This is my wife. This is the picture she sent me before she went on 'girls night out' tonight with her friends.
She just sent me a text message ten minutes ago. She is "crashing" at a friends house tonight because she's too drunk to drive home. She won't answer her phone, she didn't give me the address of her friends house and she didn't explain why she was able to get to her friends house drunk but can't get home the same way. I have sent her 5 unanswered text messages.
She has never done anything like this the entire four years we've been together.
What should I do?
Good job landing a bombshell as your wife OP, hopefully she doesn't turn out to be a cheating slut.
I sure hope you got a prenup.
Also, perhaps one of her friends drove her back to their place, hoping for your sake it's a woman 'cause with a wife that hot, I'd be suspecting her of cheating too.
All in all, situation seems mad sketchy, she could've just passed out when she got to the house of her friend's, or she's banging him as we speak.
take a fucking chill pill. either you trust your wife or you don't. if you don't trust her, your marriage is pretty shitty. making an ass of yourself isn't going to solve anything.
also, maybe she's just annoyed with you (can't blame her) and wants to crash at a friend's house to get away from you for a night.
meanwhile, post more pics - she's got a rockin' body. and she deserves it.
Go to the strip club this weekend, turn off your phone and then don't go home after.
Pay a stripper at the club $20 bucks to tell you which girls do private shows after work and hire one of them to give you a private show in your hotel room. Fuck the shit out of her.
Even if your wife didn't cheat, you'll either be one affair ahead of her or you'll be even. Win Win.
Agreed, did she say the friends name and how well do you know the friend? I wouldn't do anything crazy and tomorrow see if she's vague, ask questions that will require a bit of thinking to make up an answer, if she's quick to answer and the story isn't vague, trust her. But thots will be thots
She could very well be cheating. When I was in an unhappy relationship (of. 11 years) I slowly started going out more and more. One night I really did get too drunk, remained too drunk while we were all at dennys and crashed at a friends house. I did not cheat, but it was more of a... I could of found a way home but I rather just sleep on a friends couch. I was aware of the repercussions, I just didn't give a fuck.
Did it multiple times over the next month or so, until he gave me an ultimatium... if I did it again he was leaving. I did it the next night. I was looking for a way out and having him mad at me was easier than leaving on my own volition.
A bitch thing to do...yeah but I needed a way out and it worked.
BULLSHIT OP, woman in photo doesn't have a wedding ring on.
and if your wife goes out without her wedding ring on, she was probably cheating on you the whole time
Think again and REALLY think this time. If she is standing in front of the mirror like that, it HAS to be her right hand. I mean, are your parents brother and sister? Are you really this dumb?
I had the same fucking thing happened 1,5 years ago.
It was the beginning, we are divorced now.
Don't be a obsessive dick, give her some space and figure out (by talking) if there is something wrong.
Good luck OP
You should tell her that in marriage you leave the single life behind.
You can hire a private investigator to follow her.
Honestly OP, get ready for divorce, but make it so that you get 100% of the stuff because you can prove that she is being unfaithful to her vows.
He was the type that would of killed himself if I just up and left him.
Not to sound self absorbed...he just told me that multiple times.
Very Co dependent beta.
So after years of being unhappy, when this route presented itself I took it.
By him being angry and and thinking he initiated the split up, he was able to leave and not self destruct.
I just felt like I had a two ton weight off my shoulders.
Like a said a bitch way to approach it, but with the least bloodshed.
That is a total woman way of handling a situation. Put shit off until somebody else handles it for you. Fucking women are totally incapable of accepting a problem. They ignored problems until they magically get solved by a man because he has the ability to stand up and make a decision. Fuck women.
I was in a similar situation OP, and I did exactly what this anon suggested. I found her at the second house and she was so happy to see me. Best sex we ever had on her friend's kitchen floor.
You should definitely do this.
Well obviously it was a bitch thing to do, you did it.
If the bitch had done that it would have been a month with out the guys money. She figured why not have him pay for my drinking for another month while I find another man to start picking up the tab.
