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>>603118123 Oh I have no plans to by any means, in fact I'm TRYING to make my life as great as possible so the time i spend in this fucked world is somewhat bearable. However, there's just so much I have to learn and so much I want to do...but I'm still young so there's still plenty of time. I am extremely worried about the future though, and by worried I mean scared out my fucked up mind
There is a girl I really like, but she has a boyfriend. My reason for not moving on is that she's perfect material for a wife (that's what I look for in girls). She's only the third girl I've liked in my life. But her personality is perfect, and has a 8/10 body and face. I'm afraid to make too obvious of a move on her because of bf.
>>603119244 stop being a faggot and start fucking a bunch of different girls. It will get rid of that "HURRR PERFECT MATE FOR MARRIAGE AND LOVE HURRRRR" life is much easier if youre just trying to get laid
>>603118685 It does, but complaining won't bring change. Be a man not a Faggot, by that I mean don't expect things to get better on their own, a man doesn't complain how hard life is, as a matter of fact, the harder a mans life the harder his cock! So when life wants be a bitch, you gab her by the tits and ram your diamond dick in her ass cuz your a man!
>>603119513 i and The Blacker The Berry. i was way too groovy for me, it wasn't hip hop. The Blacker The Berry was an blacker version of HiiiPoWeR. Not really possible for a white person to enjoy without getting annoyed.
i really hope ill be able to move out of my parents house one day. I know im only 21 and people say im still young. I just really want a fucking career and get my life started. I mean im going to school and trying but its just taking too long i guess. idk thats whats on my mind
>>603119244 Love does not exist, forget finding a woman that's wife material because women are emotion driven creatures that live in the moment and will never be loyal. Just train yourself in the player arts and drown your gay feels in pussy
>>603117778 I'm a little drunk so just pondering about everything. I have an IQ of 146. I have always downplayed my intelligence to get along. Life is very boring to me. At a crossroad of not sure what direction to go. I mean, what's normally considered "shit" jobs are the simplest. Make money. Go home. If you lose it then so what because you can get another. An "important" job you have to dedicate yourself more to and I get bored quickly with jobs. I like change and to be challenged but I am rarely challenged. So it's all very confusing.
So... there's this test tomorrow. Teacher is infamous for making them stupidly hard. Last test took most people a WEEK to complete after they took it home just to be prepared for the next. He gives us an hour. There's only one guy who passed this class last semester; some literally autistic douche who's socially retarded but quite smart.
I should be studying, but I'm sabotaging myself. Is there hope? Of course there is; it's just coding; if there's any logical solution to any problem he leaves I'll find it so fast the old fart will claim I cheated. I'm a fucking ace, it's the only thing in the world I know how to do properly. The problem is mostly I don't know that many libraries, and the faggot teacher expects you to know a few dozens so it's humanly possible to code enough lines in an hour to do his shit. I'll fail, and I'll get depressed. It's not out of the question I'll kill myself over it. I should've started to prepare days ago at the latest; yet my cronic procrastination has gotten the best out of me yet again.
>>603120795 thats the thing I dont because my parents said there is no need for a job because im going to school. I would get a job but im pretty sure having a job and going to school would be too much for me to handle. but im also trying to save for an appt but its hard cuz i have no job. I just feel like im in pause mode on my life but im too old to be school im only in the first semester of my degree and im fucking 21, 22 in april
>>603121673 Because you have what others wished they did because it would solve most, if not all, of their problems and yet, you look at the negative side of it, assuming what you say about your being that intelligent is true.
>>603121367 Lots of students have side jobs, there's no other way to pay for their cars, food, and beer. Work part time somewhere, see how much you can make per month, and see if you can afford your apartment. You have money, independence, and a coming degree.
How do i approach a female i want to fuck, we have go to school and we do physics and statistics together at school and sit next to each other and talk a lot and seem to be really alike, how do i tell if she is in to me and how do i being up us fornicating or being in a relationship,
>>603117778 The Winter is over. I was just remembering all the stuff I did this Winter. It was grand, really. I had great times with the old lady. But she left me after all the years a few weeks ago. I handed out blankets and food to the homeless people who were cold on my side of town. Some of them got killed by wicked assholes. I'm feeling rather depressed with the loss of the old lady actually. But I know I'll be alright. When I'm ready it'll be time to chase ladies again, so I guess that's exciting. About to get a motorcycle too, so that's always fun.
