"you're a great guy, you deserve someone better"
im sure most of you have gotten to hear that shit too. its the worst fucking shit youll ever hear. girls, dont ever fucking say that to a guy
Means: I've found someone I'm getting feelings for and don't want to hurt you so, lets break up so I can fuck him without feeling bad!
"I don't know, I'm just so confused" is the one I hate.
yeah fuck that one. that ones bad too. "being confused" sure, you either like someone or you dont. it probably means they like someone else and dont know if its gonna work out so youre the safecard incase it goes down the shithole
Best line a girl ever told me, that just didn't make sense to me.
>You're the type of guy I would spend the rest of my life with, but not the guy I want to date right now.
Women are stupid
Fuck mayne, first girl I felt like I really liked in highschool said this to me after dating for 5 months and then breaking up with me. She also said I was the best bf she ever has. Bitches have No clue how much they fuck with a mans brain. Took it pretty good for my first breakup, got sad/binge drank for few days, then I got filled with hatred for her. Like I legit fucking hated her and I still do. I stopped thinking about her about half a year later, but still when she crosses my mind I want to go to her house and kick her in the cunt.
guys are stupid too, proof of this:
i fell inlove with a christian girl that didnt want sex before marriage so i fucking gave up sex for that bitch. then 4 years later before getting married she dumps me for someone else
My story was not exaggerated in any way, I shit you not.
Dude, nothing wrong with being a decent man, but that is shitty of her.
Honestly, I feel like Batman, but only the rage.
prob means she dragged you along for convenience. you are a nice guy and treat her well but in the end she will always fall for stupid faggots that will fuck up and cunts are too stupid to realize
The stories and information posted here are artistic works of fiction and falsehood.
Only a fool would take anything posted here as fact.
she's just saying just how it is.
you'll find someone that'll care for you better.
unless you want to be with a girl that isn't 100% for you while you are. you want to be treated like shit?
was gonna argue with this but fuck...
what can you do though? you have no control over not being attracted to nice dudes who browse /b/
"Alex I'll take things whores say for 500."
men are dumb women are stupid.
Break leg jumping from rooftop to rooftop like Batman.
I feel like this time it will be different.
The fact that these examples do not need to be gendered is proof.
Long story incoming
This reminds me back when i still had a major crush on a good childhood friend of mine back in High School. Ive always been shy to others and even more so with her. One day two of my friends noticed her walking home and encouraged me to tell her how i felt. I was just so scared, but something (i dont know what) burnt up inside me and built me the courage to talk to her.
I went outside and as i did it started snowing. It made me smile since i love snow and i feel right at home with it. I managed to catch up to her and i managed to tell her how i felt. I told her that ive always liked her and was wondering if she'd be willing to go out. She then replies
"Aww, that's sweet. Though , i already have a boyfriend. But, we can still be friends, ok?"
She says this with a beautiful smile as the snow gently flows down around her. I didn't know how to respond properly, but i then said
"Oh, i didn't know... i hope we can always be friends."
Afterwords, i couldn't help but feel like my heart was in pain, so i then told her i had to go and i just went straight home and slept the pain away.
Whore: "I just fucking hate the person you've become, it's nine in the morning and you're drunk again."
/b/ro: "You and your child are sucking the life out of me. Everything I do is out of ritualistic obligation. You're the reason I'm like this."
She proceeded to walk out the door and I never saw her again. Everything went better than expected.
I've gotten that shit too many times. :'(
It means you be good at husbandy stuff. Like you'd help take care of the kids and unclog the drains and never cheat. But she doesn't find you attractive. So while she's young and relationships are all about sex and parties she's looking for someone else, but you're the kind of guy she'll eventually settle for because alcoholic chad thundercocks end up with shitty jobs and don't make good fathers.
you'd rather hear this?
>not knowing that these are lines everybody knows
>not knowing these are lines every person uses
>not knowing this always means they've met someone new
>meeting someone new while dating somebody else
>being a level 5 Whitefedora
>all you know is splash
"You're who I want to be in a long term relationship with, I just need a few short term ones right now."
I kinda get it because she just got off a serious thing, however..
Next dude she was with lasted 2 years.
Eh I've got a story of my own. Happened with me and this roller coaster of a girl. She's 18 and I am 22.
I'm going to take the screen shots and post it here one by one. Just let me know what you think.