LETS NOT JUMP TO CONCLUSION. BUT LETS BE REAL. SOME NIGGA IS HITTING THAT.
Hate to break it to you OP, 'but she's a whore cheating on you..
I explained further in my first reply above.
But he was really codependent and stated multiple time that he would kill himself if I ever left him... and he was unstable enough for me to believe that.
The way I went about it, left him able to still function thinking that he did what was best.
Like I said. It was a bitch approach...but it worked.
It's pretty obvious that he posted it in the other thread by accident. He deleted it almost immediately and created this thread not 20 seconds later.
We've all done it.
anon if you still here, im telling you that you need to calm down. ive been in situations like this and i have a panic attack. shes not cheating, she is fine. shes probably asleep right now or wishing that she was home right now. i wanna tell you to go to sleep but i know thats a hard thing to do when someone you love is drunk at some ones house and you dont know where. what YOU need to do, is watch some youtube videos or netflix or whatever you fetish, eat something or at least drink. everything is fine. everything is good. maybe go out and get yourself a six pack or some cigarettes to calm you down.
Oh and I live on my own now.. I don't need to be supported, I don't like anyone having control over me.
If I support my self, and make my own decisions. The only one to blame if I fuck up is myself.
Drinking in these kinds of situations makes me more likely to make dumb decisions like send shitty texts and leave retarded messages. Kinda hard to do much else when you think the person you love is cheating.
>Taking everything you have when the bitch leaves...
No- well, when you put it like that
don't flip your shit. just trust her and forget it. put it aside. be cool about it. If anything comes up in the future then you can maybe bring it up.
Something tells me you're an insecure crazy guy who is blowing up her phone with texts. in that case, it's too late and you've only dug yourself a hole
Hold your phone in your right hand and look at the fucking picture, now imagine that that's a fucking mirror. Jesus you are fucking dense.
Point about pants fucking irrelevant, my ex had pants with reversed sides like that too.
What does worrying have to do with trust? Everything doesn't have to be cheating, maybe he's worried that she's feeling terrible after those drinks and wants to pick her up, or maybe he's worried something happened to her.
OP is obviously worried and there's no problem with that. Maybe you should stop being such a judgemental cocksuckeling cuckoo and actually post something constructive?
If it's a wife of 4 years who's not answering your calls, drive to all her friend's places and ask where she is. That's not being possesive, that is being worried, and being worried about what seems to be the light of your life is no problemo.
Your wife is hot, I guess your paranoia is justified given how dependent and possessive typical relationships are. Here are a few facts you have to recognize:
1. You don't know if she is just drunk as hell and wanted to spend the night talking to a girlfriend.
2. You've provided 0 prior events that might persuade any of us to jump on your paranoid bandwagon.
3. Tits or GTFO.
Lets say she is fucking some huge BBC behind your back. Ask her where she was, tomorrow.
outcome a: she gives a brief answer, press her for who and where, +10 suspicion
outcome b: she gives details of with X at Y. you can't really justify worry anymore without more details. life is going to proceed just like before unless you push the topic.
If you have a good relationship, this really shouldn't be a huge issue IMO, unless she's been a slut the whole relationship. If she was, you wouldn't be asking for advice, so I'm guessing she isn't. Quit thinking about it until you have evidence, you obsessive dick. Those texts are probably going to make her super defensive and not give you a clear answer tomorrow.
Coming from a beta faggot, like yourself
I haven't really tried. It was an eleven year relationship....I'm back in college now. Slowly pulling my self out the rut that being tied to a prick that long causes.
Honestly, I think I'd tolerate her cheating on me once every 4 years. As long as she came home to me eventually, I wouldn't care. She's that hot.
Uh, the phone mirrors images are YOU that dumb. Its a mirror'd mirror picture which means its her left hand. Thats why she has her watch on that hand are you fucking stupid???
Given that he gave a picture, plus that he sent a total 5 texts trying to force an answer..
She's obviously a big girl, maybe she's too drunk to answer, maybe she wanted more time with a girlfriend. He made no mention of being involved in a heist, she's not going to fucking die.
