New thread to replace the old one.
>tfw out of diapers but end up bedwetting still.
Silly Anon, if you're a bedwetter you should be stocked up at all times so you don't have to worry about stuff like that. Are you fairly new to your nighttime potty problems? It's important to have your diaper logistics in order so you're not stuck washing sheets every morning.
I love this picture of Asuna, and SAO in general but there's something weird about condemning RWBY while being pro SAO to me.
RWBY has really cool character design for sure, and there are many other reasons as to why I enjoy it like hearing voices i'm familiar with from RT.
......any other mtf here use diapers? cuz...i think the spiros making me incon...
Spironolactone is a diuretic, of course you'd pee more than usual. The real reason to wear diapers is to avoid bothering with public toilets.
A one-time thing huh? Well, tell ya what...how about you show me that you're big by making sure you're prepared. We can get you a few packs of nighttime diapers, maybe those ones with the cute designs, and you can wear them to bed while we figure out if you're having some potty trouble. Being big means being responsible for yourself, and a soggy diaper change is far easier than changing your soaked sheets.
You could get your very own Potty Chart too, if you'd like. Every night you stay dry, you get to put a sticker on that day; whichever sticker you want! Doesn't that sound fun?
Are you terribly worried about that? I dunno if you were into this fetish before, or you're just new here and looking for advice. It might just be a short-term issue you're having, but we can tell you practically anything you need to know about diapers and their maintenance.
I brought that up last thread, but was told I was totally off-base on that assessment. I'm not MtF (nor do I know any transitioning,) so I just assumed I was wrong about that.
......no not peeing more, like i dont notice until my girlfriend is like "honey you're wet"
>The real reason to wear diapers is to avoid bothering with public toilets.
i thought asking abdl thread instead of /lgbt/ would be less awkward.
........i want something i can wear every day thats cute... recommendations?
i dont know why we even try to kid ourselves
80% of the shit in these "eastern" threads is western anyways
two threads are annoying as fuck, and the /aco/ ones are getting flamed mercilessly.
the fact that the mods have to fucking segregate us based on the art's region of origin says a lot about the weeaboo mentality.
end the madness
>........i want something i can wear every day thats cute... recommendations?
Shit damn friend, I've got recommendations for days. We're the masters of cute when it comes to diapers. Let's get a list going:
Bambino is one of the big-name ABDL brands. Their 'Bellissimo' diaper is considered the best they've got. Super thick and cute to boot. The 'Teddy' diaper is quite solid too, just a little less absorbent (when I say this, I'm talking the difference between 4 wetting instead of 5. These diapers are all fantastic.) They also have a plain white version called the 'Bianco,' in case you want something like that.
ABUniverse has some cute designs, though they tend to be more on the babyish end. They're also some of the most expensive around, so take that into consideration. They've got a bit of hype going at the moment for their new 'Space Diaper,' which is blue all-over and is apparently the most absorbent diaper in existence at the moment.
The Snuggies Overnight has one of the most fashionable designs in my opinion, but they ran into trademark issues over the name and are currently having to re-brand. The new name (Tykables) is dumb, but that diaper is freakin' amazing. Worth keeping an eye out for. Link provided for pictures; their site is under construction.
Spoiled by Rearz and Aww So Cute are two others I've heard a lot of positive chatter about, but haven't tried them myself. Just a couple more designs for you to browse, if nothing else.
Followup coming below (1/2)
On the more medical side of things:
Abena makes diapers in different thicknesses, depending on your need. The M4 (Medium, there are also 'S' and 'L' sizes) is the top-end, but the M3 is still quite strong in its own right. These might also be helpful for your specific problem, since they have a wetness indicator. It also has a design on the front, but it's not what I'd call cute exactly, just moderately fashionable. These will be one of your cheapest premium options.
Molicare is another medical diaper from Europe, notable for being purple. Good absorbency, though the color would probably be this one's main selling point over other diapers.
Dry 24/7 are supposedly one of the best diapers for absorbency, but they're plain white. They also have an neat 'double-tape' feature, in case you mess up or need to adjust. If you haven't worn diapers before that might not mean much now, but trust me, it's a neat feature.
There are some other ABDL diaper companies springing up soon, but I imagine all this should be enough to get you started for now. Welcome to the thread, and the community at large. Hopefully your bathroom issue isn't too much of a bother, but if you need advice on things, we're totally around to offer whatever we can.
FtM here, it's genuinely better because there's no bathroom drama or dysphoria if you don't quite pass or you're afraid of being exposed. Plus I dunno if it's just genetics, but I've always had a tiny bladder and since guys don't use the bathroom as much, it helps me pass if I just have to go once or twice to change discreetly over going ever hour.
Well now, you certainly make up your mind quickly don't ya? Sounds like you've got a supporting partner to help you out though, so I imagine you'll do just fine. Hopefully you'll get a little fun out of the situation; diapers do wonders for turning people into absolute cuties. Also if you've never worn adult diapers before, prepare for mind-blowing softness.
