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Super qt3.14 in my English class, she's not hot but she's beautiful. She's genuinely nice which is what I primarily look for in someone that I'm gonna spend money on to fuck. She smokes weed and since I work in a smokeshop I always give her good deals on stuff and try to flirt with her when I can. She has a boyfriend currently but I'm trying to continually offer things that kinda give me a one up on her current boy. My hope is that when she breaks up with him I'll be her first option, or if I'm lucky she'll just break up with him for me. I don't know her well enough to hang out with her outside of class or try to infiltrate her relationship.
>>606054506 You're in highschool, this is the perfect time for you to go big. Be a cocky motherfucker and be confident. Confidence and uniqueness is the best way to get a girl and really isn't that hard to fake. My best method for getting a girls number is to be talking to her and just pull out my phone and hand it to them with the new contact page open. Unless they're a bitch, in which case you wouldn't want to be with her anyway, she'll put her number in there because it's too mean and awkward for her to give the phone back. Works every time for me.
Been friends with her for 3 years, she is the younger sister of my best friends wife. Says she loves my personality and uniqueness, she values weird ppl I guess, likes that I play music. Now I spend most days with her, but I am totally in the friend zone. Of course it is becuase I am 30 lbs overweight, she is like 10 lbs overweight and self conscious and wants to get back to where she was 2 yrs ago after breaking up with longtime bf. We jog together sometimes, I have been gyming it and dieting like a motherfucker trying to be the best person I can be, to try and earn her. the feels man I love her and she likes me alot but she just isnt attracted to me, she talks about other guys all the time, but shes afraid to talk to dudes, she has blown a few suitors off, but I know the second one comes around that fits her aesthetic Ill be dust in the wind... tfw man I can get in shape fast enough.
>Found sweet qt redhead in high school >We try dating, we both suck ass at socializing so it doesnt work, break up >Go to colleges, no contact other than random texts >We meet up years later to hang out as "friends" >Its still painfully obvious we want each other >She leaves forever again for college I cant pinpoint what I find attractive about her, I honestly thought I was over her the second we broke up but when we met up again recently everything from highschool came flooding back into my brain and now I just cant stop thinking about her at all. She didnt change, she s still the same little aggravatingly timid qt pi shes always been, and Im still the same beta fuckwad who cant stop fixating on someone who might feel anything for me
>>606056582 what pisses me off about the whole thing is that she came after me, told me how she thought I was so much more interesting than other people and how Im more honest and straitforward and that she loves my personality. She totally wanted to hang out with me on the reg, I didnt even give her a thought until she started coming around. And now im stuck, If i tell her how I feel she will run screaming, but she started this shit tfw its not my fault I think she is my world.
>>606056582 That's a tough situation to be in man, you definitely are doing that right thing trying to get into shape and stuff. Maybe try hitting on her more? Make it a little more obvious that you're interested in being more than just friends. But keep working out man, if you get in shape that will always score points with other girls if, hopefully not, it doesn't work out with that chick. Good luck bro
>>606058092 If I hit on her she would call me creepy and run, ive been conditioned to not touch her or be sexual with her in any way. Though sometimes shell slap me on the ass or fight with me playfully, but if I did that she would freak. I don't fucking get it man. We are so honest with each other, Im sure she gets the inkling that im interested, how could she not? But its just not gonna happen. This probably wont workout but i hope one day Ill find a girl who I can be open and real with. I think maybe that was my downfall, I never tried to act cool around her cause I never saw her that way, but we got so close over time that I couldnt help but develop feels.
>>606058931 Well bud, if you know its not going to work out, ain't no point in shooting knowing you're going to miss :/ Move on, find that girl you can be open with. I know its not that easy if you got feels for her but no point in trying if you know it won't happen. You'll find someone bro
She's half asain half white, 26, 5'4, 100 lbs. hot as all fuck. she has her issues, but she's also amazingly sweet and kind. A sexual freak as well. Shes so into me emotionally and physically - it's actually a little weird. I don't really do anyting to "get her". I'm nice to her and I fuck her good.
>Be me >Spent every lunch with her talking >All the year gone >She is gonna graduate this year >Friend tells me to go for it >whynot.jpg I'm gonna ask her this week, everyone says I have a chance but I don't want to fuck it up. She is the only girl I can fucking stand here, and there is no better definition of perfect in my dictionary then her.
>>606056827 >>606061665 Have you tried talking to her at all? Finding someone who likes you is a unique feeling, I can understand why you wouldn't want to give that up even of there's a chance she likes you. Try contacting her if you want to try your luck with her again.
>>606060469 You wanna really test that theory of weening yourself off? Bring another woman around her, if you want an insight to a woman's true feelings, make her jealous. You come out ahead either way, you might've found someone better in the process too.
>>606062609 She hates it when I talk about my ex, which has to count for something. She likes almost everything about me except for my body. But yea bringing another girl around might make her feel that there is a deadline and she should make the move if she ever intends to. But idk
>>606053675 Sure... Since I cant seem to fall asleep >Met online 7/10 girl Decided to meet at a mall downtown, been talking every day. Newyears eve comes, we bone and I ask her to date me. She seems hesitant because her parents hated me. But she agrees.
She is a petite girl, weighs about 100 pounds. We bang all the time. We have been dating now for a year and a bit, things are still going well. We only had one argument because I went out to a show and got drunk and texted her, then called her a buzzkill (because she is)
i wouldn't call it very serious though... She loves me to bits still and idk why.
Toe she's perfect. Her Instagram pictures make her look kinda slutty ( only a couple ) but in person she's really funny. I used to remember her as shy but loud around friends. Not much of a body but she's skinny and short. She asked me to hang out one day because she saw my Snapchat story was hilarious and she thought I was too. Being the beta fag I am... I "hung out" with her and practically ignored her the entire time because my friend came along for whatever reason...I wanted another chance to talk but now she passes me without even looking at me and seems to be having much better times with other guys. I'm doing nothing to get her back even though I really liked her. I have no idea what she thinks of me now. I'm such a fag for that
>>606062901 She harbours some feeling for you, but she won't commit to you, that's bullshit. If she's going to play games with you, don't be afraid to play the game back. Just don't be shocked if she does the same, and if she does, your weening just got a kickstart and you're on your way to becoming a free man.
