Role-Reversal and Gentle Femdom General - Little Domme Big Sub Edition
>preferably recommendations that are on-topic
Previous Thread: >>6521156
>What is Role Reversal?
Old Role Reversal Map:
irc channel: irc.irchighway.net , #gfd
/rr/ and /gfd/ megapastebins:
>Garden of Words
>Kiki's delivery service
>Witch Craft Works
>Madan no Ou to Vanadis
>Morobito: Guardian of the Spirit
>Monster Musume no Iru Ichijou
>Soredemo Sekai wa Utsukushii (The world is still beautiful)
>Akame ga Kill*
>The Pet Girl of Sakurasou*
>Danna ga Nani o Itteiru ka Wakaranai Ken
>Tasogare otome x Amnesia
>Tonari no Kaibutsu-kun
>Gekkan Shoujo Nozaki-kun
>Kono Onee-san wa fiction desu
>Unbalance x Unbalance
>Arakawa under the bridge
>Tramps like us
*/gfd/ is not the main focus of the story. Don't read/watch it purely for the /gfd/, make sure you enjoy it first and consider the /gfd/ a bonus.
As usual, recommendations are welcome.
What do women think of submissive guys? Where can you find dominant women?
I don't want any kind of weird BDSM type relationship, I just want a normal typical relationship but with a girl who is assertive and in control in the bedroom, but gentle about it.
Sometimes it seems like I have impossible to satisfy tastes. Like a woman that meets my ideals isn't possible to even exist.
I like women with a healthy body type, like someone athletic or even better muscular, I really like tomboyish girls with short haircuts, and armpit hair definetly happens to be one of my fetishes, but most women I meet like that happen to be either lesbians or crazy liberals. I want a girl that let's me feel like I can actually discuss things with her and isn't so deep into political ideology that telling her anything that contradicts her views would offend her, someone reasonable you could actually have a civil debate with as friends. She absolutely has to be into guns or at least willing to try, because that happens to be the field I work in.
Height and breast size aren't really anywhere near as important as anything else on my list, though a tall girl larger breasts would be nice obviously.
It just seems like with all of this it would be really damn hard to find any girls that I think would be completely ideal, or even close to my idea of ideal, mostly because I think I might have impossible standards.
I think you also just described my ideal girl as well.
but yeah, honestly, I think we all have impossible standards here. but we fall in love with whomever we fall in love, and we compromise.
>C-can I snuggle with you? and sorry I don't know the sauce.
I just wanna sleep. It's been a loooonngg day.
And I'll probably stay up until 2 again. And wake up at 7.
>grow up being friends with a very loud, tomboyish girl
>we'd play wrestle all the time, she'd always beat me at everything
>we were the two "gifted" kids in our small rural school
>if other kids bullied me she'd kicked the shit out of them
>went to a bigger high school, lost touch with her
>she went to law school, I did computer sciences
>we now live in different countries but I still think about her a lot
>she recently started weightlifting and there's a pic of her bridal carrying a guy on Facebook
>She posted happy birthday on my Facebook for the first time in years
>Never understood oneitis until now
IT'S FUCKING HALLOWEEN YEAH
>tfw no spooky ghost girl gf to spook your lights out and play invisible pranks
Tasogare Otome is mandatory Halloween /gfd/ viewing.
Here, sorry it took so long I had to take a phone call. It's my first try at a vanilla slice so it's a bit messy
>you break down and start crying when it becomes too much
>she stops and starts whispering her apologies and telling you it'll all be okay
It would happen pretty quick to me. I scare easily.
>tfw I'd rather be the one defending my qt Dom healer/mage/whatever
I know different strokes for different folks, but damn this thread sometimes makes me feel like being 6'/230 pounds and somewhat hairy is a bad thing.
Bruh, the thread title though.
Hi, gfd. I feel kind awkward since my new dom posts in this thread too (I think this is the only place she even goes on the internet, judging by her history.) Anyways, she's gone for three days on a business thing that I remember her explaining to me but I kinda zoned out really hard. Something about construction project that is a six hour drive from our apartment, so she's going to her dad's so they can get it done quickly.
I feel like I haven't fully repaid her yet. She keeps like, giving me things, but I can hardly give anything back. My mischievous plan is to set something up for her when she gets back that leads to hopefully something sexual (that first night still fresh in my mind...)
Also, are there any other traps on here? C-can we talk about trap things? Like wearing cute dresses to look good for our doms? I'm not the only one that does that, right?
You... Don't happen to be that trap-anon we've been told about so much, do you?
Because I really could use tips from you, seeing how femanon has praised you for your looks so much. Starting with skin and hair care?
Don't scare the poor thing.
It's part of the Domme's place to spoil the sub when they think it's necessary. The best thing to do in my opinion is to repay her kindness in the way you think is best and will satisfy your domme by giving her great joy. Vague I know sorry.
>zoned out when domme is speaking to you
Not the best thing to do.
>wearing cute dresses for your domme
>others do that too?
Most likely. Though I don't know if there any other traps online right now.
I guess I am? She asked me if she could talk about me to her "online friends," so I guess that meant here. I would ask to be called by my real name but um, anonymous image board. So that pet tag works fine.
