Hey /b/ I'm so fucking heartbroken I think I'm about to die...My gf and I broke up 3 months ago and I still love her, haven't had sex ever since, losing gains in the gym and being depressed 24/7. Anyway, we kept on talking as friends, but I made it clear I want to be back with her, she kept saying she was 100% sure it will never happen again. Today we had a little fight on fb and I told her I can't do this anymore, talk to her and only be friends while I want more. I told her to message me only if she misses me and in case she starts loving me again, otherwise I wish her good luck and that I'll always love her.
My plan is to get a job and blast heavy steroids(I already did steroids before, because of stomach bacteria for 3 fucking years I looked like a skeleton). What else can I do, I'm trying to get her back right now but maybe if I find another girl during that time I might not want her back anymore. What are ur advices, should I also block her on fb, maybe if u had an experience similar to this u can share it. Please no trolling, I'm too fucking broken right now I just might hang myself
Use steroids until your muscles are so big that you cannot touch your face. Only then will you be able to achieve true happiness, and find the women of your dreams. Only if you're man enough to work for it, with hard work, and tons of steroids.
I had a girl I loved break up with me. I got a really nice job and blasted steroids too. I got really buff (used to be skinny/average). I got a model body. A year later I ran into her and her new boyfriend. I was clearly the better male specimen.
She didn't give a shit. 2 years later and they're engaged. He's a cop now. Move on bro.
I didn't, actually. I became depressed and retreated into my room to watch porn and smoke weed. I developed a sexual addiction that consists of compulsive masturbation and posting my body in girl's clothes on craigslist. I'm better now....I think.
OP I'm in the exact same situation, just move on bro. Time heals everything, sted the fuck up and find someone BETTER. Bro if you and her are meant to be together then you'll be together, stop trying to change fate because you will find someone a million times better.
life goes on dude... let the people come to you... go to new places, meet new people, get a real hobby (don't say the gym cause is not working).
now if you wanna hang yourself, do it... that surely make her come back with you
its a feeling that will fade away, keep doing things you dont like. you'l be fine. trust me, i am now. so should you in 1-2 months from now.
make sure you break off all contact, break the habbit.
roids ain't ever the answer bro. might as well just do a quick suicide rather than a slow one. Breakups take time man, go away for some time if possible. Escaping familiar surroundings for three months was what did it for me. good luck bro
know that feel bro. girls of my dreams dumped me two years ago, and i felt for shit for... well i'd like to say a few days, but it was probably few months. 3 months later i started dating my current gf. she's amazing and i've never loved anyone as much as i love her, but i sometimes miss my legendary x-gf and get jealous when i find out she's dating. i moved on though. it takes time, but you move on.
It didn't fucking come to me naturally. For 5 months my life consisted only of work then gym then sleep. I also studied college during that time, and it's the time I shoot the steroids. Only after that I got her and I've been high school acquatance with her for 4 years.Before that I looked like a skeleton even at manlet height 5'9 because my parents didn't give a shit about me when I kept vomiting for 3 fucking years from 15 to 18. I also haven't went out a single time in my life with buddies except on my high school graduation while every one of my generation is out there partying every weekend. So fuck you if u think this fell from the sky.
had a lot of shitty gf in the years.. the ones you watch back in time and wonder what pushed me to stay with them, to try to put the pieces together.. the only answer i have is that i was inexperienced. of course if i think of them after close time it hurts, but give time to time.
watch the pic you posted. you are arming yourself. i get the steroid thing, you need to change but i fear is because i may not like yourself anymore. i too get depressed after every breakup, and now i'm out from a story that was turning into cohabitation. i feel your pain, trust me OP, i finished on a psychiatrist
bed with diazepam daily for the wrong women.
i don't know the whole story and i don't know you, but i can tell you that first of all, if you found a girl, you can find another (read my next post about this)
Second, i think that if you want her back and she doesn't want you, is not the correct thing to keep in touch OP.. it will hurt yourself and get nothing. continue
Ignore her, say youll be friends and stuff but just ignore and avoid her at any social event. This has the added benefit of meaning you dont have to face the pain of talking to her.