Oh man having to remember all of that hurts. Im not gonna bore you with another story, but to answer that, not very much. I tried to, but my courage was just gone. She would occasionally say hi and stuff, but... a lot of shit happened after my confession and things only got worse
OK, I'll dump
That line's never been used against me.
When I know that I like a girl more than just a friend, I warn her from the very beginning that at a certain point I'll try to bang her because she's hot. So if she wants to be just friends she should spare me the details and fuck off.
If it's a 5/10, 6/10 chick I just keep her around for assistance with college projects and as grocery store companion.
>bf of 2 years breaking up with me
>saying it his fault
>"you deserve someone better"
>"yeah...you're right, I do"
I know, I've always been prepared, hence my lack of rustled jimmies.
she's a milfish Asian. not super hot, but she could pull better than me if she wasnt a psychotic drunk
It means you weren't possessive enough. And I say this with no sarcasm what so ever. If you aren't at least a little bit of a dick then she'll start to think you don't have one.
So she is crazy, but you clearly knew that going in, any 18 year old is when your older. Frankly I did shit like this when I was your age and its stupid your stringing her along and hurting her. If you seriously want nothing stop talking, if you do then just be honest and sort shit out. Stop giving glimpses of hope then crushing. I assume your either in love with someone else but who knows. Either way pulling someone along may not hurt you, but it will stop you growing up and dealing with your shit properly which in the long run will. I lived this, repeatedly so yes. I could be wrong but yes
The most effective cure is staying single and doing something worthwhile like learning. And once you've mastered whatever you picked, find something new and repeat.
When you dump someone, are you expected to give a reason? Do you lie?
I'm sort of planning on breaking up with my current girlfriend once this semester of uni is done because she has only slept with me once over the last five months. Do I just say 'you don't put out enough'?
I think you're confused m8. The girl is black, I am red.
What you said is actually what she has done to me. I'm cool as a cucumber, because I have learned from my past experiences that women are just unstable.
She came back to me after her absences or whatever excuse she made at that time.
Too bad, i really liked this girl, I wanted to help her, but she wants to suffer by herself.
Yep, I know. Patrice O'Neal said that you should be ready for your girl to walk out at any moment.
>I'm sort of planning on breaking up with my current girlfriend once this semester of uni is done because she has only slept with me once over the last five months. Do I just say 'you don't put out enough'?
Do you even try?
Do you think the magical sex-fairy comes at night and leaves pussy under your pillow or something?
She wants to leave. I have her a glimpse of a better future.
Don't worry, you'll like the ending.
Welp, this is the end.
She said she likes music, and when we first met, we talked about The Offspring.
So I thought this was the perfect song for the occasion.
Sure. After my confession, we drifted away from each other. See, we used to be childhood friends. We'd always biker with each other and have fun moments in class and in recess. I liked her at that time, but never said anything. Then came graduation and i was finally prepared to tell her my feelings but...before i could say anything, she left. I moved away and went to a different school. A few years later I managed to go to the same school as her, but i didnt see her until a year later. After that I finally found her again and tried to talk to her. Sadly, she didnt remember me at all. At that time, i would occasionally talk to her at lunch to try to get her to remember me, but she didn't no matter what. Months after that was the confession.
After the confession i would see her around the hallway as we said hi and bye to each other. After a few weeks of that, i just stopped seeing her because i was too scared. At the time, I had an internship I went with a few friends a few days a week. That's where i met another girl. Let's call her Alice. She usually hanged out with my friends despite how ive never met her before. In this internship we would work together and stuff on some events. Even after that we would hang out in a group with her and my other friends.
As we hanged out more, the more she opened up to me. She'd tell me her hobbies and personal life. We'd text and talk a lot on the phone. She would normally talk about her life, but then she asked me if i liked anyone. I told her i did and that i liked Roxy. She was sad to hear that, but then she told me she also liked someone named James. She'd sometimes talk about him, but then one day i decided to ask her to show me he could have been a friend i knew. She agreed and we waited afterschool for him. Roxy showed up and was standing there. I got nervous. Then i found out James was Roxy's boyfriend. He was the same guy i knew and i had no idea they were dating. It killed me inside.
I'm glad anon. I was pretty amused myself
tell that to john Bobbitt, or the Turkish dude who got his dick chopped recently. you can't predict crazy. crazy will eventually fuck you up
I thought I knew what psychotic was, but my definition has been entirely rewritten.
anyway, moral of these stories, you got off lightly.
Y'all are the fucking crazies throwing these girls away.
