How do I make my life better /b/? This girl that I like isn't talking to me anymore even after all I've done for her. She's cute, smart and funny and she says I am too but she wasn't ready to date yet. She usually only texts me to talk about some problems, which I'm okay with doing, or if she needs me to buy her something, which I will do because that's what a gentleman does.
But now she's cut off all contact with me. Blocked my number, blocked me on facebook, her friends have done the same. I'm really bothered because here's all the things I've done for her so far.
>>helped paid off her student loans (about $10,000)
>>got her a new phone ($500)
>>helped get her a one bedroom apartment and paid the damage deposit and the first four months rent ($10,000)
>>bunch of other shit as well
Now I'm up to my ears in debt, my credit cards are all maxed out and now she won't even give me the time of day. The only reason I helped get her the apartment was because she specified it for one bedroom so I thought she wanted to share it with me. She said her friend was going to share the room with her instead, so I was like "ok".
How can I get her to start talking to me again?
There's no way this is real. If this is real, then you've completely failed at life.
Dude, I really hope this is copypasta.
Otherwise, you're well on your way to learning a tough lesson, OP.
>see you on the other side.
Fuck you. Maybe you just haven't felt anything for anyone other than yourself? I've loved her since fourth grade, these feelings don't just come from no where. Ass clown.
Dating a girl I'm gonna marry. Been dating for almost 2.5 years. Wanna know how I nabbed her? Not sure actually, but I sure as fuck didn't spend $20,000 on her when we were only friends.
It doesn't matter how much you know the person, unless it's your kid and you know for a fact they're going to be successful, you don't just give all that away
She's my friend and she needed help, so I gave it.
how about stop throwing yourself at a girl who doesn't even like you. stop obsessing over her. forget all about her ever existing. until you change the question from "how can i get this girl back" to "how can i best move on with my life" you are fucked and wasting your time.
Yeah, she probably could have gotten more out of you, stupid bitch pulling out too soon.
You're right, I don't understand what it's like being beta
I can see why she doesn't want you. You have knee jerk reactions to criticism, on a website where you have to have thick skin.
>Asking \b\ for help and not expecting insults
OP really is a faggot.
1) You're an idiot, a real live idiot in the flesh
2) She took you for an idiot, so now instead of thinking you'll 'win her back' like in that cliche as fuck hollywood love story, you should an hero.
3) You're an idiot
4) You don't invest money until some kind of contractual agreement has been met, you get pussy... She gets materials. You gave the materials before getting pussy, therefore, you're a fucking idiot.
5) How old are you? No one in your life told you this was a stupid fucking idea, idiot?
I like how all 5 of your points involved OP being an idiot. Well done.
I wouldn't spend $20k on my own mother, much less a girl who made it clear I was just an ATM and a shoulder to cry on. I know there are desperate idiots. OP knows it too, that's why he's trolling the fuck out of you idiots.
Not even on your own mother? What kind of asshole are you?
You quite likely have been trolled relentlessly on this site before, haven't you? Even if this story was fictitious, it stands as a lesson to you desperate, unkind, totally socially inept under-class that inhabit this shit hole.
Buy. A. Fucking. Whore.
You could've literally bought the love of a common street skank for years to come instead of wasting money on pedestal pussy.
At 24, you're now in more personal debt than most people can accumulate before 35. And that's just personal debt.
Think about all the times you didn't get the girl in high school. This is one of those times. If you show weakness over this, she's even LESS likely to come back.
Seriously man, you're a fucking idiot. Learn a god damn lesson for once and understand the meaning of 'cutting your losses.'
I'm not sticking my dick in some whore. I don't love her and that's fucking gross. Why should I get herpes or whatever? What if she ends up liking me too? How would I explain having an std to her?
>Loan repayment: $10,000
>Apartment expenses: $10,000
>New phone: $500
>Looking for advice on /b/ for fucking up: Priceless.
>There's some things money can't buy. For everything else, there's Friendzone.
You don't get it kid, and you're too arrogant to understand logic and reason. Keep dreaming about your pedestal pussy as you fuck your flesh light slower and slower as the long days pass.
A whore, is a whore, is a whore. And that sentence has multiple meanings. Once you start standing up for your bank account, and your dick (being a man about shit) you'll finally understand why other men can tell you what the fuck to do with your very pitiful life.
Who said I gave up on love? You're obsessively lusting over this person, get it through your thick skull. You came here asking for answers, /b/ provides. Now fucking kill yourself, idiot.
I have yet to see any thought out and helpful responses. There's only insults so far.
I had her as a friend, that counts for something.
Fuck off newfriend.
>or if she needs me to buy her something, which I will do because that's what a gentleman does.
Wow your view on relationships is absolutely retarded. Either stop being/stop listening to those euphoric fedorafags or just an hero. Obviously if you were stupid enough to let some piece of ass make you pay off her student loans and help her pay for an apartment then you surely aren't bright enough to have spent any of that money on anything worth while anyways. I'm glad you lost your money you stupid fuck because of you had it all back you would just blow it on something else retarded
You will never be unfriendzoned, you don't have the confidence to change the category you've been put in. This thread is a display of your weak-will, and your beta attitude towards life. Please don't use /b/ for everything your parents failed at providing for you. Idiot.
Because there are no helpful responses. You fucked up. Your money is gone and she doesn't want you. The only helpful response is to learn from this autistic choice you have made so you never make it again
Fuuuuuuuuck. Still not true.
Guys escape the friend zone all the time. Speaking of which the friend zone is total bullshit anyway, you don't have to put me in a specific area just because I'm fucking good to a girl.
With my katana amirite? Fuck off faggot.
Jesus christ... Again with the indignant bullshit, and now you're samefagging, or have attracted fans.
Everything in this thread except for the responses telling you to man up and move on is beta, extremely fucking beta.
You bought her everything and you wonder why she kept coming back to you with problems or for expenses. Here's some reading material for you op. Should be about right for your brain capacity. Pic related
Actually, most Anons here Have provided very smart, and very well thought out answers. Like one of the anons said, you cant get it through your thick skull that you should just move on. If she comes back then you do what you gotta do, but for your sake, OP, I hope you brush her off because if she finds it this easy to cut you off then you'd hurt a billion times more if you two actually got involved.
I don't understand how you could still see any hope in this relationship. If she blocked your number there is literally no chance in hell that she'd ever want to be with you in this reality; she's obviously fucking creeped out by you as that's the only reason someone blocks another person's number. You probably were clingy as fuck considering your still after her. And how could you even love, date or even just be friends with a person who blocks your number. Seriously can you pick up a fucking hint.
As for your money you're beyond fucked