/b/ everything my gf says pisses me off, shes fucking annoying, I'm not even attracted to her anymore. To big of a faggot to break up with her and cant throw 4 years down the drain. What do
> inb4 kill yourself
I've been in that situation ... Find a side bitch and ease your way into it if you have to, but one way or the other you are gonna have to leave that annoying cunt. It's all for the better.
in this exact same situation, except with my wife....and we have 2 kids....i can tel you from experience you dont wnat to be married with children thinking about how you had your freedom and could do anything you wanted but now you have ur commitments.....shits shitty bruh, dont be me, get out now while you still can
She's not worth it man. I've been in a relationshit of 3 years and half with my ex, i continued to date her for the exact same reason, until it got to the point of hatred towards one and other. 2 years later i met the love of my life who i am still dating. Dump, move on, be happy again. 4 years isn't worth putting up with that bitche's shit. Do the right thing.
You're bored cause you've dated her for a long time.
Just figure out if you're leaving her for a pride issue (you just want to fuck around) and if she's worth the rest of your life.
If you're young and she's one of your first relationships, just dump her man...cause people change over time and the most drastic changes occur in your twenties.
Give it a good though mate, because boredom appears when you think you know everything about your surroundings.
Same here, im in a 2 year relationship and dont know how to leave her, she's fucking crazy about my friends, even got jealous from my sister.
Also we fuck around 1-2 times every 3 months and does not suck dick.
yeah the only reason why im honestly still with her is i have very few friends outside of our relationship, Ive really spent most of my time with her and have nothing to really fall back on. Makes shit even harder
So ive got a kinda same situation... but my girlfriend is like a 9/10 and im kinda average like 6/10 but not more. Sex with her is great but shes also really annoying and now im kinda worried that i cant keep this "lifestyle" if i leave her since everyone keeps telling me what a nice girlfriend i got.
Ikr, she make me delete all my female friends on facebook..sex is fucking awful..the only thing i do besides college is american football and she got mad everytime y go to practice/games. It's really shitty man.
Totally feel u bro.
Mhm, i can imagine that being a problem. I had enough close friends that helped me get back on track. But still, it shouldn't hold you back from moving on with your life, cuz one way or another you're not gonna be happy. I think there's more chance of getting that spark back in your life if you break up and ending up alone for sometime, than staying with her.
When i broke up with her i tried something new, anytime someone asked me to hangout i always said YES. no matter what they were doing. Fucking played Bingo at a church LOL just try new things and meet new people. I meet a bunch of new girls at bars. Now im seeing 2 new girls and having tons of fun.
Yeah shes also a really nice person with a normal life and really everyone likes her and then theres me. I dont know its just like sometimes she says something and i jus want to leave her. But we are working at the same place and i think that breaking up with her would also fuck me up since im a quiet guy and i rarely make new friends beside my really old ones.
fuck man same here i really dont have many people outside of her. we work at the same place aswell she basically got me the job there, also go to the same uni and take a lot of the same classes
to much anxiety about doing new things, got to deal with my own shit first before i can do that, I eventually will be able to though just need to work through my issues and get a good job out of uni
I have the opposite problem:
My GF refuses to leave me even though she hates my career and lifestyle (which I can't change). She gives me hell for it all the time, to the point I've asked her why the fuck she stays. She refuses to leave.
I stay because I don't really have any problems with her. I shut her down quickly when she bitches, and she's 9/10 asian qt. Sex is good.
What the fuck is up with this? I'm 26 and I still haven't found a girl who is fine on her own who isn't a slut or a bitch. The good girls are all too insecure in the long run, the more they care, the more they hate what I do.
Post her number here, we will text her fucked up messages. You then read messages, get pissed at her for cheating, she gets even more pissed for thinking that, so she dumps you
This. However you can choose to keep it at four years instead of allowing even more years down the drain. You already know what you want to do, OP, it just isn't easy. I'm not going to call you a pussy or a faggot because I think most of us have been in a similar situation where we're unhappy, but comfortable with the status quo, but if you just end it, you'll be glad when it's all over.
Dude, obviously you are beta as fuck to even be in this situation and then asking for help here. In light of that obvious fact, you should accept your fate that this is your future wife. Maybe try to get her into kinky sex or something. I mean, really, do you have much hope for another girl who puts up with your lack of self confidence and overall personal failure?
Making a lot of money? Well, then you could get whores easily, but we both know that's not what this is about. She wants you...she needs you...and you need that to feel better about yourself. Careful /b/ro, once she's gone you might never get that feeling back