Hey /b/ did i mess up or is she just having a bad day? Am i stuck going with friends so i don't look like a beta?
She doesn't find you attractive; she finds you weird and isn't willing to spend time just the pair of you because she knows you're going to be all Autistic on her. Move on; this fish is no longer in the sea.
>I could make her like me though, i use to make her laugh a lot.
Funnily enough, at that age, its the guys who make girls cry that they like the most.
The ones who make them laugh only help them get over the guys who made them cry.
Your time will be in about 5 years.
dude, i know you probably can't see it now, but not she's ugly as fuck she's completely smug about the way she rejects you.
after reading this, the only excuse she didn't pull was "I can't go, I have to wash my hair", and I wouldn't even be surprised if she actually said that.
learn to appreciate yourself, have some self-respect and tell her to go fuck herself
>that girl is a fucking uggo
Just stand up for yourself for god sake she's clearly acting like a bitch blatantly to you so just tell her she can go fuck herself if she's gonna be like that. And don't do it in some faggy emo way, just say alright if you hate me that much go fuck yourself you dumb Lil skank
Here I'll sum it up for you what was really being said here:
You: Hi, I'm interested in hitting on you.
Her: I want other people there because I don't want you hitting on me.
You: Oh damn, I'm totally interested in hitting on you and desperately want you to come but I'll pretend that I just want to see you.
Her: I know what you're doing, but I'm going to need other people there so you don't hit on me because I only see you as a friend.
You: Hmm alright, I'll bring a group of friends, but that's not going to deter me anyways. See, I'm going to hit on you right now. You're beautiful. This way you'll know that friends won't dissuade me from pursuing you.
Her: Okay, then I'm not going.
OP, as a former teen sperglord (I'm 38 now) I can tell you this. There is absolutely no angle you can okay that will make this chick want you. Period. It is over. It never even began.
I wish I could get back the countless hours I wasted on pursuing girls who were not into me when I was in my teens and twenties. And highschool. A very very few people on life meet THE ONE while they're still in highschool. It happens, but so does winning the lottery and getting struck by lightning multiple times.
You don't need to lower your standards. You just need to look elsewhere. Preferably not at school or possibly not even in your home town.
Speaking from experience.
She's fucking gross dude. Got a fucking fivehead and a mean case of cunt face. And never use emoticons you fucking pussy. It's sad that you've fostered an image where interested or not she's comfortable saying shit like that to you. God damn I just don't understand how you let yourself go like this. Jimmies thoroughly rustled. Thanks faggot.
This troll is no average troll. His power levels are over !!!!!!!!!!!9000!!!!!!!!!!!. If real ask her is shes got any friends. No matter how dogish act like there princes and dont give her the time of the day. Be vigilant and super friend Zone her. Get some pussy 2 use tinder or meet me. They can smell that shit it science.
The solution is very simple OP. Sluts.
Yes, sluts! Bring sluts into the group thing, flirt and fuck them while your "friend" is around. She'll either be jealous or pissed, most likely both but she'll pounce on you soon enough. Just act like you don't really give a shit towards her, be cool and don't pay much attention to her.
This troll is no average troll. His power levels are over !!!!!!!!!!!9000!!!!!!!!!!!. If real ask her is shes got any friends. No matter how dogish act like there princes and dont give her the time of the day. Be vigilant and super friend Zone her. Get some pussy 2 use tinder or meet me. They can smell that shit it science. Do it
FUckn do it.
38yo former teen sperglord here again. No, it's not obvious... To you.
And to be fair it wouldn't have been obvious to me 20 years ago either.
But dude, trust us. She is dodging you. Don't take it too hard. Just move on!
I cut off a part, it might change your mind. I think she was just having a bad day
Dont listen to the others OP, its clear shes just playing hard to get. This is girl code for 'Im pretending to not like you when I really do, I just want to meet your friends'. I think you should message her constantly to show her how you feel about her.
>Captain Forehead signing out
I've found a close-up of OP's girl
She has 0 interest in you sexually. If you have feeling for this girl. Drop them now.