>>603117778 I just want to know what it's like to go one day just feeling good, physically. Every day my body decides to fuck me over somehow and I'm sick of it. I just want to be able to do stuff like a normal person without my shitty body getting in the way. At the very least, I want a name. I want to at least know for sure what the fuck is wrong with me.
>>603119319 I'm just so horrified of living a mediocre life, I want to be something great for god! I have hopes and dreams and passions and i would glorify The Lord in whatever I do, but I'm so scared I'm never going to amount to anything! I'm so scared I'm gonna be a miserable old suicidal man with so much regret and nothing to live for! I don't even see myself finding a good woman to make me happy and share my life with, I'm so scared, I just want someone to hold me and promise me everything is gonna be all right...
>>603121297 Its pretty simple going by solely what you said. Its a take home coding test/challenge so just write it up looking up problems as they come along. Then to dispel doubt of cheating, make some minor intentional errors. I have done this in copied code (cheating literally) and have been doing this for ever and never have I gotten caught.
>>603120521 Is moving out an option for you? Seems like your parents are toxic to your life. Using your card is no good.
And I just have my music player on shuffle. Currently listening to The Mars Volta.
>>603120627 I'd advise you to continue living at home simply because it will save you a lot of money and stress. Unless your home life with your parents is absolutely awful, I'd avoid moving out.
I understand where you're coming from though. The desire for independence is heavy. It will come in good time.
Don't move out til you have to is all I'm saying.
>>603120630 Yeah, I understand what you mean. Everyone has their own ideal girl. But a lot of people try and outfox their way out of the whole thing by saying that no girl matches up, when in reality they just aren't putting forth much effort to find a GF.
Just give a girl a try even if she's not your type or perfectly ideal. I'm not saying fuck anything that moves, but don't hold out forever waiting for the perfect person to come by.
>>603120643 Well they seem young. Most young people's relationships are pretty fleeting. The odds of them breaking up are probably pretty good.
With that said, I would still heed my previous advise as to not get hung up on one girl. Keep yourself open and out there.
>>603121025 I never go on /soc/, but the few times I checked it out I was kind of creeped out and disturbed at what a sausage fest it was.
The only trolling of /soc/ I do is when people post their "rate me" threads on /b/.
>>603121046 Are you maybe putting up some sort of barrier because you simply don't want to work?
I used to scoff at working some sort of sociable job just because I thought it would be stupid. Deep down I realized that I hated the prospect of the job because I knew I'd be terrible at it.
Sometimes we lie to ourselves because the truth is harsh.
>>603122122 It's true. You just can't see it from my perspective. Most people want to be "smart" but it is more of a burden than most people realize. You can't relate to a majority of people and you can't understand infatuations with things people commonly have interests in. It is a very lonely existence and can be more of a hell than you could ever understand.
>>603122726 Plenty of parents who want to and are able do pay for their kids college and living expenses fully till whenever they land a decent job and can do it themselves. Not most to full extent though.
I think I love a girl. We haven't met irl. Inb4 I'm a faggot for that. We've been talking for actually 3 months today and 2 months ago she told me she liked me and I've really started liking her a lot since then. I'm sort of autistic when talking to girls and I don't think she likes me anymore. My messages are honestly cringeworthy lately asking her if she still does, I get maybe one response a day. Her bestfriend who i trust told me she specifically told him she doesn't like me anymore. Yet I think she does because I posted on facebook "theres a cute girl in a cute skirt here and i have a BONER" and her friend told me she liked someone else so I messaged her and asked and she said I liked someone else so she thought it was fair she liked someone else. She thought I liked someone because of that post and I don't think someone who didn't like me would care if I had posted that. She's literally perfect. I'm a 4/10 on my good days and she's a 10/10. I don't know what the fuck to do, I don't want to lose her.
>>603123033 I would simply not give a fuck what most people think or feel. I don't now so I wouldn't then since intelligence wouldn't change my core personality. But it might be different for normal people since I am a sociopath.
>>603122631 >>603122031 No, it's not a take-home challenge. He gives you an hour. 60 minutes; sometimes 50 if he's in a hurry.
Some people on the class got together and tried to solve it. They had the solution a fucking week later. Also, I don't care if he claims I cheated in the slightest. He still has to pass me if I have the solution by the end of the hour.
>>603123108 >Her bestfriend who i trust told me she specifically told him she doesn't like me anymore. Yet I think she does because I posted on facebook "theres a cute girl in a cute skirt here and i have a BONER" and her friend told me she liked someone else so I messaged her and asked and she said I liked someone else so she thought it was fair she liked someone else. She thought I liked someone because of that post and I don't think someone who didn't like me would care if I had posted that. She's literally perfect.
