Bullshit women have told you thread.
>"I just think we moved too fast."
>"I want to start over."
>"Can we just be friends?"
>I love you.
>I wouldn't ever hurt you.
>You're important to me.
People named Jessica are almost always cunts
That shit is infuriating. I also dated somebody who was "raped" by somebody she claimed was a sort-of friend of hers.
Let me hit you with some back story. The girl in question is my ex-girlfriend; the first woman I ever was with, basically we were both each others real "firsts" back in the day. She (for about the past ten years) has been a die hard try hard Reddit/TrollX level of Feminist, who thinks the people on there are always right. She is an extremely sexual woman who literally will flaunt her sexuality with just about anyone, anywhere, as long as they are her "friend". The following would be two situations that happened one after another that pretty much made me lose hope in women as a whole.
>Talks about her experience getting raped
>Explains she went to a party with ten or more guys, no women, didn't tell her single drug addict mom where she was going
>Ends up getting drunk
>Is in a room with guys she flirts with constantly, they take advantage of her sexual nature
>Fuck her brains out
>She claims it was rape because guys took turns watching her get fucked by her friend
>Angry when I say it was simply poor judgement and that she doesn't understand life
>She claims you must "be psychic to see whose going to rape you or what situations are bad"
>I claim its logic
>She rage quits and blocks me for a year
>One year later we talk again
>Talk about how she blows this guy for giving her rides to college
>Hears he has a wife, they never tell her about their sexual fun
>She claims she isn't a whore, doesn't know what to do about it
>Ends up breaking down and screaming at me on the phone saying shes a dirty slut
>Calls him up, begs him to come over and fuck her
>She ends up admitting shes a skank
>Ends up admitting she has no value beyond sex
Basically after ten years of arguing her whole feminist persona boils down to what all feminists are like; whores who just want a good dicking, nothing else.
>"You're so sweet."
>"You're such a great guy."
My 2 year relationshit with my ex.
Her: I'm your gf Me:Hmmm ok
Her: I love you, why dont you ever say that you love me Me:I love you too
Her: I feel like we are a family together, i want to have your small lookalike children Me: That sounds great, we sould definetely do that
>She moved in
>Spend all my hard worked money
>Started complaining about nonsence shit, like i dont give her enough attention, although all time i wasnt working i was with her
>She moved to a nearby country to work
>The plan was for me to find a job there and both live and work there.
>After a month I found a job offer as a manager in the company shes working
>Took the offer
>Took the job
>Tell her im coming there.
>Starting going crazy that ill ruin her job, that i cant be her manager
>Still i dont give a shit
Now im there working as her manager. I fucked a colleaugue-friend of hers. Send all the shit work to her. Waiting for her to quit the job.
>Yeah, but idk, I love you as a friend and everything, but idk if I would wanna start anything like that, feel like it might be weird bc I've known you for agesss
>I still wanna see you and be your friend and stuff but like I think that's all, sorry, maybe something could have happened but I feel like idk it's too late
Just be friends. Heh.
I just keep losing my faith in women, Anon.
I'm not some beta woman-worshipper, nor am I a loser that can't get them, it's just...
I can't trust them. Every time I try, it always leads to them being shitty people. Is this normal? Am I doing something wrong?
naw, im basically the same as you. I've come to figure out that im better off alone for the most part, with the occasional piece of drunk bar ass or something. Less pain less strain on the brain. Easier to focus on bigger things, like where my life is going ,and I can make decisions and execute them easier without some cunt hanging off my sleeve with all her problems ect
I'm not into that, Anon. I've never been like that. I don't like sharing, I don't wanna fuck everything with a twat.
I just want to mark what's mine and stick to it. Something I can trust and depend on.
That's all, I don't want that fast life of sluts.
I'd rather be by myself if that's all there is to life.