Hey /b/ros any advise there's this chick from work we exchange glances very often she smile me every time that I look at her. But we never speak mostly because lm always busy doing work stuff or she always taking to someone else. Who can I step up??
Doing to get her? She's fucking gone, she's completely shut me out, and blocked me. When I had finally had enough and told her how I still had feelings for her after all this time, she just cuts me out.
She did that cause she knew that I was no longer good to be used. She used me and I was so blinded by her 'she would never use someone like that not anyone...especially not me' but once I poured my heart out to her I was no more good. Bitch used me as a a crutch. Fuck her, the fucking cunt.
>>606062239 already said we still talk, but it just ends up being random small talk and she never seems to reciprocate anything lovey i tell her. But that being said, shell always be the one to contact me first, she always is the one wanting to see me and shes always the one trying to bring us together and thats what pisses me off. She cant be trying to get close to me all the time and then be so cold anytime I try to get close to her
>Met 9/10 online I'm going to Maryland this summer so I can meet her. We've been skyping each other for months now. It's been pretty good and we never run out of things to talk about. Her ex hacked into her kik and fucked with it so I got to talk to the guy and he's a fucking asshole. Other than the sociopathic ex, everything is pretty damn good.
>>606063151 yea im just waiting for the day another dude steps in, i wont be surprised in the slightest. I image maybe we stop spending so much time together and I get in shape and meet someone else, break up, then meet her again. I can't completely erase her from my life because I am so close to her older sister and brother-in-law. But it fucking feels so unfair that everything fell into place except for phsysical attraction, but I guess that is the curse of assfatasses. Im reaching a boiling point, im sleeping with her in her bed, staying up to 3am with her, talking all the time, it is like a girlfriend simulation and It needs to end.
>>606063972 oh fuck, you sleep in the same bed too? Yeah, she either needs to reciprocate or you move on. From a psychological standpoint, she is controlling you. Make the change, I would suggest hinting at actually dating, If she is opposed, cut all ties and say you need space, be polite and not a dick, and it'll play out.
One female of choice I'm not sure about how to get closer to. Seeing as I'm in a relationship, and we're living together.
Let's get into it
Female 1(co worker) >10 years older than me >gorgeous, not married >extremely approachable >genuinely feel nice around her >we're both shy to greet one another at the beginning of the day but usually end up chatting it up as the day goes on >we frequently catch each other looking
>>606063549 Also she was the one who broke up with me long ago, but at that point I was more relieved than anything. But now shes brought me back into her life, reignited whatever we had at full flame and Im just supposed to sit here while she pretends she doesnt see me as anything?
Well i posted my story a couple weeks ago I work with this girl...she's an Ob/gyn at my hospital. i was affraid to talk to her, altough we did share the same operation room. One day i asked her for her phone number, she gave it to me, and we texted a lot, actually went out a couple of times, and things are doing great. We've gone trough some troubles mostly because some workmates got jealous, and told her a lie (that i was dating someone else, and she got mad at me for a couple of days) we managed to get over that, and i showed her that it was a total lie and not to trust them. She told me more about her, about her family. she's a lot like me, we're working on it at a slow pace. Any advice?
>new school >dont know anyone except one kid in my gym class >kid isnt there to sit with at lunch one day >sit in the courtyard eating my lunch alone >nobigdeal.jpg >see 9/10 across from me doing the same on her phone >never confronted a girl without a reason before >decide today was the day to grow some balls >take a bite of my apple, take a deep breath and get up from my seat and walk over to her
>>606062938 >>606064602 Try messaging her, make small talk, if you are a funny guy crack some jokes, just don't overdue it. Rinse and repeat till you get closer, then start hanging out with her if it works out.
>>606053675 Absolute qt3.14. One of the few people who's genuinely nice to me. She's really smart. Only downside is that she's a christian and I'm an agnostic. Right now we're friends and I've been trying to build our relationship but I honestly can't see anything happening past that. Anxiety and minor depression get in the way of a lot of shit.
>>606064943 haha oh nah I didnt send one when he hacked in, it was one day that he just got on and called me an asshole for "stealing his girl". Me and her laughed our asses off after that. And yeah i told him something like that :^) The motherfucker thinks I live near her and I dont xD
>>606064576 Happens, and it's fucked up, so yeah fuck those bitches.
And it's not like I was just making shit up in my head either(like maybe she still has feelings for me too). She would post songs, or pics/quotes of movies, 'our' songs, 'our' movies you know? She didn't really mean it though, she was just using those to keep me close, fucking cunt I swear.
>>606065048 >think in my head about what im gonna say >other crowds around are probably watching as im 6 foot 4 inches tall (stick out like a sore thumb everywhere) >Her back is slight towards me as she avoids the sunlight from being directly on her phone "Why are you sitting here all alone" >No response >after a few seconds she lifts her head and takes her headphones out to look up at me >she didnt hear me so I repeat "I said why are you sitting all alone?" >towering over her with a slight friendly smile >she says the exact words after a short awkward pause "My boyfriend is in detention"
>>606065118 I snapped her once after that day...it was never read. Said hi on Kik...never read. She doesn't want to text. I only do these things once because I don't want to annoy her even more or seem like a creeper who texts her 5 times a day with no response
I'll pour my heart out for you faggots too, I guess.
Been best friends with this girl for 5 years. Know everything about her and she knows everything about me. She said she liked me and, being the total fucking dumbass I am, I didn't take the opportunity and now regret it. Was friendzoned after that and totally fine with that, until about 9 months ago. Been in a real abusive relationship for the past 2 and 1/2 years with this girl that I thought I loved and she turned out to be a major cunt, but my friend was always there for me, helping me whenever I was feeling down. Now I wanna do the same for here, make sure shes taken care of and not hurt by anyone else. The only problem is that she has turned lesbian, thus decreasing my chances greatly. So /b/,how should I do this? This is one of the few times I could do something in my life that will make me truly happy and I don't want to fuck it up. Help.
