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Ignorance from lack of experience. Junior high girls wouldn't date me so that all important experience needed before high school was never there. So in high school I didn't know what to do and it was a snowball effect until one day at 27 I bought a hooker. Now I am addicted to hookers. I make them act out scenes from porn. Never had a real gf.
id rather just pay a hooker than invest time and money into a human flesh construct unit with vaginal attachment dlc that has in previous relationships trying to change me and isolate me from my friends
>>645904439 I just asked my friend out, and after her telling me that there is no way she could after I took her best friends virginity. This girl was a 8/10, and definitely kept me in the friendzone. I want her, but I'm in between a rock and a hard place. any ideas?
Difficult to find person who share the same interest or atleast are not wierded out by it. I've had girls reject me because i smoke weed (wtf) while they were drunk as shit , i've had girls reject me because i like psytrance and psychedelics (although i wear casual clothes whenever im in public) and i've had girls reject me because im into IT security and apparently everything IT related is seen as stupid.
I mean it's not that this is in any way generalized , i know for a fact that there are people out there who could put up with this or share the same hobbies , it's just difficult to find them if you live in the middle of fucking nowhere.
The problem here is that even the agegroup 18-25 are sometimes very conservative or pretty cliche , either they think you are a stupid junkie for smoking weed or they'll have this stupid stoner attitute and culture which i absolutely hate , i mean wtf can't you do drugs while beeing a normal person and not look like pseudo random hipster faggot.
>>645907368 where you at mang? I was in Yongsan down at camp coiner for a whole year. the worst part is my company hq was in Daegu which was like a 4 hr drive haha. so anytime anything had to happen with paperwork i.e. clearing/inprocessing, it took literally an entire week.
>>645908480 California, Coast guard patrol team, stationed at San Diego, usually on a ship between guatemala and Alaska, i want transfer to one of the stations at korea, and yes coast guard goes outa country, we can be stationed inn syria now, hope doesnt happen to me at least. But you are rubbing it in lol
Yea , i go on a goa rave probably 3-4 times a year during the summer , and thats about the only times i get laid , but the problem is that the people you meet there are often from a complete diffrent part of the country (germany) so it's kinda difficult to establish a friendship/relationship. Will keep trying tho , always wanted a girlfriend i could do mdma with and just have a blast
>>645908917 I'm in Osan, still pretty new here but it's awesome so far. I mean shit here is certainly crazy with the way everything is run lol..shit that just doesn't seem to make sense but everyone just has a "eh fuck it it's Korea" attitude lol
ill never forget the look on my ex's face the first time we fucked. "Thats it...?" is probably exactly what went through her mind. Now i always ask myself why bother trying to when i know i wont be able to fully satisfy any woman.
I'm too domesticated. I only did long term relationships my entire 20's. Most recent gf and I were together over 3 years, had a nice place together, etc. All gone, been over a year now. For like...no fucking reason at all.
If I had to narrow it down, it'd look like this: >I'm too nice, don't have the "just right" amount of asshole-ish tendencies >I really enjoy good conversation as I've gotten older instead of physical whatnots >I just don't fucking care to start the process over again
tl;dr, I don't have the energy to waste on giving a fuck about a new relationship. I'm not happy but I'm not sad. Just static and surviving.
>>645912485 Yes. Nice point fag but it's more of a business deal then them emotionally bleeding money from you. Also you get what you pay for with hookers whilst with relationships half the time you pay for the prospect of things
I don't really like people. just in general. I have a few friends I hang out with because they share enough of my views and have proven themselves intelligent enough that I dont hate them, but mostly I hate everyone else.
There was a girl who was giving me stupendously strong signals a while back. Like just barely short of ripping my clothes off. But then she said some stupid things, did some stupid things, proved she was just people.
>>645904439 a multitude of reasons, OP. 1. terrified of commitment, yet was with the same girl for 5 years. (first girlfriend, totally fucked us both up) 2. my most recent ex moved away to get clean, as soon as she did I was hitting up another girl 3. the only QTs in area are in highschool, fuck that. 4. women are just plain fucking retarded.
Pretentious as It may sound Its really hard to find someone as smart as me and I can't stand talking to people who don't "get" what I'm saying.
More importantly most people don't fully "get" my sense of humor. People call me weird, but mostly in an affectionate way, as in "entertainingly weird" because everything I say is a joke and all my jokes are absurdest and irreverent. I know that makes me sound like I'm actually autistic or something, but I'm not. It's just that there are very few women out there who share my quirks and the few who do have been snatched up.