>>603122618 The Lord above protects and guides. He loves you as a faithful child of his righteous dogma, and adores all his children so he knows the number of hairs on your head at any given point in time, brother. Stay faithful and you should know that the Lord will see you through your hardships and so long as you remain true and open minded you'll become a great man. Such feelings right now are atrocities no sane man would welcome, and are indeed just fleeting things when living under the watchful eye of our savior.
>>603123033 If you were really smart, you would kill yourself. Anyone with an IQ over 130 is smart enough to realize the meaninglessness of life and kill themselves. Good thing my IQ is only 113 and I still take pleasure in keeping up with Yeezy and Kim I guess the IQ test was wrong, you're just autistic.
>>603121367 I'm in the same position, mainting a high GPA seems hard enough as it is. If my parent's are fine with me being a career student for now then I don't mind either. I get a measly allowance but I really can't complain.
Just finish school, that's all it matters right now. Once you're don'e you'd be farther ahead than most.
>>603121810 I know how you feel. I recently, through miscommunication moved up in my job. I wouldn't mind it as much if I was making more, but I make the same amount of money and have more responsibility/stress. There's no further room to move up unless I become a manager and that's definitely going to happen as I don't care enough.
Is your stress from the new position the result of you simply be unacquainted with the position and you're still figuring stuff out, or is legitimately stressful?
>>603121916 Then don't date them or get to know girls better before you start dating. Some girls hide their power level until they know it's safe.
>>603122013 Of course you will, anon. You just have to make strides to get there.
What is it, in your mind, that would make you happy? >>603122142 >>603122544 >>603122710 Strange the reverse image search said that. It's actually from some large aquarium in Japan if I remember right. Not saying that the possibility of similar one in Dubai couldn't exist. But that particular photo was from the Japanese one.
>>603122618 Look at yourself...You're going to wait your whole life for God to single you out and give you special treatment and guidance...go out there and live your life to the fullest, make this world your bitch. Or your going to be an old christfag on your deathbed wondering why you "couldn't" live happily.
>>603120627 Not one day. Set a specific timeline and a goal. If you finish school you can start a career. You can't expect to run a marathon before conditioning. If you can't deal with conditioning, maybe you don't want to run a marathon. Think about what you want in life and if its a career then fight for it.
A person with an IQ over 130 would realize the insane improbability of our own existence and the fact that they were born in the glorious technology-driven 21st century. They would realize that to kill themselves would be a huge waste of a lottery-ticket life.
Of course that does not exclude them from having serious mental issues, but don't spout shit about meaninglessness of life. The whole Universe has no meaning but it exists. Pigs have no meaning but they exist. Just to realize your own meaninglessness does not mean you can't enjoy our precious spot in the history of the universe.
>>603124745 Sorry you just can't see it from the perspective of someone with a 130+ IQ. It may make sense to you and me, but those with superior intellect think otherwise. Trust me my friend had a 150+ IQ and as soon as he found out, he killed himself.
>>603122738 No. I've done a wide spectrum of jobs. I've worked at a movie theatre from low level usher where you basically clean the theatres and tear tickets and then promoted to the absolute most important job of projectionist. Which was fun but felt abused by management so I quit. Also have worked stocking, hard labor, office filing, music, teaching, Business management.... etc. I just get bored when I get into a groove of everyday is the same. My favorite job has been running projection though because everything was so specific but management at my movie theatre was very silly. When you add the pettiness of human nature everything becomes unbearable to deal with.
>>603117778 I think I like a guy from my school. He's brown-skinned, skinny and a little pathetic, but I still think he's adorable. He told me he was dating some dude and I felt super jealous. Before him I've only liked women, so I'm a little confused.
>>603123874 She lives 4 hours away. Trust me, I tried asking if she liked me still.
I got this reply at 6am, it's now 10:25pm.. "I need to tell you something"
That shit has been eating at me ALL DAY. I fucked up my business class presentation due to it.
