Since 50 Shades of Grey came out, has your girlfriend gotten into BDSM?
Mine has, and it is great as hell. At least the film did something right....
Remember, BDSM is a mutual agreement. Just because your partner agrees to being in handcuffs doesn't mean you can abuse your partner. About the only good thing about the movie "50 shades of grey" is that it highlighted the necessity of mutual agreement. The rest was crap.
>He originally faced five criminal charges, including four counts of sexual assault and one charge of choking, in relation to alleged assault incidents involving three other women
lmao every women i've fucked loves being choked. this bitch is just trying to get money
Screw that book, and movie. Bunch of ucking tourists.
Exactly. People in the lifestyle take precautions to be safe. When I choke my babygirl I do it in a way that doesn't harm her, and takes her to the edge, without going over. I could easily kill her if I weren't conscious of every second that I'm in control.
mine lets me tie her up. She isn't into the restraint thing as much as I am, but she does like it when i fuck her doggy style and push her face down into the pillow so she can't breathe. If she needs air she just taps out.
Nothing as elaborate as the BDSM community practices
But yeah, since seeing the movie opening weekend my girlfriend has been open to being tied up, blindfolded, spanked, hair-pulled, smacked in the face with my dick, cum shot on her face, anal...
Its like the movie gave her permission to do stuff she'd been hesitant to do before
Note: Still no choking, whips, fisting, etc.
Anyone lurking, or am I just posting to see myself post?
People into rope work are 'professionals' at what they do, and my crowd tends toward the artistic side, so many of the amateurs look professionally done.
No. Since 50 Shades came out, my girlfriend won't stop ranting about rape culture and claiming that the patriarchy culture is what caused 50 Shades and its popularity. Some feminist group on her campus and a few online have their hooks in her.
I mentioned ONE TIME that the author is female, and she practically bit my head off. Oh yeah, and stopped having sex with me. Rape culture this, male chauvinism that. And she pressures me into participating, which I do because I honestly think she'll leave me if I don't.
Want to know what sparked this? We went to see the movie together, she was nudging me during certain scenes, and acting turned on during the ride home. When we got home she started undressing, throwing down heavy hints of wanting to roleplay, things got going, I guided her into doggy position, and then I slapped her on the ass. Once. She went full nope on me, flipped out, guilted me, and has been using it to get me involved in her stuff ever since. She writes on her blog about what a good boyfriend I am and how interested I am in feminism, and then turns around and tells me shit like "remember, even you were capable of that kind of thing", referring that one playful spank that I only did because I thought I was making her happy and doing what she wanted.
So yeah, I'm now a "feminist" because of 50 Shades. Because I pretty much have to be to stay with the woman I love. It sucks, but I guess love isn't supposed to be easy. Still, hearing about 50 Shades pisses me off now because it almost ruined my relationship.
Pic related, it's the attitude my girlfriend and all her friends have about 50 shades.
Fucking find a new girl you pussy. Rewarding that bullshit behaviour by staying with her is like a beaten woman staying with her man. Grow some balls and get your fuckin' head on right. Your gf is fucked in the head.
If she wasn't into it before that shitty movie chances are she won't be into it after. Every woman I've been with has been into spanking. Seriously, she wasn't let you spank her during sex drop her, or enjoy having your balls carried around in her purse for the rest of your life.
Are you fucking kidding me? Look, I am not telling you to rape her or anything, but grow some balls. If you behave like that during sex, you don't have to wonder, that she doesn't let you fuck her.
-more melanin (masculine)
-better fashion sense
-lose virginity earlier
-dominate every social circle
-knows how to fight
-probably bullied you in school