> carves my full name in her arm
> shows me while still bleeding
> now youre a part of me forever
> id probably kill myself if you left me
>Have you ever met a girl that you tried to date
>But a year to make love she wanted you to wait
>Let me tell ya a story of my situation
>I was talkin' to this girl from the U.S. nation
>The way that I met her was on tour at a concert
>She had long hair and a short miniskirt
>I just got onstage drippin', pourin' with sweat
>I was walkin' through the crowd and guess who I met
>I whispered in her ear, "Come to the picture booth
>So I can ask you some questions to see if you are a hundred proof"
>I asked her her name, she said blah-blah-blah
>She had 9/10 pants and a very big bra
>I took a couple of flicks and she was enthused
>I said, "How do you like the show?"
>She said, "I was very amused"
>I started throwin' bass, she started throwin' back mid-range
>But when I sprung the question, she acted kind of strange
>Then when I asked, "Do ya have a man," she tried to pretend
>She said, "No I don't, I only have a friend"
sorry I cannot say the rest
just too upsetting
All women are the same, you'll just end up with one thats hot enough for you to forget the stupid shit she says or does or one that's so good 95% of the time the 5% craziness is easy to deal with. Im with the latter
same with gf
Sometimes she's mad and I just don't know what I've done wrong
they don't wanna date you
If she tells you immediately she'll feel like an attentionwhore. Yes, it's probably you making her feel like that.
I don't wanna date you.
Don't get bullshit part
This marriage scares me, please calm me down because I love you (?)
SHE DOESN'T WANNA DATE YOU, looser
Bitches be tryna let you down nicely
>"I love you."
>"I just have a lot of issues right now."
it used to bother me. i stayed in a psych ward for a while. doesn't bother me anymore.
I'm not surprized you're her ex.
>mfw you told her it's her fault she was taken advantage of
>mfw you told her all men are to be treated as rapists
>mfw all along you're trying to shit on feminists but they actully shit on your stupid ass.
Had an affair with a grill from work.
> be me
> good sex
> casual, fuck buddy stylee
> she decides she wants me to leave g/f
>"I got the cancer anon you can't leave me"
> says she been going to hospital for the inspections
> forgets my g/f is a nurse
> get g/f to find out as I confess and tell her it was a moment of weakness and now she's trying to make me go live with her
> says affair girl hasn't been near a hospital since birth, hospital computer says so anyway
> guess that's illegal to check but so what
> affair girl doesn't like that I found out she hasn't got the cancer
>"but I'm pregnant anon and it's yours"
> no your not. Fuck off.
Still fucked her now and then, dem big tatties and the way she finished me off all over them I couldn't resist, but don't give me all this hospital bullshit. Kept g/f also
>I'll always love you
>You're the only guy I want
>I promise I'll never cheat on you
>i just think so low of myself that i did it in a form of self harm like cutting
what my gf told me when she got drunk and cheated on me..she also threatened to kill herself when i found out. dumped her ass and its been 4 years and she still messages me a few times a month.
i ran into her at a bar, we went home together, i nutted all over her face and then told her to get out of my house. i also didnt give her a towel to wash it off and it was winter. i could see her in my driveway wiping jizz off her face with her sleeves. stupid bitch
This is a "bullshit women say" thread.
Not a "faggots translate woman to English" thread.
Dated a girl who gave me some emotional melt down bullshit about how she was raped numerous times by her cousin. A month later met said cousin. Was some fat faggot loser. Told gf I was going to fuck him up when away from everyone. She got mad and mad e me promise I wouldn't. Watched them act like best friends all night. Dumped her a week later. Not because of that but because she started talking about having kids with me. She was Jewish. No way I was going to reproduce with a fucking Jew. She turned lesbo after I dumped her.
"I miss my ex boyfriends son I wish I could spend more time with him"
"I don't want to repeat my past mistakes by sleeping with you too soon"
"We were just talking"
"I would never do that"
"I've never sent nudes"
WHY DO THEY FUCKING LIE
They're not mad, not most. They're sad, this is akin to a feels thread, just much more specific. Guys who've heard similar bullshit when their hearts are broken and can relate.