The message I sent last night that earned that reply:
I really just need to know if you like me [girl]. [bestfriend] told me you told him you don’t, but I don’t want to believe that. I don’t want to look like a fool thinking you still like me if you don’t. I know this last week was very unlikeable with the whole you thinking I liked [diff girl] thing and then me going emo and blocking you for an hour and then me telling you that earlier, but I honestly think you do still like me mainly because I can tell when you are irritated and you get irritated at things someone who liked me wouldn’t. I know I’m cringeworthy sometimes. I type this long messages that are probably annoying and cringey but I write them because I care what you think and feel I need to tell you what I’m thinking so you don’t have to assume any of it. Before shit started rolling down hill this weekend between us I had typed out this really long message and you can read it if you want:
>>603123315 I dont care what people think at all. I think you missed my point. I don't relate to people as in I can't understand them. So it makes things more difficult for me because they want to "shoot the shit" when I just want to get to whatever it is we need to do but as far as work goes it isn't about how well you do the job or how interesting you can make it but how much you can BS with the higher ups and such. I get tired of being smarter than management or corporate and such because if you do something great they take credit or get mad and undermine you. I dont play games and I wont play games. I just dont understand people.
>>603125551 Bro, you need to move the fuck on. I don't even have to read past the first couple of sentences to know that you are way too clingy to attract a girl.
You want to know how to get this girl that you're so in love with? Stop giving a fuck about her. Start giving a fuck about yourself. Make your life so exciting and awesome that she hears stories about you from other people. Then she'll be like Anon, it's Michelle, how are things? Then you wait 3 days to respond and she'll pretty much instantly fuck you.
Stop following her around like a sick puppy. Grow some balls and live a life outside of your love fantasies.
Bought a new car for the first time on my own last September. Hit a deer about a month and a half ago in it.
Got a shitty rental car for several weeks, then took the car back because the part still wasn't there.
Took the car in today because the part was finally there, only to see the retards scratched the bumper upon reassembly. Great. Enter Rental car 2.
Had a lot of shit to do today (including going to the eye doctor because my autist coworker sprayed wheel cleaner in my face). Couldn't get to apartment in time for visitor parking pass.
Faggot neighbors stole all the visitor parking spots. Rental car got towed, class and work tomorrow. If I miss the conference at school tomorrow I get 2 days of absence taken away (already have 2; 3 means down one letter grade).
Boss told us we don't deserve raises, even though we're down by half the people we normally have. Fuck that stupid cunt on a power trip.
But at least I got a comfy bed going for me, which is nice.
>>603126114 We have no mutual friends. She lives 4 hours away. I went to high school with her cousin but I'm in college now and her cousin doesn't go here - no chance for her to hear about me.
Trust me, she's the kind to drop you if you don't reply. She's a bit sadistic and gets her way no matter what. She likes to completely ignore people for multiple days and wants you to not care, but if you ignore her you just goofed and aren't getting a response for a month. How do I move on from perfection?
Having a high IQ doesn't mean shit. There was a fellow in the US that followed a bunch of genius kids for years, and just as many turned out to be completely worthless as those who were successful (I cant remember the dude's name, I'll look it up if I have to). Still, if you are that smart, don't work for anyone, work for yourself. Start a business, innovate, dream. Also, learn social graces regardless (i.e. fake it till you make it). I don't give a shit how smart you are, if people feel they can't relate to you, they will overlook you every chance they get and find someone else, and you will always need help from someone.
>>603122507 Already been said, but exercise. Also, alienate anyone in your life who makes you feel like shit. Don't for a second think that you need someone in your life if they make you feel like shit.
>>603125060 Seek out a job where not every day is the same. Monotony isn't for everyone.
Why are there so many people who are fake as fuck? I'm tired of all the bullshit that people put me through for no reason. I'm not a negative person. I don't talk shit about anybody but people do that shit to me.
How about NOT ruining a 14 year old's life? Ok, sure, she'd have sex with you. But imagine if you raised a kid. Imagine you painstakingly changed her diapers, drove her to school, watched her make mistakes, watched her be violent and agressive and tried to reign her in, imagine doing all of the parenting that 14 year old needs. Then imagine finding out some 37 year old douchebag seduced and fucked her. How would you feel about that? No sweet 16 boyfriend, no going to prom and staying out a little too late, just getting slammed by some horny 37 year old who's only in it for the sex.
How would that make you feel as that girls parents?
"Could use some advice."
Don't do it man. Forget about the girl. You're 37 and she is 14. You are almost 3 times as old as her. She has a whole life to experience sex and you greedily want to snap it up as soon as it becomes available. You're selfish and horny, that's what you are.
"Could use some advice."
Could use some advice on how to deal with the blowback of fucking a 14 year old. Fuck you man. I actually hope you die because if you're still thinking this shit at 37 you're never going to stop being a fucking degenerate retard.
>>603126934 There is a point in some people's lives where they figure out that they will save countless hours of time if they stop spending so much time listening to other people's bullshit and start wasting time on their own.