As for self care... Isn't that an awkward place to start? Well, I was born with effeminate genes. I use lady skin care products, wash my hair with shampoo and conditioner ever other day (don't wanna dry up your scalp,) women's deodorant, healthy diet (at least now that I actually get fed,) and generally staying positive about my body. I don't do anything special. This is vague and I'm sorry, but I remember just looking up stuff as a kid like "how do women take care of themselves" or something. Cardio helps too, helps with that girly waist/thighs... I think.
But I didn't mean to zone out, she had woken me up only like five minutes prior.. Now I feel really bad. I'll try to always listen intently from now on.
And as for pleasing her, I'm still nervous to the point of exploding when thinking about doing lewd things. Clearly I trust her. But contact is such a scary thing, to me. I have to ease into it, but it gives me a heart attack when someone sneaks up on me. The first night we were together... I was different. That was me on the verge of suicide because of my living conditions, and I guess I just... Didn't want to die a virgin. So I went for some free... Lewd stuff. How do I go about pleasing her non-sexually? I cleaned the apartment recently (she's... kind of a slob,) cook breakfast for us every Friday and Saturday, baked a cake a couple days ago for her... Is there anything else? Just when I thought I had finally done everything I could for her, she lets me buy some (admittedly cute) dresses at the mall. I just want a way to show her I care about her the way that she does for me, because right now I seem like a timid little jerk with how emotionally repressed I am.
>how do I please her?
By doing things you know she will approve of or be happy that you did for her. This can go from lewd to everyday things like cooking, cleaning, and just plainly being there for her when she needs to know someone is there.
>just woke up so wasn't trying to zone out
Ah, I know that feeling all to well. A good way to help that is to double check things with your domme. Like texting or calling and explaining you cleaned or took care of something around the house and wanted to know if there was anything else she would like you to do.
A little thought can go a long way.
I never even knew what kind of girl I liked until I met my current girlfriend. The idea that she's strong and can protect me... It makes me feel safe. Especially when I'm on her lap and her arms are just draped around my waist. It feels so right.
...I want to run a bath for her. And... Bathe together. Is it ever okay for the "sub" to take the first move, as long as she's the dominant one? I know this stuff must be different person to person, but I want to be a good little housewife.
I don't have a phone yet. There's the landline, but she... Didn't leave me a number! Now I'm very stressed out and scared and might just go curl up in bed for a while. I really hope she calls.
Ah, yeah. Guess it would be awkward to start there.
Have always wanted to wear cute dresses/clothes, but as a kid I was always made fun of, or scolded for acting feminine, so still have some fear about going outside like that. People sometimes have trouble telling my gender, and I've been told I shouldn't have much trouble looking like a girl, so there's that.
But thank you. Will look into those things.
>Is it ever okay for the "sub" to take the first move, as long as she's the dominant one?
Being "sub" shouldn't mean never taking the initiative, so it should be okay. There can also be a lot of difference in how you ask things. Maybe try just suggesting a bath, then soemthing like "would you like me to join you?".
>Now I'm very stressed out and scared and might just go curl up in bed for a while
Don't stress out, just do what you can and keep things nice for when she comes back home.
When she returns try wearing nothing but an apron and tell her you are happy shes back. Guaranteed sex.
Anyone else read A Brother's Price that was recommended a couple threads ago?
I just put myself on the map. I don't think it'll work...but who knows. Maybe I'm just really desperate.
Heh I did this once but I had a cookie half way in my mouth...she then gave me the biggest rape face and proceeded to press me up against the wall and ate the cookie out of my mouth.
>tfw met a qt girl into /gfd/
>tfw i'm happier than i've been in a long time because of her
It's long distance, but things are working out so far. I'm just really happy this happened, it's great to care about someone and have them care about you.
Don't be sad, friend. Have a seat and talk about it!
>tfw one of my friends just went on a date where the girl said "We're gonna do a bit of a role reversal" and another has a big enough butt to where a female friend said "Goddamn look at that huge ass" while groping him
>neither of them are into gfd or rr
>tfw i just have cereal and a flat ass
Sorry for the blog post but damn. Anyway how was your day /gfd/?
Also thank gods I'm home with wifi now I can post pics finally.
Chin up, anon, relationships are hard and they don't happen out of nowhere.
omg you're so cute and I'm not even into guys, trap or otherwise
I got it in the mail the other day but I haven't gotten to read it yet. I wanted to read it this weekend, but I promised to read the second book for the femanon whose writing I found on a flash drive. Hopefully I'll have time to read it this week though
That's a long list of standards yeah. I'm not saying it's impossible, but if you want to meet assertive girls you probably have to compromise on the "no liberals" part... or try to get a date from Ann Coultier, I guess.
Just woke up. Going to a Halloween party full of librarians in training with my fiancee today. Had a blast last night.
the last thread broke a new record of spergatory. but i bet that you can spam it even further, just sqeeze more of your blogshit power
Ira Gamagoori and Mako Mankanshoku from Kill la Kill. The bigguy4u canonically is a masochist, but any relationship between him and the tiny girl is mostly just shipping. There's some evidence for it in the show, and the production team has gone on record saying that the made the relationships deliberately ambiguous, but it's still kind of a secondary ship. Despite that, it is quite a popular one, and you'll find a lot of art of it.
The girl is never shown to be particularly dominant in the show, but she's the hyperactive adventurous type who would try anything, so it's really not much of a stretch to put her in that role.
Just woke up, already want to kill myself while making stuff for breakfast.
nofit amazon gf to bully me and call me a fat, short faggot
Firefox asks me to pick an application to use it with and I use C:\Program Files (x86)\Skype\Phone\Skype.exe. It shows that it's loading for a few seconds, then Skype opens and nothing happens.
