how do i reach the point where I'm confident enough to go for the higher hanging fruit (pic related)?
what steps to take to becoming more entitled with women?
You just grow the fuck up.
Also you get more money. Bitches = money. High quality bitches = more money. That's about it. You sleep well, be in good mood, spend money on her and voila - bitch is addicted to your attention. Simples!
you must be a social retard. "Spend money on her and voila" What a shitty advice.
You need to get out of your house, and talk to women, especially the ones that frighten you. It doesn't matter what you talk about, you just need to get out of your comfortzone and get over the fear of rejection. Bitches go crazy when you don't need their approval or attention.
can anyone give me some advice on how to know more really attractive girls?
seems to me like the always hang out in their own social group, and ive never been sure how to get into that, my friends aren't ugly, but they cap off at around a 7
This is seriously one of the most attractive women I've ever seen.
Who is she? Where did these pictures come from?
You should watch The Informants.
I know it's cliche but it really is the only way to think about.
>There are plenty of fish in the sea
Who gives a shit if you screw up with a girl that is super hot, that's one person in a couple billion on this planet. If you hate to be hated, then you're going to have to learn to get over it.
>Talk and keep the conversation going
Don't fucking have some cliche dialogue though, that shit just ruins the conversation and ruins the moment with awkward silence which is creepy as fuck. Speak your mind and don't give a fuck what they think. Try to play off what they are talking about if they start a new topic but honestly, it's obvious for when you are confident talking and when you're not. Everyone can tell when you are just trying to act cool and be like everyone else
>don't be everyone else
And when you are actually unique so go out of the box
Sure it may be bumpy to start off at first if you are kind of socially awkward, but once you get the groove of things then you should naturally begin to just relax and know that as long as you don't fucking don't something creepy as shit, that you both will have a good time
>If you are rejected, don't give up
She may reject just because she doesn't know you. Stay with it because you have to prove that you're different/unique/special/whateverthefuckyouwanttocall it. It easy to sway the girl's mind with the advice I dropped below.
>Have a wingman
This is optional, but having a good wingman can help convince her to dance with you or just talk. If someone vouches for you, even though she doesn't know who it is, that's a step forward because she can already tell you a liked by people.
>These are some simple tips. If you have questions, post them.
>If you want more, just ask
Just start talking to them. If they don't seem interested leave them alone and hunt for the next one.
High end retail shops/malls are probably your best hunting ground. Mostly because gorgeous chicks are raised rich. They've got the money to spend to look fabulous. Also there's little competition in these places, and women are pretty vulnerable here mostly doing retail therapy. Just don't be creepy.
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Why are you so beautiful. You are what I've been looking for in person. Looks wise. Anyway I agree this is not the best place to ask that. And all of these opinions mean shit. OK, so think of it like this. People who frighten you are going out of their way. They're not feeling sorry for you when you're scared. Let's clowns be clowns. And you be you.
To reach higher hanging fruit, you need to have one or more of the following: a big dick, lots of money, good looks, be famous/popular/etc.. Just about all 10/10 girls are shallow. The better-looking they are, the higher their standards will be. So start hitting the gym, start thinking about good fast ways of becoming wealthy, and find ways to make your dick get bigger even if it is big already [bigger = better... always!]. So get on it, op! You want good-looking women, so get to work!
be confident and talk to women. go into it with the mindset that they already want to fuck you. go into it with the confidence that they'd be lucky to have you. don't put them on a pedestal. and if you don't have that confidence, keep lying to yourself until you believe it.
I'm right here daddy-o
I want more, I am asking for it. Specifically, I have trouble getting in the mindset of "I can get this girl/This is not a big deal for me". Can anybody relate? I need the entitlement that allows to be fluent with 10/10s.
Good times baby, this is the time.
It's all about confidence in general. Like you pretty much just try to be cocky with yourself, not too much that it shows but having the confidence is key. Man I used to have that issue too, being afraid of rejection or just having her react just by me approaching but you don't need to do that. It's all in your head. if you need an excuse, this is the first thing that I started using and I still use it cause it works, although it may be cheesy
>see hot girl walking by
>"Excuse me, I'm not from around here. Can you tell me where the closest [insert anything here; in this case] Starbucks is?"
>"Yeah it just ov-"
>"I'm just kidding, I just thought you were really cute."
