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>>605985905 Leave her, it sucks now. But it will be worse if you stay with her, it will be hard to pack up your life and all that shit but you gotta do it or else you will never forgive yourself. Don't listen to what she says, even if she is sorry. Once she knows she can get away with something like this, it will happen again and she will just continue to take advantage of you. She cheated, she broke the rules. Now just walk away, you will thank me in 6 months.
Does she have unmarried and single sisters? Does she have a vehicle that you bought for her (not that it matters who bought it)? Do you know where the person she cheated on you with (and probably HAS been cheating with a long time) lives?
If you can say YES to any of these things, congratulations, you can do something about it. Additionally, I hope you've been keeping receipts of shit you've bought for her, because you can take things back even if it's something like an engagement ring (which I would additionally go to wherever you bought it, if you bought it that is, and have them print out a proof of purchase).
Anon take her back, you have a kid. But go home and get your hair clippers. >grab the bitch by the hair >be manly as fuck so say something like come here bitch >show her the clippers, turn on right near her face. >say if you ever cheat on me again ill cut more than just your hair off >then do the dino... No seriously cut that bitches hair off, she wants to fuck like a man she can have a bald head for a few months!
>>605985905 Accuse her of rape and domestic abuse, ruin her life, take the house and have your family and friends hate her... oh wait, you're a guy. Nevermind. Just keep eating the shit you're dealt and man up and take it.
To be fair, you could drop down to her level and fuck another bitch, and if she says anything, she's a damn dirty hypocrite :)
Also, check and make sure that kid is actually yours. She may have confessed recently BUT that doesn't mean she has been doing this for only a short while or just once. She could have been doing it this whole time without you knowing.
I am going to be really blunt with you, and I know you won't listen because I didn't either.
I got back together with my girlfriend after she cheated on me (still with her now) whilst I have no regrets at all, it is always itching on my mind.
I'm uncomfortable when she goes out without me, I hate it when she is always on her mobile phone etc. It doesn't go away. I don't think it ever will. If you think you can deal with that, take her back.
>>605985905 thank you lucky stars you didnt marry it.Pretend all is well for a while then walk out and take everything with you.Tell you sorry you panicked lets see how it goes but dont move back in with her. Keep her for your little toy for a while and when you get bored change your number.
You can try to get "revenge" but trust me, that won't work, and that won't solve or help anything, if any if will make you feel shittier. The best you can do is leave her and leave behind all she was and meant to me, if you were close to her friends or the person she cheated you with, you must also leave everything behind.
Go watch some movies, drink some beers (Just a couple don't become an alcoholic), have some fun and enjoy things in life that you couldn't do it, while you were with her. That will be some mild relief.
i feel ya op, not much I can say but best things to do is keep this saying in your head " don't mean nothing, not a thing" and drive on do whats best for your kid now, Subscribe to this guys newsletter or if you have the cash get the book theres really alot fo good stuff that might help you. http://soyourwifecheated.com Not trying to promote the due or sell his shit if anything just subscribe so you get the mails it helps a bit. if you decide to stay with her my advice is to judge her by actions if she really sorry you will know by the things she does. consider it your free pass now, lay down the law. She keeps nothing from you or its over search her computer at will phone what ever you want it's the only way you can be sure and if she's truely sory she will not have a problem with it. Either way things go trusting her again is gonna be hard to do if at all. Life for you two will never be the same but sometimes you just have to deal with it and drive on. Your kid is the deciding factor in anything you do from now on. Sorry man been there done that and it still hurts everyday.
I cheated on my wife (then girlfriend) with a hooker (no idea why the hooker was fat and ugly and my wife is like a solid 8). She found the emails and confronted me about it. I broke down and told her it was all true and that I hated it and myself for ever doing it (she found out about 6 months after I did it). Now this was after 5 years of dating so we were pretty serious. She didnt leave me, she just kept me on a short leash for a while and I had to show her that I wasnt going to fuck up again, I gave up alot of my freedom for a few months to help her gain back trust. Slowly she did and now we have been married for a year (3 years since the hooker incident) and I couldent ask for a better wife.
