Role-Reversal and Gentle Femdom General - When In Doubt Eat Her Out Edition
>preferably recommendations that are on-topic
Previous Thread: >>6498446
>What is Role Reversal?
Old Role Reversal Map:
irc channel: irc.irchighway.net , #gfd
/rr/ and /gfd/ megapastebins:
>Garden of Words
>Kiki's delivery service
>Witch Craft Works
>Madan no Ou to Vanadis
>Morobito: Guardian of the Spirit
>Monster Musume no Iru Ichijou
>Soredemo Sekai wa Utsukushii (The world is still beautiful)
>Akame ga Kill*
>The Pet Girl of Sakurasou*
>Danna ga Nani o Itteiru ka Wakaranai Ken
>Tasogare otome x Amnesia
>Tonari no Kaibutsu-kun
>Gekkan Shoujo Nozaki-kun
>Kono Onee-san wa fiction desu
>Unbalance x Unbalance
>Arakawa under the bridge
>Tramps like us
>Daisuki onnanoko wa daisuki desu ka?
*/gfd/ is not the main focus of the story. Don't read/watch it purely for the /gfd/, make sure you enjoy it first and consider the /gfd/ a bonus.
>The witch, the succubus and the cute apprentice
>Leave it to Kagari-san
>What did I do Kagari-san?
>Sakaki Rapes Yoshida
>Amahara's World of Reversed Gender Roles
>The serpentess never lets go (and other works by Hroz)
>Layers of White 1 & 2
>Pool De Deatta Oneesan To Ecchi Na Kankei Ni Nacchau Ohanashi
>With love, the monster café
>[po-ju] Secret Journey
>[sena youtaro] Kannou no Christmas Eve & Kannou no Christmas Eve 1st Anniversary
>[Ishigaki Takashi] Let Me Bark for You
>[Yuuki Homura] Onee-chan! Tengoku
It's my second time making a thread, I hope it goes well
Does /gfd/ play tabletop roleplaying games? Anything lewd or gfd-ish ever happened to you during a campaign?
I'm roleplaying a 200 year old shota mage in nWoD right now. Didn't know roleplaying a shota could be this much fun.
Well good night, Its mid day here. I'm guessing your in LA or something?
I found this cute set of images sometime ago, thanks to whoever posted them first
Meh, just got dumped because my girlfriend was scared to progress the relationship with moving to Seattle.
So now I'm distracting myself with smut and painting models.
Post cute things
I play /tg/ stuff all the time, but everyone made an agreement deep in their souls not to bring their fetishes into the game.
I play with a bunch of normalfags, though, so that might be different if I was playing with a bunch of dudes from 4chan.
meh. i'm dealing with worse and somehow i'm still alive
So, my frustration with tumblr just reached a new level. I just came from getting pissed of.
Pic somewhat related, it was the last thing I managed to jew from there.
>tfw no Amazonian gf
>tfw she will never develop a motherly complex during snu-snu time
>tfw you will never nurse from her immense breasts during a handjob
>tfw she will never protect you, stating to others that she is "his master"-when in reality she would do anything for you
>tfw you will never retreat into her cleavage for safety or comfort
>tfw she will never protect you, stating to others that she is "his master"-when in reality she would do anything for you
this is exactly what's wrong with having femdom in the title of these threads
i dont know anon i feel pretty gentle when im snuggling my pets and whispering sweet little nothing into their ears after a stressful day. just because youre somebody's property doesnt mean you arent loved.
id do anything for my pets. i dont see it as submissive so much as just theyre that important to me. if something i could do would make them happy then why not do it for them?
I think I nearly had a prostate orgasm last night. Closest I've ever come. It felt great, I teared up and broke into an intense sweat. Pretty sure my eyes rolled back, too. Wish I had someone to push me over that edge.
>When In Doubt Eat Her Out Edition
I have a few of those
Mk I think I'm all out.
It's Fall Break for me, which is nice
By the way guys, I want you all to know that you are one of (if not) the best online communities that I have come across. With the /r9k/ threads back 99% of the people in these threads on /d/ are genuinely really nice and interesting people. So from the bottom of my heart I thank you for making me a part of this lovely community and I hope the best for every single last one of you. You all deserve that special /gfd/ someone.
>Still cracking shitty jokes at friends
>Still having an identity crisis
>Still masturbating while eating Top Ramen
Life goes on as usual.
The /r9k/ threads are back? That explains why things have slowed down here. Not that I'm complaining. I like it slower. I can keep up with everything in the thread even if I don't check it all day every day.
Since were on the subject how do you deal with the smell? Even right after my GF washes it still smells so bad I want to hurl. Even she says it smells awful. Shes been to the doctor and has a clean bill of health so no infections or anything.
i have two pets, they like each other. we all live together. i make them fuck sometimes. nothing beats steak and get smothered by two sweaty girls thighs day for my bunny and nothing beats have your ass eaten out while you eat out your mistress day for my puppy.