Seriously, this is going to hurt if you carry on. I'm 100% right aswell.
I screwed up too op, maybe I went in too strong
>see a movie
What the fuck how will you catch up at a goddam movie you ass hole? Ask her to coffee. Also, it will never work out or, at the moment, she has someone else courting her who is better looking.
this is the saddest fucking thing I've seen in a while
you have no self respect
Best way is my way, ignore the shit out of her, never even acknowledge her existence. Never look at her, speak to her or anything. Also make surveyor get to make out with/ get friendly with a girl she hates. Might get win
OP, this is how a grill responds when she is interested. Not even then, this is how anyone responds if they want to be in your presence at all. Notice that it is nothing like the response in the op.
Dude you dont want a girl that is not interested on a bad day cause you will always feel like your trying harder in the relationship then her... say peace to that dumb bitch and then get some hobbies and work out so your more intriguing and get a cuter girl and lavish with gifts making her feel really jealous. I
bro to bro I am gonna give you some advice. Move on. She states clearly what`s up. She is not into you and she will never be. Just stop talking to her. Those kinda chicks just waste your time and in the end you get nothing but heartache. Get yourself a gf
Dude. Text like a god damn man. Don't use exclamation points EVER.. Use proper grammar. Spell things correctly, not in god damn hyphenations. And NEVER FUCKING USE EMOTICONS you enormous pussy. Whether you agree with social requirements for men to be masculine or not, shut the fuck up. She cares. So act like a god damn confident, non-emotional man like you see in your stupid movies. I hate you.
oh god your compliments are cringe worthy, even im creeped out by this conversation.
just move on OP you'll waist time on this girl and never move away from the friendzone its hopeless
38yofag here again... If this is really what the gears turning in your head sound like, I got bad news about the next 3 to 10 years of your life...
Because I have already lived then and known others who have as well.
as soon as she said "group thing," it was over and .. And wtf anon....? Beautiful face? Why anon? Why? She was obviously creeper out. Go with a group without her. Don't ask again.
Zoom in and check out that fivehead. If you two were mice- you're pinky and she's the mother fucking brain. And change your profile pic to a normal, none dotted picture of you with people. Fucking minorities and social retards.. still think selfies are okay.
>>and i have even sent kisses to her
>Arbitrarily hating a general area of your country
>hobbies and work out so your more intriguing
You fucking people I swear to god
OP put it this way, every single cunt in this thread would have the same exact reaction from a girl who didn't like them back. You won't need advice when you actually meet a girl who likes you back. you can't make someone like you. it'll be so easy when she actually likes you, Believe me. Even if you're an ugly cunt, you'll meet that girl who it's easy with.
>You fucking people I swear to god
You don't want to get better, you want the world to suck as much as you...
This isnt me, i did almsot kiss her once, i had just lost my grandma and i was crying on her shoulders, but she gave me the cheek wheni went for it. Got the side of her lip though
The details are important. Periods and their placement matters. Complimenting a girl is fine of its worded confidently and half insultingly and if it's timed right. Obviously a million things are wrong with the way this moron approached it. But the best place to start is in the general approach to things. And the best way to do that was explain grammatical rules to abide by because he's not confident to change his personality
what's going on here?
i donno if shes interested or not
Also, I agree wIth anon- DO NOT USE emoticons
Saving img for beta/cringe thread
yeah but that chick is 100% clear.
"I can only do that if its a group thing sorry"
very plain: "I dont wanna be with you alone!
and lets be honest, OP is kinda creepy. He tries to make compliments in every sentence and she is creeped out
Your approach was close, but never use k unless it's to punish someone who will care and recognize it's out of character. Why would he say that how she responded was "cool"? It wasn't, and it's a weak response validating her shitty behavior. Like saying "sorry you're not feeling good" after a girl throws a fit. And "cya"? It's just immature. Be a grownup and use a word that doesn't make you seem 13. Formal or colloquially cool is good but not in between.