I was in a relationship for five years. Wasted a lot of money over that time, most of it on a ring for possible engagement. But after she bled me dry, I sold the ring, broke up with her, got most of my money back and choose to live the single life.
Fuck it. Women are gold-diggers. The ones that are at least modest and owe up to it aren't terrible, but any woman that says they are not is a bloody liar.
I don't dislike women. But for now, my relationship status is on permanent hiatus.
I choose to be single. After losing my 3th girlfriend during a depression (which happens mostly several times in a year however, one is always mayor and goes on for at least 4 months) I decided never to hurt someone with this crap ever again. All 4 are still friends and all 4 of them tell me they understood me only years after.
Just met a girl the other night actually. Went out to a party with my buddy, we hit it off she was super chill and really fucking cute. We drank together (tho she ended up getting sick), and the next day I went and chilled at her place.
Fucking finally got out of the whiny bitch shit and went out and had a great time. Go me.
>>645912449 Different person. I've gotten a few matches on Tinder. One was a bot. Two unmatched me after I messaged them. One didn't reply but is still on my matches. There are still a couple others I haven't messaged yet and haven't unmatched me, but I don't think I know how to start conversations on there. I try commenting based on something on their profile.
>>645904439 Why isn't anyone like me? 1 month out of Year relationship. She was an alcoholic, big tits, skinny, tall. Pretty,... but...High maintenance, self centered, money sucking, zero contribution cunt.Guys look at me like i'm lucky.. No dude, "this is nothing!" Told her to fuck off after her one last ignorant comment, who the fuck wants that trouble? some old ugly guy with a lot of money that cant get laid? god knows. Not me anymore.. Happy to be Single
i get the feeling every woman just wants sex. if you look on dating sites they always/mostly want an older man because they got "experience" in bed of course and what do i need a girlfriend just for? to not feel alone? i'd rather be alone then being cheated on and fucking? damn im pretty good at wanking
>>645917808 All you're doing by complementing then that early on is feeding their ego, also it puts them above you. If you're gonna use tinder don't be one then douche bags that through out complainants for free. She'll get about 100 of those on the regs and you'll just be another beta feeding here narcissistic behaviour
>>645917808 All you're doing by complementing then that early on is feeding their ego, also it puts them above you. If you're gonna use tinder don't be one then douche bags that through out complainants for free. She'll get about 100 of those on the regs and you'll just be another beta feeding her narcissistic behaviour
>>645904439 Girlfriend killed herself when her Mum died last winter leaving her an orphan. She was my point of clarity and my compass and meter for which I gauged everything and consequence in my life. I'm lost without her.
>>645904439 Women are a lot of work. Even if you get the pussy, the amount of effort i have to put into it isn't worth it. I don't consider myself an especially handsome man, so I might have to put more work into it than most
Its a numbers game, besides; hit up x women, maybe a third of them talk back to you, maybe 1 in ten close the deal... I dont care anymore, man.
I'm actually single because i was made not to find any interest in human flesh. The only thing that makes me feel good is other peoples misery so that's why i became a social engineer and a background hacker. I work for a friend that has the same taste as me and we both agreed to just steal money for about 3-4 years and go live of somewhere for the rest of our lives enjoy sports and other of earths pleasures. Skins ship pleasure is just one of many others anyways. Just kidding I'm single cos my area has no girls of my taste and im shy lol
>>645904439 lost the fear of being alone. People said this was what i was supposed to achieve, but no wi just dn't give a shit if im alone or no. Actually I rather eb alone because most people around me are shit or have boyfriends.
whatever you guys do, keep your fear of being alone. at least you will try having a gf.
>>645918744 A good point, but in my case, I feel like I almost have the opposite problem. I wouldn't say my first messages come across as compliments. I don't insult them, but my messages are more "neutral".
Some of what I've tried so far: If they mention that they like to travel, I ask where they've been and places they still want to go; or if I notice something unique in one of their pictures (if I notice a location, etc.), I'll ask them about it. Or if they mention that they're in school for X, I ask how/why they got interested in that. Something to get them to talk about themselves a little.
I'm not the best at this stuff, but as of now, I believe my messages may come across as too "dry". I never took the other extreme and tried cheesy pick up lines. Probably needs more humor. Luckily, there are so many people on Tinder that there are lots of opportunities for practice. (On the other hand, my match rate is pretty low and I swipe left perhaps too much myself).
