/b/brothers, I need advice. This is my gf. She's smart, beautiful, makes a lot of money nursing, and is literally the greatest fuck I've ever experienced in my life. She makes me happy, takes care of me and my house, and when we spend time together it seems like we're perfect for each other, but we have some issues and I'm just not sure if we can be together. I need someone to help me logic this out. Here are our issues:
Very early in our relationship her ex showed up at my house and said she was fucking us both. I still had feelings for my exso I dumped her and tried to rekindle an old flame.
A few weeks later the same ex saw my motorcycle outside a bar I regular, came in and said she was pregnant and since we both fucked her, he was willing to man up if I didn't. I called her and told her to have an abortion.
She was living with the ex but he beat the shit out of her. She moved in with me, had an abortion, and because she was in my house and I can't get enough of her, we started fucking like rabbits. She said she was on b.c., but I used condoms anyway, and she ended up pregnant again. WTF. Another abortion.
Fast forward a month. Shes still seeing her ex. We break up and my old ex wants to work things out. I do too. Fuck this crazy abused girl, her ex, and abortions. I need stability. Tell her to leave. She says she's still pregnant and abortion failed. WTF. I tell her to keep the baby. I'll pay child support and we'll do this. It's a boy. Let's name him Jacob. I give up on my own ex and decide to be alone.
Jacob is born, but she gets diagnosed with cancer. Gives Jacob up for adoption. I'll never see him again.
Months later she asks if we can work it out and just try to be together. In spite of the insanity I have enjoyed being with her, so I say yes. Now, as a result of all the lies and trauma, in having problems making it work. So here we are. Has a /b/rother seen anything this crazy? Should I surrender?
Replies will get pussy shots.
is she's gonna die from the cancer wait it out make her time left good. If not see her through treatment make sure the crazy abusive EX stays away and then end things peacefully.
Hey /b/rother. I said replies would get pussy shots so here you go. I really appreciate the advice. I told her to keep Jacob because I struggled with abortion to begin with, and I thought maybe there was a lot of good to be had from having a while, even if it seemed crazy. So you would say, in spite of the fact that we havea great time together, I should walk?
Those are some serious issues, OP.
Sounds like shes hung up on herself too much, and will lie and bail whenever the wind blows.
My ex is the exact same, and we have a kid now.
Run like the fucking wind OP
nigga what the fuck. OK, just read what you just wrote. Read it like a friend would tell you about his realtionship. There are red flags all over this shit, getting pregnant with another guy 2 times, once while you were living together? Giving the child away for adoption without you having a say in it even though you pay child support?
Getting pregnant with another guy twice.
When this guy puts it like that.
You shame your father and his father. If that doesn't mean anything to you then keep fathering someone else's spawn.
The truth is it could be by baby, right? She insisted that it was mine. I guess the truth is I'm a little crazy too. I must be for thinking about working it out, right?
I have a few more awesome shots to share I took while she was asleep.
I have a handful of votes for giving up, and not a single person seems to think it's legitimately worth sticking around. What about you?
I would but I don't even know where Jacob is now, unfortunately.
I wouldn't know dude, but if I had to, I'd have to agree with the others. From what you've told us, this is all fucking insane and it sounds you'd be far better off without her
Well to be honest I don't disagree. I tried to kill myself and failed. Now I'm permanently fucked up. It'd be a great relief to die but the pain I still feel from the last attempt keeps me from trying agaiin.
Good pussy, decent bikes, survived death attempt - get rid of the girls, move awa and start over. I take back wishing her cancer was contagious. Go be happy, man. I just don't get people that want to stay miserable.
why are you here OP? what answers do you want? It seems to me you've already made up your mind. You wanna be with her. To you, the good parts weigh up the bad ones. From an outside perspective, I'd say you are stupid. But fuck it. I can't convince you.
Fuck Anon. This sounds like a classic class of sticking your dick in crazy.
You can have feelings for anyone, and it might sound generic but there are others.
With that being said, I understand she's probably cool, but she's also a huge detriment to you.