Am I supposed to use a different application?
>tfw living in a country with no halloween
I-I want to have fun too
Your country probably has some other holiday that others don't have, and where you can have fun, right?
She hugged me tight and stroked my hair and told me to let it out in her. I asked her to mommy me so she did. When I came I said mommy really loud so she pushed me into her chest so I would be quiet.
>no halloween where i live
>will never put ricin inside candies and give them to annoying neighbour kids
>will never enjoy my popcorn as i watch them die a low and painfull death
but seriously. i made lots of ricin one boring day and i have no idea what to do with it
I love Little Domme, Big Sub...
Please, PLEASE, say there's more with the little ones treading on the big ones. I love a bit of trample.
Absolutely adorable Fire Emblem if /gfd/ doujin came out!
>no loving adopted onee-san to forcefully cuddle you
Can't wait for this game to hit the states
Also, in honor of this spooky day:
A nice /gfd/ lamia horror/love story
but seriously though i really hope that the translation doesn't get fucked up as bad as awakening
>Something about construction project that is a six hour drive from our apartment
Right, I love how you just throw that in there casually. I think this place is quickly usurping /x/'s title as "the rp board".
Welp, it was a good read, nevertheless, so I'm not that annoyed, I guess.
Yeah, I'm bracing for some censorship. Wasn't there some kind of lewd undressing thing in the game?
On that note, here's another spooky monster girl story, just in case anyone hasn't read it:
This one involves ghosts!
The fact that she doesn't mind stepping out of traditional gender roles means she has at least some "liberal" beliefs
I would also think that men who don't mind appearing vulnerable and not traditionally masculine would be nudged in that direction as well
By not liberal I mean someone who actually likes America and doesn't want to limit our constitutional rights, reasonably liberal is quite alright, it's the actually crazy liberals you should never associate with.
"Liberal," has been hijacked by the American left and has come to mean "People who want a Nanny State," instead of "those who think the best government rules the least."
The latter group has come to use the term "Libertarian."
there's a diffrence between liberalism and libertarianism
Here's another great one involving crossdressing ghosts(?) and tomboy childhood friends
You do not know what you're talking about good sir. What you are citing is an extreme version of liberal belief. To be a liberal entails having a belief that the government should to some extent be concerned for the well-being of its citizens as part of the social contract. That anon was correct in saying that a liberal would not want their constitutional, "inalienable" rights to be violated by the government. Please don't market your biases as truth.
The American left aren't all authoritarian progressives who are pro-censorship
They have hijacked classical liberalism's identity though
No, that anon is using the correct definition as it is generally used around the world to this very day. You're the one using an extreme version that doesn't reflect the views of most liberals. For the record, liberals in the US are still more similar to conservatives as they're known in the UK and Scandinavia because they're more secular so don't have the religious right so powerful, among other reasons. Their liberals are more like Bernie Sanders and beyond. Most American liberals have views similiar to the likes of Hillary Clinton, ie, pretty moderate.
just be half liberal half anarchistic. nobody will confuse what you have in mind when you say "liberal"
>No qt vampire gf to tease me
Why even live?
Who cares about all that crap? This is /gfd/, not /pol/. Talk about /gfd/, preferably while posting pictures, but honestly I'd just take /gfd/ discussion over /pol/, pics or not
If we're on the subject of preferences, I guess all I want is a nice looking girl who'd baby me. Bonus points if she's older than me.
>Talk about /gfd/
>implying anyone does that here
>pics or not
pics should always be
Here's a question for all the girls and traps in the thread: How does one comfortably shave one's own ass?
Every previous attempt I've made has resulted in cuts and plenty of stray hairs. I just want a soft, smooth butt. Is that so much to ask?
I've been paying attention to these threads lately and...dammit, they give me hope for an romance again.
Stahp. I joined at least two femdom groups on Fetlife because of all of the fantasizing I've done.
Yes, we do. It's pretty normal for girls to have some hair there. We just shave it when we're doing our legs or pubic area.
There's no trick to it. Just use good shave gel and carefully run a sharp, fresh razor along the area until it's smooth. Make sure the skin is pulled taught where necessary - though this shouldn't be an issue for your butt, I hope. You can do it behind your back entirely by touch. I recommend Bikini Zone shave gel for this because you're less likely to get shave bumps with it.
If you're careful and take your time there's no reason to have any trouble or cut yourself.
Waxing is waste of money when shaving is so easy. Just be happy you're not a girl who has to shave her legs and underarms daily. Not to mention plucking eyebrows, removing any hair that might be around the tummy, trimming or shaving pubes, etc. Girls can be fairly hairy but out hair is much finer and we get rid of that shit you never know it.
>Just be happy you're not a girl who has to shave her legs and underarms daily
that's only because of retarded society
It's nights like tonight that remind me there's no hope for me.
What I would give for someone to cuddle with...
Sorry, I was kind of going for hyperbole. Six hours is a ridiculous amount for driving, I thought? I don't actually know how far away or even where she is. All I remember clearly is "gone for three days." She does have a one hour commute to work though (with traffic.) I have been waiting for a call so I could know what's going on...
Also, is wearing nothing but an apron actually a thing? That sounds weird but also like it would work well.
I got... Aroused, reading Dracula in high school. Vampires are great.
What's been going on with you?