No she's being a bitch because instead of just a flat out no thanks which would be fine, she's brazenly given him the ultimatum of 'yeah ill go but I'm not being alone with you, weirdo'
Differently at every point I'm every respect down to every word and choice of punctuation. I'm not going to write you a damn transcript. Just learn to talk to women. And abide by the rules I've scattered throughout this thread.
that level of autism is pretty cringe worthy
Man I was worse. It took me until I was probably 19 to figure shit out. 21 next month.
Agreed. One place I fucked up badly was the over use of complimenting all the fucking time. It just looks creepy, desperate and embarrassing. Now I can flirt, sweet talk, and do all that shit with absolute ease.
As a grill I can confirm that this is incorrect. A good mixture of personality and physical attraction is what will make me stick around. A job is what will make me stick around even longer. Some girls have too much pride to be with a man for his money alone. It does help though, but money only adds attraction on top of the physical attraction.
She asked you out.
You should say you are pretty busy but if she wants to come over [STATE DATE AND TIME] and hang that's cool.
And then clean your room faggot, no bitch is going to want to go near your cum soaked socks.
See I can win over what I assume are straight dudes by being formal, articulating myself like a fucking grown up, talking mockingly and condescendingly and implying that I'm better than you. Same logic applies to weak minded women.
I can't do any of that shit. I just talk. I have normal conversations with grills as I would with guys.
Go fuck yourself. The existence of Hugh Hefner is enough to prove you are a lying cunt.
Once you stop being 16 you'll realise there's a huge difference between not being interested and actively being a bitch by saying ill only ever hang around with you if there are other people there. Only little fucking princess 13-16 year old girls do that because they haven't realised yet how not to be a cunt
>mfw i can do this with almost every grill i know
>mfw all my friends love hanging out with me
>mfw i make friends so fucking easy
>mfw im the best friend to the grill i love
>mfw i have to cut her off because she isnt interested in me besides being best friends
>mfw she was rock for me when my dad passed
>mfw i can't live with just being friends with her
>mfw ive cut her off
>mfw its only been 3 weeks and i miss the fuck out of her
>mfw i feel like an asshole for dropping her after a two year friendship
>mfw its the only way i think i can get over her
>mfw i fear this will happen with any girl i go after
mfw i pretend to have so much fun with all my friend
>its me on the inside
19 now, still occasionally fuck up like with this girl
You didn't "mess up." You never had a chance lol.
i refuse to believe you posted this on her wall.
first thing you could do is express your gay emotions through gayfuckstupid emojis
literally stop being a faggot
you shouldn't have any emotion or feel any remorse with wimmen
I'm good with girls, i get laid yknow, but i too, have that one BITCH that is so stone cold i can't get any pussy after YEARS of this shit like cmon give me some fucking points for perserverance.
and the thing is i know she wants to fuck me I've known her forever you learn to read that shit, but she just loves the preliminary phase of shutting me the fuck down too much
>"k" to punish someone who will recognize it's out of character
... the things of yours i would rub on my nipples
She's trying real hard not to have to sit you down and say "look, Steve. I can tell you have feelings for me or at the very least just want to fuck me regularly. But I don't have feelings for you, I don't want to fuck you, and every second I'm willing to spend next to you is a second you interpret as a chance to change my mind on that. Let me be clear: I'm not going to change my mind, and knowing that this is your aim whenever I'm around makes me uncomfortable enough that I don't even want to hang out with our mutual friends if it means you're going to be hanging on me and trying to insert yourself into all of my conversations. I've tried letting you down gently but its not getting through to you. So I'll say it one more time: not interested in you. Not going to be."
She hasn't said this flat out just yet because you, not realizing your unwanted advances and flirting is the problem, will get upset and call her a bitch for being blunt, but you're only going to listen to bluntness.
The problem is the nature of men and women. We want them a little more than they want us. This improves with age. I'm almost thirty and men have way more power at my age. The girls aren't looking for bad boys to fuck them and than throw them in a trash can anymore. They're looking to settle down. I just don't know why I should. I mean I have access to lots of pussy and have really good friends. Everyone I know who got married in their mid twenties is divorced.