Also, you might think it's kind, but without context, it could just be her attempt to spare herself the guilt, like a lot of these phrases exist for.
To save the girl the guilt of being at blame when she comes out and breaks a guy's heart, which is why they suggest a friendship after. Because they want him to still be nice and not hate her, so she doesn't feel so bad about what she did.
Who do you love but just want to be friends with after you've already been dating? What part of this is mercy after you've led them along in a relationship only to pull this on them?
What if she was in love and then lost the feelings? Why should she feel guilty for wanting to keep him in her life as a friend? If he doesn't want to be her friend he should just say so.
my ex was fucking insane she told me she got raped by almost every male member of her family including her dad got dropped off on Mexico and left to her own devices when she was three complete bullshit she would just make up got more stories if interested
What about the bullshit I've told women?
>I'll never share these pics
>No babe you took my virginity too
>Why would I look at that stuff when I have you?
>I think they should raise the age of consent
>Yes I do have a job
>Of course I'm not racist
>Someone sent me that as a joke, why would I want a synthetic vagina
>I don't care about the size of your tits/ass
>All the women there were ugly, I only have eyes for you
>I'm saving my money
>Going out with bros
>I don't want anything from you
Did you not see the "I love you" part on the post up there?
Furthermore, maybe the reason why it's wrong to try to rope someone you break up with into a friendship is that if you're breaking up with them that way, clearly they don't want to break up with you. They don't feel the same way, they don't want to "just be friends" with you. Just because you decide you no longer love someone doesn't mean that their feelings fall short too.
From that point until they can eventually get over it, you'll still be that other person to them, that romantic partner, that person they loved, while you see them as nothing more than a friend.
You downgrade them from their position and while they wallow in their sorrow, trying to get over you, they get to see you go off and be with other people despite them still loving you. Then they have to just grin and bear it, accept that because you're "just friends" now.
See how that's wrong? Got an idea of how that might take a toll on them?
make out with a bitch twice when she had a boyfriend
ask her to hang out, she said ait
hour before her hanging out
>my boyfriend doesnt like me hanging out with other guys
blue balls all the way
The only ones I'm guilty of
>I don't normaly do this but if it's important I'll comit to a relationship
Kek fuck and then break up a few weeks later
>no you're the only girl I've been seeing
>I don't know what's wrong this never happens
Kekle but also embarrassing
But..but..My name is Jessica.. Anyhow agreed fuck the name Jessica, I'd rather be called Jess or J, Jessica just sounds annoying as shit
hahahaha I love how these chicks say what ever first comes to her mind that will make her feel better about herself but when you analyze it with logic it just comes back to how it makes them feel at the moment. and everything that comes out of her mouth is just a justification of her actions.
No you idiot
Girls make up these excuses because they think it's nicer but it's not its torturous and its in no way to be nice its to convince themselves they didn't do anythjng wrong
My ex litterally made up some conveluted nonsense about wanting to see her ex boyfriends some because she missed him.
Of course I wouldn't allow that and what did she do? She dumped me for it.
She never wanted to see her ex boyfriends son she wanted to be with her ex boyfriend but couldn't admit that because it would make her a stupid who're so she hamstered up this story then I'm the bad guy for trying to control her
ITT: betas so desperate for a serious relationship that they get butthurt when a grill tells them frankly and honestly that they don't think it will work out
It's a blessing you fags. Move on and bang some other chick.
Not bullshit you and tell the truth. Not try downplaying it as a simple move to a friendship. You're breaking someone's heart when you break up with them, take responsibility, yeah they may have negative feelings toward you after, but you brought it on yourself.
That's the cost of entering a relationship and changing your mind. Don't try to justify it with nice words and avoid the blame and negativity you're responsible for.
You changed your mind and want to back out. You hurt someone, don't lie to them. Cut it off completely for the better of everyone, or don't at all. Doing it half-assed trying to dodge the bullet you deserve is just going to hurt them more.