I'm still kinda recovering from a two-year stint full of...well, not great stuff. Had/still have the "better dead than sad" mentality that comes up from time to time, but I can say it gets better. Slowly...kinda. Hard to stay positive without some sort of backup/support.
Posting some stuff so I'm not shitting up the thread too hard.
i wonder how i managed to still be alive
maybe when you expierience hell, you grow up to be so resistant that you can't just drop dead easily
I did pluck eyebrows and waxed legs/armpits for a while. Yeah, it's pretty time consuming. And speaking of...
>Waxing is waste of money when shaving is so easy
Well, one issue I had with shaving is that few hours later my legs would feel rough if rubbing against the direction hair grows, due to hair growing back again, so that kinda turned me down from it. Is there a way to have the skin feel smoother for a longer time?
Would do shaving instead if it really gets the same result. Waxing used to take me like 1 hour just for half a leg, and right now I don't have the time to do the whole job. Then again, I used the cold wax that comes in sheets and you rub before applying.
>most women don't grow hair on their arse
Have you ever even seen a woman na-
Wait, don't answer that.
Shaving, in general, is fucking awful. I don't shave anywhere anymore, I switched to epilating a couple of years ago because I couldn't take the itchiness and pain any longer (not to mention it grows back far too soon, if you ask me).
This might sound weird, but you should try plucking them. If you're gonna do it yourself, waxing is out of the question because a) it's awkward as hell to reach there (I mean, it's hard enough when shaving) and b) you could seriously hurt yourself. But. What I do is I take a strip of tape and hold it between my fingers. Then I grab a small clump or hair using the sticky side and pull them out like I would with tweezers. (Make sure you pull the area taught, like the other girl mentioned.) It's not perfect, you'll probably have lots left over. But at least those remaining ones will be easier to get at at that point, and you could tweeze them out or just shave them very gently.
Oh, and use a mirror, obviously.
The most vicious sounding and painful method of hair removal I've ever experienced
I've had regular thoughts of suicide since I was about 13. Between the abuse at home, little contact with anyone outside of my family, growing up thinking the abuse I experienced was normal and that I was just being a baby.
Now I'm just some lazy reclusive guy who spends his spare time sleeping and talking to people online.
You sound like me...though I was actually hospitalized at 12 for attempted suicide. Mix bullying with relationship-based emotional abuse and...yeah.
Sleep is nice. I've been thinking about sleeping for the rest of the day but gentle femdom just looks too dreamy to sleep right now. I can't fathom being in a situation that's 1/10th as lovey or genuinely intimate.
T-that's not gentle!
>finally get someone on omegle
>it's a black box
>"someone will love you someday anon"
No matter what happens someone's always had it worse, right?
I wasn't really bullied as the opportunity never came around for it to happen. I was homeschooled, so I never had any social contact with kids my age.
Yeah...though that by itself really isn't that comforting a thought, y'know?
I was "home schooled" for two years, actually. Was so bad I just started to leave school early. Said homeschooling kinda fell through and I basically spent two years doing nothing. The transition to highschool was...awkward. To say the very least.
But for now...well, it does get better. It has gotten better for me, in a few ways. Kinda.
I don't really have much else to say. Thanks for the talk.
After I shave my legs I use cocoa butter on them to make them smooth and nice feeling. It helps soften the stubble and keep the skin moisturized as well as prevent damage to the skin from daily shaving. Actually, I would recommend using cocoa butter on your whole body to make is smooth, moist, and prevent stretch marks and the like if you gain/lose weight. My mom had zero stretch marks after giving birth to me because she used cocoa butter every day of her pregnancy. It's cheap and smells nice, too.
On my public area, I use bikini zone aftercare gel to soothe the area and prevent ingrown hairs, bumps and discomfort.
My underarms are sensitive and the hardest to shave. The skin there gets damaged from daily shaving so I'm more likely to cut myself. After I shave them, I soothe the area by rubbing in witch hazel, and then use hydrocortisone (with added aloe) cream. I wait a half hour before applying deodorant.
If you are going to wax I recommend this: http://www.amazon.com/Parissa-Natural-Removal-System-Bikini/dp/B0002PU86O
Also use a pre wax cleanser and a post wax treatment to help heal the skin.
For the tiny bit of fine hair near my navel, I use Veet Sensitive Skin cream. NEVER USE THIS SHIT ANYWHERE THAT COULD POSSIBLY BE SENSITIVE IT WILL GIVE YOU A CHEMICAL BURN.
I'll try to help if you have questions about anything else. I have pale skin and dark hair so I've tried lots of different things to keep my skin from getting too damaged from constant hair removal.
>wear only an apron
Yes naked apron is a thing. I think originated as a thing newly wed brides do as a turn on for the husband. However, anyone can do it and most dommes I've talked to and met all seem to appreciate greatly.
I tried epilating and the pain was so excruciating I tapped out. Not to mention it was super time consuming to catch the hairs.
I know it's supposed to hurt less every time you do it, but how do you power through it in the beginning? Waxing I can handle, but that was way worse.
I used this one, for reference:
>halloween is today
>tomorrow all the cute costumes from halloween go on sale
Anybody planning of getting something?
>For the tiny bit of fine hair near my navel, I use Veet Sensitive Skin cream. NEVER USE THIS SHIT ANYWHERE THAT COULD POSSIBLY BE SENSITIVE IT WILL GIVE YOU A CHEMICAL BURN.