A girl contacted me then told me I wasn't what she was looking for. That was a weird conversation. It was basically "Hello! I'm Jessica, just so you know I'm not interested in you so stop talking to me."
I was like then why the fuck did you seek me out and contact me? I dont even know who you are!
Besides that its the normal trudge through life. Go to school freak out at the work load. Go home. Waste time on the internet then sleep. Repeat.
Really? How did that happen?
I do /tg/ things every weekend. Nothing lewd ever happens though. I want to get a erotic maid game going but no one ever wants to play.
I'm a minor sociopath. Professionally diagnosed. I basically have a very high tolerance to emotions. What would make a normally person break down and flip out I just shrug my shoulders at and move on. It has its benefits and short comings. The biggest one being I am rather rational and "cold" about everything even relationships.
Say I have a GF and she bakes me a pie. I could be really happy that she did so but it doesn't show at all. This can give the impression that I am disinterested or dont care.
It takes a lot of effort to make me emote anger sadness or happiness. My most common feeling is annoyance. But even then it takes a lot for me to express it.
It was my aunt. She meant a lot to me. When I was younger we'd always go to her house for Thanksgiving dinner and then help set up her giant Christmas tree afterward. She had these two adorable cats who were really shy around most people, but they'd get really friendly and affectionate if you stuck around for a while.
Well that depends are you a sub or dom? Because I don't know of any guide there's people with a lot of knowledge in the matter so they can give you a few tips
>This can give the impression that I am disinterested or dont care.
Then fake it. It doesn't even need to be over the top, just look her in the eyes and give her a nice smile. If you have trouble doing this you should seek counseling to help you respond to social situations in a more engaging way. You school should have helped you with it, frankly.
Well I do. But its not as natural as other people. I have to consciously do it.
To put it how my psychiatrist put it to my mom. "Imagine when you get a bad gift for xmas where you know you should smile and say thank you. You may even feel good that they thought of you but are not particularly exited at all for it. That is most happy situations for your son."
I've gotten a few days off from school which is always nice. All my friends are back in town too.
>Got the spine to ask for the number of a qt I work with and see if she wanted to hang out some
>She gave it to me and was totally up for it
Now I just gotta text her to see if she wants to hang out sometime.
(Sorry for not having a pic. Phone Won't let me post one)
>Being forced to eat out your boss/lover/waifu under her desk
>She tries to pretend nothing's happening to keep it hidden from everyone else
I don't even like the idea of cunnilingus, but I like this.
>I don't even like the idea of cunnilingus
Fuck man, it's the best thing ever, I love it.
I used to think melting a woman with pure skills was a hentai manga thing, but now that I've known the pleasure of making your girl's mind fade into cotton candy, I'm addicted. I wonder why the fuck women don't just hire someone to eat them out, my girlfriend goes nuts when I do it. And I'm pretty sure I'm not even good at it.
Depends on the person a lot of the time. Some grills keep their cool getting eaten out, which can be a sexy trait to some peeps.
Personally I prefer it that way, when you can tell she's enjoying it but she keeps cool and in charge. I imagine it'd help maintain her dominance. That also reminds me how much loud screams and moans in porn irritate me, small gasps must be so much more erotic.
>That feel when no /k/ommando gf that tenderly dominates you when she's on leave and writes you every day when she's deployed
Way to go, anon!
I hope everything turns out well.
>be me, subby guy in an art class
>id say im a 7/10 on a good day
>im pretty short and skinny
>most people ask me why im so pale
>my school was designed weirdly, so the art hall is mixed in with the tech hall
>directly across from the door to my class is the door to the auto class
>one day, the bell rings and I am the last student the leave
>at the same time across the hall, a girl leaves the auto class
>she has a more muscley and tall build
>our eyes meet and we stare at each other for a second
>"h-hi" she is barely able to mumble out
>I giggle, finding it cute
>She blushes and asks for my name
>"Anon. whats your's?" I ask as cutely as possible
>"femanon" she says. slightly biting her lip
>"nice to meet you" I say smiling up at her
>She asks if my lunch was now
>It is, so we decide to have lunch together
>on the way to the cafateria, I caught her staring at my butt a few times
>we sit and talk for a while, eating pizza she bought for us. She was so sweet about it
>she asks to see my art
>i show her m sketchbook. she comments on how good I am
>"awww...thank you" *I smile at her
>Eventually, she says "You're girlfriend is lucky she has someone as awesome as you"
>I giggle an little and tell her I dont have a gf
>tfw no gf
>"do you want one?"
>my heart skips a beat as she says this
>"Yeah, if the right one came along"
>she reaches out and holds my hand, biting her lip and smiling
>I didnt notice how strong and muscley is until now
>She has an iron grip
>"do you think you found her?" she asks
>"yes...I think I have, femanon"
>she leans in and gently kisses me
>I blush and softly kiss back
>after a few seconds, she pulls away
>"so...do you want to go on a date some time?"