Suddenly your friends get a lot more interesting, too.
>>603127668 Don't try to work up the courage. Fuckng do it. Go full retard man. Copy and paste it into text right fucking now and hit send, if you're friends she'll say yes, kiss her afterwards. Then smash her.
A girl keeps texting me every day. She always starts the texting. I'm not sure if this means she likes me. I'm probably just stupid and can't tell. Any of you have a similar problem where you can't tell if a girl likes you or not? If so, how did you find out if she did or didn't like you.
I've been fucking around for too long. Plan to go full time student in the fall with the max. credit hours I can take just to get it over and done with.
But I still keep playing with the idea of taking on a job. Not sure if I'm going to be able to handle full time job/2 jobs + full time student.
>>603127912 Anything stopping you from getting a job besides procrastination?
If you've been working out, presumably you've made some gains which in turn made you a bit more attractive, even if you don't notice it. That's going to increase your odds of getting hired. Attractive people are more likely to get hired a lot of studies show.
You'll also be able to preform a lot better at work since you'll be stronger/have more endurance than the other co-workers there.
Go ahead and apply to some places, anon.
>>603127941 Not really. It's pretty common for girls (in their early 20s) to have had more partners than males.
>>603127991 What sort of things is she talking to you about when she's texting you?
>>603125551 I was in the same situation once... This message sounds so much like what we used to write to each other. I also thought she was 10/10 and I was not worthy, etc. In the end she started messaging me less and less and eventually when I kept trying to talk to her she made it clear that she doesn't want to talk to me any more. I was devastated. This was in highschool. Right now I'm graduating from university. I have a girlfriend who is infinitely more compatible with me, I have a job lined up that makes more than my parents have ever made and life is perfect. Shit happens. You learn. You move on. If you focus on improving yourself everything else falls into place.
>>603127991 Don't be a pussy. Here's what you do. It really isn't fucking hard; >Text her back, don't text immediately, wait a minute >Make her laugh >after you make her laugh, ask her out, just say, "Hey, you wanna go out? Maybe get some drinks and go to dinner?" >make sure she knows it's a date It really isn't hard. Just say exactly what you want to say, she'll like the fact that you had the balls to say it. All women get turned on by two things, Confidence and Comedy. If you can do both, she'll automatically trust you
Do you like her? If you do, make it clear, and you'll soon find out what she thinks. All you guys in this thread need to stop caring so much about what other people think. At least in so far as it informs your decisions. If you don't like her, just be a friend. If you do like her, try to make something out of it. Life works out so much easier if you are proactive rather than reactive. It has an added bonus of making you seem confident. Even if you don't feel confident, do that shit often enough, and you will start to. Rejection isn't the end of the world, it just means the person isn't the right one, so soldier the fuck on.
>>603126771 I actually do run my own small business right now. Thats how I get by because, obviously, you need money to live but I can't "fake it til you make it" because it's not in my makeup. I realize when people are quote end quote "beneath my intelligence" but I can't use, exploit, or lie to get ahead. I don't care enough and it just isn't right.
I didn't say be a manipulative asshole. I said learn social graces and learn to connect with people. If you don't you are almost guaranteed to fail. If you tried to work for someone, you would get canned. If you run your own business, it won't stay afloat. We are social animals, you need those connections. It doesn't mean you have to be an extrovert and the life of the party so to speak. And don't just give up on it, the shit can be learned. I grew up introverted, and I still am, but I taught myself to open up when I needed to and get to know people and make friends.
I'm not sure where to go to from here. Let me just get this out first, I dislike cops. Not because of the typical little kid thing (hurr he took away my weed) but because these days they're more or less agents of the government and not the people. Now, the problem is -- I'm not sure what to do with my life and like solving puzzles. This makes me think being a cop is my best bet. Being a detective or investigator of some sort.
>>603117778 I want to leave /b/ forever. The problem is that I live in a world where everyone seems to be about as deep as cardboard. /b/ is the only place where I can get an occasionally deep insightful discussion.
>>603127228 It's like you're your own little genius. I almost want to pat your little head. The gift of gab and the gift of intelligence are completely different things. However, I am not lost on the idea of "playing the game" but am not interested in it because I think it is silly and stupid. Lower intelligence people will think that money is everything but I can't see life that way. I would rather be respected and appreciated for being good at something than how much money it brings me because I was able to lie and shit on people. So who is really the idiot here?