I've used it for my pubic hair before, it turned out fine for me... if you don't have allergies it seems like a preferable alternative to putting anything sharp near that region
Doesn't matter for me, not like I'll ever use them.
I want a BF that's able to keep up with my SCIENCE! tangents... That and my raging autism.
Don't care what he looks like, but he needs to be able to look after himself, stand up for himself and not be a goddamn parasite. But that's an entire new rant... fucking useless ex.
>It's part of the Domme's place to spoil the sub when they think it's necessary.
It's good to pay back too, though! Doing stuff for her / getting her gifts doesn't have to 'boost your power' or whatever in the relationship. If it's something you do for HER, then it's still her that's in charge?
Not her, but probably things like having agency as a competent adult, not being a clingy emotional sponge who takes more than he gives, not using being a sub as an excuse to be broken and push all his burdens and responsibilities on his partner, etc.
A relationship works well as two pillars holding up a house with their own unique strengths. If one person refuses to shoulder their load, the weight tips onto their partner until they're being crushed under stress and resentments.
Fuck numbers, man. Just give me an Excel spreadsheet and I'll make that handle it for me. Physical spatial stuff? Geology, rocks, metals, crystalline forms, heat, light, colours, optics... Great, fine. Love it. But please, no, none of those three page long equations.
He used to suggest we go out somewhere, so we'd go out. I'd ask him where he wanted to go, ask him to take the lead as it was his trip and I wanted to follow and watch him enjoy it. Y'know, when you're happy to just let someone else have THEIR time? Anyway, he'd do nothing, so I'd end up picking where we went. And all the time he'd just still seem miserable. Like he didn't know what he wanted, but whatever he wanted wasn't THAT.
I was the only one that could drive - for two years I tried to get him to drive, but he'd always put it off. He was living with me in the Arse End of Beyond, so public transport wasn't available - I had to drive him EVERYWHERE, and made it clear I wasn't happy about always having to do this. When we finally broke up, he basically said, "I was never going to learn to drive. I was just putting it off."
"Oh, you were putting so much into the relationship. I just sort of stopped bothering three months ago." WELL FUCK YOU TOO. "But you can keep the ring if you pay me 90% of what I bought it for!" Yeah, no. Ever heard of a market for 2nd hand engagement rings? Good luck trying to sell it, fuckface.
TL:DR; bought ring to get engaged with me, then sat on his arse doing fucking nothing for two summers while living rent-free with me. Happily broke it off when he had friends to live with at Uni. Then tried to get his ring money back.
AHEM. Stopping the rant here.
>Keep up with science rants
I know a lot of subjects, and I know how to break them down into experiments that are valid, or even find information on what you want to know about.
What interests you the most?
Sorry I couldn't find any on-topic pics in my collection.
In what sense are you incompetent?
Most likely, you just missed out on some skills and fell behind, but almost any skills you may be lacking can be found and honed. You'll need to, eventually.
>But please, no, none of those three page long equations.
YES PLEASE YES. I love reading about astronomy, astrophysics, cosmology, weird quantum stuff but I just can't handle numbers. Fuck I feel like a fedora tipper saying this.
>I was the only one that could drive - for two years I tried to get him to drive, but he'd always put it off.
>tfw extreme airhead and too anxious
>I drift off even when I'm walking
>almost get hit by cars all the time
>tfw probably kill myself and other people if I drive
He lived with me and my family rent free over summer. We live in the back of beyond. In exchange for living rent free, we were to BOTH do 1 hour of garden work every day and help with any chores that needed doing. We'd also cook a meal for the family each one day of the week (two meals between both of us). AND he would start driving lessons over the summer, as he was the only person in the house that couldn't drive.
In hindsight, the signs were there from the start. When he first moved in, I still had exams.
> Come home after exams, he's spent all day on the computer. I'm dead tired, but I have to cook dinner for both of us as he hasn't done anything. Have about 3 exams, nothing every done for me while I'm off during the exams. Beds not made, no laundry done, no washing up.
Not that I would expect him to do everything like that on a normal day, but come on! Those were my finals!
> Off on a work experience placement at a factory 1 hours drive away from home, 8am to 5pm hours (arriving early, leaving late for good impressions). Getting up at 5:30am, out the house at 7am, back at 7:30pm. Again, nothing done around the house. Come home, cook for myself.
Had to actually TELL HIM the next time I went on another placement, "Please cook for me this week." Turns out, during these weeks he hadn't even bothered with the normal hour of gardening every day. Apparently if I wasn't there he didn't have to do shit for my side of the family, whose house he was living in?
> "What can we do to salvage our relationship?"
> "If you're saying SALVAGE, is it really worth trying? [...] You were putting in all the effort in the relationship."
Yeah, fuck you too. I put EVERYTHING into making this work, and you just sit on your computer all day like a fucking leach. I'm trying desperately to get a job, but this guy has already HAD a job for around a year - he's employable! I don't have shit, and legit autistic. But he's just making me do all of it?
>Anyway, he'd do nothing, so I'd end up picking where we went. And all the time he'd just still seem miserable. Like he didn't know what he wanted, but whatever he wanted wasn't THAT.
YES, I've known "sub" guys like this. So frustrating.
And damn, that guy was a fucking asshat. Glad you got rid of him.
See, if you had that as the reason and explained it then everything would be fine, just be honest. But dragging on your GF / fiance for two years with LIES when you never actually intended to do it? That's intolerable. Hell, that's outright betrayal of trust.