>"yes please" I practically moan out
>That night, we watched a horror movie
>every jumpscare, I would hide my face, and she pulled me towards her, hugging me
>My face was in her cleavage for a lot of that movie
If this is real, it sounds like you got pretty lucky. Congrats anon, tall and strong girls are a rarity.
I want to fall asleep listening to the gentle beating of Mommy's heart.
>Don't even have an incest fetish
>Would melt if a girl forced me to call her mommy
It's a weird feel
If this is real you're one lucky son of a bitch and I'm super jealous. Congrats
I thought the same thing for a while but girls call their boyfriends daddy so the reverse shouldn't be that bad
I feel like I'm the weird one here but a girl calling me "daddy," or me calling a girl "mommy," completely kills it for me. I'd prefer to call her "Master," or "Mistress," as I think incest is shit.
I'm not much of a dom, but if I'd have a girl call me "Master," or "Sir," if I had to choose. But I realize that this isn't the thread for that.
It's completely understandable but for me I don't take it as incest just as a cute pet name
That is still not how it works, we do not go to the dommes the dommes come to pick us up. I mean come on we are supposed to be the passive ones, that is the whole idea here!
What would be your favorite position to try with Mommy?
I never had a thing for being called mommy either but then my bf started doing it as a joke and now I'm hooked
I get extremely turned on when he calls me mommy now and sort of moans whenever he does
Watching him sleep also turns me on like crazy and I wish I could 'rape' him while he does. I'm watching him sleep right now over skype
>that feel when your sub is too cute for words and you want to spoil him and make him yours forever
If a guy called me mommy I'd politely drop the relationship.
It's not even because incest particularly bothers me (though parent/child is gross), but I would find being called a mom insulting and creepy.
I called my GF mum once but I was half asleep and I just finished having a skype talk with my mum. Asides from that I have no problem dating an older woman but calling my GF "mommy" in a sexual way sounds pretty disturbing to me...but hey if you have an oedipus complex (I think that's how its spelt) I'm not going to judge
Love this shit too, hidden cunnilingus or analingus, both hot as fuck
>when you can tell she's enjoying it but she keeps cool and in charge. I imagine it'd help maintain her dominance
This is really hot, especially if she's working, talking with someone/talking on the phone, or otherwise doing something, that runs the risk of getting you caught
Thanks glad my second thread is a success
>tfw in a great /rr/ relationship with qt gf
>tfw she showers me with compliments all the time
>tfw any time we go on a date, she finds some place to pull me into and blow me
>tfw i know I'm probably gonna have to break up with her within the next 6 months
I don't want to, but I know that we're just not right for each othe, and I don't think I'd be able to live with her. Should I do it sooner or wait as long as I can guys? Gentle femdom doms are so hard to find nowadays.
>not trying tineye as well
you absolutely deserved it
here, only because you said "please"
Thank you very much! I didn't know about Tineye.
just use iqdb
there are also even better jap sites but they're for advanced weebs only
Nearly all women are like that in North America/Western Europe. Your only hope of finding a woman who isn't a feminazi SJW cunt is a non-westernized girl from Asia or Eastern Europe. And they won't be into the /gfd/ thing.
The sample coat is almost.
If you aren't familiar with /k/, I do clothing projects, print custom fabric and have it made up into things. Now usually this is in camouflage, but it just occurred to me being here, it would be highly amusing to make a comic jacket or what have you. You know the ones where they put old x-men comic strips into a college and so on? But do it with hentai comics. As a silly little project that would amuse me no end.
Not really, not sure if you go out much but there's some decent women that aren't inducted into cults and most have never even heard of it.
Just don't go to clubs expecting angels.
And don't go on tinder expecting housewives.
And don't go to tumblr expecting solid minded people, as it's essentially female r9k.
(to be the majority*)
Well I fucked up again /rr/. I've been dating this girl that found me on the map for about 3 months now. She had some things I didn't like about her but they were nothings and I loved every other bit of her. There was only one part that we didn't click on and its what killed the relationship. I'm not good with making choices. I told her from the start. It can actually get so bad I can have panic attacks. I asked her to ask my views on things and make a choice on her own. She said it was fine but she constantly just kept putting me on the spot. Do you want x or Y? Do you want to do Z? I kept trying to explain myself to her and she even saw me lock up once. But she said she wanted direct answers from me. All I wanted was for her to ask for things like this "Which do you like more X or Y?" I dont know why but I have this hang up that freaks my brain out when faced with a choice it freaks out. But when just asked my opinion I'm fine. I can say that I like X more and would rather go there.
She asked me to move in with her and I hesitated. She sighed and gave me 5 minutes or she was leaving me. I panicked and couldn't do it. Whats worse is she smiled hugged me and said she still loved me. That we would stay friends but she didn't want a relationship with me any more. She is still my friend but its killing me. She was my one shot at happiness and now shes already found another guy. Why am I cursed with this? I'm fucking cursed to always fuck it up and to be alone.