These threads really make me wonder if there's some sort of correlation between diaper fetishism and autism.
Then again, that's probably because a majority of this website is high functioning autistic
Maybe, schizophrenics and autistics can have infantile tendancies but that isn't the same as saying that diaper fetishists are generally autistic or schizophrenic.
I think that there is a far stronger argument that ABDL is correlated with a dysfunctional childhood. Perhaps not generally but I think that it applies to the point where it can become a red flag. If one says that they are ABDL, it wouldn't be wrong to suspect a wonky past. That is my opinion of it anyway.
There are certainly a number of ABDLs that are fairly "normal" with fair to good childhoods. You would be surprised to learn just how normal many of us can be. We just have this unusual interest and we are very uch aware of how it's perceived.
You're replying to bait. Guy will probably respond with some equally vitriolic garbage, if at all. Best to avoid that kinda stuff so the thread doesn't degenerate into a bitter, argumentative mess.
I'd be curious to see how many ABDL-inclined folks have lead pretty 'normal' lives outside of their fetish activities. I'm in that boat, but it just makes me all the more afraid to share this fetish with anyone. Sexual stuff isn't the kind of thing you just go blabbing about, but I feel like just being able to confide in a single person would make me feel a little better about myself. Fear of one's interests can be really isolating.
I'm pretty much the same way. I have always had a fascination with diapers since I've been out of them pretty much and I didn't have any particularly unusual childhood events since then. I also feel isolated about this though since this thread made me start thinking having the fetish wasn't so odd and then all the shit on /aco/ reaffirmed my fears of coming out. I'm living with my girlfriend now and each day I live in fear that she'll find my stash of m4s underneath by bed.
I guess that it could be bait but I gave it an honest answer anyway.
I used to have bad binge-purge cycles until I accepted myself and started indulging in moderation. This fetish is a fetish so no one really has to know. I do understand the strong desire to confide with a trusted friend, partner, or family member. The need is strong for whatever reason. Perhaps it is for validation or because we see this fetish as something more than a fetish so we feel like it is an important part of ourselves that we feel this need to share. Far more so than one that may be into swinging or BDSM.
Personally, I wouldn't get into a relationship with someone if they were incapable of accepting or even enjoying the fetish. I realize that compromises are important in a relationship but this isn't a fair compromise for me. But then again, everyone see's it differently. I just couldn't imagine always hiding this part of me from my other half. It seems that this constant repression would get to me. I would never truly feel comfortable in the relationship and never truly sexually and emotionally satisfied.
With that said, one can gauze just how accepting one can be. There are certain ones that are very gentle and non-judgemental. Some simply aren't phased in the least. There are all types out there and while they may not find pleasure in it, they may indulge for your sake.
Probably best to tell her before it gets discovered accidentally, but it's not like I have any right to talk. I'd be terrified. Hell, I can't even really meet people I think would be fun to hang out with.
As for the /aco/ business, I don't really care so much about what normalfags have to say about this fetish. When other fetish-inclined folk start calling yours the scum of the Earth though, it's a little disconcerting. Oh well. Things are settling down over there, and /d/ will always be around for conversation even if it's running slow these days.
I get a general sense of acceptance by other fetishists from Fetlife. I think that they have come a long way and can see the value in it. It is basically master/slave bondage with another template.
I....I guess so, and it does h-help to be prepared.
Christ, I seem to be the only one here who doesn't have some sort of major harmful mental complex and lack of self-acceptance about having this fetish. Just gets a bit tiring after a while.
Is there anyone else here who just enjoys and accepts this fetish?
For me I think it's the 'important part of you' thing, but also a matter of absolute trust. I haven't been able to really trust anyone for years and years, so giving in and letting go to someone would just be...cathartic.
I agree about finding someone who would at least be accepting. Fetish trading would totally be fine as long as someone could be happy with you for being yourself. Hopefully that kind of limitation doesn't damn me to being forever alone. Messing around on Fetlife is probably a good idea, as ( >>6516186 ) said. Just gotta be able to stop hating myself enough to step into that spooky unknown.
Don't rush yourself Anonymous. I'm just some guy with no experience one way or another. Being prepared is good, but trust your own heart for when the time is right.
I get that finding someone who is accepting to it is important but at the same time we've been going out for almost 6 years now and there was never a reason for me to be worried until I started living alone 2 years ago allowing me to indulge more in diapers. Now that she's moved in I never got a chance to dispose of the evidence and I'd rather this not be the thing that breaks us apart. Some of it is also my fault in that I accidentally bought 3 bags of m4s when I thought I was getting one, so I had no way of going through them all before going back to my parents' for the summer.
This general is really more about reassurance of insecurities and mental instabilities of people with diaper fetishes than it is actually fapping to and discussing diaper fetishes. Like some bizarro version of /soc/ or something.
I wasn't trying to bait. I'm just pointing out that diaper threads have a history of ruining themselves with pointless in fighting and do it the most often of any other threads on /d/.