No money means no money to lose. You can do anything you want right now and not worry about going broke. Become an activist, go travel Europe, do something crazy that only someone without burdens and responsibilities can do.
Currently? Reading up on some sort of metal treatment for an interview. "Come for an interview next week! Also, bring a 2 page summary of X topic, and your research references." Oh god, there's so much information.
Otherwise? Metals, crystalline structures, colour (as visible to humans), gem materials (synthetics, natural, lab-grown), metallography, spectroscopy... I tend to flit from subject to subject, depending on what is useful to me at the time. The more you know about things the more interesting they become.
>without burdens and responsibilities can do.
I have the burden of disappointing my family, there's nothing really stopping them from kicking me out.
>You can do anything you want right now and not worry about going broke.
Most things require some amount of money to do, anon.
Yeah, lying is a big no no but damn I need to fix this shit. I was almost dying again today because I ran in to street while day dreaming about some stuff again and almost got hit. Happens in class all the time too, I keep missing lectures because of this.
Oh. I know a bit about x-ray diffraction. What metal, and what kind of treatment?
I also once had a chance to synthesize Yttrium Barium Copper Oxide in a lab. That was a lot of work, but i got it to levitate a magnet, so it all paid off.
High school first romance stuff. When we were younger, he was the more mature of the two of us. But he just never grew up, never grew a spine and never stopped being a child.
It was okay when I was really depressed - he was always 'brighter' than me when I was at my worst. But whenever I was mentally healthy, he became a dead weight.
That's a mystery. All I see here is guys who want to please their doms. Especially in these things. Truly intriguing how a sub could be this low..
I sit on front of my PC everyday too after I study, but if someone wants or needs me to do something I do it. Especially in a situation like that.
>burden of disappointing my family
Anyone who does not think you are excellent and wonderful does not deserve YOU. Not the opposite
>Most things require some amount of money to do
Playing DnD doesn't if you can get a players handbook online.
Surfing the web at your library and reading books.
But if you want to go get qualifications or licenses, they typically ask for money. Having some is never a bad thing, and nobody cares how you get it anymore.
Thermal spray coatings. AKA 'spray painting with molten metal'.
Heated amethyst once under a jeweller's blow torch... they exploded. If you heat amethyst CORRECTLY, it turns into citrine. Irradiate citrine, it goes back to amethyst. Oxidation states or some shenanigans.
Male or female? US? Sounding like a hypochondriac, but if it's free (fuck the US), poke a shrink about it.
Nope. DESU, I think he'd have quite liked to be a dom. Or a switch - he liked it if I took charge, too. DESU, I don't think he had enough fire to even be a sub; couldn't even take me pointing out he shouldn't be glasses away in cupboards while they were still soaking wet from the sink.
... that and I found two of my best bowls with burnt on patches from the microwave hidden at the bottom of my bowl stack, and the Ribena hidden at the back of a cupboard with its lid missing. So scared of 'doing anything wrong' he just hid everything instead, which just makes it worse. If he was honest, I'd have been exasperated but not ANGRY.
>I have the burden of disappointing my family, there's nothing really stopping them from kicking me out.
So leave. I left my family home at 19 with nothing.
>You can do anything you want right now and not worry about going broke.
This is a prissy, frightful suburban mentality. Just because something is hard or a little scary doesn't mean it's not worth doing. Read some Nietzsche some time.
Yes, you need money, but you're a young man. I traveled Europe alone with no money and made my way working odd jobs and scourging up enough here and there to travel to the next place. It was the best experience of my life and it made me grow up so much. It also helped me become more comfortable socially because I was forced to talk to people in order to get information, directions and work.
If you don't change for the better, don't expect things around you to. This is what being an adult means. What's more frightening than what is out of our control is just how much control we do have over our own fulfillment.
You won't be able to be a burden because you'll be on your own forced to work and survive whether you like it or not. The reality of being homeless and not having food and shelter will override your egoistic angst.
Step one, get a job. Step two, find an apartment with cheap rent with some other young guys. If that's not an option, establish the cheapest way to get roof over your head in area. Once you have a job you have agency, that's the most important thing. You're a burden because you aren't being forced to take care of yourself.
Can confirm, this guy is full of shit.
Full time job, live by myself. Still live a shitty life.
Also, post pics you degenerates. This is still /d/.
Wasn't even a sub, really. Just a shit. I think he'd have LIKED to be a sub. He probably hinted at it a few times.
Hell, I'd probably quite like to have a sub. I'm okay with reversing the normal roles, so long as it's either a fair division of work or both parties are happy with the arrangement.
way to shit up the thread, sperglords
it's always the same hours so it;s obviously the very same faggots
Division of work is fair. Any domme who expects the sub to do all the house work and have a job is kind of unfair in expectations. Yeah, we want to serve, but we dont want to exaust ourselves doing it, Im pretty sure most of the subs here would agree with me.
Yeah my head is weird. Anyways the point is a Ds relationship isn't that different from a normal one. The domme maybe in charge, but the sub isn't just a house trophy. Even if the sub doesn't work, the sub's job is to support the domme in any way that's needed so that the domme can lead and be in control. However, that doesn't the sub should allow the domme to do nothing and the sub must do everything that's parasitical and toxic and the relationship is essentially doomed.
Sorry I'm on my mobile and don't have a lot of data to burn.
Oh well. This was all I could find. Enjoy.
