Anyone ever see a bachelorette party in progress? Is this actually what goes on because my fiance is having hers soon and I'm a little worried.
Name some crazy shit you saw?
My mum went to one once and the bride's sister gave a stripper a handjob openly, but aside from that I've not heard of anything like that happening.
Women face no consequences in marriage. Every older guy I work with is divorced because their wife cheated while they were working nights. They are getting financially raped with alimony and kid rent, so the woman profits from her infidelity. That's how it is in Ohio court at least.
They are paid but sometimes the "extras" join in. I have a video of such a thing but its .mp4 so cant post
That's pretty much what happens.
I know in the Dancing Bear videos, the ones who are paid/willing to do sexual things wear wristbands so the performers know whose mouths to shove their cocks into, but I'm sure if they waved their dicks in the faces of the extras and the extras got involved they wouldn't complain.
There's a video on Efukt of some Party Hardcore extra sucking cock and getting a facial, and after she realises she's just fucked up. Think she has an engagement ring on.
They have the porn performers. The others in the videos get paid a small fee to just be in the background and aren't meant to be involved in any way. There is a video where one of the extras starts sucking a dick and gets a facial and realizes what she's done, I forget where I saw it now sorry.
Exactly. Older women, man. Porn makes it like all these young brides are looking to jump on a strippers dick but that's not how it works. A girl getting married in her 20s is still usually in that lovey dovey stage so they aren't really looking to cheat. But when you get women who are in their late 30s or 40s? Forget it all bets are off. Their inhibitions go completely out the window. Plus they often have more money so they spend better for bigger parties and more entertainers. We're talking situations where four male strippers ran a train on the bride to be and her maid of honor. Sorry, anon, your mom probably took a lot of dick that night.
Tell me how to do that on an android phone and I will try
Damn. That may be the single smartest thing anyone has ever said on /b/.
Although....you know how crazy people get right before the wedding day.
>Anyone ever see a bachelorette party in progress?
Yes. They're a lot more boring that porn would have you believe and mostly consist of drunken women cackling to each other at the threshold of pain while drinking ludicrously-coloured sugar-filled drinks they heard mentioned on Sex and the City.
If this is seriously making you insecure, you probably should not be getting married. Basically, if you can't distinguish between porn and real life, you have no business getting married.
No, OP. It's called Porn for a reason. Or she actually might be a raging whore.
There may be male strippers (who're almost ALL notoriously gay)... but really male strippers don't usually fuck the girls, that really happens in porn mostly.
If she's any type of decent woman, she may watch a man swing his meat around at absolute most.
If she's a whore or you have any concern about her behaving properlyf in a party setting, you shouldn't be marrying that ho, dude.
You're fucking stupid OP. You are too stupid to be getting married. A bachelorette party is a bunch of women, mostly the bride and her family, sitting around eating penis shaped chocolates, drinking too much, and laughing at shit that isn't funny. Maybe they get a stripper, but he's going to be fuck ugly and everyone just laughs at him. Nobody is getting fucked by a stripper before they're married in front of their mom and sisters you colossal retard.
I can confirm. I was fucking my friend's wife for several months until he started to catch on. Some of the best sex ever, since she got to do anything she wanted with me. Too bad for her, her husband is Mormon.
yeah, but I wouldn't want to be with a woman that would cheat in front of her mother. Wouldn't want to marry into that kind of family, I imagine some family like the Kardashians might do that.
What do you mean fake how? A handful of women who look like porn stars filming their "friend" getting fucked by a stripper?
The high quality camera that they use to film the sex?
A bachelorette party in a house with no food or drink?
The face that it even says "Production: Professional" in the info section for the video?
Of course you wouldn't but how the fuck are you going to know that she cheated in front of her mother? She's not going to tell you and even if her mother disapproved to the max, she wouldn't betray her daughter like that.
this is so fucking fake.
Don't trust /b/ ... fucking fat nerds from murica.
Working in a bar ... we often host bachelorette partys.
Things never got crazy. Yeah sometimes the girls are forced to touch the strippers dick by their peer group. But honestly no one ever blew someone in four fucking years of work.
Sure they grab the muscles ect..
But why they should blow the stripper... nothing in for them, it's not that blowing a cock is so much fun for them
Your post is good. Come here more often
Yeah but getting fucked by strippers might be appealing.
I'm sure it happens very, very rarely that the bride fucks the stripper, but I'm sure it's far more common for the other guests to do things with them.
Oh ok I thought it was recent. What I said stands though. Older women are so much more willing to do degrading shit than younger ones. Probably because a few of them have been married at least once already and are in that midlife crisis zone where their idea of staying young means acting like hyperactive nymphos when they think they can get away with it. I've done a good number of bachelorette parties and the older women are so much quicker to stick a dick in their mouths or open up their pussies. In fact thats why a lot of them happen at their homes instead of a club. Protip: if your fiance is going out for her bachelorette then no big deal but if she's having something at someone's house for any reason other than having no money? It means that the party goers don't plan to keep their clothes on. One time a small party of 7 women hired 7 entertainers for the exact purpose of having a rotation. It wasn't a party as much as an orgy.
heres the second part where the guy finishes.
I am from netherlands... so very open girls and guys... Never saw fucking in my 4 year carreer . I am not the the stipper, just the bar tender / waitress ... but this is just a fantasy
Well yeah it's a known fact that women become more confident and forward with age.
Young women are insecure and unsure, and often don't feel confident enough to do what they want or tell their man what they want.
As women age they give less of a shit about what other people think of them. Older women rate their sex lives higher than younger women.