These threads are the only threads I've ever seen take one argument and dedicate themselves to making sure it spans several threads for weeks. And this has happened several times with different topics, mind you.
I mean CushyPen, some bitch who apparently didn't scan a doujin she bought fast enough which suddenly became just a series of personal attaks, and now western art vs eastern art. You have to wonder if there's a reason for the pattern.
I mean, can anyone really claim a pattern on an anonymous image board? All it takes is one extremely dedicated asshole and the thread appears to be in shambles. Each of those things you mentioned had plenty of responses along the lines of, "Fuck off already, holy shit." Not much else that can be done after that. That was why I called your post bait actually. Thought you were angling to get people riled up, and these threads really don't need that at the moment.
The eastern/western thing is pretty bad though. Mod authority turned the argument legitimate and made for quite a shitstorm. The results are hardly ideal; the /d/ side is molasses-slow now, with low unique poster numbers. All the OC creators fled, and there just isn't enough new content that people can safely assume belongs here. I'm kind of expecting this to be the thread that just drops off the board one day without so much as a bump.
I personally don't think it's a majority of the people in the thread who are autistic. It's just like those five or six really vocal ones. And they like to prod at the other vocal ones until they find an opinion that causes even a hint of indigence, and from there they're off to the races.
And then when they're feeling really motivated they make a diaper thread with the caption "NO MALE/FEMALE/WESTERN/EASTERN/BLUE KAZOO ART" in the hopes of baiting more people.
Also, picture for the sake of continuing the thread.
The main absorbing material (SAP) in diapers is crazy effective, so sometimes a "thin" diaper can actually be pretty good. They usually have some degree of fluff in them as well, if they're looking to hit up the ABDL crowd and trying to cut cost.
ABU Space seems to be the prize winner for absorbency right now. As for pure, un-soaked thickness? I dunno. Check out the ADSIC reviews page, they usually measure.
Like, Space diaper is really comfy but its not the thickest Ive worn, but it is definitely giving absorbancy a run for its money
You might wanna wait until next month for that. They did a limited run early, and it was like...$35.00 for 10 diapers. I think I remember seeing the half-case and case prices somewhere, and they were much more agreeable. Something like $1.80 a diaper.
I'm wondering if that male model is an actual ABDL or if they had to pay an actual model to put that on. I mean this is probably my bisexual showing but he's fucking HOT compared to the...ah...average around here.
>average around here
Pfff, that's a hard claim to make. My body's on par with that model, I just don't shave off all my leg hair. It's gettin' cold outside yo. Just staying trimmed does wonders for your appearance.
Anybody else like to shake their butt in the mirror when they're diapered up? It's becoming a fun little confidence booster for me these days.
Wiggling and giggling are quite high on my list of priorities, yes. Sometimes I go toddling around the apartment as well, just to hear the crinkle and remind myself that I can't close my legs anymore. Having a onsie now just makes all of that doubly fun.
...dammit Anonymous, I wasn't going to diaper up tonight since I have work in the morning. You're tempting me.
>tfw got my first paci.
How did I go so long without such a simple but fun baby item?
I used to not like my pacifier, but about two weeks ago something clicked with me and I realized how nice they are. Don't think I've gone a night without using it since then.
So, like, no offense to those who do it, but am I the only one who finds incessant baby talk a turnoff? Like even someone referring to their penis as a "peepee" makes me kinda just lose interest altogether.
I like baby talk, especially if it's said with a lisp. But, that's just me, and I can easily understand finding it annoying.
Nah, I understand that completely. I don't really even like babyish actions much. Like in those ABDL videos, where you see them doing coloring books or watching Disney movies. It's sorta like...man, isn't that boring?
The mannerisms are where it's at. Getting excited or emotional more easily, not being concerned about your diaper until being checked, having an attachment object like a blanket or paci, that sort of thing.
I was just casually holding my new-ish paci in my mouth the other day, and didn't realize I had been sucking on it until several minutes in. It was an odd kind of comfort. Almost like hypnotic relaxation.
Honestly? It doesn't matter much. If you're looking for a silly thickness experience that will set your loins aquiver you should double up, or use a high quality booster.
Are you eager to try such a thing?
Well then do as I say you horny little thing! Find a high quality diaper and wear two at once. Cut horizontal slits through the outer plastic layer of the inside diaper, then just stack them. Prepare to need some kind of extra-strong tape though. You're gonna have a heavy diaper if you intend to use them to capacity.
Whoa now, holy moly, I totally thought that was a different comment I was replying too earlier. You're the bedwetting Anon, aren't you?
No need to sound so spooked, you poor thing. You're just having a rough time at night, that's all. I'll go ahead and set up a chart for you, and you can tell me how you're doing whenever you've got the time.
That still means diapers at night though. Two solid weeks of stickers on your chart, and we can talk about moving you out of diapers. Training pants maybe...
Alright.... just got my resupply earlier too, so i'll make sure i'm well protected for bedtime. J-just in case.