>fucked up relationships are unhealthy and generally don't work out
Nothing to see here, folks.
According to a fair few I've met its weird. Then again a lot of the women I've met want to be do-nothing's, while the man earns all the money for them to spend. To think like that is a social disease I say.
>tfw I like pururin's system the best but its always down
those reccomendations, the fact you can level up by reading doujins, you can blacklist certain content tags.. its so amazzing
That is poor squat form. Heels should be on the floor and knees are far too wide. That being said it's fucking hot.
>get up every morning, work out, come home, mix protein shake and drink it alone
>twf no boytoy waiting for you at home to give you a massage and a post-workout orgasm.
It depends, for some people putting them under the pressure makes them try harder, or actually start trying at all if they weren't before.
But for others the pressure makes them fold and they won't take action even if their well-being, or perhaps even their life, is at stake.
What I'm saying is it might help but it's not guaranteed to and unless one's confident in their own abilities, it's better not to burn any bridges.
Meanwhile, I can support the other guy's claim. Starting to live by myself was among the greatest improvements in quality of my life.
Besides, good sub should be someone who bows because they like it that way, not because they need someone to look after them.
Well, my night just got a bit more depressing
>Moved in with my dad on the other side of the country a couple months ago
>Don't go to school and I work with a bunch of old rednecks so no friends to hang out with
>Finally saved enough to get my own place and spend the weekend moving
>First night alone by myself, a little lonely
>Get text from cute girl I went to high school with back home
>She invited me to her Halloween party and says she hopes I can be there
>Guess no one told her I'm 2k miles away
I'm just gonna curl up in a ball now..
>tfw to domtom coming home to give a massage and a post-workout orgasm
Well yeah, but nobody expects scrawny Japanese ero artists to know anything about lifting. They have trouble with basic anatomy half the time anyway.
>twf no boytoy waiting for you at home to give you a massage and a post-workout orgasm.
I'm not saying "don't be independent" I'm saying it doesn't improve your life in any way. I'm worse off mentally because I moved out of my parent's house,
Why does looking at girl muscles make me feel so weird?
I even try to collect 3d stuff, but most of them are on steroids, have breast implants, and aren't qt at all.
How does this silly comic make you feel and how would you feel if you were raised to be a househusband from child, /gfd/?
I dunno, I'd love to live in that world. Just goes to show how most people don't take /rr/ seriously
>how would you feel if you were raised to be a househusband from child
Since I probably wouldn't have a choice in whom I marry, it depends. If I'm married off to some 60 year old CEO lady because my family needs money, I think I'd kinda resent it but it's probably better than being alone. I guess I'd be forced to have a few kids with her. Honestly I'd probably reach a point where I have to cheat on her because she can't satisfy me anymore. I'd feel bad if she loved me though.
How I would feel...?
Probably the same as my current upbringing. Maybe I would have put a little less thought into it because it's what I'm more naturally inclined for.
But the comic is still fucking stupid, it has poorly written arguments in there.
>it has poorly written arguments in there
I don't think there are any arguments, just a strawman
ironically it's kind of sexist in thinking it's ridiculous for men to be in those roles
It's just a straw man comic It's not supposed yo have a valid argument
How do you tell a guy you want to hurt him without freaking him out?
For context, I haven't been seeing this guy that long. He's pretty submissive but hasn't expressed any interest in masochism nor anything very specific kink-wise. I guess I should just bring it up but it makes me feel a little bit creepy and guilty to ask whether he likes, essentially, being abused.
This doesn't fall under "gentle" per say, but I know some of the guys here are into painplay and roughhousing.
I wouldnt really mind living in that world if it were a natural world. If it were forced to change via, say, radical feminism, I would hate most aspects of it. In a world forced to change, no one would really be themselves, and that in itself would be pretty wrong to me. But if I lived in a natural /gfd/ type world where equality was a thing, but women were more dominant, hell yeah, I'd love it.
try nibbling on his neck a little during make out sessions. Start out soft, but get progressively harder as time passes on, softly biting him by the end. See if he responds positively. If he doesnt, you're only remaining option is to talk to him, and make your motivations clear. Good luck, anon.
On the topic of cooking for your Dom: I hate cooking. I fucking hate it and I'm really fucking bad at it too, I can't even make pancakes without screwing it up somehow. Last time I made a steak I started a grease fire. I'm incompetent, I know, but even when it doesn't go terribly I still don't enjoy it.
Would it be acceptable if instead of cooking I went out and bought them some sort of takeaway or just took them out to a restaurant they liked? And honestly I'd prefer if they treated me that way too. I prefer to eat out of I have the money, it's just something I've always liked to do.
You could bring it up/try it out and see how he responds. But I don't have any experience. How rough are you talking?
>a natural /gfd/ type world
I hope someday I'm reborn into a world like this
I just can't see this world changing into an /rr/ one. Men are still way less valued (sexually and emotionally) than women, and there are way too many men who brag about wanting to fuck anything that moves
If all women ended up being physically stronger on average (meaning the only rape that happens is female on male) than men, and if men were expected to be pure/not sexually explicit and save themselves for marriage, I could see /rr/ working there
there aren't really any hard rules to /rr/. If you can't cook there are still plenty of other ways to support her domestically
hell, just look at all the people whose moms didn't know how to cook
I'm sure a dom would understand. If she loves you it won't matter
The only reason I want a sub who can cook is because I can't cook for shit. I can make a great streak, pretty ok scrambled eggs, and everything else goes in the slowcooker where it's pretty hard to screw up. I'm trying to learn how to make sushi because I'm trapped in northern Ontario where they're just starting to learn hummus is a thing.