Well, the both of you fucked up really. You can't ask someone to decide on something as important as their place of living in a measly five minutes, but you honestly sound like a bit of a bitch in regards to everything else.
Seriously, go to a doctor or something. Or just kill yourself and remove your shit-tier genes from the pool.
You have a common mental illness. If she cant accept you for who you are. She wasn't your only chance, she was just 1 chance of several. She doesnt love the real you, only an idea of you in her head.
Don't worry about it, some day you'll meet a girl who likes to take charge but values your opinion and will make you feel like you are totally normal, anon.
>Bf is indecisive
>You have five minutes to move or I'm dumping you
Sounds like she was already fucking this other dude and she just needed some filmsy excuse to break up with you and not feel bad about it.
You're better off Anon. She's a whore.
Its the same reason she kept putting me on the spot before. She wanted a clear and definitive answer. We talked about moving in before and I liked the idea and told her I wanted to. She didn't like the fact that I had difficulty with making clear choices. She knew I had a problem but thought that if she kept pushing me I would get better. I guess it was a make or break thing for her.
I don't have the money for a doctor. I'm barely getting by on food stamps and school loans. I want to but every psych I look up wants like 200 dollars just for a first meeting. 200 dollars is way beyond me right now.
Is it common? It feels like I'm the only one that cant just say yes or no to shit. Its ruining my life. I don't know why I have to have a panic attack just because my friend asked if I wanted to go to dennys.
see this is what I would love but I'm not a skinny small guy, I'm a tall, hairy, muscular, bearded guy in college that's never had a girl. Everyone expects me, aka a fucking chad, to have nailed dozens of women already. They expect the confidence man who sees a woman and sweet talks her to his bedroom to fuck her, take the dominating role in the relationship
I wanna get sweet talked to.
It feels like it's impossible to be who I am, naturally a sub, when 99% of the time I could beat the shit out of everyone in the room single handedly
>Is it common? It feels like I'm the only one that cant just say yes or no to shit
It's a pretty extreme case but a lot of people have trouble making decisions, I really don't fucking care about most things as the majority is inconsequential and it just irritates having to choose I usually just say "the first" instead of "I don't care/mind" regardless if I'm listening seems to be enough for most people
/v/ and /d/.
Used to frequent /vp/, but that board somehow got even shittier as time went on.
You sound retarded, no offence.
I'll get ragged on for insensitivity but it's those same kinds of people who have kept you as weak as you are by making it okay.
You will have to face the discomfort of choice to get anywhere and anything. You have no choice in this.. which is what you like. Lol.
Hello /gfd/, I really need your advice.... I am going to meet up with my domme (I AM FROM USA BTW) in England of UK. I have never been so nervous in my life because I have never met anyone from the internet who is so Gorgeous (let's call her Gorgeous), but I have known her for more than a year now. I want to go up to her in a surprise and say, "you're it," and turn her around and smooch her on the lips. I feel like that wouldn't work tho. It's scary and not like the movies...
What if it's awkward meeting Gorgeous for the first time? I really love her like a lot and she loves me like a lot too, but what if it's like hella awks, right? It's gonna cost me $1000 for a roundtrip and if it fails then I will be really depressed and consider being neck-snapped mode again. How do i kiss?
Now to the slut part... So Gorgeous doesn't talk to a lot of guys, but I know she's really friendly to people who she's friends with and I was thinking she you-kno-whats with'em, right? I don't want to say anything, but I don't want her to be slut. I am probably hella paranoid. I DON'T KNOW. OKAY? What should I do?
/d/ /aco/ /v/ /vg/ /toy/ /u/, less often /co/ /a/ (almost entirely for JoJo) /s/ /tg/, used to use /mu/ /f/ and /vr/ but kind of just stopped, although I'll look at them once in a while. I use /wooo/ about as often as I use 4chan overall, too (/wooo/ is a wrestling board on another chan, about as fast as /d/, pretty good place).
/vg/, although probably not for much longer. The only general I follow is dying and I'm getting less and less enthusiastic about having to bump it off of page ten once every hour. Nobody else wants to contribute or start any discussions and I'm too busy with school and work to finish my stories for them right now.
If only I had given you the full fucking page you passive lazy fuck, you didn't even look for it yourself
I swear this thread asks for sauce more than /gif/
/v/ /sci/ /d/ (but I only use it for /gfd/ and monster girls) /vg/ and sometimes /b/ when I need a bit of a laugh
Unlikely to happen to me, but it sounds like a pretty good date.
>Dom girl teaching me how to shoot
Actually I like this idea.
/d/ /v/ /vg/ /b/ /tg/ /sci/ /k/ /pol/
tho i'm not browsing much these days because of med studies, so i only browse when i'm pooping
Also, pleased to see another /k/omrade here
i'm gonna need about 69 more pics of that position
Yeah, even the doms that like your type are going to assume you're not the submissive type.