I have a gigantic mirror in my room and being padded turns me into the biggest narcissist ever. I spend more time pampering myself while diapered than I do in regular underwear.
I'm in no way an AB, but dressing up in cute underwear and letting loose is half the fun of this fetish for me. If someone else were there for me who understood that (and subjected me to the occasional diaper check), I'd wear 24/7.
Well, while I do have a major harmful mental complex about many things, liking diapers is not one of them. And I'm extremely self accepting as a complete narcissist.
Also, dorks, if you just want a person to confide in, it doesn't technically have to be your lover. While that would of course be nice, it's quite a ton more difficult to find such a relationship compared to a non-sexual one.
I tell my brother everything and pass hard drives full of shit (Anime, games, porn, comics of all types, notes, bookmarks, etc) between us quite often. He knows me better than I know me, and it feels amazing, worth bragging about.
I never really enjoyed using a pacifier much (kind of felt like it locked up my jaw a bit). But I noticed a couple of times when I've had trouble sleeping that if I pop my pacifier into my mouth it helps my drift off. Makes me feel pretty babyish and wake up with my pacifier beside my face knowing I used it out of a need.
I cannot stand babytalk. More than a turnoff, it downright enrages me while not medicated.
I was raised without it, and told many times strictly to never use it. It inhibits learning proper speech and encourages children to sound like idiots for amusement.
Referring to mispronunciations and condescendingly sweetened tones, of course.
Childish words like peepee however, are fine. They're just analogs to strengthen meaning and significance to the original words, and may be considered as an expansion to a child's vocabulary.
If I point my finger at everything and say "unchi!" would that be a turnoff?
Would this be good to buy? Seems like it'd be fun to wear, but I can imagine that it would get really sweltering really quickly.
If you've got a fetish for that sort of thing, sure. It would be hot as balls as you said, and probably smell pretty strongly of plastic. It really just looks like a big plastic footie sleeper.
I imagine it would feel like wearing a diaper cover over my whole body. So, different from latex, but still sweaty. I want it, but I guess just not at that price.
Hey guys, I'm trying to remember one of those RPG maker diaper games. It was about the future, where abdl's colonized an entire planet so we could wear 247 in peace, and some normie tries to sabotage everything I guess
Oh wow I just realized how prophetic that would be about the /aco/ split
Anyway, anyone remember what the hell I'm talking about?
If that's all you do, yes, it would make me angry and disappointed which would turn me off.
I meant that as a compliment. Shit's fun, yo. Especially right after it comes out of your ass, still warm and malleable.
Such a pain to clean up, but only after squishing around on it. Even though I know the second the diaper comes off it's going to be hell if I move around, I just can't resist for some reason. Damn me.
Might be a bit outta place n stuff, but don't we have like an Planetside 2 outfit or something?
I just like the feeling of wearing them or seeing girls wear them. Its as simple as that for some of us I think.
The only thing that you might call deep rooted about my situation is the rare time I do buy some diapers for myself (once every 2 or 3 years) I find that I only enjoy it if I buy the goodnight's bedwetting brand. I think it may have something to do with the fact that I had to wear them when I was really young.
Spent the last two nights in them, fill one up with water, slip it on. Fill another one, throw it on over top of the other. Haven't slept so well in ages.
>Hot shower, check. Diaper, check. Onsie, check. Paci, check.
>Good beer, check.
Man, being an adult is awesome sometimes. All I need now is a cuddle buddy and life would be practically perfect. I'm afraid to start a Fetlife account, but I'm probably just being a weenie about social media in general.
Fetlife isn't TERRIBLE. You have to wade through a lot of crap, though, just like any website. I've had a reasonable amount of success though, and there are plenty of ABDL-oriented couples who met there.
Thanks Anon, that's encouraging. Shit's still scary, but I'm hovering over the sign-up button now as I grow more inebriated.
Did you have to go seeking, or did you mostly let people come to you? I've never even tried non-fetish dating, so this whole thing is new to me.
It's not really a dating site or anything, it's mostly good for getting involved in your local community. You'll have to be active if you want to get anything out of it, but there's no real reason not to join.
The thing about Fetlife as a dating site is that it doesn't actually have any sort of an effective member filter feature. There are a lot of regional and fetish-specific groups. So if you find a few of the ABDL/Little groups nearest your area, you'll have a starting point.
Most of those groups are deader than hell, unfortunately. But hey, at least it'll point you in the direction of some people.
Fetlife isn't going to find you something tomorrow. But something might happen. You have to cast a wide net.
Please, tell us more. We all care so much about how you're too good for this fetish.
Casting any sort of net would probably be good for me. Right now I'm below deck drinking with the Captain, bemoaning the cruel nature of the sea.
Living in a metropolitan suburb is something though, at least. Two major cities within half an hour's drive should (hopefully) provide plenty of folk to test the waters with.
I found a new fetish inside this fetish
but i think this image is the only instance of this fetish existing
Spiro is a really strong diuretic, so it can absolutely mess with your bladder a bunch, but it shouldn't be making you incontinent.