TL;DR My lesbian friend has helped me with depression from a bitchy girlfriend, and I turns out I love her. Help me win the girl of my dreams
>>606066117 One of the things I hate doing. When I see her I get really hot... I said hey in person and she blankly walked past me. Such bullshit. I guess I'll find some whore to get over her. Anybody will do
Girl I used to sell drugs to and I got close, started hanging, move from dealer to best friend to side bitch while she's with her boyfriend, we get high and cuddle and shit, just waiting for him to fuck off
>>606065658 >My head starts spinning but I say >instantly knew this was a bad idea >sit next to her anyways >instead of walking away I forge on ahead in hopes of redeeming myself after strike 1 >start mild conversation about why he's in detention etc... >ask her what her name is and so forth >seems to have no interest whatsoever >strike 2. should have seen this and walked away >still I forged on ahead >she keeps looking at her phone texting and whatever she is doing and giving me short replies >eventually there are awkard moments of silence where I have nothing left to say and i begin to think of every posible thing I could say to her. >then eventually she says "You don't have to sit here, its okay." >Strike 3 >She's dismissing me basically >So I laugh it off and say "Oh yeah sure, I just didnt want you sitting alone or anything" >I gather myself and get up and walk away in the most shame I think I've ever felt
Sit and think for the next three days about where I went wrong. I really hope nobody has to experience that level of rejection I felt that day.
>Be me >Be 16 >First day of junior year >Don't know anyone in my English class >Sit next to 8/10 blonde qt3.14 >We start talking >Don't remember the conversation >Next day >Go into class during lunch because no friends >She's in there too >IKnowIt'sMyDestiny.png >Sit next to her >She's listening to music >Mfw it's Megadeth (my favorite band at the time) >Strike up a conversation about music >Turns out she loves guitar >I mean LOVES loves >Bell rings for class to start
Things went really well between us from that point on until just recently. She was pretty much my only friend at that school.
>>606065862 Well she told me that she's affraid that i may got tired of her soon. Also we're not actually a couple, we are meeting each other, that's why i said "we're working at a slow pace" The last night i went to take walk with her, the saturday she asked me to take her for a walk, and i gave her flowers, and she loved'em, the next day she told me that her mother also loved the flowers and told her that i have a very good taste. (so it's extra points for me). But she told me that she wants things to go slower, and to make things the right way. (We're at our 30's)
>>606066685 I did the same shit. Except to a group or sexy ass girls and they all made fun of me as I made the walk of shame back to my lonely spot. Now that I think of it, they're all crack heads now anyway...
>>606066847 She's come out for about 2-3 years now, but she's going through that weird phase were she thins she's asexual, anyways i don't fucking get it. Honestly,if I could I would have chose not to be in love with her, but shit happens you know? I've formed that love where it's through the actions and the character of the person and not just their looks (even though she's still a hard 8-8.5/10)
My gf is a mormon and madly in love with me, I brought up the subject of her parents approving of her dating a non-mormon and she said they wouldn't like it, and they may disown her. She started having an anxiety attack and wanted to break up, but still be completely together, or some shit. I don't know shit's fucked. I think she's just scared and anxious at the prospect of being disowned, told her that we can just take it slow for now but she doesn't want the title of "Girlfriend" because she thinks if we let it continue it will hurt more if we have to break up later, sort of makes sense I guess.
>>606067456 No intention of getting married, once she leaves that's basically it, taking all my shit, my snake, and moving to the country... Not looking forward to change, but change can be good sometimes too.
>tfw when stuck in a loveless, sexless relationship with someone who has completely different interests than you
>>606067651 Well shit man, definitely is a weird one. Every asexual I've known isn't really asexual so don't know how that'll work, try talking to her more flirty I guess, lots of compliments, Not an expert on getting lesbians to go straight for you so Im trying my best with advice
damn I heard what I needed to hear on here but im still lurking... I just cant get over the fact that ill never be with her, this fucking empty, unsatisfied feeling like you have a drug addiction and no drugs.
>get her number >Start hanging out after school >Not quite dating, but everyone thinks we are >3 months of hanging out pass >get brilliant idea >Start guitar lessons >Acoustic, but still impressive >Perfect my art over the next year or so >Basically nothing new happened between us until then >Invite her over after school like we do a lot >She goes to my room and starts playing Guitar Hero on Ps2 >I grab my trusty guitar from my brother's room >Sit down on my bed with guitar in lap >Wait for her to turn around >"Anon, I didn't know you played guitar!" >EverythingIsGoingAsPlanned.jpg >Play this bluesy rock riff I came up with >Throw in some bs words that I can't remember >finish my little performance >One last strum as I ask her out >Mfw it worked >Mfw Gf
>>606067335 She told me that she knows what i want with her.... so i need to give her time and be patient. One day she told me that she feels lonely, but everyone just wanna be with her for what she is professionally, not personally. "You know...i am strong..or at least i try to be... but i feel lonely..." When she sees me, she smiles. One day she left me a note with a drawing at my consulting office before i got to work. But i am confused, because sometimes she acts like she doesn't want anything with me....and others she acts the opposite.
>>606068361 Thanks anon, she's been a lot more flirty with me, so that's a plus, but she's very straight forward, as she'll tell you straight up that you're a bitch or you concentrate to much on yourself, etc. and I would want to hear that after spilling my heart out to her
>>606067933 Try living with someone for nearly 5 years and seeing them let themselves go. She's the one who dropped this "away for 9 months" shit on me, our lease is up on August 1st and we're living together as a "convenience"
she WANTS to get separated, she wanted to get separated months before I even considered cheating. Yeah, it's a shitty thing, but we both know what's going to happen
>>606068601 I know that feel exactly with my current gf, she use to do that a lot, but eventually just stopped. Women are weird sometimes man. You'll have to pull through and hope for the best, it'll suck sometimes, but in the end it'll be worth it
>>606053675 >have gf >she's perfect relationship material >not as smart as I would want her to be >also have e fuck buddy trying to get me to enter a relationship with her >I a welcomed to go get some pussy any time >other girl out of state wants me to fly in and have casual sex
I think I'm just gonna go ahead and fuck everybody at this point. I don't care.