OP you gotta be more like me
>girl gives me her number
>run into her later
>"anon you've got my number, use it mister"
>still didn't call her
and that's how you avoid losing your virginity in highschool. Not that related just thought I'd share.
Me too, actually. But the thing is, either because of the way the media portrays dating, or because it doesn't have to be every guy that feels that way but just a small handful of confirmed fuckboys, maybe both, females are conditioned to try to "be nice" even when telling someone to fuck off. They're afraid of being rage raped or being Little Mac star punched
She is into herself probably more than you are into her. Sure that's fine for her own self-esteem or something, but you deserve someone who gives actual fucks about you and how you are doing as well.
Every living woman is a bitch in their own way. Either find ways to have them submit to you or complain like a little bitch on how gurrlz are mean to gentlemen these days.
Go ahead, say it.
>BUH BUH BUH MY GURL IS NICE! WE PLAY VIDEO GAMES TOGETHER AND SHE COOKS 4 ME!!
Dude, now just pretend u don't give a fuck about her... she'll start hitting on u... believe me, women love men hitting on them, but hate when they don't give a fuck..
If u keep hitting on her, she'll want to keep u in that position forever
People saying she is ugly are blind, here is a better pic of us. Had it as my profile pic fora year
I used to be extremely cringey like OP. I grew out of it, now I have no issues talking to girls. I can sleep with most girls I take interest in, HOWEVER, there is this one chick I met recently, and I am not all too interested, and I know she's interested in me. She is playing hard to get though and it's so fucking infuriating. I don't know why, but I REALLY want to get at her. She isn't particularly good looking, nor do we share any common interests, but jesus christ I NEED to have her want me. I don't know why this is, it just it. I am not used to having to chase girls.
What do /b/.
there's nothing wrong with this, it's good
ignore this, it's BS
it's hard to imagine a scenario where this would be a good thing to say. Maybe it would if you see her regularly and you 2 already flirt a fair bit
First of all OP, sorry to tell you but she doesn't like you. It's written in huge, bold, flashing, colourful letters. Take a hint.
Second, she seems like a bitch and a bad lier.
Just my two cents of shit.
I don't know who you are or what your stake in this thread is, but nothing I've said in here is not completely on point, and disagreeing is you flat out admitting you're a creepy MRA faggot who thinks OP still has a chance if he could just say the right combination of words or starts being an asshole because "that's what girls want"
It seems like girls don't wanna come across as being a bitch, or they can't say how they feel because they still want to be friends or something
who knows, i sure as fuck can't figure out girls
Again. It's all contextual, that one depends on you being formal and callous and making her do the work up until then. But there's definitely an upper limit where girls stop being more confident with better looks, sorry if you haven't realized that yet.
YO YO YO, CUT THAT SHIT OUT DUDE.
girls dont want that shit. bra let it go and hang with your friends, its not worth trying to holla at a girl that already said no.
try finding a new girl to hit on.
I've figured them out. Or at least I have found a way where there is absolutely no drama or beating around the bush when it comes to my relationships with girls. Friendship or otherwise.
Don't treat them ANY differently than you would a male friend. Don't speak differently, act differently, ANYTHING. When I go to a bar with a long time friend of mine, (male) I'll talk about nailing whichever bimbo is on the other end of the pool table. When I go out with any female friends, I'll talk about nailing whichever bimbo is on the other end of the bar. Treat them EXACTLY as you would a guy. Don't put aside any time or go out of your way for them if you woulden't otherwise if they were male.
Works for me anyway. All my my relationships with girls are 100% drama free, and I manage to get laid at the very least once a month.
Yeah man I'll talk about anything in front of girls i literally couldn't care less, it makes it funnier, but if there's a girl im actually interested in no way am i gonna treat her like everyone else, I can understand that if its just a bang but if its something more then naa
>I feel like spending it with you
>formal and callous
I bet you also call them 'mlady'
Sorry if you haven't realized that girls are attracted to stong men with strong personalities.