Then maybe message her if its a holiday or something and say something like you hope she enjoys it or something, just a random nicety message
flirt with other girls and maybe hang around with some, but dont ask any out
My gf broke up with me after 6 months, i did what i just described and 3 months later she messaged me just as a normal conversation but soon brought it to the subject of our relationship, asking if she thought she'd made a mistake dumping me. I was very diplomatic, saying i would obviously say yes because im biased but that i think it was good we were broken up for a while and how its allowed us to think. She agreed, and asked me if i wanted to try again.
Been together for 3 years now, wouldnt change a thing
First op, delete Facebook. There's only pain there. Get a job, get some gains, download tindR. She doesn't love you anymore. It sucks but it a the same as someone dying. As much as you'd like them to be in your life it's not going to happen.
>Itt get for, make money, bang hot slits
sure it is, but not when i keeps you thinking that you are going down. i mean if i've had the money to pay a gym and the time to go, i wont go!. will go to krav maga classes, that's gonna give you a very nice actitude that bitches love. and the chance to destroy any gym-boy out there.
i don't worry about how i look, just how i performance.
It will help if u are extremelly skinny like me. Discovering how people viewed u is a scary thing and u will become bitter. Depends on ur life situation, I don't know if I'd recommend them to you
good advice. I haven't been on FB in at least 6 months and only sparingly in the last 2 years. Only have a small handful of good friends and I have their phone number, u should do the same
When you are "dating" a girl, that is the best it will ever be between you two.
Time to move on, pilgrim.
OP, I would really suggest not doing the steroids. I have done them before as well and trust me, they are capable of causing serious mental health issues for someone who is already suffering. When I came off, I struggled to get my normal hormone balance back and my life became a sick whirlwind of depression and suicidal thoughts. I would speed down the highways at night screaming and crying, just wanting to die. This was of course due to low testosterone, raised estrogen, and whatever the fuck else. Steroids are serious business and you are not in a good place emotionally to be using them. Being muscular wont help with your pain, if anything your ex will just see you as a try hard douchebag
Cut off all contact. Never look back. You just hopped up on brain chems, that relationship is gone bro, no going back to the way it was. Being a bitch isnt going to do anything but further hurt you. Been there several times.
Its easy bruh. Just forget about her. Its real easy. Picture her with another mans cock in most of her holes. Unless you are a filthy cuck this should work. Steroid muscle is fake. I arm wrestled a guy yesterday with arms twice as big as mine and i whooped his wannabe arnold ass.
Tldr; forget about girl
get your shit together
Cut her out of your life, dont talk to her, block her facebook. Just rip her off like a bandaid.
Its good that you have a goal in mind so chase that, though steroids sounds like a shit plan. It took me 6+ months to lose them feels and about as long for some pussy/
TIME HEALS ALL WOUNDS.. except aids
She didn't give me a clear reason. But, I think it was because she slowly started seeing me as weak, and once I told her that I'm in very bad financial situation and I'm in pretty bad relations with my family. Before anyone says she found another guy, she loved me too much throughout the whole relationship and she had guys better than me trying to hook up with her while she blew them off like nothing, kept saying she will never be with anyone else even if we break up one day. So, even if she found another guy it's my fault for the love fading away, probably cos she saw me as weak.
block her from FB now insta and dont look back ever, orelse be weak beta forever
Lolgay. Just accept that it's over and move on. Grils have dicks flying at them as soon as that relationship status changes to single so she would have been over you in a week or two.
Just carry on hitting the gym, go out with your bros to clubs and do normal shit like that, just don't become a hermit that she'll laugh at and pity. No matter what you do she'll never have you back so just rake in all the pussy you can get
I broke up with my gf 1 month ago.We were together for 1 and a half year.Just block her(and everyone related to her) from facebook fucking retarded beta faggot.Also insult her before blocking her.Tell her that she is a slut or something.Then go talk to a girl tell her to go out.You will forget your slut ex in a week.Hope i helped anon.
drop some acid
get over her, there are 7+ billion people on the planet 4.2 Billion are women.
you've got choices.
I'll tell ya hwat, you sure do have the right idea boy.