>>606068814 Well if you two are great friends, maybe spilling your heart out to her isn't such a bad idea. I'd do that in your shoes, even if she is super straight forward. There's no way she would be rude about it if she decided against it with the history it sounds like you've had together
>>606053675 noone, not doing shit, almost married twice jsut to see that after that i really dont have interest in relationships, i dont miss them, but i do wonder if theres anyone that is worth a second date, or a call back and not just one night stands, so im usually called a misogynist douche, when i just really dont care because i find them dumb and that kind of shit, most of them are hot but not worth a relationship
>Turns out this chick is super clingy >I don't have a problem with this >We're both really withdrawn people >Pretty much only talk to each other >We date for about 2 years >Her 19th birthday comes around >Ask her what she wants >"You don't have to get me anything, anon!" >Get to thinking >Have brilliant idea >Start writing a song >It's awful and dorky but I perform it anyways >"Oh anon, you're amazing!" >Three months pass >We're still dating >She's right next to me >"I love you, anon" >"I love you too"
I lied about the sad ending, she's asleep right next to me. You anons just have to find the right person is all. I just got insanely lucky is all
>>606069120 and on the other hand we have my Ex.... she never cared to call back when we broke (3 years relationship) and some nurse told her that i was dating this girl...and she sent me a lot of texts...and calls... she called me a liar, cheater, traitor, unloyal. I said to her that she never cared...why now? I always gave her everything, and she never gave a shit. And that she never took care to built our love and friendship after we broke. Apparently she had plans to be back with me that particular week, but didn't have time to call, and that i said that i loved her, and now that i have a vagina to fuck i turn my back on her.
>>606070348 Hehe... I played guitar since I was 8 years old and I'm still shit when it comes to showing people. I'm too fucking shy to show off what I know and can do. I like recording myself play. I actually sleep next to my guitar and play when I can't sleep. Its on my bed right now.
>>606070510 Ahhh, obviously ex is trying to keep you for her self so you can buy her more shit without her having to do anything. Fuck her man, this new girl sounds like she actually cares for you and that's something you want to keep
>>606070948 yea same I have a condenser mic and laptop next to my bed, just play and record and sleep, sing and mumble. I play piano, trumpet, drums, bass, vocal, accordion and ukulele also but guitar is my home. I have alot of anxiety about playing in front of ppl but luckily i found a few musicians at a coffee shop I frequent last week so Im hoping to do some low expectation performances there on some weekends...
We haven't known each other for too long but we can both tell that there is something there, no words need to be said. I'm just afraid to say anything for fear of being 'too soon' or maybe even completely misunderstanding everything.
She's not the prettiest, she's a solid 7/10, but I'm surprised at how shes made me realise how unhappy I was before getting to know her.
girl in my nursing class is super nice to me, we text all the time. We go out in groups to the bars with my other classmates. i dont get it i make her laugh and all that shit. but one day i asked her what she was doing on the weekend, and i never got a responce so i didnt push the subject. but a couple of days latter we started talking about random shit again. What does that mean? i need help bros
>>606071750 when you practice scales, sing the notes along with it. play chords and then sing each chord tone, then switch chords and sing more chord tones, just improve until it sounds good. Learning trumpet helped my singing alot because it focuses on timbre and tone and proper pitch and melody. trumpet and sax are basically the same mentality as vox.
>>606071750 and learn the solfege syllables do re mi so fa la ti do, and learn how to use them when singing scales, they are very useful in helping you sing each vowel sound, just play a scale and sing each syllable up and down it, then improvize.
>>606072520 sure, but not enough if you dont feel comfortable singing yet. You have to come to terms with your limitations and work within them to truely sound like yourself. and focus on quality of tone and proper pitch, just record yourself singing a song, I have like 50 recordings of myself singing come as you are trying to get the mood, tone and pitch the way i want it, it is just trial and error and tenacity.
>>606071010 Yep. But this girl is much more like me, we enjoy the same things, she doesn't smoke, drinks socially, likes to take long walks, loves going outside the city, loves animals, nature, she's the one i've been looking for all this time
>high school >approched by wild whore on the streets of hollywood >literally on the corner of highland and hollywood blvd >she is a new freshmen >she just walks up to me with her filthy mouth talking about how she is going to fuck me with her pussy and all this hit >she is 14 >im shocked >"uhhh yeah sure whatever" >ignore her for 3 days >she comes to school with these boots that are tall above her knees >ask her to spin around >she rotates and shows me everything >somewhat impressed >decide to leave my current gf for her >take her home the following day >go straight to sex on my beedroom couch >she tells me to stop within 30 seconds >shes in pain >notice blood on my boxers and dick >virgin.png >we date for 2 years >she has serious phycological issues >her whore issues are starting to become real >moms puts her in a mental instatution >break up with her >see her off and on for a few more years >she moves away to oregon >becomes heroin addict
shes cleaned up and found jesus, but she wont talk to me anymore and i still love her :(
>>606053675 My wife took her out on three dates. They kissed after the last one. She's coming over on Saturday while my wife is as work. I'm smoking a pork shoulder while we drink beers and BS. My wife doesn't know that I read her texts messages. She told her that she'd better be naked and under me by the time she gets home, but to make sure I didn't come yet.
>>606053675 I just met up with my ex. >we broke up 7 months ago >i moved across the country for her at age 18 >high school sweethearts >3 days before our second aniversarry >catch her "in bed" with her cousin >now she tells me he was trying to rape her >that wasnt the case when I walked in on it >I ended up fucking her tonight I fucking hate myself. I really do /b/
No one's probably gonna read this, but I just need a place to vent. So I've liked this girl for almost a year now, but I've only gotten to know her these past 3 months. Now, I think she likes me. The problem is, she is in love with this other guy in our group- to the point that she told him. He wants nothing to do with her however, he pretty much uses her as an ego boost. I told a mutual friend in my group about her and he told me that they made out, but the guy told her that he only likes her as a friend. I've been putting in work with her, and its working (to an extent- she still texts the guy almost all the time) She likes me, but I cant seem to break the love she has for that guy. So my mutual friend hits me up today and tells me that she told him that she went over to his place and that they made out again- only for him to give her the same response about how it isnt gonna go anywhere. So of course her dumbass is crushed (really bitch- you dont seem to get it?) and I decided that I cant go after someone who isnt gonna give me the 100% I would give her. I feel like shit- I havent been able to get over her. I want nothing more than her, and she wants nothing more than him. I could use some advice.
