Well /B/ro's. The girl that I was dating for 6 years. The girl I thought I would marry. Just left me.. Im pretty much fucked.. How do I get rid of these feelings?
The girl I was with for 4 years and 3 months left me for another guy. She started ignoring me, too. I started doing drugs and after a while was up to shooting a gram of heroin a day and drinking a liter of jack daniel's at night. I have a degree in computer science and almost threw it all away for some bitch. I put myself in rehab and am now 10 weeks clean. So,
Don't listen to this fucker. I wasted a lot of time on a single bitch and almost my life. I now am talking to a gorgeous, intelligent female, have my priorities straight, getting life back on track and being just pure awesome. I can't get rid of the physical scars from the shit I did to myself, but my emotional scars are healing.
You'll meet someone man. I swear. It hurts a lot but you heal up, grow up, and learn some shit along the way from it. You'll come out stronger on the other side. Next few months are going to blow though, no getting around that.
You're envious of someone else lacking personal life experiences?
It's going to hurt, bro. It's going to hurt a LOT. Just think to yourself: What are you going to do to change it? Are you going to potentially destroy yourself mentally, emotionally, potentially even physically? Or are you going to talk about it to your closest people, get it all off your chest, work through the emotions, accept that you're better off without the negativity, and continue improving your life? Take it from someone who tried to OD and die and couldn't; it's not worth it. Spend 2 weeks to yourself to work through the stress of it and then focus on better yourself and your future. Love yourself, anon. If you can't love yourself, you cannot love anyone.
I don't want to be some 12-step asshole about this, but... Just one day at a time, bro.
I am in the same place /b/ro. GF and I broke up 6 days ago. if you need a story i can green text it for you. feeling too down to walk the dinosaur, its just a sob story no one will care about
1. head on over to /fit/
2. read the sticky
3. get shredded
possible 4. become a homosexual in the process
you can thank me later
Well, I was in love with his one chick I was real beta over. I loved her for four years and never got any. I no longer physically saw her anymore, and I pathetically obsessive. I accepted it wasn't healthy and got angry at her. I never said anything to her given that was a faggy move so I mentally vilified her until I didn't love her and moved on.
If no one told you they love you today, I love you. I don't even know you, but I love you, man. You are me. Don't do this to me. Most importantly, more importantly than any female, any job, any reputation, any accomplishment... Don't do this to yourself. I love you, /b/ro.
Became stoic. Look at your emotions and realise that they are truely the only thing you have control over in your life.
Everything that happens, happens and its important not to blame yourself.
Had pretty much the same thing happen, I put so much into to someone (which I never do as I'm slow to trust) and they just up and left.
I lived in denial for nearly a year, telling myself that if I tried a little bit harder I could have kept her.
But the reality is, I have no true control over how other people react.
When ever something shit happens, I don't deny my emotions I just say, "its good" until the fear and pain goes away.
Tl:Dr be a based god. And people like her and perhaps even her will come back to you.
then you're 19/20. start going out as much as you can. really, as much as you can. party hard, work out, get a hobby, become the better version of you. since you're alone now you obviously need to focus on yourself, not on her anymore, no no no. and focusing on yourself isn't whinning "oh my god how sad i am", but developing yourself and having fun you need to have at the moment. don't cover up shit with work, because it won't make you happy no fucking matter what. because at some point you'll end up home alone every day anyway. and you need to feel good with yourself. sign up for a gym, start making music, painting, drawing, sculpting, cooking, anything constructive. grab a life by its balls and make it your bitch op. trust me, i've been through this.
You poured everything into it and it didn't work out, she didn't care for it... Hate to be capt obvious but it just wasn't meant to be. Find some comfort in that. Why would you want to be with someone who didn't care enough to make it work?? Find a rebound chick, the pendulum will swing the other way and you realize what it is you really are looking for in a m8.
You don't get over it anon, but you use the experience to build character. This'll make you stronger. Sure it hurts like hell now, its shitty, but a girl isn't worth doing anything crazy over. They're just chemically induced feelings in your brain mate, there's another 3.5bn women to have another crack at.
>We're /b/hind you.
>my girlfriend started accusing me of fucking girls
>I was secretly WASTING my money by snorting coke everyday
>spending about 90 or more snorting
>cut down costs by shooting .66g of cocaine once every 2 days
Life has been better
>me and my girlfriend are still together
>even though I feel were slowly slipping away
second that, knew a guy in college who'd just finished an 8 year relationship because the gf wanted to get married and he didn't so she dumped him and he was doing a milf the night after
You know what's even harder? Living your life in regret of this shit. Or waking up in the middle of the night wanting to die because you feel like you fucked up the best thing that ever happened to you
The one who didn't want to make it work anymore cut bait for some reason and decided to end the relationship anon. You both fulfilled the roles you were supposed to play at this time of your lives. You'll both be better from this if you can accept that and you'll end up with the person you were always supposed to be with.
I'm not OP just someone's whose been there and decided to turn an experience like this into a somewhat positive one.
Men arnt hurt by events, they're hurt by their reactions to events.
Unless that event is violent of course..
Anytime anon, never forget that you're a worthwhile person. And that youre more than enough for this world.
By not hating her and blaming everyone else for this, you've proven yourself better than a lot of people.
Take solace in the fact that you truely loved someone. And that what goes around comes around, you'll meet the right person. If you were to hate someone who meant this much to you, it would just be love in deep denial.
And you don't want to live in denial.