>been dating this chick for about 4 months
>easily a solid 8/10
>great body, mediocre tits
>my first serious relationship
>one day find she's been texting a guy
>flirting with him
>call her up and tell her we need to talk
>when she comes back, I tell her
>she says: 'I just needed more'
>I yell 'what'
>'well I need about a tree fiddy'
It was about at this moment that I realized that my girlfriend was actually about 8 stories tall and was a crustacean from the protozoic era
HAHA ARE you kidding? Brought it on themselves? Yeah, I'm sure that's how it works. "I'm feeling bored. Maybe I should fall out of love with my boyfriend and break his heart into millions of pieces and then tell him we'll be friends. I'll feel great!"
both of you need to check this >>602214057
>"You're like a brother to me."
>"You're like a giant teddy bear."
Pastor's Daughter in High School. She used to rag on me about going to a public uni when she went to a private religious uni. She dropped out due to her poor grades and went to community college.
I never fucked her but it turns out I was one of many side guys she didn't want her parents to know about. She had quite the Napoleon Complex because she was 4'10"
I wanted to ask about my missing watch when I was fingering her but I never got around to it.
>femanon attempting to justify fellow femanons doing the ridiculous shit this thread was started over.
>mananons trying to explain to said femanon why she is being an apologist slutbag trying to rationalize why any woman would do shit like this.
Too mad bro. You okay? Is your rectum burning?
Yes, it goes for anyone. If you enter a relationship with someone and break up with them, you will hurt their feelings, and yes, it I'd your fault. You directly cause it by making the decision that causes it. You can have justification for it, sure.
That doesn't mean that it's suddenly okay to sidestep and pull out bullshit to try to make yourself feel better about what you're doing. In the end, if you pull bullshit like this on someone that loves you, you will hurt them more than if you broke things cleanly and went your separate ways.
>broke things cleanly
Learn English motherfucker.
"We are two different people. And i think we will fight cause we want different things in life" She felt cause we were different we couldn't compromise. Then she sleeps with someone and trys to get back with me.
>Implying I meant making the decision to lose feelings.
Don't play dumb, we're having an earnest discussion, don't be an asshole about it.
Clearly, I meant making the decision to break up with the person, which obviously is the direct cause of their heartbreak. Which you don't have to make, but you do, for your own sake.
Which is fine, nobody can expect you to put your feelings beneath theirs, that's the right choice for you. Just know it'll hurt them, obviously, and you're responsible for that. You cause it, and therefore, as the source of that pain, you're at fault, yeah.
happened when i was 15
>i have a crush on you anon
>next day shes kissing with my best friend
>theyre in a relationship for 6 months.¨
I know English, you stupid inbred fuck. Past tense, have you heard of it?
>mfw the pic and where it comes from
>can't trust them. Every time I try, it always leads to them being shitty people. Is this normal? Am I doing something wrong?
Yet if a femanon said this about men she'd be a stupid attention seeking bitch.
>I love you
>lets be friends
>this love is real
>this distance is holding us back from new experiences
>I want us to have 4 children
>maybe we should stop talking completely
>I want you to hold me in your arms more than anything
>meet girl at community uni
>we chat shit, smoke between class, friends
>she gets a job at my restaurant
>we get an apartment together after 2 months of dating
>spend a year madly in love
>shit moved quickly, we both knew
>bought the house her grandparents grew up in
>day after we finish moving, she wakes me up with the most raucous intense sex we've ever had
>after we finish, she lays across my chest and says "our kids are going to amazing"
>a week after living in this house, she starts coming home from work later and later
>no mind paid, figured more hours/saving getting ready to start family
>"i dont think this is going to work"
>a long grueling month of bullshit arguments and pointless fights
>go back to parents for a funeral, gone for 3 days. she refuses to come along.
>come home and the house is trashed.
>she comes home later that night, her exboyfriend is with her.