Yeah. Everyone asked me wtf have u been up to man, or jokingly say have u been using roids dude? (not even thinking I'd do it). The girl I'm talking about now kept calling me to hang out after she saw me, she even had sex with me before I kissed her. I also got a double blowjob from her and her best friend, while before steroids I was a kissless handholdless virgin.
>mfw I broke up with my gf shit must be almost 3 years ago now
>still think about her every fucking day
>haven't had sex since January.
>have not met a single girl since
fuck you OP
I don't know, first time I used them it was from a friend of a friend. Now I'm gonna order from the biggest guy in the gym, I just walked up to him to talk about PCT and ended up telling him to make me a good cycle plan.
Post pics/screenshot or don't believe your retarded story.
just live on. after a couple of month there will be no more pain and for the first time u are free to do whatever u want. after u exercise, get a job, meet new friends, have some one night stands there will be another person u love.
Hey.. female Anon here...Awww it's okay anon. Heartbreak is always the worst. If you want your ex girlfriend back you should stop talking to her completely and act INDIFFERENT with her. Indifferent means: "having no particular interest or sympathy; unconcerned."
Do not let her know that you're suffering in any way. Girls love jerks.
This will take some time but it WILL work! In the meantime work on yourself! (Gym, school, money, family time, and hobbies).
As soon as she starts begging to get back with you, (which she will if you act indifferent with her) you will realize you WON'T want her anymore. By then you will be a better man and you will look for better girls.
Examples of being indifferent:
-Never text her first
-Do not ask how she is (because you're supposed to act as if you don't care)
-Do not reply to personal texts (if shes talking about school of her family)
-Be kinda jerkish but not enough to where she will be hurt and never want to talk to you again
...you'll be okay anon *patting your back*
Thanks, but I already told her she can only message me if she misses me or wants to go back. I don't wanna look like a pussy and start talking to her again. I'll let time go by and probably call her to hang out when I'm finished with the steroids, she will probably miss me by then and when she sees I'm better looking it will seal the deal. And maybe I won't want her by then, maybe I find another girl, who knows?
If you like to hace a second chance with her, you are doing it really wrong. You should doing opposite thing. What you doing right now shows her you depend on her, very beta male thing.
Go back and hit the gym, date and fuck other pussies, be confident on yourself. Suddenly she will notice this alpha male behavior and will change things in your favor. Good luck.
Okay man, I hate to see you like this.
First of all, don't do steroids. Research what that it stuff does to you. I promise it's not good like you think it is. You will do a lot of harm to yourself and your body. Secondly, it sounds like you're trying to do this all to please her and win her back. I know it's and all but you have got to forget about trying to win her over. Just focus on YOURSELF man. Go out for a walk, go climb a fucking mountain. Go out with some guy friends, anything to give you some true happiness. This is your life. You are in charge of what you get out of your life. Not her. I wish you the best anon.
Depends on your diet, after the first steroid cycle (testosterone) I didn't lose any mass and kept lifting the same weights. Only after an oral cycle I lost all gains in a week
she will fuck 4 different guys in the mean time to "live her life fully". Then once you get her back you will dump her because she's a hoe.
Better get ripped, get money and fuck bitches. Eventually find a good girl to commit to.
Broke up with my ex last May at the end of the semester. She left me when I was bordering on depression, great girl huh. Anyway we were friends in through the summer and I'm the fall I was going through a whole bunch of Shit and being mean to her she legitimately tried to help me but I completely shut her out and she had enough of it and I feel terrible cause it's not what I wanted to do. But after that I apologized and we became good friends again she just finally learned she doesn't have to give 100% to me anymore and I'm guessing around that time was when she had to get over me cause I was so unresponsive. But we're friends now but talk barely cause I got a new gf and friend group. So I don't talk to her much often anymore, last time we spoke was a short convo on her birthday few days ago.
Op just do you in all honesty. If she wants you back fine, if she doesn't also fine cause you're too busy enjoying your life to be bothered about her and before you know it you'll have another gf who you actually like. So give it time
You on college? Come on man, that is a huge plus. An educated man, not a retard jerk.
If you don't have a job to invest on things, that is ok. Concentrate in your attitude then. Simply.
Don't make your hurting feelings evident, reserve em for you in private.