He could go to sleep now or jerk off and wait until tomorrow to find out where she is/was. He's coming off as obsessive and she's going to see a horde of texts and see how insecure he is.
This.. and do it quick, just so she
1. thinks that you clearly have been talking to someone other than her for around the same time she has.
2. realizes that it sucks, even if she is telling the truth.
If she was looking the the BBC she wouldn't be wearing long pants and fucking leather sandals, the only thing you have to worry about is how much of an obsessive bitch you sound like right now.
legit, one week ago i went through the SAME shit. its the only reason im even posting right now.the only difference, it was pot. i know i know, i understand that pot is basically fucking healthy for you and i used to smoke every other day in middle and high school but something about the love of your life doing that shit, and out with god knows who is fucking horrible. still do what i say though, go out and buy a pack of whatever, hang out with a friend, but just know anon, she is NOT cheating. you just one of those guys who thinks the worst case scenario about anything, like me. one time, she was out with a dude in the desert, smoking and i was worried as fuck, but all i did what watch dunkey and keyori n shit and i forgot about it so fast. so much time went by.
Cheating doesn't get anymore obvious than this unless you walk in on them in the act.
Either you're man enough to forgive her or you're not mature enough for marriage.
OP, dont be a bitch. Shes obviously cheating on you. Its time to get kalacin. Start right now, get drunk an write "she killed me first" on the wall. PrepEration is half the battle.
All of you are fucking retarded using the image to convey whether it's her right hand or her left hand is idiotic. The pic could just simply be flipped.
The more logical way to figure this out, although not always true, is the placement of her watch. Normally women wear their watches/bracelets on their right hand. So that way we could assume it's her right.
However don't forget there is something that's always true. OPs a faggot.
>calling randoms beta faggots
>11 year relationship with a beta you were just shit talking
>11 years to get out of a shit relationship
>makes poor life choices and blames it on others
Yeah you'll never do better
Google... "Best Divorce Lawyers in (You Area)" ... consult with all those lawyers in a 50 mile or more radius. 4 years and she is probably getting the itch to cheat and move on.... this is a critical stage and you need all the support you can get. Try to get her to admit to the infidelity, will help during the divorce proceedings and help you gain custody.
He could also wait for an answer, more texts =/= faster reply. He sounds insecure and desperate, and obviously catastrophic what could be happening. He should smoke some weed.
OP, What does she do? I mean does she work or in situations where she could meet someone? Has she talked about a new person on the job lately? I know you want to trust her but it can be difficult.
we started dating at 13.
Didn't know what Beta was at that time bruh.
After a while, I just stayed with him for posterities sake.
I supported up, I made sure shit got done, that bills were paid. I cooked, I definitely was the only one that cleaned.
I later realized because I took care of everything... he never really learned how to man up.
could you imagine the look on her face waking up with a hangover and 200 texts of im hungry when you coming home to cook.
soon as she calls mad as fuck about blowing her phone up just tell her you're alright and just ate pizza then hang up
Because if she isn't answering her phone, sending more messages is pointless. Worrying the worst is happening without additional facts makes more stress for the BF. He's wasting his time even making this thread.
You sure it's your wife you faggot?
We've all done stupid shit while drunk and regretted it next day, right? Five texts is pretty okay, it's not obessive. They've been together for four years, and if he's worried he can goddamnit go out of his fucking way to see what's going on.
I doubt him being obessive, for if he was, he wouldn't have let her go out anyway.
> five unanswered text messages
> keeping tabs on her to the point that it makes you paranoid when you don't know EXACTLY where she is
It's called a self-fulfilling prophecy. The very thing you were paranoid of is now happening probably because you were so paranoid.
Old pic not stretched, wouldn't even know how on a phone, I'm soooo sexy you're so jealous
Point is, you stayed with him that long.
If you aren't happy with a man, no matter what he says about killing himself and blah fucking blach move the FUCK on.
If he's such a fucking faggot that he kills himself, not your problem.