>he leaves, she immediately starts in with why I lied to her about when I was coming home.
>want to kill...cant muster enough fucks to give.
>sell house and the 10 acre plot it's on to state
>no divorce, never married
>took both cars, and everything but her clothes
>she files police report saying I raped/abused her during our relationship
>three months of lawyers/police/hearings/meetings
>living alone, will not ever be in a "relationship" ever again.
Can't live with them, can't live with them.
>why not just be gay?
No hunger for wang...sorry /bro.
In the context of all things discussed so far... If you're intending to be "nice" and do all that's best for you two, then it's for the best that you don't speak up about wanting to be friends until they're over you or with someone else.
The reason for that being that you obviously just broke their heart, and while you don't love them anymore, they love you. They may let the breakup through because there's nothing they can really do, but that doesn't mean they accept it.
That they all of a sudden no longer see you as their lover. You're still their loved romantic interest. Being away from you, being demoted to a friend, knowing you're just going to go off and date others, if not outright seeing you do so, all that will consistently hurt them and solidify that pain that they've been dumped. Recovery is a lot easier for their life if you're not in it.
Do you see what I'm getting at? I'm not saying they're monsters without souls, just that that's bullshit, and if you really mean what you say. If you want the best for them, to spare their feelings not yours, you won't do that to them. You being with someone else while they love you will just hurt them.
>what if you weren't boyfriend/girlfriend, what if you were just dating?
I'm raging with you
Because femanons have never had this experience from men. When a man breaks up he just breaks up he doesn't attempt to ruin your life or beat you down emotionally
Men even ones who cheat still plan on being faithful and keeping their family together
Women just blow the whole thing up
Not by my standards. I'm OP, the one that said that, and I wouldn't think so. I think double standards are fucking stupid.
I said the girls I've trusted all turned out to be shitty people. Not that all girls are, and plenty of guys are also shitty people. It's just the truth. Maybe I'm doing something wrong, maybe I've only ever run into shitty women but there are a few nice ones out there.
I can't say for sure that I know, I just know what I've experienced, and it was shit.
>if you call the cops on me for hitting you, I'll just say you hit me, and you'll go to jail ;)
No worries /brothers. She did her damage, but she's more damaged than she can ever make anybody else. I feel genuine pity for any poor bastard she ropes next.
I'm the guy that's been writing the paragraphs. I'm not defending the creepy beta bastards that go on one date with a girl and think it's a sealed marriage. I mean two people in a relationship.
Alright then. I still don't really get why you can't be friends with an ex. I mean you don't have to hang out or go on a double date the weekend after but efter a month or a few months you should be able to say hi. You once loved each other, how can you never speak again?
I understood the joke, man. No offense intended, I just couldn't be gay, even with that notion. I think if my choices were alone till death or go gay, I'd suck on the barrel of a shotgun.
Until they get over you, it'll just hurt them. I get what you're saying though, you once loved them, shouldn't be enemies now. Perhaps not, but it's just no good for them until you know they no longer feel that way about you. Though, why stay friends?
At what point do you go "I don't love you anymore, but I still like you as a friend." It doesn't really make sense to me. Where is it that your relationship for a person magically shaves off just enough greatness to make you still like them but less than a lover?
How does your heart engage a downgrade?
>Bitches be tryna
You're either a nigger, or you're trying to write like a nigger speaks. Either way, gtfo.
I can see you being friends with an ex when you're both over it and there's no hard feelings about it, but nobody wants to be demoted and moved to the sideline so they can watch another person take their place.
Until they no longer want and value you, until they no longer see you as their number 1, they'll never be happy with just being your friend.
They see you as more than that, so being forced into that lesser position and watching you actively slip further out of reach just gets progressively more crushingly painful for them.
But once they're over it all, it's fair game. Why not be friends?
i have a strong feeling im going to be dissapointed soon.
I owned just about everything. Paid for everything as well. She came from a poor family in a small town...her father provided for her entire family as the local garbage pickup service provider. Town of about 100-200.