>>606075648 This will sound cliche but you like the idea of her. She isn't the only girl like that. She was just the first. Now, you have an idea of the type of girl you want. She isn't the one. Heartbreak is something everyone has to experience, and I promise you this isn't even the real heartbreak yet. You'll know when it truly happens, and from then on it's nothing buy strength. It builds you. This is just a learning experience, you sound young so don't worry about it.
>>606075910 I thought I was stronger than that. She ruined my life. I did everything to better myself. Got a new job, lost 30Lbs, bought a new truck (lulz small dick) Then I give in the the harpy that fucked me over.
Just a pre-story note: Yes her and I both realized that this was going to end up being painful for the both of us in the end, but as you will read, we really did not care.
>raised in the same tiny baptist school since k5 (1998) >go there my whole life and never have a girlfriend >fast forward to senior year (August 2010) >we get foreign exchange students like always, most from Germany and China >One German girl comes, and I instantly feel like I have met one of the most charming and beautiful girls ever >I am pretty beta when it comes to talking to beautiful women so I hardly talk to her for the first two months she is here >We share many mutual friends, and one day all these friends plan for us to go to Jose Peppers on a day off of school >we all agree to go and, oddly enough, me and her arrive about 10 minutes early >nobody else is there, so she starts talking to me and we strike up very friendly and chill conversation >everybody shows up 1 hour late, so we really had a lot of time to talk and get to know eachother (fate maybe?) >realize that we can actually become good friends so we give each other our numbers and start texting every night for about two months >at this point I was really starting to come to terms with the feelings I was developing for her, even though our principal had forbidden relationships with foreigners >Wondered if she felt the same, but I decided not to bring it up until the time was right >that night she started to want to delve into past relationships >neither of us had any, not even a first kiss (and we were both 17 at this time)
>>606076438 Timeframe now January 2011 >I decide to lay my cards on the table and say that I like her more than a friend >I then asked her if she wanted to go on a 1-on-1 hangout (essentially date) >she agrees >fuckyesIdidsomethingsemi-aplha.jpg >We spend 3 hours at a decently nice restaurant and just talk the night away
March 2011: >go to dairy queen for some cheap dessert (she loved their ice cream) >we end up sitting in the back of my SUV watching a movie on my laptop while cuddling >I look over to her and she just asked "willst du mich küssen?" (thankfully I understood; fact is she influenced me to learn german in college and now I am fluent in it) >I kiss her without hesitation >the passion between us in that moment is indescribable >we just cuddle for an hour and make out a ton in that time >after that We become essentially the most loving "unofficial" couple (essentially FWB+love) because we both know it will already be hard for us when she leaves >at this point, being as social as she was and me being pretty anti social half the time, she was the one pulling me away from everyone because she wanted to spend her time with me and not everyone else >myheartcanttakethislove.gif
April 2011: >1st April, we went to washington DC for a senior trip (missourian here so it was a really cool and "far" away place for us) >me and her have the best time of our lives; we go tothe smithsonians, capital building, etc >we sneak out of our hotel rooms one night to just cuddle and be alone together >I decide to talk to her about being official bf/gf but still keeping it under wraps from EVERYONE because we had no other choice
>>606076480 >she agrees and I tell her that she is leaving May 31 >she knows but we are in such a truly deep and passionate love that we decide to anyway >we have been making out essentially every day since our first kiss in march, and now it is kicking up >once we get back from DC we make out everywhere in our school building, from the PE equipment room to the fucking chapel lol >every staircase, even the one next to our teachers offices, which almost backfired on us because we made the fuck out while a teacher was still there (unbeknownst to us at the time) and after we were done she exclaimed "You taste like MINTS!" and we heard a teacher say "What in the world??!??!" and we ran the fuck out of there and were never caught
April-Mid May: >we go on dates pretty much every day (this was the hardest part to hide from my parents and her host-parents) >we manage to keep in concealed >I experience what it is like for the first time in my life to be happy. Not fake happy. I was HAPPY. As in I loved waking up in the morning because I was looking forward to seeing her, her beautiful brunette half curled hair, her soft sweet german accent, her smooth silky skin, and to hear her wonderful laugh. >Once we got to may we won a state championship in scholar bowl and we were invited to nationals in Atlanta >fuckyes.avi >another vacation with her >we get to stay in the tallest hotel in the western hemisphere (cant remember the name, its a tubular sskyscraper there if you have ever seen Atlanta's skyline) >we sneak off to random floors like 65th and just make out and talk for hours >we have a great 2nd vacation there, but it starts to dawn on me that she is leaving in one week for Germany again >fuck fuck fuck panic attacks and puking every night in my room >the dude I roomed with got really worried that i was sick and I had to say that nothing was wrong >on our trip home from Atlanta to Kansas City, MO suburb town, we stop in Nashville for a night
>>606076513 Depressing part (for me) of the story: May 30, 1AM: >I have to text her to sneak out of her room so I can talk with her >she is able to sneak out past the otehr girls and talk with me on a random flight of stairs there >I literally break down and tell her that she means more than the world to me and how much happiness and love she has brought me in my life >she breaks down and tells me she has been thinking the same all day and was going to tell me too >I kiss her, one last time... the last time I have ever kissed a girl and cried in front of anybody >We sit there on those stairs for 2 hours, totally silent, just holding her in my arms >we decide we have to go to bed; we cant be caught together on the stairs in the morning
May 31: >we arrive back to our little town in Missouri >I drive with her to the airport >I literally can barely mutter a "goodbye" because I was losing the only person I ever loved and the only person to ever show me love (when I thought I was unlovable) >She boards the plane and is gone forever
The following week: >I walk, and walk, and walk >I walked about 100 miles that week, without speaking a single word to my family, friends, anybody. >my parents had no idea what the fuck was wrong and were worried sick >I just couldnt even think straight (good thing my job wasnt making me work that week) >I never really recuperated, and I havent had a girlfriend since then. >I have never felt that happiness since, and am now wondering if that was my one taste of happiness (im 22 now, was 17-18 then)
>>606076307 Dude, you are. You got your dick wet. As fucked as that sounds, even coming from a female, it was just purely physical. Be proud of your accomplishments so far. Like I said in this post >>606076250 heartbreak is nothing but strengthening in the end. Good on you for bettering yourself. Just don't go back to her anymore. Seriously, don't fuck people who fuck their kin.