If he doesn't , then it will probably actually help him grow in the end.
It happens when someone claims to be a female. The only reason you claim to be female is to distinguish yourself from everyone else or to gain attention, so tits or gtfo, because the only "women" on the internet are here to get attention
I think the root of the matter is why would bitches even do this though? Pretty fucked up rationale going through a woman's mind, make you think feminism is an elaborate ploy to weaken a man's natural rights to defend his property from other men in an honest fashion
Brings back bad memories man. Very same thing happened to me.
>Girlfriend goes out for girls night
>Says be home by midnight
>Midnight comes and goes
>Finally get text
>"Too drunk. Staying with friend tonight"
>I call her - No answer
>I text - No response
>Next morning she comes home
>Kinda quiet. Acting weird.
>Ask which friend she stayed with
>Breaks down crying
>Lays it all out in bursts between sobs
>"I was so drunk"
>"Didn't mean for it to happen"
>"I'm so so sorry"
>"It didn't mean anything I swear"
>"Never happen again"
>"We used condoms"
>Tell her I need time alone to think
>Ask her to go to her parents
>Once she's gone I cried
>Then I packed her shit and put it on curb
you know, more than one person can disagree with you at a time, it's not unheard of
If I was here to only gain attention. I would of led with a time stamped photo of my tits.
Believe it or not, I enjoy /b/ for the sometimes intelligent conversation...and the shit posting makes me giggle.
No it's not in the middle. It's extremely close to the middle. So close you could call it the middle. But it is not the mathematical middle of your torso even from left to right
>I'm left handed
You're a freak and your behavior is not indicative of normality. Normal people are right handed, and they wear their watch on their left.
It's so that when you are doing things like talking on the phone you can see what time it is without taking the phone away.
It seems like there's a lack of trust between the two of you.
Honestly the simplest way to gain trust toward your wife is to start cheating. Just cheat up a storm, score as much pussy as you can and try to keep at least 2-3 affairs going on the side.
That way, even if she does cheat in the future you won't feel bad because you'll know you've been doing it to her for years.
Works for me anyway.
For a long time. I assumed that this was as good as it gets...
You know that whole... if you want to be happy in a relationship, you have to work at it.
It became more of a cohabitation at the end. I was comfortable with him, love didn't have anything to do with it.
And why don't you get in a long term relationship where someone is dependent on you...you slowly become more and more discontented, but you still care for the other person. So it's hard for you to something so abruptly callous, as up and leaving.
It's easy to give advice on /b/ but being in the situation for real is another matter entirely.
I'm a respectable basement dweller and this is the first time I've seen it.
Also, Op had the forethought to flip the image before creating this thread, which is pretty fucking awesome if you ask me.
Most of the trolls on /b/ these days are too fucking lazy.
I like that you went out of your way to post that oh so educating screenshot.
But that doesn't change anything. I added femanon in front of my original post simply to make it know that this was a female perspective on Op's quandary.
Not for attention. I get plenty of that in real life.
>childish avoidance phrase initiated.
Don't respond to bait, not worth your own degradation.
But point was right - your gender is irrelevant, there was no need to publicize it.
I've actually been on the other end of this. Met a girl at the club, buy her drinks, peel her away from her friends, brought her to my place and fucked her all night. Next morning she was all quiet and shit. I offer to drive her house. She asked me to drop her at corner. I laughed thinking she was joking. Kept driving. She's yelling "Stop! Stop!" All of a sudden a guy comes running up to my car screaming! Girl's crying. Guy pulls her out of my car while it's still moving. Calls her a slut and a whore while proceeding to beat her. I sped away with my passenger door still wide open. Didn't need that drama.
You weren't and still aren't able to accept that you are as pathetic as everyone here. You sidestep accusations of being a bitch with "it was bitchy, I know." Worst by far, you are unwilling to rule 1 (not 34, unless you cosplay as Zelda or animoo).
>Not for attention. I get plenty of that in real life.
The austusic denial - it hurts.
Wow OP, your Wife is a grade A whore, she's all over the internets.