help me /b/
my girlfriend went to a party tonight and she stopped texting me about 2 hours ago. figured she was just busy but she isnt answering. i dont really know these friends of hers.
help me /b/. is there any way i can find out where she is or what she is doing?
girl in that pic does look alot like her. unintentional.
nice try though.
but really, when she comes home what should i do to find out what happened? i dont want to whine about having called her a few times (i didnt spam her phone)
Chill out, people need some time alone dude, either she needs to have fun by herself with her friends or you've already been overprotective and she's having sex with her first crush who happens to be at this party too
Hahahahaha! Way to be a needy beta faggot. Let her do her own thing. You suck.
i want the truth not the usual 'it was okay'.
is it needy to worry about ehr? she has been raped/abused in the past. by a teacher and a few drunk guys.
i posted the stories here a while back
You are being a paranoid little bitch at this point.
Yes, ask her to elaborate on every thing she did the entire night...why not just cut out her side of the story and follow her around 24/7 if you don't trust her?
You sound exactly like my mate. He was paranoid and always trying to see wat his ex was up too. She ended up cheating on him and dumping him because he acted like u. A paranoid insecure dick head. Let her do wat she wants your not her dad. If u cant trust her then u shouldnt b in a relationship. Also, shes gargling on my balls right now.
or grow a pair and be a more mature boyfriend. One or the other, shitlord.
>she has been raped/abused in the past.
Rofl. She lied to you because she felt guilty about it.
That's a bad sign already. The faggots saying you're being paranoid are wrong... but the ones calling you beta are right. They're jut wrong about why you're a beta.
You're a beta because your girlfriend is clearly manipulating you and you seem to be utterly clueless about it. I'd bet that she'll dance around this issue and you'll go back to thinking things are fine. Meanwhile she knows she fucked some guy tonight at the party and covered it up well enough that she'll do it again.
Not to mention she's with friends you don't get along with? You realize that means that they will have no problem watching her suck dicks knowing full-well she has a boyfriend, right? No one in the group she's with now will stop her from making a relationship ruining decision. They'd probably even cover for her if it came down to it... but I'm assuming you have no contact with them anyways, so that isn't even a possibility.
Fear is the sole mechanism through which life survives.
Without having a health understanding of fear you can not survive.
The problem with fear is when you let it control your actions purely. But to ignore it? That's just stupid and asking for life to take a dump on you.
So many dipshits in this thread. She knew she could have sex getting in the car with a guy, she just regretted it later and called it rape. She would have been loving the sex at the time. Dump her and save yourself the trouble down the road. Read enough of ur shit to know her type.
Op plz i made this mistake with a girl. Its a bitch to break off but your being lied to more than you'll ever understand. If your gut says you shoupd be worried, then you should be. Girls lie, its easier for them to not care abt fucking a guy then going back to their unaware bf the next day.
You're absolutely correct. OP just leave her, no good can come of a relationship with her. My heart sunk when I first started reading because I knew where it was going. But I guess if you're going to stay with her, sniff her twat for closure?
At least she doesn't hate you, otherwise she'd have you on the phone during the spitroasting.
She knows you'll be a good little shoulder when she decides to cry about being 'raped' tonight.
this, you should've gone but she WANTED you to go so its not like she planned on doing anything untrustworthy, either way OP is a jealous fag that can't handle a relationship and has to rely on /b/ for advice
>pic related, your gf getting raped at the party
Notice that no one in the thread is telling you that you're paranoid after you made this post?
That's because people realized that you're right to be suspicious. No one in their right mind wouldn't suspect something is going on at this point.
I'm sure you're telling yourself that it isn't guaranteed that she's fucking around on you right now. You're right, it's not. But it's definitely grounds for a pretty serious talk about what was going on tonight. A talk where you clearly outline that you were suspicious tonight. Don't be retarded about it, just make it relatively obvious to your girlfriend. She is then forced to deal with the knowledge that you were suspicious. If she decides to attack you in any way or make you feel guilty, she's manipulating you. If she decides to try to help alleviate your suspicion or is otherwise sympathetic to it then she may not be. If she pulls the sympathetic route it's up to you to explore the situation further and determine whether you believe her or not.
But if she tries to turn it around on you, you can be sure that she's covering up something.
Her friends are putting ideas in her head. She probably said "oh that's such and such I'm just texting him back real quick" innocently enough then that brings up you in conversation and then her friends get to talk about how much they hate you.. She probably didn't intend for that but now she's probably thinking there's some merit to what they're saying. Even if they're just making shit up..
>i wanted him to go
>i tried to force him to go
>im going to get back at that dickhead by fucking someone else tonight
Pretty simple, really. She wanted to exert her influence over OP by making him come out to a party with her friends (who she knows he doesn't like). It's like affirming her sexual attractiveness in her mind, by getting OP to do something she knows he doesn't want to. By turning her down he's made her question her sexual attractiveness. She'll decide that's OPs fault and will then justify sleeping with someone else to boost her confidence. She won't tell OP and won't even think she did anything wrong.
This is shitty advice for a simple reason.
She has untrustworthy friends, so you have to babysit her? That isn't how relationships work, betas. It isn't your job to hold the hand of a whore. You're just delaying the inevitable because you simply CAN'T always be there.
Either you can trust a woman at all times, or you can't.
>where she is
>what she is doing
op post her nudes as revenge for her sucking imaginary dicks, no way she just got fucked up and sleeping at her friends house or anything, she is so totally sucking dicks all the way so post the nudes man.
>Either you can trust a woman at all times, or you can't.
Sometimes, you can train them to not eat their own shit. But, you'll never know what they're doing when you aren't looking.
>you can trust a girl who claims to have been raped 3 times but still likes to get blackout drunk on a tuesday
This threads over anyways. OP already knows what he has to do, so I doubt he'll reply anymore.
Trusting women is wrong. Men initiate contact with women by nature, women are set to receive, and there's very little that a woman will do to stop a man since it fulfills her existence.
Never trust a woman. Maybe your mom.
she is probably on her knees and hands that's why she can't response. just wait half an hour. the dude should be done soon.
if you want to be sure when she comes back lick her pussy. it probably smells latex if she is clever enough to make the dude wear a rubber. if it is only wet and smells body fluids then she is a dumb slut. oh and enjoy spotting her spanking marks
>you can trust the judgement of /b/tards
brah women dont just have fuckswitches, if you cant trust your girlfriend at a party you have a shit relationship.
that being said, she looks like a hoe.
why would you gf that, thats one of them you just hit and quit friend, bitch is probably bent over getting slammed right now.
>if you cant trust your girlfriend at a party you have a shit relationship.
That's the fucking point retard. No ones talking about a fuckswitch, we're talking about someone being untrustworthy.
The real question is, how much were you texting? If she's at a party it's to have a good time.. not spend it texting some pussified man-baby like you. Call her tomorrow and ask her how the party was and did she have a good time. If you can't drop it then you should have gone, if you can't set aside your differences and get along with her friends then maybe you shouldn't be dating her.
oh that was true. she was my ex.
there was no party but it was long distance for a bit and she would text me alot. id have to stay awake and sometimes miss work because she had a break down.
i was curious to see what people would say if the roles her sort of reversed
If you can trust her then theres no need to text her all the time. Shes just having a good time, if you cant trust her at the party then you need to think about breaking up or at least have a serious talk.
Why arent you with her anyway?
Relationships are built on trust.