How do you guys deal with the feeling of lonliness, depression, anxiousness, etc?
I cuddle and fuck my gf.
Can't you do that, anon?
pic related, her
When I get high with my friends, we dont do shit but chill and listen to music. Im starting to hate weed because it flares
up my friends schizo
Girlfriend just recently moved states, im moving there in two months, but yeah i cant do that. I hate being high alone. But thanks for the help!
Interesting way to put it, thank you. I did hear from one of my favorite comics that he was helped out of his depression by getting at least 45min of sun a day, no matter what. I will try that soon. Thanks anon
OP here, I sometimes do this pretty sad thing when im depressed or feeling lonely. I go on Facebook/Instagram and unfriend/unfollow some people. Im too rational to take my own life, but I can at least remove my online "existence" from their lives in a sense. I dont know, its pretty faggy.
Thanks bro. I visited her last month. Fuck me it was unreal how comfortable it felt there, when i got back "home" i was so dejected and didnt feel a thing. There wasnt any homesickness, it was just "oh yeah, i have to be here again now". I didnt miss "home" at all and right now my mind is with her an my new home, which is affecting my college studies, i gotta get my shit together soon. Dont want to move without my degree
Ah, nice. And i'm the same way. She's been in Florida with family for the last 2 weeks. Shit blows. She'll be home tomorrow around noon though, so it's not that bad. But yeah, I know the feel, bro.
You should try and look into how you feel in anyway. Just write it down and try to look that up, then go to a psychiatrist and try to get help. Ive been trying that method but havent gone to a therapist yet, i really want to.
whats this feeling called:
>even though you aren't in love with the girl'
>you want to text her right now
>you want to talk to her
>applies to any girl
>there is a slight hope she likes you back
I'm in love with this one girl that rejected me multiple times but i don't want to talk to her anymore. There's another girl that i dreamt of her last night, shes cute but i'm almost certain she'll reject me too.
Hell, any girl will do. I want that surge of emotion when you're texting and get flirty and theres a chance she likes you back.
Whats it called?
Sorry to hear that, old friend of mine is an alcoholic. He is very nostalgic whoch is sad becase most of us have move on from him, simply ecause of his alcoholism
You just need someone to care for you i assumeZ. Try onlinedating, may sound like a pile of shit but once you find a gal itll be alright man. Just gotta play it right and youll find someone. You can do it!
Same here mate!
hah alrighty then!
You hope it never happens to the people you know, but once it does reality hit hard. You can cry it out but te true test of strength is whether you can continue to live and prosper even with the hurt of it. Some people never get out of it, you have to anon
Sounds exactly like what my friend is going through and his schizo, breaks my heart that i wasnt able to help him in anyway when he has his episodes. Love him like a brother
But just try and occupy yourself dude, working out or writing about what youre going through, or find any sort of new hobby with friends and immerse yourself in it. It will help and make you feel a lot better, trust!
If you cant find a reason, make a reason. Trust me, ending your life wont make anything better. Youve gotta make a reason to live to realize the other reasons that were there all along. You got this mate!
In a cynical and sadistic way, it can for some. Not for me.
You can pick your life up from there, you just have to have a sliver of hope, even if you have to create it yourself. It will become the building block to getting out ofthis rut. Try onlinedating
Therapy, medication, family support.
I have no friends anymore and no job or anything, but I'm a damn sight better than I was this time last year. I've been slipping back into feeling shitty recently so I think I might start seeing a therapist again. Also I need to get back into doing progressive muscle relaxation every day, as that seemed to help me relax a lot more.
Thanks man! Means a lot to hear you say that.
You have to listen to the doctor man, listen to him and your family. They really do care and just want the best for you. They'd never put you in a situation that they think would hurt you. They love you bro. Its gonna be pretty fucking hard, but youve got this, i promise you!
Thanks anon. I'm working on getting out of this rut though. Been to rehab and trying to straighten shit out.
I won't online date. I don't have a car or license atm. Man drugs and alcohol wrecked my car and life pretty bad but I'm pulling through slowly.
27 yr old male.
never had a girlfriend.
never kissed a girl
nobody love me.
depression started when i was 12.
about a half a year ago planning to commit suicide.
recently started on medication and therapy and i finally accepting my lonely life.
sometimes i miss a girlfrind i can care about but i know someday i going to have one
Nice to hear that you arent giving it. Its easy to do that, but harder to push against that. You will get through this and start your life up again man, it takes time but when you get there uou will be a better and stronger person for doing so.
Youve got a long road ahead of you but the fact that you even found the map for the road and are on entering it says a lot about who you are, step by step man!
I understand. Neither did i when i started. I used the old "cars in te shop" etc, or double dated with friends who had a car hah. Be as creative as you can, meet then at places and such. Coffee is good since its cheap. You can do it!
No probs, im here for yah!