I already tried everything and i was so damn close.. But for some fucked up reason she decided to act like she hated me to "not ruin our friendship", 2 days after she told me that she had feelings for me as well. I just don't get why she pretended to hate me... The Hate fucked our friendship/relationship way worse than everything else ever could. Hold me, bros..
>>606076250 Its crazy, she's legit everything I want in a girl. I've talked to other girls and they dont bring up that same passion, those same feelings. I cant seem to break her off, especially when I feel like if she has some of the same feelings. Im honestly trying to do a fwb type thing, but Im worried it wont end well
>>606077059 It won't, they never do unless it's purely unemotional, and that's clearly not the case. Just keep it friends for now, you don't have to stop your feelings because if you have them, they will be there. I'm just telling you, she isn't the first of this kind. You will find another, and that time she will actually feel the same. Just learn to cope with these feelings and that she doesn't feel the same.
This isn't to say that she may not one day grow feelings for you. Just pay attention to how she treats you and other men, assuming you stay friends. It may reveal her character more. If you find she uses you, no matter how perfect she seems, drop her.
I've just been through rejection after rejection, but i'm getting better:
>be me >HS senior >go to friend's party >start using dank memes to grab grill's attention >get her # >days pass, texting and talking >prom is pretty soon >ask her out >says "I'm sorry anon, I'm not the dancing type"
It was the cutest rejection I've faced, but it still leaves a bit of coal in my heart. Any other anons experiencing this loop?
>>606053675 shes ok. but for some reason i love her she fucks with me and sometimes makes me feel like shit. i know she would fuck me. she's scared of life i wanna be by her side to help her with her problems. she doesn't want love so i don't admit it. she plans to visit for 2 weeks and i'm going to let her stay with me. i plan to just hang and flirt with her then make a move. if everything works out i expect to be hitting it daily. if not then fuck me.
>>606054506 Don't. There are so many times I wish I woulda just talked to the girl. I ended up going to Senior prom (even bought a suit and shit) but the girl I was going to ask was too intimidatingly good looking.
>>606077474 I'm right there with you, anon. Rejection after rejection will make you feel like you learn how to deal with it, but in reality you just become numb. I've never met a girl which rejected me "nicely", instead they lied straight to my face, got my hopes up high and ended up ripping my fucking heart out.. Cheer up bro, it could've been worse.
>>606077370 I know the feelings are there. She definitely is interested, but I dont want to be anyone's second choice. Its funny- She got really jealous when she caught me looking at other girls. Im pretty sure she already knows about how I feel about her, but I think she's trying to keep me as backup, which im definitely not interested in. I really want to tell her to make a choice so I can move on, but I know its gonna make me look like a bitch. (I wanna hit and quit- but my friend told me he thinks that she's a virgin, which again, would not end well for either of us)
>>606053675 she's qt3.14 9/10 freckled and auburn hair she has a silly type of humour to her that I've come to love. She doesn't know it yet, but she is like therapy to me, this is the most I've been out of my shell in years and it feels nice man we've been flirting and shit for like 2 weeks wish me luck anons
Gorgeous Irish redhead on my course at uni. We get on fantastically, share the occasional joint and nerd out over TV. The catch is she has a boyfriend, who she suspects is soon to propose. I'm not one of these faux alpha fags who regard homewrecking as an achievement, so I've done literally nothing to express my interest, and will continue to do so until circumstances change. The real shame is I don't warm up to people easily, so it figures that, when I do, I am impeded by my own moral centre.
>>606078148 Showing someone you have value in yourself isn't a bitch move. I know I would respect someone who showed that to me. Again, you sound quite young and this sounds like highschool love. Even if she chooses you, it'll probably last for a good few years and you'll find yourself wanting more. Shit, go for it. You live once. Even if it does only last a few years or months, 'least you can say it happened. But if you're already feeling like a back burner, then fuck it. Start talking to other girls.
>>606053675 Prettiest girl i have seen in awhile, she is in most of my lectures (i think), talked to her first time today. I would really like to get to know her better, hope she fucking accepts my friend request i sent 10 minutes ago thats all,
Absolutely nothing, I made the mistake of fucking her sister because I thought we had nothing more than a super close friendship, boy did I make a mistake. She rubs it in my face everytime we're cuddled up watching a movie or on some stupid adventure.
"We coulda been fucking right now... but you had to fuck my sister"
eh, it's no issue, every time I say something along the lines of "no no no, we should be fucking right now" shell tell me to give it a few months for her whore sister to find a bf so she doesn't grow jelly
>>606078572 Believe me, im looking. I havent been able to find one that I like. Only thing is, I just feel like if I was to get with her, that I wouldnt be able to trust her because there'd always be that thought in my head that she still loves that other guy. Im not looking for a marriage, of course- I just want something to happen.
> happened a week ago, in what you muricans would call senior year > March break trip, over two dozen 17 year olds at a rented house > general partying, booze and weed > longest and one of my best friends is there (we'll call him M) > he's dating a girl that I had a thing for...for like 5 years (but that's a different story) > anyways, partying happens, end up hooking up with M's ex (L) > i finger her and she blows me > feels good > night time, we end up sleeping together on the floor in sleeping bags (not enough beds for everyone) > fool around, have sexy times > great times were had, she enjoyed also > march break ends > everyone is talking about what happened during the trip > talking with M, ask him if he remembered anything that happened to me during the trip > he doesnt know anything b/c he greened out the night it happened > slowly tell him what happened between me and L > he's ok with it cuz he's a bro and he's moved on > continue telling him story, he suddenly remembers something > "That was my sleeping bag!" > tfw when I fingered my best friend's ex on his sleeping bag
My ex. Petite, cute and coy with a wild and weird side that she only showed to a privileged few. I was one of that few once upon a time, and I feel she was my only experience of love beyond puppy love.