God damnit what I wouldn't do to hear another sad sad life story from a hot girl right now. They always fuck afterwards. Hell, sometimes during.
ah well man, you know, there was a time i was all like "well yes i understand why would someone be like this"
That was just because I understood what was going on in their mind at that point, but i dont give a shit, well im trying to stop giving a shit,
this kind of shit is retarded. you can say it makes sense if you understand it, but you will know that it's so fucking retarded, fucking fucking fucking retarded.
girls like those are fucking cattle, i hate them so much.
unless your gf is really special here is how you should think
people, girls, everyone is so fucking retarded. i didnt use to think like this. i really didnt. it took me a while to believe that. if there was ever a fucking misanthrope it's me. i dont know when im gonna become a sociopath. i hope i wont be one ever. but i never know.
I will become the man I never wanted to be. The man that I forced myself to hate. This man is by definition evil. but as you get older the grey zone of morality always become bigger and what is good and what is evil will mean nothing. just what works.
I will now give you all the CORRECT response to these bullshit excuses......
" yes, I am great, and I do deserve better than you"
" well, now you get to be confused AND alone"
" Too bad ... when you are done trying out different dicks I won't be here for you to fall back on. "
no response... you are correct... you are an idiot.
" your feelings for me may not be going anywhere, but I AM...laters"
"I destroyed your pussy, you destroyed my sanity... we are even."
OK update: fucked her for the last time about two months ago and completely severed contact with her. she messaged me last week but I ignored it. forecast suggests more of the same
See, this is sort of like a mental minefield. If you're inexperienced, there's a high chance that you'll keep getting blown up.
But after you wise up, you can still walk with the woman without stepping on those mines.
I just totally gave up on women. Their brains just work so much different from those of men.
I always tried to get into relationships with girls I knew I would never love because they don't have anything in common with me and nothing to really talk about. It always ended up into a big fight and these girls almost always cheated on me and it was all a big disappointment.
I just gave up. I'm looking for someone to love. Someone smart, loving and caring, including herself. I'd rather die alone than engaging into a meaningless relationship again.
I know that feel. It just doesn't make any fucking sense. There is no explanation for this bullshit behavior.
AH shit i posted to the wrong anon fuck LOL
you read this post>>575585212
you just haven't found the right person yet. you know you have when you can talk to someone for hours about nothing and when the silence between the two of you is comfortable. basically when you don't have to try, when you can truly be yourself, that's when you will be happiest.
Corny as fuck, I know. But hey, the truth doesn't have to be original
Yeah... I'll just wait for the moment to bump onto that person... Peace to you!
Hahaha sounds like what I did. Even christian girls are horny fucks and I kept talking to one that was with her boyfriend who was an absolute asshole for 4 years and made her fall in love with me and fuck me on our first date. It doesn't depend on the girl you were probably just a fucking douchebag man.
>"you're a great guy, you deserve someone better"
last woman that said that to me was right. I could have done much, much better. she was crazy as a bag full of angry cats. oh well.. live and learn. ;)
never once heard that, because i am honest with my intentions, unlike pathetic boys who are afraid for some reason to show that they are interested in a girl right from the beginning. like they are too scared, so they make a friend-type relationship with them until they are comfortable enough to not sperg around the girl, then all of a sudden they change their tune and express their interest, which is autistic as fuck if you've already built a relationship that isn't that.
>unlike pathetic boys who are afraid for some reason to show that they are interested in a girl
for real? go fuck yourself. if you're going to make shit up at least try and get your facts right. maybe boys are just frightened of you because you look like the back of a garbage truck?
He has a self-esteem issue, so every once in a while he'll tell me that he doesn't think he's worth the time. So really he'd be the "crazy" one, but I just have to remind him that he's well worth my time and that I love him very much.
That's some next level crazy right there!
>>mfw reading these
I've been through this type of classic female bullshit, and am curious to hear from the older
>be me, 24
>dated hs sweetheart for 6 years
>treated her right and dealt with bullshit (beta'd out basically)
>leaves me with generic one liners
I'm aware of the fact that she's a slut now and have seen
the party pics, and am wondering that for you guys
who had this happen, when she inevitably comes back in a few years
when the partying phase leaves and she's
trying to go back to comfort, does
it feel good to tell her to fuck of?? and about how many
years did it take?
I know the feels, my girl friend at the time (who I fucking left someone for) dumped me the very next day that my closest cousin was killed in a car crash she said it was because "she didnt want a relationship with anyone"
Got both of these from the last girl I asked out, had been friends for two years, got along perfectly, she would always say how good we would be together, then that
Maybe you guys ITT will help me, it suits here great.