That said, it's not impossible to have a dynamic where the sub is stronger. Gentler domination is actually a good fit for that since it's more like you're guiding the sub than struggling for power with him.
I'm picking stuff at random. I never organised it and now it;s too late to do so.
just /d/ for me. years ago i used to lurk /b/, but i just lost interest in it after a while. ill cruise /gif/ or /h/ for a fap, but i wouldnt call myself a denizen of either of those boards
>I want to go up to her in a surprise and say, "you're it," and turn her around and smooch her on the lips. I feel like that wouldn't work tho. It's scary and not like the movies...
yeah, dont do that. you definitely want to make sure she knows youre coming to visit and is okay with it.
>I know she's really friendly to people who she's friends with and I was thinking she you-kno-whats with'em
thats quite an irrational jump in logic there. you suspect shes banging her FRIENDS because shes FRIENDly with them? dude what?
/b/, /c/, /d/, /f/, /t/, /aco/, /mlp/
>all these boards i barely/don't visit any more
>no more /l/ and /g/
>people like this actually browse this site
In celebration of 100 markers on the map (and probably 0 successful relationships)!
I hope to god you're trolling.
Never fucking mind down to 99 after the latest pruning.
You get a link to make edits when you first put it up I think. If you don't have it I can always delete your marker and you can repost it with different info.
/a/, /jp/, and a couple of threads on /vg/ mostly.
Was really hoping for /his/. Of all the possible choices I honestly don't know why /aco/ was even made.
/v/ /d/ /vg/ /co/ /b/
Occasionally /wsg/ and /a/
I try to. I really do. But the more I fight it the worse the panic attack that hits me. The best way I've found for dealing with it is to deflect the question and try and compose an answer. It doesn't always work but it does sometimes.
>tfw gf starts to tease you with her toys
Another /k/ommando reporting in
More like this. Of the guy clearly being overwhelmed but her eagerly trying to make him cum... even better, cfnm, and he's trying to hide his bulge... *drools*
Yo. Girls who want to dominate your gigantic self are out there. I'm definitely here to get ideas for broaching the subject with my large, weight lifting SO who recently told me he's into being pushed around in bed. I mean, it's all pretend anyways.
I go to /d/ and /a/ mainly. Sometimes I'll go to /diy/ to learn about welding. On that note, how would a dom feel about her cute boy having a dirty job like that? It wouldn't change the relationship or anything of the sort right? Obviously it depends on the domme and whatnot, but can some dommes here give me their opinions?
/u/ Mainly. Lots of gfd there.
/d/ For gfd and petplay, /r9k/ for observation, /vg/ for visual novels, /fit/, /lgbt/ for shiposting in and /an/ for a bad day.
Based on conversations that we've had and her demeanor.
>once upon a time..
>talking to qt among friends
>talking about movies we saw recently
>qt says that she rewatched one of the SAW movies
>somehow we spin off on a tangent about bondage, and she's all over it
>all the while shes like right up next to me, mimicking the ropes and stuff (basically on me)
>later, we get back onto the topic of movies
>we were talking movie quotes that we love hearing
>she says how she loves the quote "Come on, beg on your knees."
>talk to her and ask her if she wants to hang out
>she seemed pretty into the idea
Everyone loves /ss/ and it always proves to be great /gfd/ material.
Cos /gfd/ is always a mixed bag. Sometimes you get amazons, sometimes you get a lot of greentext, sometimes you get /fit/girls...
and sometimes you get cancerous piss threads.
>GF swears up and down she's into this shit when I tell her I'm a switch
>proceeds to never act on it ever and selfishly ignores 50% of my sexuality
It's so fucking boring.
I've found that almost no "switches" actually are switches. Its like being bisexual to them its a badge they wear to try and make themselves look and feel special. Once they realize how much work it is they almost always dodge being the top.
>It's so fucking boring.
To be completely honest this is the main reason I cant be with a submissive girl. The sex is just so fucking boring and uninteresting. Then with me being so uninterested in sex the relationship breaks down. Saying "I find sex with you boring." is not very conductive to a healthy relationship.
i would love to be taken care off but i managed to take care of myself my entire life so i'm sure, i could manage taking care of someone. can't be harder than taking care of a lil child
I'll be honest it takes a special kind of girl to deal with a sub guy. Even more so with a service sub. There is a lot of independence you have to give up to accommodate their need to take care of and please you. At the same time you have to learn your sub inside and out to spot how they are feeling.
Most girls just can not handle it. They can normally do one or the other but are not or unable to do both. The independence is a big one. Because something as small as letting your sub set out your clothes in the morning can mean the world to him. But something so small bugs many girls to give up. Its the smallest things that cause the problems because of thoughts like "I'm not a child. I can do X."