Duuuude. I'm fucking cringing. Notice her giving the obligatory "hahaha funny" to acknowledge what you just said otherwise it'd be awkward.
I don't have a lot of friends, but holy shit it's like you have no social grace.
And like many people said, over in her first message.
shes like a 6/10 dude.
if i saw pics of her naked i wouldnt even scan over them.
waht you need to do is find more attractive girls to holla at. take your buddys sight seeing at the mall or something. go out to eat, hit up a cosco, do something. practice small talk at a bar. all this wil help you for when you find a chick you really fall for. hell do all of this and in a year or two holla back at her and see if she wants to chill.
I hope this is a troll. But if not.. have you learned nothing from a hundred different people telling you you're weak. Focus on bettering yourself and changing the way you act. Give her space so she can wonder why you stopped bothering her every day. Wait for her to text you and in the mean time talk to other girls and move on with your life. And if she never texts you back then fuck her, why would you want to he with someone who doesn't even care enough about your platonic relationship to talk to you on her own. There you go. And read through and any messages that got an agreement response or called you an "idiot" or a "moron" apply their lessons to your life. Because you're truly pathetic.
I can understand that, but here is my issue. Call it a cliche, but the whole "Be yourself" thing kind of fits what I'm trying to say here.
If you are "You" around everyone else BUT the girl you are interested in, and you do successfully get her to fall for you, she will fall for someone who you really aren't. You'll have to act that way the ENTIRE time you're with her. That is a shitty persona to keep up.
On that note. If you can befriend a 9 or 10 out of 10 and become good friends witb them without looking like their bitch then other girls that are 7 or 8 will become more interested in you. Women get jealous over trivial things even friendships. So if you can use something out of your league to make something in your league jealous then youll have no problEm.
When did I say 'ALL' girls. Some girls are literally only in it for the money. I'd rather have a boyfriend who shares my interests, makes me laugh, goes travelling with me, makes me feel fulfilled sexually. Eventually kids, give my life some meaning. I don't see the attraction of a purely money driven relationship, and I won't sell myself out so some old cunt gets to fuck me in exchange for money.
Kek. Read through and compare it to what he said. The point was that he asked her what she felt like doing and I explained that he needed to tell her what he wanted in such a way that assumes she's already doing it. You're applying a weak tone to it which is why it makes no sense out of context, but if you're treating them like shit up until this point, then it's pretty ideal. Though I did forget a period to make it seem like more of an order. And no. I call them all girl. Faggot.
Hm. We have different approaches I suppose. Whatever works though I guess.
In my personal experience given enough time any girl who is actually interested will eventually give you a flat yes.
This. I had "friends" like that before. Would ignore me and wouldn't invite me to play games with them when I was clearly online, and even ask them
Karate chopped them out of my life like it was a fucking malignant tumour. Although after the first couple months, I did try to rekindle the relationships. Yeah, same shit. So now it's been like 7 months+ without talking to them.
im the person you replyed to and i say that shit is false unless your in their group, which is almost impossible. if you're average looking and your with a 9. EVERYONE thinks you're her bitch.
you have to be careful who you hang out with when dealing with women and girls.
Sorry OP. Chicks don't dig desperation. How long you been chasing her? Too damn long.
>profile picture for a year
No wonder she isn't interested. You basically advertized your interest in her in a very public way when yall weren't dating, or fucking. All that says to me is "we hung out once and I want literally everyone to know."
I thought "how the fuck could OP be this dense" but it turns out he's a spic faggot who shaves his head to look like his four older brothers and three uncles who still roll up in baggy shorts and tube socks and Adidas like its 1995.
I completely understand what your saying, But girls will usually forget about that persona as long as you dont drag that persona on and on. It's suppose to be something temperaraly until they feel comfortable with you and wont put too much thought once you drop that persona. It's simply just to gain their attention. I feel like it's better for someone to say "he seems nice" vs "he's pretty good at playing the guitar/painting/whatever."