She has moved on since the break up, and to all outsiders, so have I. None of them know that I still think about her. It's the stupid shit I remember too. Our spastic inside jokes, her eye-rolling tolerance of my bizarre sense of humour and the like are the things that left the biggest hole. It's weird, but what made me know I loved her was how we had to stop our steamy shower sex due to laughter, as she tried to blow me wearing a bloody shower cap. The thing made the most distracting noises as her head bobbing brought her in and out of the stream of water.
It probably sounds dumb as all fuck to you guys, but those unique moments only you and an intimate lover can understand are the real core of a healthy relationship, and the memories that tear you up, knowing that you'll never make any more just like that.
>>606080049 Yeah >inb4 underage Even hearing her fucking voice shakes me with rage. Its weird though cause Id give up alot to fuck her again but its not worth it considering how she treated me pic related its her
>>606080706 Oh boy talking to womyn isnt too hard dude. You gotta build up the inner man you have in you. Before you go up to her you have to see her as your prey, and youre gonna pounce on her because youre powerful. Count to 3 and go in for the kill
>>606080840 Everyone says that, shes 18. like almostyear and a half old pic though. couldnt bother myself with finding something better she actually had like an 8.5 ass tho. I guess its k cause im hanging out with like 3 chicks tomorrow. But fuck Why is she such a bitch just done with chicks mane
>>606053675 She has a guy she's been with for over a year but they aren't together. Basically he gets to fuck whoever he wants because she's really into him. She calls him her boyfriend but he calls her his fuckbuddy. He's a cool guy and him and I are kind of friendly but I don't like the way he leads her on. I also have basically fallen for this girl and I'm trying not to become one of her thousands of orbiting betas. As of last week we all three now work together. Which is pretty shitty because it was originally just me and her. Fortunately he can't really say anything because they are in an "open relationship" or something. Anyway I can tell she likes me on some level and next week we're going to a big ass nature reserve thing together with some co-workers (her fuckbuddy wasn't invited) and we're all gonna trip mushrooms and look at nature and all around have a good time. I'm gonna feel the vibes and try and go in for a kiss if it goes in the right direction. It's kind of a gambit but I'm blessed with good aesthetics even if I'm a bumbling retard and that normally works for slaying pussy. I honestly wish she would just vanish into thin air because working with her almost every day is pretty much torture.
>>606053675 >>22 >>takes care of her body >>decent artist >>7/10 >>good personality >>actually has humor >>blonde Asked her out, she sayd she's never been on a date before then says she would have no idea on what to do. I showed no hesitation, just gave her a date and time. Sayd we would just hang out. Dint even bother calling her to confirm, just showed up at her house at the appointed time. I had let one get away before and decided it wouldnt happen again. She looks out her window then goes backs inside. it took her a while but she came out and we left. I dint really planned things ahead of time, I decided to just go with the flow. I began the conversation by asking her why she had never gone on a date before. She sayd that no one ever asked her. Probably was raised near a bunch of beta fags. I felt hungry so I stopped at a Long horn restaurant. I've never been to one but w/e. >>Food was better than expected. >>Ask her about her family. She was raised in a very concervative household. Her mom was a Jehova's witness. >>high chance of her being a virgin. >>I dont like virgins but w/e. >>Take her back to her house after dessert. >>She says that it was nice. >>I say "same time next week?" >>she replyes "same time next week" >>Dont bother calling her. >>She texts me from time to time >>I dont reply. >>she calls on friday saying hi. >>asks me why I hadnt replied back >>tell her I've been busy with works >>she asks about saturdays date >>I tell her I'll be there >>she sounds happy I pick her up and notice she's wearing a skirt this time around. Took her to see a play knowing she's the artistic type. Got hungry but decided to keep it simple. How simple? Taco Bell simple. She tells me that she really enjoys my company and proceeds to ask me where I wanted to take this dating thing to. I looked at her, no hesitation and told her "I just like you." "Can we do this more? I would also like to see you more than a day of the week"
>>606081612 Why not man up and find a hobby then? Go play a sport, or go lift, or go learn a language, or go cook. Possibilities are endless breh you just gotta go do something. From her perspective, why should she pay you any attention if you're boring? Why does she gain from dating you?
>>606081612 in case this 404's you can message me on kik: deadendking01 or just deadnedking. idk i dont use it too often Anyway Theres no way you should sell yourself short because of a girl you like right now. I know how you feel though dont get me wrong. I sit on my xbox/computer almost constantly myself. But really the best thing is to be friendly. Who knows, the chick might fall for your cute awkwardness. it happens
>>606053675 She wasn't interested, so I took her sister out. Now her sister and I are dating. She suddenly got interested. MFW I don't care because Jennifer is an awesome girlfriend (wife material!) and Karissa is a bitch that just looks good in yoga pants.
>>606081878 i used to bike but i guess i got bored of it i remember once in class she told me something i didnt hear and said "wat?" and then said she saw me on my bike and i just said "ah yeah" spanish is the main language here this was like 2 years ago tho, i dont go to that school anymore
>>606081858 She caught me a bit offguard with her answer.
it 3 additional weeks before we had sex.
I was right, she was a virgin thus quite horrible at pretty much every aspect of sex. I had never seen a woman struggle so much with oral sex...
Long story short, its been now a year and things are steady. I'm happy I dint let her get away.
You fags shouldnt be afraid of asking a woman out. Show some self confidence. Dont consider yourself a 10? not even a 5? Doesnt matter, if you show lots of confidence, chicks will be intrigued to find out why you're so confident.
Met a girl who went to my school on the first day of uni. We never really talked much before but she approached me and we got along really well. 5 weeks in and we're really good friends, we're always making each other laugh. Never had a gf before and I think she would be perfect. What do?
>been talking with blonde 1 for about 2½ years, we kissed a couple of times >not hot but cute >blonde 2 is ex gf, we see eachother sometimes >blonde 3 is ugly as shit and bad at sex, but since I dont get any from blonde 1 & 2, I hit it on a regular basis >cant decide between blonde 1 & 2, so its meeh >want to fuck blonde 2 again so bad, but blonde 1 is dope af.