>be me 23
>3 months ago I dumped my first gf
>we were together over 4 years
>after that I changed myself, more sociable, more talkative, not afraid of telling what I feel, lost 20kg, changed my clothes and became more manly
>now I receive compliments from random, half-known girls/women
>accidentally met a girl 3 weeks ago
>mfw Friday 3 weeks ago
>10/10 dream gf
>we are meeting almost every day
>as far as I can think she might be "stronly into me"
>we are talking about everything
>I have no problem now with feelings
>told her I am in love, care for her etc. and she did something to my heart
>she wants to have meeting with me
>but the told "do not expect from me something similar in feelings, I had some beta-pussy-bfs before, I am hurted, afraid of falling in love, afraid of talking about that etc."
>but still wants to have meetings
>conversations, driving shopping with me
>coming with me to my parents and talking for some time
>she likes being in my home she said
WAT DO /b/, WHAT IS GOING ON
I am much fucking confuss.
I only want a gf, something for sure, not 50-50 situation and bullshit. I set my goals stricly clear.
Nigger if you don't wise up and realize this chick fucking loves you, I'ma bitch-slap your dumbass across these computer screens. Dude, she likes you and being around you, even likes hanging at your house. Wise up before your doubt causes your future wife to leave you, you dumb fuck.
She even told me she feels in my home totally awesome and I got really nice parents.
She is also implying some situations, like "when would you like to have a kid" or "will we take a dog or two when we will be living together" etc. So what's the point?
Also, sometimes she is making me random calls just to talk to me when she is coming home etc.
Fuck, I would like a clear message but I have none. This is what is killing me. I like to be sure of some things...
So, what is your HONEST advice? Just keep it going?
Dude, in all seriousness you're fucking golden right now. You like her, she likes you. So sit back and be chill brah.
My same thought. Are you me?
I am more than like, far beyond like, more like love, in love. She ight be "like, strongly like" etc.
This is what I am afraid of.
"I love you, I'm just not IN love with you."
Listen mate, you said it yourself you don't want any basic bitches, I understand that. But she has not broken any of your conditions and I'm assuming you haven't broken any of hers. So be chill, you got it made.
Yes, I do not want something similar to my ex, it should have ended after 1 years, not 4 years. But after that time I decided to man the fuck up. And here I am. With clear goals in life.
One of the goal is gf/wife. I am 23, so it is good time to have someone serious, like future wife. But also, I like to be sure of some things. So my point is, if she knows that she is not into me, better to tell that now. Am I right?
Also, she once said "do not stop doing what you are doing". She needs time or what the hell? How much time? years? I have no years cause wasted 4 of mine.
I hope you can see my point. I am no longer a guy with no objectives in life, but now I know what I want.
"Right now you're too selfish and you just need me to be too much, I need to take care of my self and get the support I need"
I was a marine. on combat deployment. paying her bills. She was my wife. Turns out the translation is "I thought I'd found a great way to be taken care of forever but it turns out society frowns on military wives sleeping around, and the neighbors know that the red truck in the driveway every night isnt your so I need to break up with you before everyone finds out that I'm a whore"
I know that feel of wanting to know what's next, but you're doing exactly what you said not to do and that's being afraid to fall in love. So don't contradict yourself and go that the girl you love her.
So, basically, I should enjoy spending time with her and be for her like now? And it should be all ok?
You know that this is easy to say and hard to do? I am just not like 100% alphas that they "do not care", I fucking care... This is problem.
Nope, but slav all the way.
>You are more than a friend to me, you are like a BROTHER. I swear a girl told me that once.
Caring is fine, in fact it's good. Probably is one of the reason she likes you. So all you have to to do know is confirm her feelings which I already know what the answer will be.
You got this /b/ro.
I got satisfaction in the end. She called me up as soon as I got back crying about how nobody would talk to her and she had to move now because the old lady across the street was telling everyone she was a whore. Old lady was the widow of a marine officer, stuck with him through a 20 year career she testified in my divorce proceedings that my wife was seeing the guy and how often. I ended up not having to give her any money because no kids, and she was using my support while I was gone to use our house as a fuck shack. Great old gal invited me to lunch afterwords and gave me a big ass chewing about how modern women have no loyalty and how I was a retard for marrying her. It was one of those ass chewings you appreciate though.