I'm not even talking about the whole role reversal thing, or even any extreme femdom, just a little variation in who takes the lead and initiates. I am a real switch so 50% of the time I feel like taking the lead, but she won't meet me half way.
Really it's like taking turns pushing the swing, should be common decency to give someone else a turn if they've been pushing you.
And they all seem to be submissive, it's their default state of being. I don't know if they're actually submissive or if they're just lazy and it's an easy pass into letting someone else do all the work.
I think you just need to look at it like someone who's vegetarian. Like they can eat meat, but they refuse to do it for personal reasons. Some people chose/can't sub for some of the same reasons.
Unless they know how to be service tops on command, yes, I can verify they are frequently bad lays. There are different types of sub guys. Some just want to lie there and have you do cowgirl all the time; these guys suck because they're essentially like shitty female subs. Then there are good subs who know how to both take what you want to give them and also be service tops who will fuck you however you want it on command.
Yes they can be but the dynamics are different as well. The man still has to penetrate the girl. The girls we are talking about are the ones that just fucking lay there and will excuse away anything more. Sure you can order them to ride you but they just are never into it.
The guy can lay there as well but when they are in a /rr/ relationship the male is most likely already used to taking orders and being led and the girl is used to leading.
>I don't know if they're actually submissive or if they're just lazy and it's an easy pass into letting someone else do all the work.
Its our culture. Its really as simple as that. In cultures where roles are more even or flipped for what ever reason women are not like this.
I cant stand switches. They always feel like a bait and switch to me. They lure you in with premisses then never fulfill. Unless a guy flatly says shes a top or wants to be in control I just lump them in with all the other nondateables.
Well think of it like this:
The default state for females is submission.
The default state for males is domination.
However that doesn't mean they're actually going to be good at their role.
A lot of women just lie there like a dead fish and don't participate in any way, a lot of men just go to town without considering the needs of their partner in any way, in both cases the sex is crap.
If you're dominant you want someone who responds to your domination in exciting ways, sub doesn't mean "lie there and do nothing", they're supposed to be reactive, so there's an exchange happening between the two people.
Same with people who are submissive, they don't just want to be used like a doll, their partner is expected to pleasure them, again there's a two-way exchange happening.
You can't have sex alone, yet so many people act that way, and are selfish.
I've dated top-leaning switches, and honestly the 'sub' tendencies in said switches can be fulfilled without them really ceasing to be the dom if they just maintain command. Some people think they're switches because they like power and dominance but also want to be occasionally tied up and fucked hard, for example. Thing is, a dom can order her sub to do this for her and still be in control because she is in command he is just serving her what she wants in that situation.
Women like to be fucked hard because penetration generally doesn't feel that good unless there's a ton of friction - more so if they guy isn't big. Women associate being fucked hard with being with a dominant man, when in reality any man dom or sub can be made to fuck her that way. Like the above anon mentioned, a good male sub is also a service top who can fulfill that need when ordered.
A healthy, happy, kinky relationship is ideal for me over anything else, but I'd prefer to be with another switch just to fulfill fantasies of getting to top and bottom.
I can do one roll for a long time, but say I'm the dominant in a relationship, sometimes I'm just going to cuddle my sub like a comfort blank, in a very timid and gentle way, just because I need to fulfill my urge to be vulnerable to someone's actions.
If I'm the sub in a relationship, I'm generally submissive most of the time, but can still do the dominance when they request it.
I'm also bisexual, and I enjoy being bottom, so if I'm dating women I would generally ask them to peg me at some point so I can get the feeling of penetration. If dating a guy, I can always top him if I want to fuck a hole.
Don't think about it as doming. You don't have to be a dom to top. Assuming you're a male who leans towards being a sub, think of it as her being at your mercy to pleasure her.
I consider myself a submissive. I still love every minute of having my girlfriend tied up and moaning as I eat her out until she can't move her legs. Follow that with a good ol' fashioned fucking as some cuddles and I'm the happiest man alive.
It's not about doming, it's about fulfilling her needs and fantasies.
Trying to clean my phones micro USB part with a tiny piece of plastic from a blisterpac, I think the hooks on the male connector are all squished and I have to prop my phone at a certain angle to charge.
I'm really 50/50 so if my partner is only one or the other it feels like I'm only being half satisfied.
It's fine to favor one over the other, which role I take really depends more on how the sex is initiated, so it's pretty easy to illicit whatever reaction you want from me, however if one is completely ignored (and lets be honest, it's usually the sub aspect) then I'm just not happy.
It runs a little deeper than sex for me because I associate the more tender submissive sex with being loved and appreciated, which I guess is more the subject of these threads, and most people seem to see it as emasculating, as if your height and build has any bearing on your emotional needs.
Well then we stop breaching femdom territory (which is what _most_ of us are into,) and more into assertive guy territory. The reason I hate domming and taking the lead is because... I dunno. It's just such a gigantic turnoff that I legitimately cannot get off to being on top or in the lead. It isn't arousing, kinky, or fun. I'm into /rr/ because I like the roles being reversed, not the reverse roles being reversed again. Also, you don't really seem like a sub as much as someone who just enjoys sex. I apologize if this seems like a personal attack but I find myself repulsed to the idea of having control in bed.