>male strippers (who're almost ALL notoriously gay)
>male strippers don't usually fuck the girls
This is true though. Despite the stories I shared I can vouch that they are the rarest of rare. I'm just pointing out a few tells for when something *might* happen.
Fucking in front of their mates is of course pure fantasy (unless, again, it's the Dreamboys), but as you're just the waitress, you're hardly likely to see what they do when they leave the club, or in private, are you?
As a waitress, did any of the strippers ever try it on with you or ever tempt you?
Nope. They might touch his muscles and/or see him whip out his cock at the worst.
That's if they get a male stripper but a great number of male strippers are gay.
It's not really going to happen unless you're a stripper. Like I said, parties don't get crazy if they go to a public place like a bar or club. You *may* get lucky if you're a bartender or something and get flirty enough where they invite you out with them but it's just not something to hold out for. The only times you'll see women doing sexual shit is if the party is behind closed doors.
Also worth pointing out is there's no guarantee that the women who'd be most ready to fuck an entertainer are attractive. That's probably the biggest area where porn lies. What's the value in having the bride to be open her legs when she weighs half a ton?
This is actually how I decide if those "amateur" porn vids like the ones posted here are actually amateur. If I look around and see only 8s and above thats a giant red flag. It's just not realistic in this day and age when a good 40% of the human population is obese that there isn't a single average or below in a room of 20+ people.
I'm cuckolding some dude with his 34-yo wife. What these people say is true: women can compartmentalize like you wouldn't believe. Especially as they get older, they want bigger cocks and more of them. You gonna get cucked dude
You know I've never actually asked any of the women I did shit with if it was a one time thing. Not saying that cheating is ok if its only once but I've always assumed that it was a heat of the moment get it out of their system kind of thing. But I guess there's the chance that they are just habitual cheaters. For what its worth, the bride has always been the least likely to initiate it. Its usually one of the unmarried friends who sets the whole thing up and prods the bride into things. And since women often act in unison the peer pressure spreads.
Also to add that it will happen in stages. Stage 1 is the mostly joking but part serious suggestion that one of the partygoers touch the entertainer's dick. Stage 2 is when one of them musters the courage to do the touching. Stage 3 is when one of them reciprocates with a tit flash or some other act that changes the relationship between the entertainer and the guests from a purely business arrangement to a personal one. It doesn't have to be flashing but things like talking about friending on facebook or anything that implies they now want you to be as entertained as they are. Stage 4 is when they feel comfortable enough with you and their hormones are high enough that they'll do something. And again, since they act as a single minded unit there's very little resistance at that point. If one says its ok then they all say its ok.
Every party will at least hit stage 1. Most stop at stage 2. If you reached stage 3 then there will be a lot of the bride telling her friends to stop but with a huge smile on her face. Stage 4 only happens once the bride shows signs she's ok with it.
lel, actually nobody in my family is married, not since my granddad and grandma, and that was a short-lived and tumultuous thing.
Weird, my aunts, mum, uncle... none of them are married. I wonder if my brother or I will be.
To do something like this and then sweep it under the rug away from the person who's meant to be your life partner, that's some serious shit.
I have trust issues as it is, knowing this shit isn't uncommon doesn't help.
I mean as an example, my girlfriend doesn't seem like type to cheat, she hasn't before from what she's told me. But I'm young and inexperienced, how should I really know? She has difficulty saying no and dealing with peer pressure and she has deeply rooted self esteem issues and has used sex to help her feel good about herself in the past, so who knows?
I guess accepting that something like this may happen without your knowledge is the price to pay for trusting someone. Goes for friends too.
I'm a cctv technician. A friend of mine asked and payed me to set up two hidden cameras and mics in his house. His soon to be wife was having her bachelorette party there while we were having his party elsewhere.
They had two strippers which we knew about. Nothing sexual happened. They were laughing their arses off as the fuckers performed. One of the girls made one of them pull his knob out, nobody touched it. There were no mothers or aunts there, just friends and maybe a distant cousin.
I don't think you have to worry about any fucking. They just drink, laugh and giggle all night. They talk unbelivebly dirty and not in a sexual or arousing way.
To be clear, I didn't aprove of this, I didn't wanted to film any of it, but he insisted and I got paid. I no longer have the footage as he made me delete it in front of him. He may still have it, I don't know, we're not close friends anymore.
I don't think the stripper has any fault. If a guy cheats on his wife with a hooker you don't blame the hooker right? Yeah strippers aren't hookers but you still pay them to do half the job. They are still being paid to create a sexually tense situation right?
>She has difficulty saying no and dealing with peer pressure and she has deeply rooted self esteem issues and has used sex to help her feel good about herself in the past
You are in for some serious pain dude.
I know from experience.
Your description is very accurate. Difficulty saying no - check, deeply rooted self esteem and has used sex for it - check.
Does she also flip out and give you silent treatment for no good reason? Has she 'broken up with you' a few times. Does she accuse you of being unfaithful or expects you will in the future?
>knowing this shit isn't uncommon doesn't help.
It is uncommon. I'm just talking about the very tiny percentage of times it has happened because thats what the thread is about.
As the stripper you do have the power to say no in the situation and advert something awful from happening, so not saying no when it was in your power to do so is a morally bad thing to do.
I think what your worried about is that your gf is someone who is legit faithful but if put in a situation where she can cheat for free would jump at the chance and then go back to normal as if nothing happened and write it off as just a random lapse of judgment. But I have a hard time believing that that personality type exists outside of porn. Chances are if she'd cheat on you at a bachelorette party she'd have other personality quirks that would indicate something is wrong.