You went from being a single guy with some bitch, to a pseudo family man.
She's affected you to the point that you let her keep a baby, which means your willing to take in immense responsibility, and now you're undeniably attached to her.
That baby was a legal construct that would have fucked you. You should dump her or realize what she is and deal with her accordingly.
When she lied to you about birth control, she did lie by the way she isn't the rare statistic that the drug didn't work for.
This is a classic case of someone being manipulated and used. I only hope you realize you are in danger of being utterly fucked by her and the legal system.
You will undeniably regret your decision to stay with her when your older with a child and she has left you for someone else.
Yeah sorry. I'm drunk and on my new tablet so I'm making a lot of mistakes.
Will you please define "manning up" in this situation for me?
More pussy. Sleep fucking it because she's a goddamn nympho and will reach for my cock in her sleep
>this rollercoaster of human drama
Holy shit anon. My advice, drop the bitch ASAP. And never communicate again. Fresh start, bro. Don't fucks with the other ex again either. It's toxic for all of you. Memories and feelings of pain never go away. The best we can do is live with them and past them.
Leave the crazy in the past or you will never grow, and will be doomed to repeat the same mistakes and live them over and over.
You want pics of the ex I tried to rekindle with?
She has gigantic feits for someone who isnt fat. Check this out. I'll post more but you need to see this cleavage.
It sounds to me like it will always be drama. A stable relationship will never happen. Is the sex worth the drama? If so, stay. If not, go. I say go. You can find decent sex without the drama.
>Itt: op gets the correct answer immediately, and repeatedly, but hangs around waiting for enough people to tell him what he wants to hear
1) Do what you already know is correct and run. Reap the benefits of not having your life get even more fucked up, in exchange for the paltry fee of wondering what if.
2) Go with the stupid option. You wouldn't be discussing this at all if you didn't already want to. I know people like you, you crave drama and being wronged, especially if you know itll result in a story that sort of absolves you from the current state of your life. Go for it, fucknuts, if self-destruction is how you get off, you don't need our permission.
> I know people like you, you crave drama and being wronged, especially if you know itll result in a story that sort of absolves you from the current state of your life.
I think ops a normal dude who has been around this crazy broad long enough that she's damaged him a bit. So now he's always going to be a little fucked up from having even been with her.
OP if you dont leave her you're just going to go down with the slut
Goddammit. You literally put into words the though I've been struggling with.
Op would like to believe he is blameless. Thats kind of the whole point behind even pondering making a dumbass call like letting some deranged whore sink you.
He's failing to partition his wants and needs from each other. Truth is, he wants to think theres a poetic, outside cause for his general unhappiness, and to not only be a victim, but to have an audience for his suffering.
In reality, this self-inflicted bullshit warrants no pity. You either cut crazy out of your life because you value your health, or you invite it in because it gives you meaning and gives you someone or something to blame whenever you hold yourself under scrutiny.
Be a retard and adopt the kid, op. Do it for the lulz.
Nope. I'm fucked up and I like fucking her. I'd adopt the shit out of my own son but have no idea where he is as I didn't even get to sign a birth certificate or be granted any rights. She went out of town, gave birth, and reappeared a few weeks later.
Since she is bat shit crazy, some of that rubbed off on you no doubt. So you're probably worried that you won't do better now because of this chick. And you like the sex/comfort factor of all this.
Throw that all out. That saying that 'you are the sum of the 5 people closest to you,' is really fucking true. Start hanging around cooler/happier people anon and you'll feel better.
>Narcissistic personality disorder
This is a nice synopsis on the googles
Reacts to criticism with anger, shame or humiliation
Takes advantage of others to reach his or her own goals
Exaggerates own importance
Exaggerates achievements and talents
Entertains unrealistic fantasies about success, power, beauty, intelligence or romance
Has unreasonable expectation of favorable treatment
Requires constant attention and positive reinforcement from others
Is easily jealous
Disregards the feelings of others, lacks empathy
Has obsessive self-interest
Pursues mainly selfish goals