>>603128630 Her and I agree on so many things though. She's the only girl I've ever known who is truly funny and not a fucking bitch. She isn't a slut, she's a virgin and has never sent n00dl3s (inb4 suuuure, i am 100% she hasn't)
I don't know what love is. I think I love her though. My chest literally aches when I think about her not talking to me anymore. She's so fucking beautiful and funny. I never thought the day would come where i was crying while typing on 4chan because of a girl.
got a gf but not even sure that I have feelings for her and we rarely talk and hang out anyways but ive known her for so long and after what we did to be together i feel like it would be a waste of my time
Most cops are actually decent people. Sure some of them are douchebags, but take any group of people and some of them will be a waste of oxygen. Try actually getting to know some of them and they won't seem so bad.
Also, local/state cops are not the tools of the government you think they are. Hell, anytime you see the federal government make a move on something domestic, you'll usually see articles pop up soon after of sheriffs all over the country telling the feds to go pound sand and that they won't enforce whatever the new rules are.
>>603129654 There is nowhere else to go. You won't find more genuine, open-minded people anywhere, you can always speak your mind. We won't argue with you like on facebook or reddit, we just call you a faggot, and leave it at that.
>>603128547 She just texts me about random stuff. Most of the time she starts off with some funny picture. I'm guessing she does this to start the conversation. Then we just talk about how our days went. I'm just really bad at keeping the conversation going. Here's a little background. I liked her during our Senior year of Highschool but every time I tried to make a move she would stop me telling me that she thought of me just as a friend. So after we graduated I just stopped texting her because well I dindnt want to hurt myself and she was going out of state for college. Out of nowhere around November of that same year (5months after graduating) she starts texting me and well I text back just cause I didn't want to be a dick. So now I'm getting all the feelings back for her but I feel like I'm just going to end up hurting myself again. I've never had a gf so I'm not very good at telling if a girl likes me or not. Am I just wasting my time?
>>603129538 Not all cops are evil, despite what you might read on /b/.
As with anything, there's good people and bad people. So long as you go into the job with good intentions and stay true to your convictions you'll be just fine.
>>603129614 Talk to her at your party and try to gauge her attractedness to you based off of what she's saying or not saying (non-verbal cues)
>>603129654 Perhaps leaving /b/ forever isn't the solution. Presumably you want to leave /b/ because it eats up too much of your time.
Just try and limit how much time you spend here. Easier said than done.
People able to identify with people and vent out your feelings and frustrations is an important asset to have for your mental health. Don't entirely exclude /b/ from your life if you feel like it helps you relate to people.
>>603129675 My CC experience has been hit and miss so far. Have had some really amazing professors and I've had some absolute SHIT ones.
>>603129828 Have you discussed this with her? Do you both sort of feel this way?
Anyhow, make an effort to hang out/talk to her more if you can.
>>603130471 Listen to something calming and allow yourself to wind down. Can't force yourself to fall asleep.
What's got you feeling sad?
>>603130767 Was she legitmately unavailbile at the time when she considred you just a friend?
Have you personally changed in anyway that could possibly make her more attracted to you now?
Just keep talking to her and try to figure out whether she's attracted to you or if she's just being friendly/talkative.
Why am i so fucking bad at socializing it makes it 10x harder to flirt with girls , Only gotten laid twice before that i failed to realize when girls were into me. how can i get girls to like me when i'm sober i can't rely on alcohol because i priorities getting more drunk over getting laid fml
>>603129803 Yep. And I'm telling you that's exactly how I felt. I, too cried while reading her messages. It's a painful process, but there is a light at the end of the tunnel. When she stopped talking to me I was sad for weeks. I felt like I've ruined my only chance to have such an amazing girl. I guarantee you that there are many others. They are hard to find. You need to go to social events and talk to people. Meet people. Do it without looking for anything in particular. Try to find something interesting in everyone. You will eventually realize that most people appear very shallow and boring on the outside but if you talk to them long enough you will be surprised by how many interesting and unique experiences they have. Sometimes they are passionate about things you don't care about and sometimes they seem illogical. Ultimately you'll realize that they are not all that different and foreign and you'll learn to understand them.
TL;DR: The world is big. You will eventually find not only a girl you like more but many people with many interesting things to teach you.
>>603130494 >>603131159 no, she doesnt know about this at all from how she is acting and im really thinking about just staying for a few more weeks maybe to see if the spark reignites. weve had past before and she really does get me on a personal level but gf's in general just have been too much fucking work for a few cute texts and a barely substantial physical relationship
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