Yes, lie to others, every time you got asked how things are going, just answer as you never been better.
Every time you talk to her, don't act needy. Also don't treat her with sweet names or words like "sweet heart". She dumped you. It is on to be interested and show interest, but also you should deliver a message, that you respect and love yourself much more than her. Do not deploy all the love, show her you are aware she currently doesn't deserve you at all. Let pass some days, don't communicate all days. His can someone miss you and figure out if you are all time there?
And yep, try to use jealousy in your favor. Let yourself been seeing talking with another girls.
Hey, I'm on similar situation and now we are talking about to try things again maybe. But to get to this point I had to give her what her asked for.
I let pass about 3 entire months without contacting her. The day we talked again she confessed she even found ways to stalk me. How's that? ;) Cool yourself down bro. That is first step.
I'm going through exactly the same thing at the moment. My girlfriend of seven years ended the relationship because I made her unhappy. She didn't know why I made her unhappy, she said I was the perfect boyfriend and she couldn't fault me. I, as well as her family, thinks she is suffering from some form of depression. Before any of you fags say she is cheating or will, she hasn't or won't. She doesn't go out or have many friends, she is quite anti-social, she works with only women and all she does in her spare time is sleep. She doesn't want to be with me at the moment, but she still loves me and cares for me. She tells me this daily. She knows that I want to be back with her, buy she thinks she needs time to herself. We have been apart for about a month and a half now. We talk every day and we are extremely friendly, almost like we are still in a relationship. It is very hard at times because she can be cold and I miss her more than anything. I miss touching and sleeping with her. It has been a very rough period but the last two weeks have been pretty good. She seems happier with me, more interested. She says she feel positive about us and so do I. We still hug and kiss, she lets me feel her up a little too, but there isn't a strong relationship. OP, in conclusion, I would just say stick with it if you really care. I'm 99% we are going to get back together in the near future and we will be stronger for it. However, my girlfriend sounds much more willing to cooperate with me, that she still loves and cares for me. If you think there is a chance for reconciliation, stay strong. But, if she wants you to leave her alone, then you've gotta do that. You've just gotta stay strong OP, I know it's hard. Fuck all you fags who have never been in a loving relationship. You wouldn't understand, you're all beta niggers.
I'm glad it's working for u bro, but I'm in a far worse situation mate she told me she'll never love me again or be together with me...U were just taking a break, and u were sure she didn't have other options
Hey man break ups are tough. It gets better though, you just have to give it some time. Like some other anons have said I would focus on yourself for a little while. Forget about this girl and do things for YOU, not for her.
If you want to go one step further don't bother with the steroids either. Doing it on your own back will feel like so much more of an achievement. Sure, you won't be quite as big as you could be, but at least you'll know that you have it in you to work hard.
Either way anon, it'll get better. I'm rooting for you.
Man up op, I was literally in the same situation 3 weeks ago. My ex gf had no desire to get back with me after 4 years of being together. I spent nearly 6 months trying to win her back but all it caused was pain. i decided to disappear from her life for good and it was the BEST decision I made. The day I removed that bitch from my life is the same day some random Japanese chick started talking to me at a local coffee place and now we are going to make it official. Life couldn't be any better for me op. Just man up op and focus on yourself, you never know what can happen.
I hope to god you are a troll because this level of faggotry is just too much to bare.
>redated several high school sweet hearts found that time never changes the problems just how people go about treating those problems.
Roids will wreck your system, make your balls tiny.
> found myself loving a woman after a few failed relationships, she is literally the best thing I have ever had.
you cannot let life make you its bitch!
My point is do what you like to do and find someone to do it with.
> follow your heart not your eyes/dick you scrawny little piss ant faggots.
Best thing to do is just let it go and stop talking to her. She's talking to you 3 months after the fact because she was trying to let you down easy. She won't stop taking your phonecalls until she's dating someone else. Go ahead and rip the band-aid off now.
She sounds depressed and really confused as to what she wants. You've invested 7 years into her and she can't explain why you make her unhappy. Time to see if she really believes its you that makes her unhappy. Having been with someone who sounds like her in the past, the amount of energy spent into trying to make her happy and keep her happy wasn't worth the results I ended up getting. Hope it works out.