I'm not a sub because I enjoy fulfilling my girls fantasies when she needs me to? I'm not offended, but you need to understand that not all dominant-submissive relationships involve the sub being the passive receiver during sex.
The difference here being that I'm not assertive, nor do I take control. It's as she wants it when she wants it. It might be less femdom, but it's certainly still role-reversal.
As to really enjoying it. Well yeah, but the heart of it is still making her happy.
I really don't mind what job a guy has as long as he enjoys it and he can pay his share of the rent if/when we move in together. Welding's a pretty neat skill, especially if he was willing to use his skills to help me make kink equipment.
Plenty of people are switches without being 50/50. They might only switch out of their 'default' mode under very specific conditions. I would call myself a switch, but I've only enjoyed bottoming/subbing to one guy in the eight years that I've been sexually active because it just takes a very specific set of circumstances for me to want to do that. I still call myself a switch because I like that sometimes, but it's definitely not 50/50.
I could quite happily go the rest of my life without submitting again. Being a dom is GOAT. But if I met someone I really liked and he turned out to be a dom, at least I know that I can be flexible and I don't have to miss out on a good partner just because we're incompatible in the bedroom.
I would just love to have a lady who dominate\milk me\make me pleasure her whenever she wants. Sadly it seems like 99% of the girls just expect you to always do the dominant job by default.
Such is life.
Okay, well that's not how yknow, the entire kink community defines it. There's no rule that says switches have to like both equally.
Nah, he sounds like a sub who knows how to please his mistress.
You, on the other hand, sounds like an awful lay using /rr/ as an excuse to suck at sex and lie there expecting the woman to do everything.
I wish there was a way to filter out socially retarded guys like >>6508488 and >>6508480. Being with a dominant woman doesn't mean she won't want you to fuck her hard and fast when she orders you.
As the guy you referenced, you're being unfair. They may simply have different relationship dynamics than we do. And calling someone retarded for lack of confidence is uncalled for. Learning to do something out of your comfort zone and perhaps enjoy it, takes time and patience. There's no excuse for being unwilling to try, but neither of us know all the facts.
I like you, guy. Too many leeches in this thread using /rr/ as a crutch for their awful, awful sexual performance. I bet they expect to just lay there with the woman on top without any awareness at all of how one can be an absolutely mindblowing fuck from the bottom.
Uh well no. I've been with 2 partners. One vanill and one dom girl. She pegged me because it's always been a fetish of hers so I obliged and now I'm obsessed with it. The vanilla girl was scared of sex but cared about so we awkwardly had sex because we were both naive teens. The dom dropped me and I was just fetish fodder.
That's fine, but role reversal/and or femdom is generally considered a lifestyle rather than a specific fetish. Simply put, you can enjoy pegging without femdom or RR. Believe it or not, there are vanilla women out there who enjoy it.
I understand. That's why I practice all of my cooking and cleaning and massages. I do genuinely want to make someone happy and comfortable, but most of the people I meet always just go for fetish stuff.
Well good on you for improving yourself. But understand some women will want you to be on top on occasion. Not all, but it' something to consider. As I said earlier, if you want to be more confident the important thing to realize is that you're making her happy. Be happy that she's happy and showing how much she trusts you.
>I have the experience
You don't. Until proven otherwise, you look like just any of the other shills that either degrade others to look better by comparison. If by some sick twist of fate you're actually a dom, I pity the man or woman that puts his/her physical and emotional well-being into your hands. Obviously you don't respect any of these people, why would you respect your sub?
If that's where this is going, I'm done with this conversation.
None of us start with instinctual knowledge of how to cook, oil massage, or go down on a woman. Any dom who can't bother to teach you or tolerate your mistakes isn't worth being a sub for (or any relationship). As everyone who's been involved in the kink scene will tell you: it's all about communication.
Seriously, just do the above. Ask her if she'll let you top for a night. Cook her a nice meal, give her a sensual warm oil massage, and make her moan. It doesn't have to be perfect on your first try.
I feel so bad for you, that must of been horrible
As a primarily top/domme-leaning switch, but definitely a switch, I instead have an open relationship and then don't have to make people feel awkward doing something they're not completely interested in.
I honestly dont know if I could handle an open relationship. I fine with the idea of it but in practice I know myself. I get way to clingy a jealous.
You know thats kind of the point of these threads right? to find that 1%. But if you keep posting like that that 1% wont even give you the time of day.
I strut a lot because I know what I got. Its pretty easy to tell when they are looking too. But I'm more of an assertive kind of sub so I always say something along the lines of "Like what you see? You can pound it all you want later~" I normally get one of three reactions. Disgust. Utter bewilderment. or contact info. A surprising amount of girls are receptive to it. To bad they are not good for much more than one night stands. While they are a good fuck I want a /rr/ relationship so the fun cant end at the bedroom door.