YouTube is definitely my biggest source of cooking info. Chicken parm is now my go-to not steak fancy meal. So easy to bake them and then just make spaghetti and melt some cheese over it.
Personally I think takeaway is fine as long as you at least put it on actual dishware. But there is something about a domestic sub.
I know it's not the same, but keep talking with us. Being alone in an apartment or home can be super lonely.
I like to think in this alternate /rr/ world, getting erections would be considering a sign of submission, and women would routinely brag about getting men hard
getting your boner seen in public would be incredibly shameful (even more than in this world) and would invite random women to hit on you / call you a slut
/rr/ is always fun to think about because everything we do sexually in our world gets reinterpreted and turned on its head
You could always get better at cooking, but fact still is you may never enjoy it.
Be yourself. If getting take out you know she'll enjoy is a more sincere gesture of care on your part, do it.
This might work. I'm just cautious about not crossing boundaries. Some people hate pain and actually I'm one of them, so I would never assume a guy would be okay with me hurting him.
Depends, I limit it strictly by what the guy is comfortable with. I'm not into the more extreme like bloodplay or anything; more stuff like slapping, spanking, biting, etc. Passionate, spontaneous stuff.
Also, if we're talking an /rr/ world where /gfd/ is the ideal relationship that every hetero couple aspires to, I think the marginal cases of violence would be a necessary trade off
like men would still get assaulted and raped, but that obviously would have a huge stigma. "Normal" relationships would still involve women to be dominating but never going overboard and hurting the men, seeing as they're quite fragile
Male hyenas tend to want to choose high status females in order to pass on better genes, similar to how females behave in like every other species
They're very very conscious of social status in general
I know isolation sucks. I'm in a small town where I don't know any one, and I moved here one week after a guy I crushed hard on made a drunken confession to me. I had to take the job, and we talk, but we both know we're just too far apart.
Actually they're not really the choosey sex in that sense, unfortunately. According to wiki:
>Although the anatomical and behavioral roles differ from accepted norms, spotted hyenas are not sex role reversed because the females do not compete with each other for mates.
>There are no confirmed cases of sex role reversed mammals
DAMN why can't /rr/ be natural?
>just cooked some spaghetti o's for supper
>femanon hasnt responded to my email
>only friend hasnt been in touch all day
>raid team went without me
>another night alone in my little dorm room
Life is good, yo. Who says you have to be sad just because you're alone? Being alone means there's nobody to protest you doing whatever you feel like doing
There's more? I only have that greentext, but it's one of my favorites
(to be clear, it's the chershire cat who's holding the camera)
I also wrote an amazoness house husband story, was going to continue it with character development etc.
Damn, I wrote these a while ago and I haven't even thought about them until now. Reading taiyakisoba makes me wish I could be as good as him
We doing green text we wish was continued?
I miss Lady Johanna more than I miss some people.
Cassowary are quite /rr/.
The females are large, dominant and aggressive. They copulate with multiple males and then ditch the males who raise the chicks alone. If she female encounters the male and chicks later, she may attack them if they don't submit and gtfo of her way. The males are really excellent fathers.
>Courtship and pair bonding rituals begin with the vibratory sounds broadcast by females. Males approach and run with necks parallel to the ground with dramatic movements of the head, which accentuate the frontal neck region. The female approaches drumming slowly. The male will crouch upon the ground and the female will either step on the male's back for a moment before crouching beside him in preparation for copulation or she may attack. This is often the case with the females pursuing the males in ritualistic chasing behaviours that generally terminate in water. The male cassowary dives into water and submerges himself up to his upper neck and head. The female pursues him into the water where he eventually drives her to the shallows where she crouches making ritualistic motions of her head.
Males may tolerate other males, but females seldom tolerate other females and will attack eachother on site.
There's a good documentary about them on youtube.
If you want to write, then write. Also, we're definitely into less lewd and more emotional writing. Like that story Pretty Human that was posted a few months ago. The whole point of the story was that he wasn't going to bang her. It was really good though. So if you want to write something, do it. I'll read it, at the very least
That's the one with the prostitute boy and the kitsune, right?
I miss it when /mgg/ was more open to role reversal and gfd. I don't regret not posting there anymore though, probably one of the most unpleasant 4chan communities I've ever been involved with.
Hey, he wasn't a prostitute! He was a non-lewd companion!
... but yeah, that's the one
Link for the interested who missed it the first time:
Monster Girl General, I believe they're based in /jp/ now. When they were on /a/ they were predominately populated by femdom enthusiasts but the demographic became a lot more mixed and last time I checked there always seems to be people insulting each other's fetish
poor bastards,,,when will they learn that /gfd/ is clearly best fetish, and can probably incorporate all of their other femdom-related fetishes? Well, except kekolding. I cant see that being /gfd/ in anyway.
>tfw no intruding hyena girl gf to present my erections to and blush
I'd love to keep talking here, y'all are seriously awesome, but I'm getting ready to move the last bit of my stuff, and my new apartment doesn't have internet yet. I've been putting off moving my computer all day but I gotta get going. So, goodnight /gfd/! Hope everyone has a good Halloween
Not him but that's my fantasy man, or a demon gf like pic related