>>606082637 You dont wanna be around cause of how your life is now? I feel you actually I feel worthless alot. But im changing. Seriously, you should do something. I've been working out. Keeping shit food out of my diet, reading, discovering new music, taking walks...anything to do to improve your quality of life right now. Also why say "friends"? If theyre even remotely friendly then go out with them.
>>606083187 "friends" because sometimes they talk to me and we don't do much stuff at all and i kinda dislike some of them i'd like to do something but i dunno i just cant let myself do anything because my mind tells me how pointless it would be its some kind of brain lock
>>606053675 Somehow I managed to go on a date with a girl I really like despite having bad social anxiety. Realized we have pretty much the same personality. What's weird is that she "friendzoned" me, still don't know if she was joking.
>>606083773 oh man wait is this Jeremiah? if not then soz anyway Anon you're better than that assuming youre young0ish you still have a shit ton of time to improve yourself if you really want something you have to step outside of your own head
there isnt one because i only leave the house to get food or to go to work i have no social life and no hobbys, just got one chick from america who does everything i tell her to so thats pretty nice i guess
>>606084690 Im not judging I dont think I can really help you, but I promise later in you'll life you'll grow to be twice the man you are now. You have potential, the hardest part is reaching it i believe in you
Girl I work with. Cutie, southern girl (I live in the south im from new york (not the city)) real redneck from what I hear. I wanna go for it, but theres all that shit about it not being a good idea to date coworkers. Also im a huge pussy when it cones to this kinda shit.
>>606085232 I actually have gotten laid though. Girst time high school sweetheart, second time in college. The wierd thing is, in college the girl didn't even go to my school. And I legit never left my room except for class. I was a shut in basically. She was a friend of my roomate. She came to hang with him, met me, one thing led to another and we fucked. I kinda fucked it up though.
>>606082862 At the time I was going through some serious mental strife. Towards the end of the relationship, in the last couple of months, I stopped smiling. She wasn't a reason to smile anymore, but instead a reason not to break down. She did her best, yet no human is equipped to function solely as a crutch for another. She no longer got happiness from me, rather she spent her time altruistically holding me back from the edge. I don't resent her leaving me because I had no right to drag her down. Besides, I learned to cope alone after the initial trauma subsided. It did me good in a backwards kind of way. >>606083321 Yeah, but it sounds dumb on paper without the context of the bond only me and her understood
>>606085825 Fucked it up? >>606085919 Nah. My ex and I had alot of shit like that. Shower sex is amazing let me just say that. No but its hard to let go after having someone be a constant in life for years. Having to change your whole schedule and adjust back to life without them. It just leaves a void. Im an emotional faggot so im feeling what you are.
>>606086365 Yeah, however I have had long enough to adjust. I've slept with multiple women since, and even had a fling with an aspiring model. However, the sex was just so hollow. I felt uncomfortable if any affection was displayed. It's like I need something at the level me and my ex had, but it's impossible to have that straight away.
In time, I will be more receptive, but eight now I shut off all emotion as soon as I get close because it feels like I'm placing paper over cracks. I've hurt a fair few girls, despite never being dishonest, because I have genuinely tried to bond but ended up cold. They're not carrying that so, to them, I just led them on.
>>606086905 :/ Sounds rough man. All I can say is work on you. best advice I can give anyone. Right now you dont need anyone, even though you may feel lonely. But hey since youre getting out there with the ladies again, youll probably be okay after a while
>>606087277 I reckon so. It may sound bleak but this isn't chewing my life to pieces. My existence is defined by more than my love life, so I'm okay.
It's the nights in, scrolling idly through 4chan and social networks, when I don't notice it has gotten dark outside therefore forgotten to turn my light on, leaving me in the dark, where I really want her slim hands (that were a little bony, which she hated) to rest on my shoulder.
>>606087899 Fuck, feels. When Im on here time fucking flies. I only came back because of depression... just because I thought about her, and how her curvy body felt in my arms. it was perfect while it was there.
Been friends with her for 3 years, she is the younger sister of my best friends wife. Says she loves my personality and uniqueness, she values weird ppl I guess, likes that I play music. Now I spend most days with her, but I am totally in the friend zone. Of course it is becuase I am 30 lbs overweight, she is like 10 lbs overweight and self conscious and wants to get back to where she was 2 yrs ago after breaking up with longtime bf. We jog together sometimes, I have been gyming it and dieting like a motherfucker trying to be the best person I can be, to try and earn her. the feels man I love her and she likes me alot but she just isnt attracted to me, she talks about other guys all the time, but shes afraid to talk to dudes, she has blown a few suitors off, but I no the second one comes around that fits her aesthetic Ill be dust in the wind... tfw man I can get in shape fast enough.
Toe she's perfect. Her Instagram pictures make her look kinda slutty ( only a couple ) but in person she's really funny. I used to remember her as shy but loud around friends. Not much of a body but she's skinny and short. She asked me to hang out one day because she saw my Snapchat story was hilarious and she thought I was too. Being the beta fag I am... I "hung out" with her and practically ignored her the entire time because my friend came along for whatever reason...I wanted another chance to talk but now she passes me without even looking at me and seems to be having much better times with other guys. I'm doing knothing to get her back even though I really liked her. I have no idea what she thinks of me now. I'm such a fag for that
She has a guy she's been with for over a year but they aren't together. Basically he gets to fuck whoever he wants because she's really into him. She calls him her boyfriend but he calls her his fuckbuddy. He's a cool guy and him and I are kind of friendly but I don't like the way he leads her on. I also have basically fallen for this girl and I'm trying not to become one of her thousands of orbiting betas. As of last week we all three now work together. Which is pretty shitty because it was originally just me and her. Fortunately he can't really say anything because they are in an "open relationship" or something. Anyway I can tell she likes me on some level and next week we're going to a big ass nature reserve thing toget her with some co-workers (her fuckbuddy wasn't invited) and we're all gonna trip mushrooms and look at nature and all around have a good time. I'm gonna feel the vibes and try and go in for a kiss if it goes in the right direction. It's kind of a gambit but I'm blessed with good aesthetics even if I'm a bumbling retard and that normally works for slaying pussy. I honestly wish she would just vanish into thin air because working with her almost every day is pretty much torture.
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