Literally that is half an icebreaker in a normal setting, you have approached her, and you already complimented her which makes her feel better and less awkward already, and you began to talk to her. Now you essentially just start doing what I mentioned before.
>Keep the conversation going
Or don't, if you just wanted to get her number, or have a quick chat then do it. Fuck man you can even ask her on an instant date if things go well enough.
>As I said just ask questions or ask for more I'm here to help /b/ros
If OP feigns confidence, they will know.
If OP secretly gives a fuck, he will fail.
If OP had the capacity to naturally not give a fuck and be confident, he wouldn't be in his situation.
How can I achieve the resilience necessary to be rejected over and over until I git gud?
OP, who do you feel is in your league?
Then that is your league.
If you feel no one is in your league, then that is true. Go home. It's the truth.
You can do things to improve, etc. etc. etc.. but the barometer will always be, Who do you Feel is in your league?
Nothing else works. Nothing.
You either build a tolerance or you fucking don't.
No goddamn mystery. You have the fucking answer already.
Have you built a roof? No?
Have you tried? No?
If you tried 200 times, think you'd be better?
another good one is going up to a girl and saying
>Will you marry me?
you have 2 possible outcomes
You immediately begin "planning out your wedding" in a very lighthearted flirty manner. you show that you're playful and confident.
Then you act all hurt and joking. Tell her she broke your heart, after all you've been through together. Again, be playful and show that you're confident. It's really easy as long as you can believe that you're awesome.
Not everyone who likes football is made out to be an athlete. Even after training, after trying, after dedication..
Some people have an aptitude. We all have our skills.
Most people may want to be a math-minded money genius, but most people are fucking not. Never will be.
You can learn to be a little better...
But consider this... if you're only starting up NOW, you will not likely keep pace with the ones who have always done it.
Runners come from Kenya. Game comes from players.
It's exactly as I stated before. Get into the mindset that there are plenty of girls out there, because lets be real there are. Like just taking a moment right now and think of all the women you pass each day or how many walk down the street. A ton. Now think that you just have another shot o that you will never see that person again (it's highly likely you won't) and just continue on. Sure the feeling of getting rejected is shitty but at least go in thinking you got this (I also stated that if you do get rejected keep trying until it's absolutely clear, you have to prove you're worthy) and if you didn't appeal to her then at least leave the conversation thinking you tried you best. Like many other people have said in this thread, confidence is the biggest factor. If you are going to let one girl in your city/town get you down, you almost have none
Confidence bro the more you approach hot women the more comfortable you'll be going after them.
Remember good game is having the confidence to share your personality with them and express it in a way that makes them feel good. You boost their emotional state and they'll be attracted to you.
What on earth is this cloud 9, day time tv show dreamer bullshit, anon?
Don't fucking dilute the boy, or yourself.
The pizza boy is not worth Jessica Alba.
Some people are better than others.
You ever gonna dunk on Jordan?
How about stump Hawking?
Show up Vangough?
Jam with Yo Yo Ma?
You put a gold fucking sticker on his head for breathing on time, and you might yet make a rapist out of this boy, because "HE DESERVES IT."
Life has never been fair. It will be easy for some, not for others. That's fucking all.
Third option: She calls you a creep, calls security or police, demands a restraining order, calls you a predator on social media, you lose your job....
You get the fucking picture.
You're wrong. Anything can be achieved with enough practice. Learning game is a skill. You can be blessed with natural talent for getting laid but it doesn't mean shit if you don't practice it.
Talent is given to you
Skill is acquired by hours and hours of hammering on your craft.
If those runners from Kenya relied on their natural talent for running their whole lives they wouldn't be able to run by the time they hit their 40's
The majority of you niggers in here who have the "confidence/ no fucks" mantra, are the same guys laughing at peckerwood OP for getting friend-zoned by their girlfriends.
You have no goddamn perspective on this.
What OP wants, and what you want are different.
Because if what OP wanted didn't matter, it wouldn't be a big deal. Geniuses.
OP isn't alpha. He's not asking, "How do I pretend to be alpha," he's asking, "How do I be myself and still get a fucking woman that I want?"