What? You have to put yourself out there. If you just do nothing you get nothing. Go and take what you want man. Theres nothing wrong with telling a girl you want her to fuck you so hard you cant walk for a week.
>Theres nothing wrong with telling a girl you want her to fuck you so hard you cant walk for a week.
like have you no shame?
i cant believe you feel so comfy while balatantly shoving your sexuality down someones throat.
also im not surprised theyre only one night stands, it sounds thrashy af
Oh I dont shout it out in public. I'm talking when you at home. Be vocal about what you want. Don't just sit there and be quiet because that's the "submissive" thing to do. If you want to get kinky say so. The worst she can say is that shes not in the mood.
But yes I have zero shame. I dont see the point of dancing around the subject. There are things I like and want and there are things you like and want. Just bloody come clean so we can get to the fun.
As for the one night stands that is my choice. If they tell me they are not interested in a /rr/ relationship or they are only dominate in the bed I dont call them back.
Huh really? Why do you find it off putting? I've always found it much better to be vocal about what I want rather than to just leave it up to her.
>want an /rrr/
>act like a gender-swapped slut
Kindly fuck off back to /r9k/, you've got your containment thread back now.
Yeah, if they act like that online (posting lewd pictures of fetlife and trying to get women to look at them and stuff) it's just gross and obnoxious because it comes across as really artificial and tryhard. But a guy being that lewd in person? Hell YES I would be all over that.
How am I "shitting" up this board?
i don't know which fag you are exactly but triggerring the blog crap also counts as shitposting
If you want just porn there are much better ways to get it you know. Generals imply a certain amount of discussion and given the topic a good amount of that is going to be personal experience.
that doesn't change the fact that it's an image board and You should post pics
This is why I do when someone asks.
Reality and fantasy are two separate things. You can like the idea of something but in reality hate it. Who you are attracted to is a very complex thing. Many find things that they thought they needed are in fact little nothings they can live without. Don't give up anon. All giving up does is steals away the chance for that one girl out there for you.
Women like that whole 'nice lingerie, booty sashay' thing too you know.
>ShotaQueen is six feet tall and lives right next to me
How would/do you surprise your mistress (or sub, for the doms here) as a show of love?
As I posted earlier, I prepare a great meal and warm oil massage, and pleasure her however she wants it. Unfortunately we don't have a bathtub large enough for a quality bubble-bath.
I wouldn't know. I have yet to meet a girl worth my devotion.
I'm pretty stupid when it comes to love, so I have no idea what I'd do. It would be one of those things where I'd agonize over it forever and end up doing something stupid and fucking it up anyway.
Why do you even post? Are you just trolling or genuinely looking for sympathy? It's a waste of breath. If you're actually interested in improving yourself, ask for more advice and less pity and I and (others I hope) would be more than happy to help. There's literally libraries worth of this kind of advice, from here, to fetlife, to the rest of the internet.
you. but most of people here don't bother
Most of us don't have folders brimming with appropriate thread content and lurking means that there's no discussion. You can argue all you want about how "GUIZ ITS AN IMAGE BOARD, POST PICTURES I'VE ALREADY SEEN A MILLION OTHER TIMES", but the chatbox is here for a reason too. Some of us actually enjoy interacting with other human beings who share common interests to our own. What a concept.
don't even give me this bullshit. spend 5 minutes of your precious life and get 20-30 pictures for your upcoming posts, is that that fucking hard?. i'd rather see the same repeating pictures than the same blog crap, at least pics belong here. and no, chatbox is here for a whole different reason
Yo, /gfd/, I have a question. How can you tell if a guy is into gfd, or what's a good way to ask without being to blunt?
Get really flirty with him and assume your dominance in an almost sly, subtle manner. Act like the man in the relationship without being forceful or rude. If he likes it, go on.
Or if this is someone you're already romantically involved with, just ask him. Couples should always be willing to share secrets and desires. It's an establishment of trust.
>Act sexually aggressive/dominant towards guy.
>He just thinks I'm a slut.
How to avoid this?
I would also like an answer to this question, it's happened to me a lot.
It's a two-way open relationship, boyo.
She entered the relationship knowing it was open and we've been happy with it for years. PS: I'm also not a sjw you delusional fuccboi.
It's not for everyone and you can't really know how it'll turn out until you try for it. I wouldn't suggest changing an already monogamous relationship into an open one because it almost always ends up poorly.
>tfw no gf to be big spoon and hold my hips after a long day at work
Eventually, r-right guys?
I've found when a girl makes a point of calling me boy and correcting me when I refer to her a girl as a woman/lady has been a good indication without being overtly sexual, at least from my perspective
Going back to the original question if you were to respond to their answer with naughty/good boy and they got flustered or fidgety you'd know