Hey /b/, I met this girl online and i gradually learned that she cuts, and is on depression meds, and one of those cunts on fayeboo, who posts shit like, your scars are beautiful, and other stupid shit.
Then she confesses her love for me, but i don't really see her that way, i say i love you too, because hoping to get some, bad idea, then met another girl, way cooler, sext all day, and i need to know how to let suicidal cunt down easy, i don't want her death on my hands,
Pic related, cool girl.
>I met this girl online and i gradually learned that she cuts, and is on depression meds
Well that's unusual
I'v been there, op
The secret is to go slowly, really slowly...
Over few week, make her understand that the dictance may make things complicated.
When she starts the convo, don't reply right.
away, let few hours pass or a day or two if you see that she's getting used to it.
Don't be rude, say that you'll be there for her if she needs anything.
After few weeks (or months in the worst case), thingswill cool down and you'll be just friends.
Just say you don't think you're ready for a relationship. End of story.
Tell her to carve your name on her body to prove her love
Make it seem like you have deep personal problems and that's why you can't talk to her just act crazy a little bit or basically just try to make it seem like it's all your fault. It worked for me
Be honest? You don't have to be mean, just tell the truth which is ironically, the kindest thing you can do even when it might upset someone.
Tell her you just can't date a cutter and she needs to get professional help with that problem. Most people just skirt around those issues - that's exactly how attention whores like her make one cut too deep one day and die. She needs to quit doing that shit.
I'v delt with suicidal bitches before, dumbass.
I know what i'm talking about.
They just want some attention, somone who cares (at least think he does), the thing is not to reject her, let her come to the conclusion by herself that friendship is abetter deal
My crrent game plan was basically take it slow, and gradually distance myself from her, then say long distance isn't working, but idj when to drop that, because if she does kill herself, that's on me, right?
Plus, for lurkers, pic.
Don't fucking do this. She'll be questioning herself and overthinking stuff and eventually you'll just confirm her worst suspicions.
Be honest with her. Not mean. Tell her that you like her a lot but she has some issues she needs to get help with and you can't date her right now. Listen to her, hear out her feelings, and be encouraging and gentle. But don't be passive.
That would be a shame if she killed herself with a body like that.
That plan exists to make it easier for you, not her. This is because you're trying to avoid an uncomfortable confrontation. What you're describing is called "ghosting" someone; it's when you slowly and deliberately fade out of someone's life hoping they don't really notice.
Getting ghosted SUCKS. It's hella easy for the ghoster, but it leaved the ghosted feeling very insecure and anxious while they get dragged along your drawn out breakup with them. Multiply that by a thousand if you're already emotionally unstable.
Just communicate. Be honest and sensitive. It'll sting but dragging it out is just going to make it far worse for her.
You're a real Edgelord aren't you?
pass her skype to me, man. I'm bored and got some time to kill with clingy girls.
post it more across the web
sounds like you're the emo attention seeker
Hey /b/ retard posts his skype on here raid da bitch
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more good advice. You obviously care about her enough to not want her to kill herself. Get her to get treatment ... don't just kick the can to the next beta to date her that also won't be honest with her.
Alpha's aren't afraid of the truth OP. Be a man.
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Thanks. Will keep me occupied for a few weeks.
How to get /b/tards to raid your enemies without notyourpersonalarmy.exe:
1) Post a picture reportedly from your desktop with skype in the background
2) Make up and perpetuate some BS thread about a cutter girl friend and how you're too beta to make a clean break
3) Wait for /b/ to discover the skype easter egg
Did OP do this? Who knows? But I sure as hell will try this next time I want personal army.
nice trips fag, but you think that would help her, but the poor girl would proabably hurt herself bad if OP is telling the truth. She's clearly not mentally stable and I don't think she would handle that hundreds of people have seen her naked.
yes, but if her info got out, beta fags are going to message her and probably blackmail her with her photos and harass her - worse than just stumbling upon photos on some forum in a year or two
ITT: newfags who don't know this is a troll who is using you faggots for a PA