>>645921004 The funny thing is, women are shitty conversationalists; they say stupid shit all of the time to Chads they want to fuck, but if one of us says something of the same caliber to them, they have zero interest in us.
Because I make good first impressions and girls are often interested in me until they find out I'm a selfish prick that loathes social obligations. I also have unrealistic standards. The worst part is I would love to find someone. I'm just an unlovable arsehole.
>>645921390 3 months out of a 3 year relationship, I feel you man. We want to go out and meet someone new, but the idea of making a connection with someone like the one we had seems pointless.
I was in a relationship for almost the first half of my twenties, and now I feel like I can't interact at all with people my age. They're all so shallow and boring; mindless sheep following whatever trends are popular at the moment and I just cannot for the life of me stoop down to their level. It sucks because all of the qtpies I know fall into this category, I just can't connect with them man. Also, I feel like I'm too ugly for them , and it kind of makes me not want to go out and look for anyone outside of my acquaintance circle.
My confidence is shot, and my interest is slowly fleeting every passing day, it's only a matter of time before even fapping seems pointless...
No one has to be single. It's about setting expectations and working on yourself in the process. I see a lot of these posts and the chicks that are posted are usually pretty hot, but who the fuck cares? There are plenty of women out there and you don't need to fuck a dumb hot girl/guy because it doesn't feel good afterwards. They'll make you cum, but you can do that to yourself. Find someone who is cool and thinks you're cool too and seriously work on yourself. Doing the same thing everyday with no results isn't going to get you anywhere. Try to get out more and don't be the center of attention. People like people who are good at listening and have some confidence in themselves. Who the fuck cares though. Lol.
>>645905002 Im this guy. Been her friend for 5 years, saved her from abusive ex, saved her from her abusive parents, watched her grow from 14 to 19, last October she joins the army, im proud as hell, she is stressed, long distance , i fly down to see her and save our relationship, this summer she comes home, goes on vacation with me, goes back, admits she no longer loves me and thinks her parents are good parents. 5 years of loving her and left broken hearted.
>>645922465 I think the neckbeards on this board are too corrupted by porn to have reasonable expectations of women. There is no reason any man should not have a girlfriend. Lower your standards for physica looks until you find a mate. Who cares if she has a butter face, it's better than being alone
>>645922821 Yeah man, porn is not good. It's really self serving which is appealing and all, but it fucks you up in the end. If you're a naturally unattractive person you can make yourself look better. It's all about the amount of work you put into it though. Plus you can meet a really attractive person who might not have the face of a model but they'll fuck you just as good and want to cuddle up with you afterwards. Nothing will ever beat that feeling :)
>>645910677 Anon don't know if your still here. But I'm shit tier at green text so here goes. I've known this girl M since we were about 10. We grew up together and now I'm 21. She had interest in other guys because I was too much of a faggot to tell her how I felt. When I recently told her how I felt, she said we couldn't be together because I fucked her best friend and took her virginity. Now, I'm sad and drunk, and I don't know what to do. Girl on the left btw.
because I have a best friend and I talk to her every single day, I'm super into her but I don't know how to tell her I like her. I've had plenty of gfs before, I'm only 19 but I don't want her to think I'm weird and dip if she doesn't feel the same way and then I will have lost a best friend.
>>645923551 Any guy who thinks a long term relationship with a woman in the present social climate is flat out retarded. Its not womens fault. Its just the way it is. Spend your money and time on yourself. At least you will know where you stand day to day.
>>645922342 Exactly, man. There's been a couple girls I've talked to since my breakup but without fail they've all been superficial. Trying to find a "diamond in the rough" is so surreal right now. I just live my days as they come and hope one day I stumble upon a woman that makes everything worthwhile.
Because after numerous instances of being cheated on and betrayed by my romantic companions, I have chosen to cope with the indescribable pain by becoming a bitter asshole not unlike a textbook mysoginist.
3 and 1/2 years after my most recent relationship was broken up by my unfaithful ex fianc├йe, I have developed a serenity in the isolation of a singular existence. I'm using as many big words as I can, to sound worldly and important. But the tall and short of it is I have grown to enjoy being single and actually prefer to avoid interaction with others, especially women, for anything other than sexual gratification.
Because being with women isn't worth me putting in an ounce of effort.
Already been through enough shit with them as it stands, and I'm not looking to waste any more time dealing with bullshit emotional issues and trying to co-manage some psychotic wreck's mental state. Fuck that.
And if sex is what I want I can always get a hooker... cheaper in the long run, and no dealing with random BS.
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