Of course, if you're already in the habit of wearing diapers and using them whenever, a push like that does make your potty training erode a lot quicker, or at least make it a matter of months rather than years.
I often masturbate to the idea of people getting excited over things. Metafetishism, if you will.
It's especially stronger when it's obviously something no one should be able to get off on, since confusion itself is exciting.
So this is quite pleasant to me.
RFS did 2 commissions like this, but the other one's very much furry.
Picture related is a fantasy I wish would so desperately happen to me. Any way I can indulge in something like this.
Okay, cloth diaper inserts. Is it better to use specifically made boosters, or baby sized prefolds?
Well, boosters are made for the purpose. You don't have to worry about cutting into them, and they tend stay in place easier.
But if you can find baby shit easier and consider them more comfortable, that's obviously best.
That wasn't intended as sarcasm. Guess I really have to work on my wording.
Oh yeah. I meant buy, not find, and cheaper not easier.
It was an accident.
>any way to indulge
>in pissing yourself
Seems simple enough. Whether or not people around you flip their shit, on the other hand...
>mfw I actually had to do this on a train ride because of a delay
The car was sparsely populated, but still. Shit got more intense than it should have been.
Wew lad, just found this little gem
It doesn't have explicit diaper wearing, but there is something about diapers in it (just one panel). BUT it does have lots of bottle feeding, a suit that forces crawling, and a very pacifier inspired gag. It also has guro, snuff, and cannabilism so if that's not your thing steer clear.
Still, thought I'd point it out because some people here might like to read it.
Also as a side note I did find an actual diaper wearing scene here: http://exhentai.org/g/710024/3398ccacf0/
Same artist, he should do more diaper related things.
It would help if someone would up vote the tag to be more easily found for future generations
They'd probably assume it's medical and either avoid bringing it up like the plague, or send you to talk to HR to make sure they aren't liable for anything, because again, assuming it's medical.
Honestly, them asking about something like that would be a significant risk in terms of medical privacy. Even someone asking directly really wouldn't be able to dig deeper if you said, "I'm having some problems that require wearing these for a while."
I wouldn't encourage you one way or another though. Do what feels safe and right for your situation. Proceed with confidence no matter what.
I'd say buy a onesie. They're kinda pricey, but they completely eliminate the risk of the waistband ever showing when you bend over or something.
Report and let the mods take care of it then cunt. Shitposting in response to shitposting results in a death spiral. Fuck that.
Well, indulge in what you enjoy then why dontcha? There are a pretty huge number of diaper pics that don't involve wetting or messing, and quite a few that specifically hone in on ageplay stuff.
Learn to relax a little Anon. Everyone has stuff they don't like about a fetish. You just have to ignore it and let the glow of little-hood consume you.
could post both variants. I dont mind if they're used personally
Ah, I thought you were the other Anon. Here's your link, enjoy that sweet dom action.
>can't move out for another couple years
I'm probably gonna end up trying to sneak diapers in my house. And no, I don't want to move out purely because of this bizarre kink we share, being able to be diapered at home most of the time would just be a perk.
I just wanna let you all know that I love you all and I'm sothankful that this community exhists. It's pretty much the only... erm... "normal" diaper community around that stays somewhat sane and tries not to be retarded about forcing the whole world to accept our diaper fetish.
Think I need to find a new interest in my taste of "art".
not much new of anything, and I find I'm simply seeing the same old shit over and over in these threads.
I'm fucking sick of all of the diaper artwork being of females. I really wish that someone would go to the effort of making gay diaper artwork. Just in general, it's really difficult to find the kind of fetish porn I like, being a gay guy. It pisses me off.
People make and typically share what they like. I don't like dudes in diapers or gay stuff, so if I post stuff it'll be chicks in diapers (or something of that effect). If I were a content creator I'd also make content similar to my interests.
If you want more gay diaper stuff then make it, or at the very least save what you can and share it (because there are probably other people like you who want more of it).
We love you too, Possibly-Drunkposting-Late-Night-Anonymous. I like our little community right where it is too. Trying to spread just invokes the ire of puritanical normalfags, and wouldn't be much fun anyway. /aco/ is still having to flush shitposters pretty often.
Now go pad up, get cozy, and prepare for a weekend of diapers, arguing about art, and whatever else this silly place fancies.
Behold and tremble! Kneel to the ground and clasp thy hands together in fearsome prayer! For today, our lord and saviour, GOD HAND MAR, hath delivered unto us, a new image set!
PRAISE GOD HAND MAR!
Overall, good stuff. Not his best work, but maybe that's because I prefer more bondagey stuff. Still, that was one helluva diaper change.
I enjoy Mar most of the time, I just wish my Moon wasn't so slapdash since his stuff is almost always text-heavy. That head shake was really adorable though.
>Did wetting yourself feel good then?
>Shake shake shake
>Oh? Am I wrong?