Answer is not simple. It's not a mantra. It's not casual.
well kid, i wasn't saying that you don't have to approach women, i'm saying when they aren't your priority, if you go with a girl with a desperate face, trying to give everything to her, she instantly will reject you... they need to face some kind of challenge, you need to play with their ego, this is way easier when you have enough confidence to not give a fuck if they can reject you, you would ask me -¿why is that?, well they need to feel that you are a busy man, that you have goals in life, that you aren't just a stupid kid trying to stick your pee pee in her... that's how you do the trick
Insightful. Could you suggest a few pointers?
if you think absolutely any of that is going to happen, besides possibly calling you a creepy, you're a fucking retard. and if you're being creepy, you're not going into it with the confidence I previously said was required.
I'm dead glad you feel that way.
While back, I was in your shoes.
I followed those mantras, lost myself, bounced back, combined the two, and broke.
Never stop trying, that's fine.
Cause if you do.. you might just sound a bit like me.
anyway im out
good luck getting all that pussy gentleman
start talking to ugly chicks, then less ugly chicks, then noprmal chicks, then better chicks, then hot chicks. voila.
you will get frustrated if you talk to hotties instantly, because your skill is too low. you dont go for the endboss on level 1.
only practice makes better mate.
also helpful: start learning a martial art and try to be as hygienic as possible. smile a lot.
hope this helps, bye.
Enjoy your mystery method shit. Who were you before that?
What happened to that dream girl, or the kid you once were? Your personality?
Contorted for the great hunt for pussy.
Some men just can't be themselves, and get pussy. Look at Tesla.
You can be some popped collar bro at a bar. Any guy can do that. Most do. Most are empty husks.
Or you could look in your area of interests, rather than try to be something your not.
That's hardly relevant to what I was saying. You've taken what unsaid out of context to fit your jumpsuit selfloathing beliefs.
To add to this I mention Nick vujicik your argument is invalid
Also to OP this thread is full of a bunch of lame fucktards who can't amount to Jack shit so they don't want you to do so either. You have the desire to achieve something do it, don't let faggots like this delude you
Majority of people don't want to see or know someone else succeeded. Another lesson I learned from game. If you want something you go out and get it.
Tyen they don't love you, they love your money, this creates a sitiuation that when your always at work earning the money they love, they are fucking the guy who mows your lawn and cleaning your pool.
You really don't have a clue do you
I can't tell you what to do, kid.
These pricks can't either.
You do have to try, but try what?
Learn some one liners?
Act like you're mister fucking macho casual?
What if you're not mister macho fucking casual. Just... not?
If your plan to get with a girl works, and you fall for her, what then?
She'll see you give a fuck... and that left to your own devices, when you're ACTUALLY comfortable, you're more nervous than she saw.
Then it falls apart.
What then guys?
>a nietzschean feel
holy shit the autism it hurts
what are you even saying
>Some men just can't be themselves, and get pussy.
nigga life is like that
sometimes shit never happens
>Enjoy your mystery method shit.
anon was saying that spilling all your guts to a woman chasing her like she is everything doesn't work out most of the time
most men i know would agree with that
and i lost enough girls being that needy clingy faggot
see this please>>582786508
i think you are misunderstanding everything i'm saying man, i'm not telling jedi trick here, i'm not saying any method to pick a slut in a bar, i'm telling you that you have to have goals in your fucking life man, to grow the fuck up, to not worry so much about getting pussy, to become a better version of yourself.... this is the only method to be attractive to any kind of women, not just hoes, but maybe for your dreamgirl... you need to be a man, and a man knows which way to take always, this is what all the women want, not to "be someone different than yourself" not at all, you can't say- "muh introvertedness, this is who i really am" fuck that man, you can still have your personality but enhaced...
i'm explaining myself clear enough now?
I'll give the more astute readers here their due;
I am one salty and self loathing individual.
Way to site one disabled person who overcame. One.
You know how many others haven't? Every one else.
Learn how to balance being a nice guy and being an asshole. Act like a sweetheart to the girl, but act a little bit like a dick at the same time. Girls hate it when a guy is always kissing ass. That's how you end up in friend zone. Ever notice how girls complain about their BFs ending up being assholes? Girls are attracted to bad boys because they can be fun. If you can find a middle ground you'll have more fruit to pick from.
Only one person who got dealt a shitty hand was able succeed? You're more delusional than I thought. But lets pretend what you say is true that isn't reason enough for someone who wasn't dealt a shitty hand not to work toward their goals. But you wouldn't know anything about that
More on phase 3: social skills.
What about preying on the friends of your female friends?
What about clubbing with other amigos?