They're like you in a lot of ways women aren't, most behave like guys, most process information and formulate responses like a guy would, much like yourself. Therefore, you may find yourself not being so attracted to them, because they lack those different aspects that we usually adore in women. The exception is effeminate men, but then they have dicks and male bodies that kinda kill that bonus for them, you know?
That's sad. Someone we loved romantically gets placed in this lesser shithole position because somewhere down the line we decided that they're more like a relative to us than a partner.
Doesn't sound too great to me.
Naïve anon here... So I've only confessed three times, the first was impulsive and I regret. The second, I was genuine but she was, "just not ready to go into a committed relationship" and that she "wanted to enjoy her time alone." Okay, I get that. The third was simply, "You're like an older brother to me. So, like, incest..." Then she awkwardly stared off... Um, I really want to say that I'll meet the right one later on but this is bull****!
Also, this is something that disgust me. You can put your dick in her but as soon as you're done, she's nothing to you anymore. You can talk shit about "this crazy bitch I used to date" and laugh at her with your guys. In the mean time she's sitting at home telling someone about her exes and saying "This is anon, he was a great guy, unfortunately we wern't right for each other".
DTR? I dunno what that means, but I take it that you mean if you've been dating but never actually settled on a relationship?
Really depends on how you go about it and the context of things, it can both be normal and shitty.
Pretty much, if you talked and found out you don't like them, turn them down. They don't really have a basis to be too heartbroken over it.
If you string them along though, then it's still not as bad as if you were dating, but it's still kinda bullshit.
Best to just make it clear when you're dating multiple times that you're still unsure, otherwise you may be giving them time to get attached. After all, consistently going on dates with people and shit will obviously lead to think things are leading toward a certain something.
define the relationship
And if a girl is seeing a guy and they haven't DTRd but they have kissed and then she looses all feelings for him and he's still writing bullshit like "Hey cutie" even though she's told him she's not feeling it. Is she still an asshole? Or if they've been seeing each other on and off for a few years, and then they're in a relationship and then they break up and then he gets a new gf and when they break up these two are still sorta on again and then she decides she just wants to be friends, but they've actually been in a real DTR:d relationship.
And how will grills in these cases ever know wether they're being assholes or not if the guy doesn't say "I don't wanna be friends" or something like that. There are sooooo many scenarios.
Someone is buttmad that sometimes it just doesn't work out, and there isn't anything more you can do. Someone doesn't understand that its better they aren't in a relationship with some bitch who doesn't care about him. Get over it. The sun will rise as it does everyday brother.
I'm sorry.. what? I was talking about how it sucks that you can go to being dragged-n-dropped into this void of "familial love" from a position of romantic life partner love so easily and without you really doing anything wrong. They just one day go "I like him as a brother now, we should break up."
Does that not suck? You don't have to do anything wrong to have your relationship go to shit, people just mutate their love into this other form and *poof* No more love and happiness for you.
People don't mutate their love. In any serious relationship the love is bound to change once you get out of the honeymoon phase. Sometimes it changes into a more platonic friendship and sometimes you can keep the sex alive. If it turns more platonic you can choose between having an open relationship until you get your attraction back or breaking up. Living in a monogamous society we think we only have the latter option.
That's fucked up and all, but I don't get what you mean. I'm talking about how it sucks that people's love just magically mutates from romantic to familial without you ever doing anything wrong.
I'm not one of those "Oh yeah, I dated this crazy bitch once that I fucked" kinda guys. Clearly not, I made this thread to gather the words that bring the sorrowful feelings to many men like myself who hear them from a girl that thought things "just didn't work out" some odd day.
>be the only one who listens to her shit for weeks
>she even cries when talking about her feels
>she suddenly starts dating some random guy
>"hes the only one i can talk to about deep stuff"
>that guy probably doesnt even know her last name
why do they always act like they are together with their bf because they are soulmates? cant they just say that they want to fuck him?
the lie with a long story too it.