Honestly think about what you have before you throw it away, people fuck up. You may not find a girl better than her.
She said this because admitting she did "something" alleviates her guilt enough to never worry about it again and not telling you what actually happened will still allow her to have you as her nice, reliable boyfriend.
If you forgive her for "kissing and foreplay" in her mind you've automatically forgiven her for greedily sucking his dick, drunkenly letting him fuck every hole on her body and her loving every moment of it.
>>605988604 >ea why the hooker was fat and ugly and my wife is like a solid 8). She found the emails and confronted me about it. I broke down and told her it was all true and that I hated it and myself for ever doing it (she found out about 6 months after I did it). Now this was after 5 years of dating so we were pretty serious. She didnt leave me, she just kept me on a short leash for a while
Thanks for this, good post.
I can't stress enough how good the relationship was. I'd love to think it was just a fuck up due to alcohol.
>>605985905 I think cheating is grey instead of black and white like people tend to see it. It all depends why, really find out why she did it. If its because she's selfish and didn't really care about your feelings or didn't think shed get caught and just wanted a thrill, that's bad news.
If something was actually seriously wrong in the relationship, maybe even something your fault, try to fix it. Also get a revenge fuck.
>>605988982 It may have been, mine wasnt even due to alcohol, I just had insane amounts of stress on me from graduating college (last semester and barely passing and no more money to pay for another semester) and I just had a moment of weakness.
Luckily my wife didnt blow off the handle and leave me, I mean she had every right too. But honestly we have an amazing relationship now, she agrees it would have been wrong for her to leave me as well. Just think about it long and hard OP
>>605987934 why stay with someone after that, it just blows my mind dude, you people are hopeless. girls who "go out" to drink especially are really not the kinds of girls you want to be in a relationship with
>>605985905 I was cheated on, I can share with you what I did that really helped me.
> Be me > Three years ago > Getting married in 6 months, everything is ready > Out at dinner one day > Fiancee seems tense > Ask what's wrong > She says it's nothing > Okay... Continue eating > Silent drive home > Get home and she jumps on me, ripping her clothes off > Have sex > She starts to cry > "I'm sorry anon, I can't love you anymore, this will be the last time we are intimate" > Tells me she's been cheating > Heart drops, get super mad > Tell her to gtfo of my apartment > She won't go and starts yelling at me and crying, begging to let her stay > Start throwing her shit out the window > She locks herself in the bathroom and calls the cops > Great. They're going to take her fucking side when they get here > 15 minutes later > Cop bangs on door > Yells "OPEN THE DOOR!" > Open it calmly > YOU! GET ON THE FLOOR! > EVERYBODY WALK THE DINOSAUR!
Since that day, I've been fine. Everything sorted itself out.
>>605988604 >>605988982 it would suck to throw more years of your life away on someone who doesn't respect you. you might look back and be like "fuck, i should have ended it there" maybe you can handle your shit more emotionally than i, but i'd never be able to look at her the same
>>605988982 Even if it was "just because of the alcohol" do you really want to be in a relationship with a girl who drinks around others guys? instead of hang with you? seriously? That to me is just the kind of girl you want to fuck around with, not be in a relationship with
>>605989041 Tell her you will forgive her and you can both work on the relationship and you wont be a fag who brings it up all the time.. But tell her you get to have one drunken indescretion as well.. End of problem
Hey Anon, don't listen to dumbasses that try to hide behind machismo. It really depends on where she's at and if you feel its worth saving. Is she remorseful? On her knees for forgiveness? If so, she fucked up and she knows it. Its a huge mistake and it won't go away. You can forgive, but you can never forget even though you'll want to.
If she keeps coming up with excuses how its because you made her feel one way or the other, or trying to redirect guilt onto you, its not healthy. She needs to know there's no excuse.
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