing everyone whose she is.
Anyway, long term, they'll all get over it. They don't really have a choice.
Stop being a fucking spineless cunt
> girlfriends guy friends
End that shit, I promise you they want to fuck her and when you guys break up she will fuck them in the week, if she isn't already.
I wouldn't do the dominance thing or that one person who apparently doesn't have long hair will seriously hurt you. Just prove to them that you aren't just some faggot who's with her because she's easy.
Serious answer. They are probably just being protective so give it time nigga
He likes me. We're not friends though, like we don't hang out on our own or anything. But when we're together in the group we get along well. He's a friend of a friend (technically a boyfriend of a friend). There's nothing for him to worry about. You people are obsessed about this shit. Like fuck, everyone needs to have an agenda. She likes being friends. I like being friends. It's that simple.
God you're in for a serious fall. I almost pit you.
>>yfw i end up being right and you actually remember this thread
So what exactly do you think will happen? Worse that she can do is say she doesn't want to be friends anymore. But I'm confident that I know her better than you people who haven't even met her.
I've been the friend in this kind of situation, Didn't want to fuck the chick but every comment she had about her BF was how shitty he was or the bad things he did or how he was an asshole.
So chances are she just vents to them painting you as a jerk.
Or like every one else said they want to fuck her.
I narrow it down for you.
Do you want to be an alpha or beta?
If alpha then fucking dont care about the friends oft your GF.
If beta then leave this board and an bitch about this elsewhere.
Unbelievable, how ppl care about random ppl, and what they think about them.
she's using them as backup, cause she know they're her lapdogs who will do everything she wants... probably also using them for emotional support you probably dont give her.
Get as frisky as you can with her when those fags are around... let them know you can fuk the slut they wish they can put their penis in.. at any time
See, I dont have to be a dick about it. I can continue to treat her the way she deserves to be treated and hopefully they'll overcome their jealousy and realize that she's mine and that they cant come between that.
>treat her the way she deserves to be treated
Not to mention a lot of the stuff you've said in this thread. All evidence with which to cast a dark shadow over your character. You need to be careful.
A lot of what i said was venting, I wouldn't actually play these mind games with her friends just like I didnt murder the man who cut me off on the highway the other day like I said i would
Either the guy wants to fuck the girl, or the girl tries to keep the guy on a short leash for prestige ("LOOK WHO IVE GOT TO DO MY BIDDING BECAUSE HE THINKS ITLL GET HIM LAID") or as a backup (*He's cute/rich/useful, I'll keep him around just in case my current boyfriend fucks up, but never let him get close enough to figure out what I'm doing.")
If i didnt care about her I wouldn't have stuck around with her for all this time, and if i didnt care about her I wouldn't have attempted to make friends with her friends in the first place.
It's the little things really. It's the lame jokes she tells and how her eyes light up when she smiles. When I she's embarrassed she turns bright red and her eyes crinkle up. Its the light feeling I have in my chest when we're together. There's really so many reasons that I love her, far too numerous to list off in a thread that will be pruned in an hour or so
doesn't that make everyone talking about screwing other guy's girls pathetic as well? I mean most likely the girl is giving it up to her boyfriend so they're all betas for not establishing dominance and being the only man the woman listens to and goes to for her needs. Of course that's assuming you're idiotic enough to believe everyone only wants sex out of those of the gender they like regardless of relationship status. Honestly I like most fantasize about my female friends but I know some are whores and even if they begged me I wouldn't fuck them. I prefer to be the first, though if I found love I may settle for second or third but no less.
That's not definite. What if the guy doesn't want to fuck the girl and the girl is actually a decent person and wants to be friends just to be friends? Sure, it can be as you said, but doesn't have to be