I'm probably going to get hammered at some point tonight, so diapers should help with the bathroom breaks lots. I'm planning to double up with my last two pairs then add some pull-ups whenever I start to leak~
I don't drink, and manage my drug use specifically to avoid hangovers. Not that I really could use anyway since I was working until 4AM. Ah well.
That's a bad habit, silly. Fun as hell, sure, but could get annoying really quick if you irritate the skin. Surely you don't want to be butthurt.
And so now, at nearing a decade old, this image set gets a translation.
Didn't have any real alcohol on hand last night, so I resorted to drinking a couple of doubles of straight Vermouth. Not the best idea, didn't really get me drunk, and now I just feel like an alcoholic. Still going out to get more today though.
What about you Anon? Was your night an exciting round of drinking and partying, everyone wearing diapers without a care in the world? I can only imagine that this is what people with social talents get up to.
The files done by MindMaster on WMM are pretty good.
Link has some duplicates and unnamed files, just fyi, but each file tends to start out with the title, so it shouldn't be hard to figure out what's what.
There's a whole thread about abdl hypno on the other chan, just saying.
Same here, friend. The partying that is, not the spooky games. Those things scare me way too easily so I just avoid them.
I like to imagine most other people with ABDL tenancies as being outgoing and social. Makes my problems seem more tangible; like something I can conquer if I put the effort in. Just need to keep moving forward...
I-I'm not cute...well, maybe just a little. But only when I'm wearing a diaper! It takes all my rough edges and makes everything look innocent and adorable.
In all seriousness though, I do really like hanging out here with you guys. Makes me feel a lot better about myself than regular social interaction ever has. Talking about problems, getting excited about new diapers, guiding confused or lonely people to a better place...it's a nice community feeling.
Not to get too sappy on you or anything. This place has just been a real balm against my steadily encroaching loneliness over the past couple of weeks.
If you like ABDL hypno, the other chan is probably a better place to chat. I think a lot of the 24/7 folk went over there too.
Nothing wrong with airing out your pants. I do it sometimes to get the pee smell out(after washing them obviously).
So I'm kind of curious. How many here are ABs and how many are DLs? Because there is a distinction between the two, not all DLs like being babied and whatnot.
Also what do you like most about being in a diaper? Is it being babied? The feel of the fabric? The wetting? The messing? The wetting and messing? Because for such a niche fetish, that's kind of diverse too. I'm curious to see what the preferences are for posters here.
I'm mostly DL, with some AB tendencies that I indulge in sometimes. Never liked babyish activities like toys or kid movies, but items like pacis and onsies are really great. They make me feel cute, which is a feeling I don't get to experience much as a guy.
As for the diapers...practically everything. They're warm and soft in a way that makes you feel really safe while wearing one. Being able to wet yourself without thinking much about it is very liberating. Messing always makes me feel naughty, which is of course appealing in a fetish. Messy naps are more comfy than I would have ever imagined. The idea of having someone look after me and change my diapers for a day would be a dream come true, but as it is, it seems like a very unreachable dream.
I smile a lot when I wear diapers, which is something I don't do very much otherwise.
I'm a DL, although I do sleep with a pacifier every night. Probably my favorite thing about diapers is how contenting they are; I love knowing I can use the restroom at any time at all without worry. Apart from that I love how comfy they are, especially after they've been used, and I really enjoy looking cute in them.
>The idea of having someone look after me and change my diapers for a day would be a dream come true
I feel the same way, but from a dominant perspective. I want somebody who'll pamper and change me not because they're taking care of me, but because they belong to me and I'm ordering them to.
I'm more of a DL, but really I just wear all the time because the alternative is going in my clothes.
I really enjoy not having to worry about bathrooms anymore, and being able to sleep all night without having to get up. The whole caretaker idea is awkward to me--diapers make me more independent and active, not less.
If you've got a fetlife account then you're welcome to send me a message, my username over there is just Leftism
I did finally cave and make a Fetlife account, though I haven't really put any info on it yet. Might be a good place to try not being nervous all the time? I'm hesitant to drop the name here though, especially since the threads are a lot more persistent than they used to be.
I'll also probably need a bottle...of beer, obviously. I'm not a baby ya know.
I'm not one of them, but I'm a fellow DL, just popped in for the first time in awhile and saw this conversation. My skype is tarantulacow if any of you guys want to chat
>if you like ageplay/diapers
DLs are not pedophiles.
The people that pretend they are a baby with a pacifier, well they're kinda creepy
but you get some people that think diapers look cute on a girl, like swimsuits or maid outfits.
Diapers are a REALLY broad fetish. Diapers branch into scat, bondage, S&M, basically like 20 different fetishes and threads like this are where its all dumped
Saying "diapers are for pedophiles" is really unfair because it demeans the people who aren't into ageplay one bit.
To further extrapolate..