She seems young to me, and really energetic in that youth. It's not necessarily bad, I just wouldn't pour my heart into it, expecting a girl like that to be mature and hold a lasting relationship with me. But what do I know? I'm the guy who had his girlfriend break up with him over bullshit yesterday.
Yes but if you open the relationship until you get the attraction back... Well that's not a long term way of thinking, assuming marriage might come from it. I get the point and the concept and why in a monogamous society, it really feels like there is only one option but doing this feels like just stringing someone along.
Yes but if you open the relationship until you get the attraction back... Well that's not a long term way of thinking, assuming marriage might come from it. I get the point and the concept and why in a monogamous society, it really feels like there is only one option but doing this feels like just stringing someone along.
Go back to wherever you came from. I didn't make this thread as a hovel for those that go around abusing people like that. I don't enjoy recycling. I'm not going to fucking abuse someone like that if I don't like being abused. Not everyone is like that, go assume and project your bullshit elsewhere.
>you're a really good guy
>you're qt and intelligent and I can talk about anything with you
>here he is! my best friend and I can call him for sexual needs whenever I feel like
Nothing feels better than when you've stuck by someone because they'd ocassionally fuck you and then after ending up hurt they confess their feelings for you and you just tell them you're better off as friends.
No, if you do the open relationship thing you can find your way back to eachother even though it might take some time and work. You both are aware it might work, might not and can both make an adult decision about wether or not you wanna try.
There are many scenarios, and I never said that these guys have to accept this, but by proposing it, you open up a path and push forward this request that'll undoubtedly hurt them. It's better that they do know this, but honestly, these girls should already know. It's only common sense, how could you possibly propose just being friends after breaking someone's heart and thinking they'd be cool with all the shit that entails? That their hearts wouldn't be broken when they see you with others?
A non-committal relationship that involved a bit of kissing or whatever and devolved into nothingness is not a real relationship. No reason to be heartbroken about it, also that repeatedly hitting on you guy is thirsty. Get that man a straw.
As for that on and off ex shit, once he got a new girlfriend, he kinda made it fair game for you to do the same. This is only an issue when you dump someone and break their heart, then expect them to want to just be friends afterward as if they won't be hurt and would just be cool being friends as they suffer trying to get over you.
Also "Let's break up. I wanna start over, we moved too fast. Can we just be friends?" The shit my girlfriend told me yesterday. Complete bullshit.
>letting you down gently
The most underhanded way of breaking off a relationship. Women AND Men who do this type of shit deserve long, miserable and unloved lives.
Break away clean, or don't break at all.
I'd really like to give the benefit of the doubt... Well, I guess that I feel opposed to the idea because I feel that it's just wrong to be where you're not wanted. A girl tells me that things are not working and I'll work hard to try and make it work. She tells me that maybe time alone is best, I'll say fine, but just tell me when and I'll be out the door.
Except an open relationship is not a real relationship unless you're a cuckold, it's just two people putting their feelings on layaway to fuck other people until they decide for themselves which is more important. Promiscuous fucking or their feelings for one another.
Open relationships, humanity's way of rationalizing their guilt for wanting to fuck other people. Men and women who are convinced this is good for their relationship are absolute morons
Because you are a betafag. Instead of thinking women aren't worth the time you need to realise that it is infact you that needs to change and not the women.
Until you realise that, you are just a betafag.
Believe fellow anon.
Name is Zach, her name is Tiffany.
As much as I wanted to choke her out during, it's been about 3 years since then, and all I wish for now is that she's matured at least a little and still thinks about me once in a while.
>inb4 she doesnt. i know.
Or they're grown ups who realize everyone have problems and the solution can be anything, you just have to try. If you lose the spark with each other (because you were idiots to begin) you might be able to get it back if you have nice sex with someone else and remember the nice sex you used to have. Or you find out that seeing others was the right thing to do and break up.
also, open relationship is not the only other solution, just an example.