Diaper fetish branches into the following:
*Slave & Master
*Clothing fetish (only when none of the above apply)
ah, i also forgot about the fetish where people think its sexy to lose control, i.e. if someone was hospitalized and forced to wear diapers, needing to depend on diapers is a fetish of its own, which has nothing to do with ageplay
not really sure what it's called
>But Master, I-
>No buts, missy! You know you're not supposed to question me, you just earned yourself a mouth soaping after I'm done. For now, when I say I want my ass worshiped, then that means you need to get down and start kissing it right away. I don't care how messy the back of my diaper is, or how much you hate the smell. You'll do as you're told.
>Yes, Master. I'm sorry for being a bad girl, Master. Thank you for setting me straight.
>That's better. You'd should think of some kinds words to say about the stench while you're down there, too. If I don't feel flattered enough by the time you've kissed every last square inch of my diaper then I'm sitting down right on top of your face, and I wont get up until you're gasping for the slightest breath of fresh air.
>Yes, Master. I'll be a good girl for you, Master. I promise, anything to make you happy.
I think that's just plain incontinence/omorashi/pants-soiling.
If you're looking for something you can slip on real quickly before bed, then I've heard good things about this. I don't own one myself, but it's apparently pretty thick for an all in one diaper.
If you want something thicker, then your best bet is a good old prefold. They're a bit of a pain to put on, but if you get a few of them then they'll be thicker and more absorbent than any disposable on the market.
You know it's interesting that you never see the counterpart to this picture. I understand that it's shota, but come on. That picture is literally a shota groping a girl's ass.
Not saying that shota/loli shouldn't be vilified, I just think it's wierd how no one seems to care about this picture even though there's still shota content. You'd think mods would delete both, but I suppose the fact that it's the girl wearing the diaper somehow...makes them not? I don't know.
dang I missed whatever pic you were talking about, that one is super cute, it's sfw pretty much, idk why it would be bitched about. shirtless or other stuff yeah, but that seems harmless enough, just cuteness not lewd shota/loli
is that done by ellie?
kinda looks like geo too tho
haven't heard from them in so long
Ageplay isn't fantasizing about sexualizing children, it's fantasizing about being infantilized as an adult or infantilizing adults.Childhood is being fetishized, not children's bodies. It's also involving people at the age of consent consenting which is all that matters when it comes to that kind of stuff.
lately i've had this urge of having a huge mess in my diaper but i feel like my own poop isn't enough. so i was thinking if there are any safe "alternative/fake" poops to be made. i remember reading something about marshmallows. does it work? i thought about bananas. you could easily mush it and well, i'd say bananas are healthier to your colons than sugary marshmallows. please help.
Oatmeal is pretty much indistinguishable from poop. Some people like to inject is up their butts so they can push it back out, but I usually just plop it down the back of my diaper.
>i remember reading something about marshmallows. does it work?
The idea is that the sugars pull water from the body to the ass and force that to work.
Depending on the marshmallows, yeah, it does work. But you really should just use proper glycerin suppositories for the same effect.
Always gives me amazingly giant shits that are actually difficult to hold back. Within 30 minutes too, so it doesn't require nearly as much planning as other laxatives.
Chapter 3 of Mika ni Harassment has a loli regressing a teen girl and trying to NTR her.
Ellie. One of the few pictures I managed to save before she purged her account. From what I hear, it wasn't part of a binge and purge cycle for her, but apparently she felt bad for all the shota content in her art and decided to close it down. I Think there were other factors but I can't remember them.
Kinda have to wonder why she didn't just start drawing adults. It's a shame, I want to like her pictures but I'm always too skeeved out by them. She'd probably be one of my favorite artists if she just aged her characters up by a good 10 years or so.
Does anyone have diaper wearing cow girl pics? I've seen a few around but dont have any saved besides this one.
I need your help....
I have tried, for a long time now, to wrap my head around those kinks and fetishes that urk me: vore, gore, watersports/scat, diapers, and a few others. For the life of me, I cannot seem to understand this point of view...what makes it so appealing to you? I need another's perspective to try and figure this out. Explain to me, please, as you would a newcomer.
Well, the thing about fetishes is that you either have them or you don't. Most of us don't really know why we like what we like, no matter how much we like to rationalize it.
I guess the biggest thing that a newcomer can realize is that in most cases, people don't like diapers because of their contents. Actually, a lot of us find that pretty gross. But even so, a lot of us like using diapers, because hey! Why not if you already went through the trouble of padding yourself? After all, diapers are a sanitary product, and it feels kinda neat when wet since they are made of this really neat super-absorbant stuff. Some also like it for the loss of control reasons, kinda like why a lot of people like BDSM.
Diapers are also comfy as fuck, the world is your sofa when you have a cushion attached to your butt.
I actually had the situation, recently, where I was denied access to a restroom in time. I was about half empty when I got to the bushes, and I can say that it did not feel "erotic," at least not to me.
I can't say I've ever felt that kind of humiliation.
so we have: loss of control, humiliation, and texture sensation.
There's a total difference between wet undies and wet diapers. that's like saying wet paper towels and wet sponges are the same thing.
If you're having that happen and here asking about this I'd say you're halfway to wearing diapers already.
To be honest I'd say its mostly that I was fucked from the get go. When i was very young I had a friend and we would pee in our pants for fun over the toilet. Ever since then I had always been fascinated with it and had been doing it ever since in secret once every couple months or so. I didn't really understand that I found it erotic until i was like 12 or 13 when i started watching videos on peesearch and patches and shit. Diapers were kindof just a natural thing to move into from there. I'm more into piss anyways.
For me it's definitely a comfort/security thing. I have bowel incontinence issues that I was punished for growing up, so being able to wear diapers when I was living on my own allowed me freedom to be able to go out and not have visible public accidents.
Diapers have always felt safer to me for that reason.
I'm just incontinent and I hang around here because people here find incontinent people hot.
Diapers aren't uncomfortable, either. They're made to stay fairly comfortable even when wet.
Have you ever had any bad experiences with people reacting negatively to your diapers outside of this fetish, then? Normal folk tend to have a pretty bleak view on diapers from what I've seen, whereas we all find them anything from hot to cute to fun. Hopefully we're entertaining and not just weird.
im looking for nicknames for littles.
either something loving and cutesy or humiliating (or a combination of all 3)
Nope. Honestly, most people are too embarrassed to bring it up even if they see undeniable evidence. If they do say anything, they give it up when I tell them it's a medical necessity.
Never met someone so big of an asshole that they'd go past that.
I am aroused by being put into diapers, the act of being diapered, the feeling of a diaper. Way more so than actually using them. It's funny, there are a lot of different reasons for diaper fetishism.
I suspect the reason for me was that as a kid I use to wet the bed waaaaay too often (no idea why!) and I was threatened by my parents that I would be put back into diapers. It's quite often that our sexual fetishes come from our fears, and sure enough, I read erotica where somewhere down the line someone says "maybe you need to be put back in diapers!" or it involves someone bound, gagged and forcefully diapered or babied.
I'm also more on the side of BDSM, so I'm a masochist and I already enjoy humiliation, and what could possibly be more humiliating than to be seen in diapers?
I've done a scene at a BDSM dungeon with a woman I met who (although she is a little herself) put me in a little girl's princess outfit. She then diapered me, bound and gagged me, blindfolded me, then lifted up my dress (which didn't cover much to begin with) while she drew all over. Meanwhile, everyone in the room was intently watching us. I was completely vulnerable and exposed to a whole bunch of people and there was nothing I could do about it. That was insanely hot for me!
What about here though? As you say, we find diapers hot, but what does that do for you exactly? The feeling of normalcy? The general acceptance? The novelty of people loving something that for you is probably routine?
Sorry if that's a bit too prying, it's just always interesting to see why non-fetish people wind up here. A breath of fresh air from the usual wankery and arguments.
Not gonna lie, my first thought on seeing that was, "Well, that's gonna be banned pretty quick, whatever it is." Now I'm just sitting here laughing. Good job Anon.
Also that diaper is super cute. I've seen some design by a French company coming out soon with owls that has a similar drawing style. It'd be great to see more ABDL companies making diapers like that.
Are these files like...gender-specific? I don't want to sound tumblry, it's more just because I don't want to be taken out of the fantasy by the guy suddenly talking about the dick I don't have.
Diaperconnoisseur's new design is really cute-- I like whoever the artist is that they have doing the print designs. I also kinda like the boys/girls theme they have going on. I'm not sure how much of a market there is for a more boyish design compared to the one there is for sissy/girly stuff, but I'll probably buy a pack when they're released.
Ehh, better than the weird stolen anime design from before. They *are* a little too busy-looking for my tastes though. A simple print on the landing zone would look a little better...like, hearts on the pink ones and little planes on the blue ones?
The guy who designed them seems pretty set in these designs and they're a little silly but it's not the end of the world. I really like the over-the-top cutesiness of the other parts of the Amor design, like the hearts/sparkle designs/etc.
There was a guy who sent me an F-list note from here, and we RP'd a little and he was doing some translation, but then he deleted his account and disappeared before I could even pay him for what he'd already done :( If you're still out there, hit me up again.
For the most part, no. However, the 2 BabyTrainer files are designed with the male anatomy in mind, so I'd skip those.
IMO, the Bladder retraining (33:00), Bladder Reinforcer (1:26:36), and the "Poopy Diapers" (1:01:15) files are the best ones.
Though, as the name might imply, you may want to be wearing some padding when you listen to them.
Do you have any personal experiences with those files that were successful? Hypnosis has never really worked for me, partly because of them constantly repeating that you'll never be able to go back (I'm a wuss and that spooks me,) and partly from an unstoppable analysis of the hypnosis technique.
I remember listening to the Poopy Diaper file and getting rather relaxed, before realizing that the background drone had increased in volume by a lot. It's supposed to wipe errant thoughts out of your mind and pull you into a deeper trance, but it just pulled me out as I thought about how cleverly the whole thing was arranged. Maybe I should just try marshmallows instead...
Nah, I think I'll wait for another thread.